Saturday, August 17, 2024

A Day Date Was Taken


 Here we have the Baby Gecko episode of Jack TV. His favorite thing to do at night before we go to bed, is to lay on the table on the back porch and watch the critters that crawl on the screen. He is not able, of course, to catch the ones on the outside of the screen but that does not stop him from leaping up on his springy cat legs to give it his best shot. You can tell how tiny that gecko is when you compare it to the squares of the screen. It's pretty fine screen, too. Sometimes I am so amazed at the ability of the iPhone's camera to get close-ups. That feature comes in handy for me when I can't read something on a label or make out something very, very small. I just do a close-up shot, enlarging it before I take the picture, and there it is, clear as a bell on my phone screen. And yes, I realize there is a magnifying feature on the phone but I find that close-up shot works best for me. 

Now here's a picture I took today of another sort of lizard that did not come out nearly so well. 


Can you see the little guy? I love the way his tail is curved on the paw of the lamp post lion foot. Glen and I decided to take a ride up to Thomasville, Georgia today just for fun although we did have a winning lottery ticket we'd bought on our way home from NC that we wanted to cash in. 
Ten whole dollars. 
Oh well. 
Thomasville has experienced a huge resurgence in the last decade or so. It's always been a pretty little town with brick streets downtown and cool old storefronts but these days, it's become a shopping mecca for the well off. I remember when we used to go up there to look for antique bargains but those days are long gone. I got my dining room table there back when May was just a little bitty girl. It's a round oak table that we use to this day. I can't even imagine how many meals have been eaten on it, how many games have been played on it, and it's also the table that my nursing school girlfriends and I studied around. It is almost a holy relic to all of us who spread our textbooks and notebooks and pens and coffee cups over it. 


Just the number of pancakes I've served on that table is mind-boggling, I'm sure. 

But, like I said, the days of finding bargains in Thomasville are long over unless you go to Goodwill which I have done and they do have a pretty fine Goodwill there. Today we mostly just stayed downtown, looking for our lunch. I have to tell you that I have never in my life been in a place where there are as many preppy-looking people as there are in Thomasville. Lord have mercy, the number of men in khaki shorts and amusing print, button down shirts and loafers with no socks is outnumbered only by the women whose hair always looks fresh salon-done and whose clothes, bags, and shoes are, without a doubt, worth more than my beloved oak table. Little girls all have bows in their hair and wear dresses that cost more than anything I have in my closet. Little boys are exact replicas of the men, right down to the loafers with no socks. Women's make-up is subtle and perfect, even in the 90-degree plus heat. I don't think the wealthy feel the heat the way we do. Is that possible? 
Where there used to be insurance companies and drug stores and banks and typewriter repair places downtown, there are now boutiques after boutiques for both men and women, coffee shops, wine bars, breweries, cupcakeries (that word sort of makes me want to die), cheese shops, expensive cookware shops, children's shops, home decor shops, cute little cafes, fancy restaurants... and on and on and on.
I came across this toy store and had to go inside. 


It was a children's paradise. I didn't even make it farther than halfway into the place. I was just so overcome. 


Can you imagine what this place is going to look like at Christmas?

Now don't get me wrong. I have done my share of shopping in Thomasville. Even at rather fancy places. I have bought some things in those places. There have always been nice, high quality goods to be found in Thomasville. Hell, one of the oldest stores is a place called Kevin's Fine Outdoor Gear and Apparel which does indeed sell fine outdoor gear and apparel along with hunting-themed Wedgewood china. 
I shit you not. There's more polished dark wood and more chandeliers  in that place than in the Addam's Family's parlor. Need a hand-made knife? A new rifle? Personalized engraved crystal Old Fashioned glasses? A flying quail shirt?



Anyway, Thomasville is just what it is- a very rich town built on plantation money and you know what that means. Today most of the plantations make their money from things like charging the big bucks for people from all over the world to come and hunt quail (yes, really) and things like that. I was very happy today to see that not all of the day-tripper/shoppers were of the Northern European species but most of them were. And maybe the kids and I will go up there before Christmas to do some shopping at that toy store. There is also an excellent bookstore in town. I guess in the overall scheme of things it's better than buying off of Amazon or at Walmart or Target. 
Who knows? Not me. 

So Mr. Moon and I got our lunch at a place a few blocks from downtown where I've eaten many times before. George and Louis Seafood Restaurant. Heavy on Greek salads and deep fried seafood. And delicious. 
We've both had our daily requirement of iceberg lettuce, tomatoes, and feta cheese so no need for that tonight. 

