Wednesday, October 18, 2023

A Vast Disappointment


This house has five fireplaces but they have all been converted to gas which is wise, I think. It was this way when we moved here. Last night Mr. Moon got so chilly in the Glen Den that he lit the eternal logs. There's actually a sort of thermostat system that can regulate the amount of heat you want from these things and they don't stay on all the time when lit. They come and they go, as their internal works dictate. 

I found out a few weeks ago that the old series "Moonlighting" was going to be rerun on Hulu. Now let me tell you- back in the eighties, that show was radical. Cybil Shepherd played the feisty, ex-model, detective agency boss and Bruce Willis, in his break-out role, played the foil, her second-in-command who took nothing seriously. 
That was a terrible recap of the show. Sorry.
Anyway, the dialogue was so snappy, the actors perfect for the parts, Cybil with her blond hair and pastel-colored polyester dresses and heels and Bruce with his smoldering, smirking good looks. 
I loved that show. Mr. Moon loved that show. That show took the country by storm. ALL the women wanted Bruce. I'm sure the men all wanted Cybil. And of course, there was probably some cross-over in all of that. 
So last night, Mr. Moon and I sat down for our supper and excitedly tuned the show in and within the first fifteen minutes we were groaning. It was horrible! The sexism was unbelievable. What passed for naughty all-in-fun bits then would never see the light of day now. 
For good reason.
We watched as Bruce and Cybil were about to enter an apartment where known drug dealers and tough guys were hanging out. Bruce wants Cybil to stay in the car because...of course. Cybil insists that she goes in too. Because...of course.
She says that she can be tough. She can carry off that look. And then, next thing you know, Bruce is unbuttoning her blouse a few buttons, and then, he's on his knees in front of her, RIPPING THE HEM OFF HER SKIRT! 
Because of course tough chicks wear sexy clothes that don't make them look like detective agency bosses who used to be models and the hems on women's skirts just rip right off.

Glen and I looked at each other and I said, "This is terrible!" 
He said, "It is!" And we just started laughing and turned it off. 

I guess despite the way everything feels these days, some things have definitely changed and what we used to consider to be smart and sexy and funny is now just ridiculous. 

I feel sad. I really wanted to re-love that show.

It's also so very sad to think of Bruce Willis now, suffering so horribly from a neurological disease, unable to even communicate when he and Cybil used to both memorize pages and pages of fast dialogue and deliver it convincingly in front of a camera, week after week, after week. 

Well. 

Today was a day to do laundry. I washed the hunting garments and hung them on the line because deer can smell things. That's how I think of it. They smell things. And human smells make them wary and apt to run. I also washed all the bedding because Mr. Moon got a bad case of the hives while he was working out today and even though I felt sure that it had nothing to do with our sheets, I figured I might as well. The only thing he ate this morning was cereal with a banana and I doubt that made him break out. It happened very suddenly. He sent me a picture and called me and said it itched so much that he couldn't work out and I told him to go to an Urgent Care which he grudgingly did but while he was waiting to see someone, the rash disappeared faster than it had come on so he left. Who knows what that was all about?  
He's not typically a reactive person. 
Anyway, we have clean sheets, pillowcases, blankets, and quilt. 

I worked a tiny bit outside weeding. I've chopped the vegetables I need to chop to make egg rolls tonight. I made two loaves of banana bread because I had some big 'ol past-their-due-dates bananas. Why do we feel that we're being thrifty if we take some practically rotten fruit and mix it up with five dollars worth of other ingredients and bake it? 
Well, yes. Banana bread is good. There is that. Especially with a cinnamon-sugar topping. 
I'll take a loaf over to Jessie's tomorrow when I go to pick up the boys at school. That can be their treat although they'll let me know that anything chocolate would have been better. 

Since Candy cleaned off the little coffee table in the library, I've been thinking it needs a nice arrangement on it. So today I did this. 


That is exactly what I was wanting to do. 


