Saturday, January 19, 2013

We Just Keep Eating

I slept so hard last night that I can't seem to wake up this morning. I am in a dazy haze.
Mr. Moon and Russell are hooking up the trailer to the truck so we can go in and finish up the cleaning-out of Mother's room at the assisted living. I believe we are going to stop at the Waffle House for our breakfast. I am pretty sure that all deaths which occur in the south require (perhaps by law, even) at least one meal taken in a Waffle House by someone in the family. We need to cross that one off our list.

The Waffle House is a place which will take you in any hour of the day or the night. It will welcome you with fluorescent lighting, servers who will call you honey or baby, and there will be the good smells of bacon and sausage and frying potatoes and onions. It doesn't matter if you are deep in grief or in drunkenness. As long as you are wearing shoes and shirt and are not belligerent and have cash, they will serve you.
No credit cards accepted.

I am going to go put on my black dress again. It is now my grieving-nunnightgown. Truthfully, I don't even remember the last time I washed it.

This is how it is today. There is more, but this is the bare-bones story of it, the bright-morning of the third day after my mother's death.


13 comments:

  1. I'm glad you got a good, hard sleep and hope you stop for ritual Waffle House, and yes I do believe it's a requirement down here in the south.

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  2. You know, I have a Waffle House right down the street from where I live but have never tried it. I always drive by at night on my way home from work and think that some time I should. There are always a lot of people in there. Hope your day isn't too hard on you.

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  3. Dear Mary-

    You are here, deep in my heart. Grief is a horse to ride and you can act any way you like. You can eat waffles for dinner, you can go apeshit on strangers, you can wear The Black Dress for two months.

    Love and healthy chicken soup from Seattle.

    XXXXX Beth

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  4. Thinking of you all today as we all have been doing already. Enjoy some bacon. And remember how much you are loved.

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  5. Mary so poignant and eerie this palpable glimpse into you life thinking about you as I loom in my fog shot city.
    love
    Rebecca

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  6. Waffle House is great. Glad that you are doing okay.

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  7. Oh I do love me some Waffle House even if I only get to eat there twice a year or so. Pecan waffle and potatoes. Yum. And they do take credit cards!

    Enjoy!

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  8. Loved that picture of you in the other post. Thinking of you.

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  9. Yeah, they take credit now. It's a boon to the late night eater.

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  10. Nancy- As I was eating my omelet and hashbrowns it seemed to me that it was the best thing I had ever eaten. Perfect. I do love the Waffle House.

    Kelly- You should stop in for breakfast one day. It's good.

    Beth Coyote- I feel your love. That's how strong you are in sending it out.

    Ms. Fleur- Thank you, honey. Thank-you.

    Jill- Bacon is always good, isn't it? The pig. I do love the pig and her meat.

    Madame King- Bless. Thanks. Bless.

    Syd- I am. Can't say what tomorrow will bring but overall, I am okay.

    messymimi- Thanks, sugar.

    NOLA- Time moves on and I do not realize. It's good that they take credit now.

    Bethany- I loved that picture too. It's like I'm looking at someone else. Someone a lot cuter and younger.

    Mr. Downtown- I guess they had to change with the times. I mean- who besides drug dealers have actual cash?

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  11. I LOVE Waffle House, with all its late-night peculiarities and early-morning truckers. Thinking of you!

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