Wednesday, August 7, 2024

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Today's harvest. Things are pretty pathetic out there in gardenland. The heat has had its way with everything. There are a very, very few cherry tomatoes and some peppers. That cucumber somehow escaped our attention, and that tiny little tomato is the last of the big tomatoes. The field peas are still going strong and the zinnias are continuing to bloom, even as they collapse and lie down on the ground in weariness. I know how they feel. 

When I woke up this morning I was thrilled to hear that the power had come back on in the night. Hurray! I could quit worrying about gas and also feeling guilty for having everything my neighbors didn't when it came to anything that requires electricity. When Glen told me the good news, I literally cried. 
And then of course the gas man came today and filled up our tank for one million dollars but what are you going to do? 

One of the things I've been freaking out about is the fact that Jack's supply of pills was about to run out. I know that he was supposed to get more bloodwork about a month ago and I was going to take him in when we got home from Roseland but of course...Covid, so I couldn't do that. But I called the vet's office today and just asked for more pills and they said they'd get them ready for me to pick up. I also needed some things from the grocery store like vegetables (how ironic) so I masked up and went to Monticello. I stopped by the vet and got the pills and then went to the Winn Dixie which is definitely not Publix but it's not as bad as it used to be. 
I have to tell you that people in Monticello are so sweet. Each person I interacted with asked me how we'd survived the storm. Asked as if they were genuinely interested to know. One of the cashiers at the Winn Dixie was having a problem at her register and the manager, an older woman, came over and put her hand on the cashier's back and said, "Hey darlin', what's going on?" instead of something like, "Yeah? What's the problem?" 
I saw lots of downed trees on my way into town and lots going home on a different road but overall, I think we were very, very lucky right here in our own little neck of the woods. I also saw power trucks and workers dealing with the wires in this brutal heat and once again, I said a silent "thank-you" to those who labor outside to make all of our lives bearable, from construction workers to power company workers to people who cultivate and pick the crops that we depend on to live. These people, to me, are the super heroes in all regards. 

That little trip about wore me out and I did not even try to haul any of the many, many branches that fell in our yard to the burn pile. I was outside long enough to take the compost out and pick those zinnias and the cucumber, pepper, and miniature tomato and it took me half an hour to cool down from that. The temperatures are in the mid-nineties and the humidity today is 97%. 

Of course Mr. Moon, who does not listen to a thing I say, decided that he needed to go over to Tom's to clear some fallen trees out of his driveway. Tom is actually in St. Augustine right now as he has a duplex over there that needs some attention. Tom's brother used to live in half of it but he recently died and the renters in the other side have moved, I think. As with everything concerning Tom, it is complicated. Anyway, Glen sent me a text while he was at Tom's property saying that he'd already cut through two trees and cleared them out of the road only to discover this. 


At that point, he decided he was clocked out and that Tom needs to hire a professional. You may or may not have any idea how much work it would take to remove that tree from the drive which is more than any of us would want to do or probably could do. So he called Tom who said, "Oh, no problem. I can get in the back way." Glen had completely forgotten there was another way in. 
We have absolutely determined that Tom will not be moving into the Tiny House. He does not want to and he will not. 
The Saga of Tom. 

So of course my husband came home exhausted and already having muscle cramps. I keep asking him why he feels that he has to do all of this for Tom and he always says, "I just think I need to."

I was a little afraid after a week of not cooking a darn thing beyond toasting bagels in Roseland, I would have forgotten how to cook but this turns out not to be true. Our second night back we had tacos and beans that Rachel had all the ingredients for when she thought she'd be staying another night. Bless her. Last night I made snapper au gratin and tonight we'll be having a ground beef and noodle dish with mushrooms and onions and peppers and pasta sauce and cheeses. Anything with noodles and ground beef pleases my husband a great deal. I got spinach in Monticello and will make a salad with that and different basils from the garden along with a handful of arugula that I picked from one of the canvas planting bags where I threw some seeds a month or so ago. 

And I figure I'll feel better tomorrow than I do today and can perhaps spend a little time outside, hauling some of those branches to the burn pile. Glen is going to have to do a lot of the work because a chain saw needs to be involved. 

One of these days I figure I'll get to see my family. 
Sigh. 
Jessie's working nights tomorrow through Saturday and August has a fever which Levon did have as well as all of the NC cousins. I miss all the kiddos. I suppose life will return to normal again some day. 
Whatever normal is. 

Love...Ms. Moon







33 comments:

  1. It's surprising that Tom has not moved into his little house but it is even more surprising that he has another property in St Augustine. Nothing is how it might at first appear.

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    1. Exactly right. Although if you met Tom, you might be able to make more sense of it all.

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  2. Normal is definitely on a sliding scale. We had storms yesterday, quite severe in places and many are still without power. I always feel for the families with young children who don't understand life without Peppa Pig or Bluey. You should not feel any guilt about your generator. You paid your dues. As for Tom, his life choices do not take away from your husband's kindness.

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    1. Yes- what in heck is normal? It is hard for littles when power goes out and for older people too.
      As for paying my dues- I know so many people who have paid far more than I have. There's no fairness to the arrangement but I certainly am grateful.
      And you are right about Glen.

