I just got home and have put away the groceries and gotten out of my town clothes and started the dishwasher. It's time to make our supper but of course I had to sit down here first to tell you I'm alive, hello! and so are the children I was put in charge of.
So another successful day.
Vergil texted me this morning that the violin teacher was under the weather and there would be no lesson today so I made a plan to take the fellas to the library and then to the playground there. I packed banana bread and trail mix with M&M's left over from Mr. Moon's Canadian trek, AND Cheetos. I was ready for big fun.
When I got them from school, I got two hugs and August said, "You're doing pretty good on your time," meaning I have not been late to pick them up lately. Or ever, really.
I said, "Well, I try. I plan my entire day so that I won't be late getting here." I was flattered that he noticed my punctuality.
And then I laid out my plan as we walked to the car and it did not seem to excite the children at all. Not even the trail mix with the M&M's. "You can pick them out and just eat those!" I said.
"Nah," they said.
Levon said he'd like some Cheetos, though. Also, they did not want to go to the library and playground. They wanted to go home because there was a Lego project there they were working on and that was what they wanted to do.
And so that's what we did.
I felt completely useless. August got his own snack from his mom's stash of dark chocolate and Levon ate some Cheetos and then it was full-on Lego time. We did watch a few animal facts for kids videos. I now know much more about Cheetahs than I did before. For one thing, if they don't catch the prey they're chasing within a short amount of time, they just let it go. Their kill rate is about 50% though so they do okay. I made them go outside for a little while but August jumped on the trampoline for about three minutes and then ran back to the house. Levon lasted perhaps ten minutes.
Oh well.
So that was that and some days they just don't need me very much. In fact, they would much rather I have not been there at all, I think. I kept going into the play room to check on them, ask them if they needed anything but mostly all they needed was for me to leave them alone.
Sophie, on the other hand, did indeed want my attention. She is getting so big! She tried to eat my hair and she also put her paw in my ear. Well, at least I felt needed.
While I was there I got a phone call from my Boy O who applied for a job at Publix a week or so ago. He wanted me to know that he got the job! Here's the picture Lily sent of him after he heard the news, I guess.
Well. No comparison there, really.
good day for you...and the boys! And kudos to Owen for getting a job! Great news! Sophie...the dear, growing, furry bundle....putting her paw in your ear, how dear she is! My counsel....don't get a turntable because you will never be able to find a stylus if the first one gets dull.....trust me..... I have tried! Not worth the headache
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Susan M
That's so weird. I don't think I ever had a dull stylus in my life and I used to play the hell out of my records.
DeleteWe are so proud of Owen.
PS (yet again)....Owen is quite dashing in his attire! Rockin' it! What a handsome young man he is!
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He's still my little prince but I don't tell him that anymore.
DeleteYes. They grow up, as children do. The boys may not need you sometimes, but I am sure that if you asked, they'd still want you and that is not to be sneezed at either.
ReplyDeleteI think they love me and I know that sometimes they need me. It's to be expected that I'm not as fun a playmate as I used to be for them.
DeleteOwen's first job. At least, his first "real" job. That's an achievement. He will do well. I can see why the younger ones look up to him.
ReplyDeleteHe's very happy about it. He has a plan for how he's going to save most of the money he makes. The little ones do absolutely look up to him. In every way! He's a kid but he does adult things! They love that.
DeleteI am intrigued by your reference to "town clothes". I imagine a frilly white blouse, twin set and pearls with a black patent leather purse (English: handbag). Like stepping back into the nineteen fifties.
ReplyDeleteYes. That is exactly what I wear to town. Every time. And I carry a lace handkerchief in that patent leather handbag along with a vial of smelling salts. Because you never know.
DeleteI love the way you slide right back into youth and the album cover and it's off-label possible uses.. The kids have got to the age of older relatives being there to ignore. Maybe you can bring your own toys now, your fancy mending, audio books etc!
ReplyDeleteI swear- I still have such a visceral memory of rolling joints on album covers. Oh, but I was a good hippie!
DeleteYou're right about my time with those boys. I do usually take some New Yorker magazines and a crochet project but I forgot yesterday!
Owen is a working man/boy now! Well done! A good example for the others to follow. I remember being proud when my grands got after school and weekend jobs. It's a bit sad that August and Levon didn't really need you but they are growing up and able to amuse themselves now too. I don't think I will ever own another record player, but I will keep my old albums anyway. I have the Stones 'Rolled Gold' double album from whenever it was produced.
ReplyDeleteI still have my old records too and I love them. I am very emotionally attached to them.
DeleteAugust and Levon still need me to drive them around so there's that.
It is sad when a visit with a grandparent is no longer exciting but it shows that we are part of their furniture.
ReplyDeleteCan you please provide instructions for rolling a joint on an album cover - with pictures.
Ha! I might could describe it but there would be no pictures. Maybe I could find some on the internet, though.
DeleteOne of the tracks on the Stones new album is " Angry" and it is played what seems like all the time on our local BBC radio. ( Beds, Herts and Bucks). I am sick of it, and so are many others according to social media!
ReplyDeleteWhen I get G from school, he disappears to his bedroom the minute we get back.
Well, as of today, the BBC radio can begin playing a whole bunch of new songs off the album.
DeleteI doubt they will pay for any more of them!
DeleteWell done Owen - I'm sure you'll really appreciate the money. My 14 year old niece just got a job too and while it tends to screw up her weekends (doesn't it always) she just loves having her own money. And that's comforting news to hear about cheetahs. So if you can just outrun them, say for six minutes, you're home and dry then!
ReplyDeleteYou made me laugh about the cheetahs! I think it's far less than six minutes but I'm pretty sure that a cheetah would catch me in less than five seconds. They can run 47 miles per hour!
DeleteI've also only seen positive reviews for the Stones album. Congratulations to Owen! As for the boys, I'm sure they appreciated your being there even if they weren't interacting with you. It's nice that they can keep themselves entertained!
ReplyDeleteGive them Legos and they are happy, happy, happy. Remember when Levon said to me, "You really don't know anything about Legos, do you?" I'll never forget that. He was completely correct.
DeleteYeah. The only negative thing I've heard so far about that album is that Lady GaGa's singing sounds a little out of control at times.
What will Owen be doing at the Publix? Maybe bagging and cart fetching? That's what some of my boys started with for their first jobs. Congrats to Owen!
ReplyDeleteYes. I think that that is exactly what he'll be doing. I can't wait to see him at work!
DeleteYou probably saw this already; Mick interview with The Guardian: https://www.theguardian.com/music/2023/oct/20/the-more-children-you-have-the-more-laissez-faire-you-get-mick-jagger-on-ageing-rage-and-missing-charlie-watts
ReplyDeleteYes! Thank you! I did see it. They're doing a ton of publicity.
DeleteYears ago I drove my 14 year old son to his first job interview - Domino's pizza. I encouraged him not to be disappointed if he didn't get the job. Then out he walks - employed!
ReplyDeleteI know that was a big moment in his life and in yours.
DeleteI can't believe Owen has a job! And look how grown up he looks! Time moves too fast.
ReplyDeleteJennifer- I swear to god- I have no idea in this world where the time has gone.
DeleteI always thought Owen and Oliver were sort of similar, and Oliver had a job really young, too! That Owen, though, all of a sudden looks like a young man.
ReplyDeleteLOL!!!! laughing about rolling joints on record albums, been there! been listening to the new stones on my internet radio, k-zap.org, they played almost all the cuts yesterday
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