It was really, really nice to drive through the piney woods and little towns with perfect white, steepled churches and tin-roofed cabins and big, beautiful old homes that were probably built around the same time our house was built, some with Trump signs in front, some with Harris signs. When people think about "the south" it may well be that what they are thinking of is pretty much what we saw today and much of that is beautiful. 

The south is such a conundrum and as long as I live here, I will never be able to define it. It is this and it is that. It is here and it is there. It is where I live. 

And if you need a pink flying quail shirt, you now know where you can buy one. 

Love...Ms. Moon



 

42 comments:

  1. This was such a a nice departure and so glad you and Glen are feeling like your old self again!

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  2. I once had a book of Thomasville architecture.
    I, too, take photos and enlarge to enable me to read the small print/see details.
    When I moved to coastal Texas from my native New England several aeons ago, I thought I was moving to the west and was very surprised to find I’d landed in the Deep South. Margaret

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    1. I may have that same book. There is some amazing architecture in Thomasville.
      That must have been quite the shock, Margaret!

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    2. Complete culture shock, some of which endures to this day, 50 years later. And it was August. And I was eight months pregnant. Aieeeeee!!! Margaret

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    3. Oh honey. Bless your heart for real.

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  3. nice that you had a scenic and enjoyed outing today (for the most part LOL)! Your oak table is a thing of great beauty and to think how many people it has lovingly fed. I have a maple drop leaf table that I purchased as my first piece of furniture when I was 20, at a garage sale....with 4 chairs, for $20.00. I've refinished it twice..... but it has lived with us all these years...usually just the two of us, but can feed, and has, up to 12 people......with stories to go with, as has your table.
    Susan M

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    1. I do love a drop leaf table. I grew up with one on my house and I can still hear the way it sounded when it was opened up or put back down.

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  4. Your day in Georgia sounds very enjoyable. Dressing down is seen everywhere today but from what you say, Thomasville features well-heeled preppy men, women and children. The demand for high end stores meets the needs of the wealthy clientele. As you state, a trip to the toy store would be great fun for you and your grandchildren at Christmas time. I bet each grandchild would find something special to buy. I've known a few men that look terrific wearing a pink shirt under a navy blue blazer but none of them would consider the pink flying quail shirt. Maybe the Thomasville Southerner, hunting and cocktails at the country club crowd prefers them.

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    1. I like pink on men and think more men should wear it but the flying quails- yeah. But you know- why not? Each to his or her own.
      And yes, you have to be pretty wealthy to not only be able to afford some of the things offered in these shops but have enough disposable income to even consider buying them as, for the most part, they are not necessities by any means.

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  5. I wonder where that round table originated. I always felt it must have been Sears&Roebuck, but no idea, really. I bought one at a second hand store back in the seventies. My girlfriend had one she inherited from her grandmother. Twenty years later I resold mine for a decent profit. I think Carol still has hers.

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    1. It could have been Sears. I see no markings on this table but I know there are still a bunch of 'em out there.

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  6. Thomasville sounds like Scottsdale and East Phoenix, people watching anywhere can be interesting and amusing. Pink flying Quail Shirts... makes me Smile since I can picture the Guy that would wear that... certainly not my Guy... but, someone's. I guess there are Prints that appeal to just about everyone's Tastes, or lack thereof. *Ha ha ha*

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    1. I can hardly criticize anyone's taste and you are right- each to their own.

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  7. I would love that oak table, to sand down and restain. It's beautiful. I had to look up Thomasville because it made me think of furniture. Turns out there is a Thomasville in North Carolina and that's where the furniture comes from.
    I'm going to borrow your trick of taking a photo of the fine print because the fine print is way too small for me to read now.

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    1. Yes. The NC Thomasville is where the furniture comes from.
      I've never considered refinishing that table and I'm not sure why. I have refinished other furniture. I guess I think it looks okay.
      The fine print trick works GREAT!

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  8. Why am I so surprised that you can take a day trip to Georgia? My geography is so shaky I have to look it up again. Partly I seem to think you live maybe near key West, which complicates everything! Anyway that was a different sort of environment to be in, to be sure. I loved the amusing prints!

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    1. Oh Lord. It would take us (I just looked it up) 9 hours and 47 minutes to drive to Key West. It takes about twenty minutes to drive to Georgia. We are almost on the border.

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  9. What a fun day, field trips are one of my favorite things to do.

