Wednesday, May 8, 2013

The Most Random Of Posts

It has been such a good day for absolutely no apparent reason. Isn't this the way it goes? Yesterday I was bogged in the mire of despair and today I've been a happy little butterfly, as confident of my own unique gift to this world as any special snowflake.
All right, that's pushing it.
But, still, I've been in a very good mood.

I took Miss Liola a dozen eggs from my chickens this morning on my way to town for no reason whatsoever except that I wanted to. Two guys were talking in her front yard, one of them the guy I call The Sheik because back in the seventies he always used to wear some sort of sheik-like headscarf thing but now he just dresses like a regular well-dressed dude. I talk to him a couple of times a month on my walks as he walks too, but mostly to get from one place to the other, I believe. He didn't recognize me at first when I pulled up in my car in Miss Liola's yard and then he said, "You the walking woman!" And indeed, I am, but he's probably never seen me wearing jeans and with my hair down, etc. and I was even wearing lipstick so there you go. Miss Liola was on the phone so I just handed her the eggs and said, "My chickens are laying a lot right now," and took off.
I hope she likes them.

But let me stop right here. Have you seen this interview with Charles Ramsey who was the man who saved the women in Ohio who had been held captive for a decade or so?




I think it's a terrific, fabulous interview and I would love to have Mr. Ramsey as a neighbor. I would definitely eat some ribs and listen to salsa with him. And you know, I watched the video and I had those thoughts and then I read a few things online (this is a theme today, isn't it?) about how actually, if most white people saw Mr. Ramsey in their neighborhood they would cross the street to avoid him due to his RACE and APPEARANCE and that people are laughing AT Mr. Ramsey and not WITH him and I just think, no. What sort of an asshole would you have to be to laugh at this man who is just being himself and honest and truthful and who happened to be in the right place at the right time to be a hero of sorts and put down his MacDonald's burger and rose to the occasion?
Anyway, that's what I have to say and in Lloyd, Florida, Mr. Ramsey would fit right in and I'm glad I live in a neighborhood like that although I have to say we have our share of assholes, too. I'm not debating that. But my point is, I live in a place where we're all characters of a sort and I do believe we laugh with each other and not at each other.
Well. Mostly.

So speaking of assholes- uh...South Carolina? You want to explain that? Syd, I know it wasn't you. But Jesus Christ. Mark Sanford? Sanford's re-election goes right up there with the assholiness of Florida politics and that's saying something.

Anyway, back to my good day.

Lily and the boys and I went to Best Buy because I thought I needed something but I didn't and we looked at the iPad mini's and boy, do I need one of those! (No. I don't.) And I bought myself a Mother's Day present so kids, that's taken care of. 
Here's what I got.


I have no idea why the Stones have chosen the gorilla to represent them in this, their fiftieth anniversary tour, but they have.

Then we went to lunch and it was so much fun. I really think I like being MerMer best when Lily is around so that I can just be all goofy and fun and silly and leave the discipline to her. Here's a picture of Gibson feeding his mother. He loves to share his food.



Owen will share, too, but he doesn't feed you.

We went to the grocery store after lunch and I got snacks for the trip but I'm not sure why. If there's any pleasure to be found on a nine-hour journey it's stopping and buying snacks. But I bought some and on my way home I put my new CD in and sang along to Jumping Jack Flash and Ruby Tuesday and now I need to pack and Mr. Moon is replacing the water pump in the car we're taking which sprung a leak today and I'm just fine with all of it.

One more thing. I heard Maya Angelou on the Diane Rehm show today and I think that Ms. Angelou is quite possibly the very most evolved human being on the planet and she represents to me all that is the very best about the human race.
I wish she were my neighbor too.
In the meanwhile, I'd like to read her new book which is about her relationship with her mother and which will probably make me feel like the least evolved person on the planet and all that is neurotic and shameful about the human race but so what?


I am a special little snowflake in my own little way and so are you.

Much love...Ms. Moon

12 comments:

  1. Ah! Your post has energized me! "Start me up..."
    My favorite thing about the Ramsey guy is the bit I heard this morning from the 911 tape. The dispatcher asks if she should send an ambulance. Ramsey says to the young woman, "Should they send an ambulance?" She can be heard in the background and maybe she's a little incoherent at this point or maybe he just doesn't understand what she's said. Ramsey then says to the dispatcher. "She's been kidnapped. Put yourself in her shoes." I love that. I just love that.

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  2. I can't feel Maya Angelou as real. I am not evolved enough to really get her I guess. I mean she's talented, and spiritual and strong. I get that.

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  3. Denise- I just read the transcript. He reminds me of me in our speech patterns. Especially in the use of colorful profanity.

    Maggie May- Really? She seems incredibly human and real to me. I look at her face and I see all of us.

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  4. I had a good day too. Yesterday I was watching a program with Iyanla Vanzant and she said women should lay with on the ground with their tummies to the earth. It is supposed to connect us to Mother Earth and ground us. I tried it and it did indeed feel wonderful.

    And I adore Maya Angelou. I am waiting for her new book from he library.

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  5. I felt the same way when I watched that video of Ramsay and thought all those people who naysayed it were being so politically correct that it was positively JOYLESS.

    Anywho.

    I agree with you about Maya Angelou. I went to hear her speak at UCLA a couple of years ago and was blown away by her grace and humor and HUGENESS in every possible way. Yet she was warm and as accessible as your best friend -

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  6. The people who are negative about Mr. Ramsey are no doubt negative about butterflies and snow flakes, too. To hell with them. He's got it over all of us today. The day belongs to him and those he helped save.

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  7. I almost fell out when I heard mr. ramsey say "Bro, I knew something was wrong when a little pretty white girl ran into a black man's arms. Something is wrooooong heah!" he could have walked away, but he didnt, and that's why those girls got free.

    and you, ms moon, are the most special mer mer snowflake of them all. i love that you got your mothers day gift yourself and got just what you want.

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  8. Sanford is a strange guy. I've met him a couple of times -and he's very spaced out and his eyes are always darting everywhere. Some take that as always searching the room for the next-best person to talk to...I took it as a touch of mania. Especially since both times was just after his Appalachian trail hoo-ha (no pun intended) and no one was exactly beating down his door. His whole manner was just different.

    Anyway, that's all I know about that.

    I do know that this white gal would run into Charles Ramsay's big black arms any day :)

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  9. The fact that Mark Sanford could get elected again just speaks to how strong the anti-Democrat (read anti-Obama) hysteria is in South Carolina. It's dispiriting, it really is. I wish we could elect Maya Angelou to something, but I suspect she wouldn't want the job.

    Apparently that Ramsey guy has a bit of a spotty past himself. (I read that on Facebook, which is always correct and truthful.)

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  10. You are the most special of snowflakes. Your writing is brilliant. I so wish you would write a book cause it would sell big time.

    I love that video of Charles Ramsey. I saw part of it but hadn't heard the beginning. He is real and so so funny and he is a true hero for getting involved. Imagine how many people hear things and turn the other way?

    I am so glad you had a great day. I did too actually. No rhyme or reason other than putting one foot in front of the other.

    Here's to another great day tomorrow.

    Sweet Jo

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  11. It's all about race isn't it? I think that Mr. Ramsey did a great compassionate thing. He knows the score on the racial stuff. And in my District in SC which was the only one voting, there are a huge number of Republicans who would vote for anything that walked if it were a fellow Repub. But on my little island which is mostly African American, we vote mostly Democratic. I am glad for that. Feeling outnumbered would be like the last stand at the Alamo and that's about what it's like to live in SC.

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  12. Gasp! I may have to buy myself that book for Mother's Day :D

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