Today was a MerMer day. I picked up those two young gentlemen from school and took them home for a pre-treat snack and bathroom break, and then we loaded back into the car to go to the Goodwill bookstore. I had discussed taking them to the library with Jessie yesterday but she'd told me that August's teacher had suggested that maybe August would like to have a journal to write whatever he wanted to in. I take it that in math he is off the charts (go figure, right?) but that he seems to be impatient with writing assignments. Knowing that the GW bookstore has a shelf or two of notebooks and journals, I thought we might check there to find something he liked. And he did! He picked out a pink journal (again- go figure) with golden edged pages. Very fancy. I don't think a word has ever been written in it before. It looked to be pristine. I think a lot of people give journals as gifts and the recipients of those journals never get the urge to set anything down in writing. And I know for a fact that many people buy themselves journals, positive that they will write poetry and observations and deep, deep thoughts, and never follow through.
Ask me how I know about this. And don't we all keep our favorite journals for the really good stuff and none of our stuff ever seems good enough?
So Levon too, found an unmarked journal, his with a more staid marbled gray cover. I think he liked the seriousness of it. There was one with a goofy dog on the front but he rejected that immediately.
I also let them pick out a book apiece and August got a game and Levon got a puzzle.
And THEN, I had promised them a real treat, a sweet treat so we had to go off on search for that. I really wanted to stay in the little strip mall where we were, so we checked out Big Lots because they used to have an ice cream treat freezer up front by the cash register. Turns out that was years ago. But the boys did enjoy testing the sofas.
I told them to act like they were old guys, kicking back, watching the game. Levon immediately got the idea, as you can see in the picture above, and August was portraying an enthusiastic fan cheering on the team.
I thanked them for the photo shoot and said, "You know, I only take care of you guys so I can get pictures for my blog."
"We know," they said.
This is so not true. I often forget to take any pictures at all.
Since there was no ice cream at Big Lots, we decided to try the Checkers hamburger place right across the parking lot. We went to the walk-up window and by golly! They have a nice selection of ice cream treats! If by nice we mean no doubt toxic but also tasty.
They made their choices and we were served.
Ooh boy. I kept reminding them that they did not have to finish it all but they did. Of course. This took about twenty minutes. At least. I told them that not only were they not going to want any dinner tonight, but that they might feel sick. At that point I felt really guilty for letting them eat that mess. I even told them that I was never going to get them treats like that again.
"Probably a good idea," said August, finishing up the last drips of his cone.
It is 7:00 p.m. There is no rain. Just a deep sense of not-rightness. A feeling of the air pressing down in a most uncomfortable way.
And then, you know- the word "barf" can make them laugh so hard and a good burp can please and delight them like nothing else.
As I said to Jessie yesterday, "God. Kids are so weird. It's like they're just little humans or something."
When the barometer is falling I feel like you describe. As if the very air is trying to press me into submission. I hope the rain came and you feel better.
ReplyDeleteI love the way young minds work. Before they are indoctrinated with what adults think they should think.
Hopefully no barfing tonight - they were very large sweet treats.
We all know that the weather can make old injuries hurt more. And of course it can affect our mental health as well.
DeleteWhen I was talking to August I was hoping that I was not indoctrinating him with my views of the American healthcare system. And then another part of me did not care.
Yes. Hopefully no barfing, vomiting, throwing up, hugging the porcelain bowl, or harking up.
Handy funsized humans!
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DeleteThe big enchilada here is MerMer doesn't feel up to snuff. I hope you get to the bottom of the problem, or go to bed for three or four days to sleep it off.
ReplyDeleteI'm okay. It is actually raining a little bit now and I feel some relief. I am going to sleep well tonight and as long as I want tomorrow. I have nothing at all planned for the day.
DeletePeople comment on how cheerful I often am. If they'd grown up in a cold rainy country full of miserable people, at that time, anyway, austerity, crises, etc, then come to a country with sunshine, a lot, warm winter houses, they'd understand.
ReplyDeleteWeather makes a profound difference to mood and general feelings of well-being. You'll do better once it either rains and gets it over with, or clears up. You'll see.
I have a feeling that if anyone's going to fall out of a tree or a boat, whatever Mr moon and his merry band are doing, it will be the ER doctor, who will instruct the others on how to put him back together.
You know, on the other hand, if you had been a different sort of person living under those conditions when you were young could have made you bitter and negative no matter where you lived. I think we are all born with the attitude we will most likely keep for the rest of our lives. Circumstances only make those more apparent.
DeleteHaving said that, I sure am glad you got out of that to come here where at least the houses are warm in the winter!
Oh god. I never considered the fact that it could be the doctor who had an accident! That would be the way life goes though, wouldn't it?
Weather changes make me feel ick. It aggravates my arthritis. As a Canadian, we apparently have universal health care. What a joke! I haven't had a doctor in six years! There are private clinics opening that charge a membership fee between $400 and $1000 yearly. S.o yes, we have two tier health care!
ReplyDeleteI have heard that Canada has more than its share of healthcare problems. I have to tell you though that a yearly fee of between $400 and $1000 dollars sounds incredibly inexpensive when compared to what health insurance costs here.
DeleteBad weather can definitely affect arthritis.
Sounds to me like the atmospheric pressure got to you a bit with all those weighted clouds. I love hearing about your times with the boys and agree they are both so smart. I hope the journal helps August with his writing.
ReplyDeleteYes! Damn atmospheric pressure!
DeleteIt would be cool if both boys came to enjoy doodling and noodling in their journals.
Back, legs, spine, neck, SI area. all bothering me and rain and lightening here...I'm glad the kids enjoyed their ice cream.
ReplyDeleteOh, I bet e! That must be so miserable.
DeleteI love your posts about those lovely boys! I am getting my 11 yr old grandson from school today. Sometimes we have had deep discussions on the way home......I remember once it was about the various ways of borrowing money...bank loans, mortgages etc. He had asked me if I could lend him some money for a game playing thingy he desperately wanted and had been saving for. Obviously I said no, but I stupidly mentioned it to my son when we got back, and he went mental at G for asking me. It quite spoilt the pleasure I was feeling at the conversation we had had in the car!
ReplyDeleteWell, that is so sad. Sounds like your grandson had taken in what you'd told him and figured maybe you could be the Bank of Grandma with payments and interest! Not a bad idea. Why did your son get so mad at him?
DeleteI think that maybe he had been told not to ask anyone ( me? )for a " loan". He had it all worked out how he would repay me!! Yesterday we discussed the pros and cons of his school having a " school pet" and what would it be. Apparently as class captain he has to go to a meeting about it.
DeleteYou always have fun with those boys. I forgot how long Mr. Moon will be gone hunting. Does he have to drive all the way back from Canada? It's sweet that you miss him.
ReplyDeleteI think the man will be back next Monday or Tuesday. And yes, they're driving back from Canada.
DeleteSounds like a great day out! Not only can kids talk about serious subjects, but they absorb a lot of what's said. It's really amazing (and kind of terrifying) how their little brains soak up information -- as I'm sure you know! I'm glad Mr. Moon is enjoying his time in Canada.
ReplyDeleteIt is amazing and terrifying. I tell you what scares the hell out of me- their other grandmother and father take them to a sort of evangelical Lutheran church (yes, there are those) and one of them, especially, seems to really get caught up in it. And how do you tell a child that religion is a farce? I hate seeing him being indoctrinated the way they do.
Deleteof course August got the vanilla strawberry swirl...it's pink!
ReplyDeletekids are much smarter than we tend to give them credit for.
37paddington: to be fair, you do get wonderful portraits of those long leggers. I hope you feel better soon.
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