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  10. It's always fun to check out new(ish) places. Goodwill (or op shops as they are known here) used to be a great source of entertainment and bargains but everyone seems to think their stuff is worth more than it is and tries to flog it on eBay or Marketplace so the op shops get little good stuff - and I think the workers/volunteers get first pickings anyway!

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    1. I have found that different Goodwills here seem to have different pricing. The one down near Roseland is SO cheap compared to ours here. Perhaps it's because so many people go down to that area to retire and then they die and their kids just give all their stuff to Goodwill. That's my theory.

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  11. Flying quail shirts should never be pink in my opinion. I love that toy store and the giant dinosaur kits. Your lunch sounds yummy and Thomastown itself sounds like a place I could wander through quite happily. Your oak table is gorgeous, my table is veneer covered something, but one day I will have a proper wooden table. In my next life maybe. The geckos are cute.

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    1. What color should they be? Blue, perhaps? Preppy men do seem to like pink and I have to admire them for that.
      A table is to use and if you can use yours, it is a good table.
      That tiny gecko was pretty darn cute.

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  12. I had to laugh at "the rich don't sweat"! I definitely can't rich then! But I also noticed at work that some of the women used to just "glide" through the place, never a hair out of place and always immaculate. Unfortunately I also found that many of these gliders never actually pulled their fingers out and pitched in when needed. Maybe I could learn to "glide" someday - but I seriously doubt it!

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    1. I swear like...well, I can't think of anything that sweats more than I do.

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  13. I had never heard of Thomasville before. It sounds like a great place to visit. If I was there I would make a bee-line for the Jack Hadley Black History Museum on Alexander Street. The town is named after Major General Jett Thomas, a member of the State Militia during the war of 1812. I would not want a pink flying quail shirt thank you very much - I prefer tigers on my shirts.

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    1. I have a feeling you could find a tiger shirt somewhere in Thomasville. I've never been to that museum. I should go. Thomasville's pretty bustling. They make movies there now too. I actually have a distant relative buried in the cemetery there. General Vaughn. Yes. He fought for the Confederacy. He married a Thomasville girl.

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  14. It sounds like you and Glen are both feeling better. May we never be in any kind of condition to wear that pink flying quail shirt! That preppy look is popular with well-heeled Spaniards. We regularly see fathers and sons in their pastel polos or button-downs, and loafers without socks.

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    1. It's so funny how that same look has been so popular for so long amongst the well-heeled. And something about their haircuts is also very telling. Obviously, they don't go to Sportz Cutz. (I just made that name up but I think it's pretty good.)

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  15. Thomasville sounds a lot like the city of Naperville where I live. Those of us that have lived in Naperville for a long time are surprised at what a huge shopping mecca of boutiques and restaurants that the downtown area has become. I myself never shop there anymore as it is too $$$. But it has brought a lot of money to this old town so there's that. When my family moved here there were 14,000 people and now there are over 150,000! So huge changes...

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    1. Wow! That's quite an increase in population. Is that the town just south of Chicago?

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  16. I love your interesting takes on people. Sometimes, it seems to me that rich people live in another dimension. They are in this world but not really. They are not affected by heat, or by the inconveniences that we mere mortals deal with. To take it one step further, we could introduce the topic of the prosperity gospel, which foments a thought process that allows for the idea that they are well off because God approves of them. If you are struggling or poor, well...it's a sign that Jesus doesn't love you as much.

    I will never understand this world.

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    1. Yeah. I don't know that anyone's actually preaching the prosperity gospel but I can't help but think that many of the old money people believe those teachings, whether consciously or unconsciously. We passed the Baptist Church and it was HUGE! Obviously god very much approves of Thomasville Baptists.

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  17. sounds like Thomasville got gentrified. living in the part of Texas that I do, there is no day tripping to another state.

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    1. Gentrified and sanctified! It's sort of nice to be able to go visit Georgia so easily.

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  18. I would never have imagined that Thomasville is a wealthy or particularly gentrified community. That's surprising to me. I would have thought whatever plantation money may have existed at one time would be long gone by now. Didn't they once make furniture there? Or was that a different Thomasville?

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    1. Well, it is. I'm not sure where the Big Money came from that Thomasville has now. Cotton? Quail hunting? Deer hunting? Land sales? I think some families were just so damn rich that there's still family money. Not sure.
      It's Thomasville, NC where they make furniture.

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    2. It was an early winter resort destination - 19th century - for wealthy Northerners, enabling it to prosper after the Civil War. Margaret

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