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  3. Hooray for having the power back. You suspected Tom would not live in the tiny house. For all we know, he could move to St. Augustine. Life is full of surprises. Storm Debbie left a trail of debris. I always feel if the house is still standing, it's a win.

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    1. He was thinking about moving to St. Augustine but the stairs up to his duplex are too high.
      You are so right about the house still standing.

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  4. I hope everyone feels better soon.

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  5. Why didn't Tim just move to his house in St. Augustine? Stubborn old coot, I'm guessing.
    Have a good sleep and feel even better tomorrow.
    I had the entire day to myself today and although I cried, it was also a good day to not have to deal husbands or grandkids and for supper, I just pulled it out of the freezer. I puttered the day away and I needed it, I needed the peace and quiet.

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    1. Too many steps for him to navigate at the St. Augustine house.
      Sometimes a day alone is exactly what we need.

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  6. That last big tomato does look a bit sad, but the zinnias are still glorious. It will soon be time for me to head to the nursery and see if I can get zinnias like I tell myself every year but never get around too. Unfortunately that also means buying a ton of slug and snail bait to keep any seedlings safe. I think you probably still need more rest than you think after the covid, so just putter around instead of going full steam ahead for a few more days.

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    1. I'm so glad we don't really have a slug or snail problem here. We see a few but not many.
      Trust me- i am puttering my life away.

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  7. We all need neighbors like Mr. Moon. That was so kind especially since he isn't feeling well. Sometimes just a day of picking up cat medication, going to get groceries, and chatting with someone in line at the grocery store is a lovely thing. Just a day. No drama. Keep feeling better.

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    1. He gets moments of feeling pretty good and then he does too much and feels bad. It's a constant cycle for him right now.
      It was good, I guess, to get out of the house although you know me- I do not mind being at home.

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  8. Mary, don't start hauling stuff around. You're still dealing with covid, it's draining. You don't want a rebound. I have spoke!

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  9. Tom continues to surprise. As do his decisions. My zinnias are pale shadows of yours. Still welcome here, but not the extravagant blooms you grow.

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    1. Maybe the variety of zinnias you got isn't a showy one. I got several different varieties this year.

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  10. I can't for the life of me see where your husband gets his energy from, especially after just getting over covid!!! He really is too good to Tom but I don't suppose that'll change any time soon!

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    1. Glen does have a remarkable amount of energy and he uses it up in bouts and then has to rest. At least right now.

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  11. It’s so surprising to know Tom has another property. Given what you’ve said, it’s not surprising to know he hasn’t moved into that wonderful little house. You and Mr. Moon aren’t capable of doing nothing

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    1. Yes. Tom has several properties. In fact, he owns a small island in a lake near here! You can't live on it though.
      Glen is far less able to do nothing than I am. This is a fact.

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  12. I think the saga of Tom may parallel to what went on with our Gary. it is most definitely complicated and no matter what our intentions are for what we want to happen for others, we can't make those decisions for them. thank you again for telling me what you shared yesterday like the gentle but honest parent I needed to have in that moment. xxalainaxx

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    1. I think you may be right about Tom and Gary. And I know you're right about us not being able to make decisions for others, no matter how much we love them and have their best interests at heart.
      And thank you for those sweet words. I always feel like you are so wise that I rarely find any reason to offer much in the way of advice but sometimes it does help to hear another viewpoint. Mostly I just want you to know that you did all that could be done for Gary and in the end, you may well have helped him stay here far longer than he would have without you.

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  13. PS letting that wood dry out a lil if it was green will make it easier to move. xxalainaxx

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  14. Glen is so nice to Tom and, of course, it might be a bit frustrating at times but isn't it great that he is that kind of person. You two are a good match as you both think and help others whenever you feel the need.
    No rush in picking up all of that wood - it's lighter when it is more dried out.
    Feel better! xxoo

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    1. Glen is far more apt to help others than I am. That's just the truth.
      Glen and I look at the yard and say, "This is going to take awhile." We are at peace with that fact.

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  15. Tom is full of surprises. Not just one, but two houses in St. Augustine. Who would've thunk it? One of our foster kids once said, "The heart wants what the heart wants." At the time, it made us laugh as he was pining for a glass of chocolate milk. I've thought of the phrase often as it seems he was much wiser than his 5 years. And that's very true for so many foster kids.

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    1. Well, it's one building on one lot but yes, two apartments.
      I can only imagine that foster kids do indeed have to get wise pretty early. That or not make it. Bless them.

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  16. We lost power for nearly 2 weeks after Charlie came through. There are dozens of out-of-state power trucks that parked at a closed grocery store's parking lot near us; every morning and evening we'd see the police cars lead a caravan of them out to start their shifts. To this day, I cannot see an out-of-state power truck without getting a little teary. They are my knights in shining armor.

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    1. Oh, I know exactly what you mean. When a storm is forecast to hit an area we see many, many power trucks from all over heading our way on the interstate. They ARE knights in shining armor! Yesterday I saw a bunch of just plain white painted power trucks in the Winn Dixie strip mall parking lot. When a hurricane takes out power for a week or more, the sight of a power truck on your road is the most beautiful thing in the world, isn't it?

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  17. OK, so here's the update I missed on Tom and the tiny house. I'm glad Glen decided to let a professional handle that tree! We're supposed to get hot and possibly rainy weather this weekend courtesy of DEBBY! She never gives up!

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