Can you see Maurice in her pillow nest? That's her place. 
That arrangement reminds me of the way my granny's friends used to use the tropical flowers and plants they found in Roseland as decoration. 
It's been a bonus year for the pinecone lilies. 

I better get in that kitchen and make some egg rolls. I'll wok the vegetables and tofu, wrap it all up in the wrappers I buy at Publix, and bake them in the air fryer. 
One of our favorite meals. 

Love...Ms. Moon






49 comments:

  1. Nowadays good TV drama is far better than it used to be. There has been a lot of development in various ways and audiences are perhaps more discerning than they used to be... And it is indeed so terribly sad to think of Bruce Willis entering the dark cavern of dementia. I hope to hell that I never go there. He is younger than us.

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    1. Bruce is only a year younger than we are. But yes- I agree with you. I would so much rather my heart to go out first than my brain.

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  2. I like your little flower arrangement! I have never seen those pinecone lilies before! I really like them!!

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  3. Sorry the show disappointed you, but I definitely understood why! About banana bread- I’ve also come to think that it’s cheaper (and easier) to throw out the bad bananas than to make banana bread! - but it’s so delicious, so I make it pretty often.. and some gets frozen for when I get a hankering for some😁 Glad that rash disappeared so quickly! I love your flower arrangement, and the cat.. ours used to love to sleep on couch pillows just like that🐈‍⬛Hope your evening is delightful! Xo, Rigmor

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    1. Well, almost rotten bananas are a good excuse to make delicious banana bread. But I don't do that often. I just throw the brown ones in the compost.
      That was definitely a mystery rash.

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  4. a good banana bread is a good thing....IMO..lots of lemon zest grated in always does it for me! Moonlighting....used to love it back in the day, but not sure i'd love it now......tho loved both actors. 5 fireplaces? Really? Hope the lit logs warmed Mr Moon up. It was 91 here today so you can only imagine *how* happy I am........NOT AT ALL. give me a fucking break with the heat already~. I have a load of firewood on order for 2 wks from now and I wonder *why*? tho I know we will need it........someday. Woodstove our only heat source.....but come on already......cripes
    Susan M

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    1. PS your *flower* arrangement is just gorgeous!
      Susan M

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    2. It will cool down for you. And the sooner the better! I lived in a house once where a woodstove was our only heat. It sort of worked.

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  5. I watched 5 minutes of Moonlighting and found i only liked the theme song. Sometimes you can't go back.
    There was an article i read about using ten dollars of ingredients to use up a free zucchini. Same thought.

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    1. Yes! Zucchini is the same. I mean, zucchini bread is great but really? You could leave it out of the recipe entirely and it would still be good.

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  6. I never heard of that show, but I do understand how dated old shows have become. The, then, very funny Bob Newhart, turned out when I started watching my old DVDs of his show, to be sexist, unfunny, homophobic, fat phobic and on and on. So uncomfortable to watch that I got rid of the collection. It's very disappointing not to enjoy it again.

    A lot of old snappy dialog comes off that way now. It goes where we don't any more.

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    1. I LOVED the Bob Newhart show. Lord, now I never want to see another episode again after your review. Like I said- a vast disappointment.

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  7. I loved "Moonlighting" too.
    If the boys like chocolate so much, put in a few chocolate chips. I do:)

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    1. I REFUSE to put chocolate chips in certain baked goods like banana bread. Or pancakes, even though the boys are certain that one day I will.

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  8. 37paddington: the coffee table arrangement is a thing of beauty, I actually paused and imagined myself reading in that room. It’s so inviting.

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  9. I love those pinecone lilies, never seen them here.

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    1. I think they must be fairly tropical. They are cool.

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  10. I never watched Moonlighting at the time either. Probably won't know, but yes it is a shame about Bruce isn't it. Waaaayyyy too young!

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    1. Well, he's sixty-eight. That ain't old but it ain't young either. Bless him.

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  11. Great pine cone lily arrangement! Was Mr. Moon working out at a gym or at home? If it was at a gym, maybe something there set him off -- a cleaner or something.

    It's such a disappointment when things we loved long ago don't age well. I never really watched "Moonlighting," but I definitely remember it -- it was a cultural phenomenon. Interesting that now it's so cringey! Maybe if you get past the first episodes, when the show was probably still finding its feet, it will get better?

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    1. Yeah- a gym. I thought of that too. Who knows?
      We finished watching that first episode tonight and it wasn't terrible. We may give it another chance.

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  12. That's a lovely arrangement on the coffee table. I make a banana cake with my older bananas, it has yoghurt in the recipe so it's healthier. At least that's what I tell myself.

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    1. Oh, of course we tell ourselves it's healthier- like carrot cake which had all the sugar and flour and fat of any cake but...CARROTS!

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  13. I watched the entire Moonlighting show last year and still loved it and laughed though it's outdated and sexist, but I felt it "ran out of steam" after season 3 or 4, it just wasn't as good. The story lines felt a little "forced"

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    1. I remember thinking that when it ran originally- that it definitely ran out of steam.

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  14. It's so sad about Bruce Willis. I feel for his family, too. Diseases like that are just horrible and they steal the person you love long before that person's actual death.

    Your library is gorgeous, and Maurice curled up in her little nest looks so cozy! I'd love to spend a day or two in there, reading and sipping coffee.

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    1. I feel the same about Bruce Willis. Neurological diseases are horrible. And we have no idea how to treat them at this point. Maybe someday. But not yet.
      Yes. You would like my library. It's a very sweet room.

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  15. Is her name MORriss or morREES? I
    need to know, lol.

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    1. MOR-EESS. It is not generally a female name but when she first showed up I thought she was male because most ginger cats are.

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    1. NO! Don't tell me that! That show was such a groundbreaker!

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  17. Your library looks like a comfortable space. I hope Mr .Moon feels better quickly,

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  18. love the flower arrangement. re Moonlighting, I never watched it back when but I seem to remember that it was supposed to really set up Cybil for stardom and it was just the opposite. she sort of sank and Bruce took off to stardom.

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    1. Yes, but we also need to remember that she had twins in the last season of the show. In reality. So who knows what she gave up in order to be with those babies?

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  19. I can understand what you mean about "Moonlighting". I feel that way about "MASH" reruns sometimes but I still watch it from time to time. Some episodes, I just have to turn off.
    Great job on your arrangement, Mary!

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    1. Oh hell. Mash was so wonderful but I'm sure that there were terribly sexists and racists parts of it.

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  20. You are spot on with your assessment of Moonlighting, both how we loved it originally, and what a disappointment on this second goround.

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    1. interestingly John, I thought of you when I saw the butterchurn....... (I do *visit you* daily)......and knew if you came here, your eye would be drawn to it immediately!
      Susan M

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    2. The butter churn came from...somewhere? We didn't buy it. I think it came from my husband's family. They definitely churned some butter.

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  22. Benadryl (pills, not ointment). It can make an itchy allergic reaction disappear as fast as it came on.

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    1. Yes! But in this case, the rash did exactly that. I always carry Benadryl with me. But he does not.

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  23. I used to experience the worst hives due to temperature change! If I jump into a cold lake or put my feet on an icy floor right out of a warm bed- hives! Hives are temporary but so damned uncomfortable ? Bed bugs now there is a thing! Paris is bed bug central , bringing them over to England … advised to not sit while on the bus …
    Your room is a painting! How lovely and peaceful -the colors so soothing.

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  24. I used to watch Moonlighting reruns in my little dark apartment between my job and culinary school when I first moved to NYC in the early 90s. It was boiling hot outside, but the AC was on and I just remember feeling so happy and content. I didn't know it was on again but now I'm afraid to watch it.

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  25. Ms. Moon this is Brenda from Costco just want to let you know that you left your cel phone at Publix at Thomasville Rd.

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