My phone brought up this memory today and I have probably posted it every year for the past five years since it was taken. There was a period of time when August and Maggie were the two cutest little kids in the whole world. Their hair, their skin, their soft pretty eyes- oh my heart. I swoon.
So Maggie is fine. Her arm still hurt some today but she was able to go to school. Lily thinks she just bruised and possibly sprained her shoulder when she fell on the tree root. I'm sure she was scared yesterday when she fell and that her arm did hurt but I am not denying that the child can be dramatic. She has always been so, as was her mother. I am sure that in the "olden days" children like them would have been called willful and perhaps disciplined both corporally and in other ways to try and beat the willfulness out of them.
If I had done that, not only would I felt huge remorse but I also would have made the problem even worse. I know that for a fact. I know a lot of people who claim that when they were kids and misbehaved, they got hit/beaten/spanked/ or whatever you want to call corporal punishment and so many of them say, "Well, when I was a kid I got spanked and it sure didn't hurt me. I needed it!"
Uh. That's sick.
But back to Magnolia and her dramatic ways.
She was shouting for joy. I am not kidding.
So today was pottery day and I had a good time. I'm finally feeling comfortable in the class setting and getting to know the teacher and her ways a little better. She is definitely her own person and has her own opinions on how best to teach. I have quit feeling quite so lost in class and at least now I know where the rolling pins are kept. Which is good. I still can't wedge clay for shit. I keep trying to knead it like dough which really does not work.
Almost everyone in the class, including our teacher, is somewhere around my age except for two younger women who are very serious and Jessie who is also serious but not in the same way. Not in the hardly-ever-smiling way.
The weather was discussed a lot in class because it's absolutely a polar experience for many of us here and tonight is going to be "brutal" (someone actually used that word) with temperatures going down into the twenties as was predicted last week. There's a woman I've known for a long time in the class and so she and I can discuss people we've known in common and how they're doing and all that stuff. Jessie went to high school with some of her children too, and Glen has been friends with her husband for forever. So there is a connection there. Jessie and I signed up today for another six weeks or whatever it is.
I feel like I've just started to learn even the most basic things and there are so many more of the most basic things I want to learn. Today I worked on my cracker tray which will probably be used once, if at all, for a Ceremonial Presentation of the Cheez-Its. It sort of looks like a caterpillar. I honestly want to make another one, this time knowing more than I did before.
I also made a "drop plate" today which sounds way more destructive than it actually is. That was fun. And then because I had more time, I made a pinch pot and if a kindergartner brought it home to me I would be so proud of them.
I've not learned one thing about glazing and hope to get in a little of that before this class ends but I am feeling very relaxed about it all. We are not talking Michelangelo's Pieta here.
After class we went and picked up Mr. Moon who had taken a truck to get work done on at a shop south of Tallahassee, an area I have not visited in forever and it is so changed that I hardly knew where I was. But we went to a restaurant for our lunch down near Florida A&M University. The restaurant has been famous in its own right for many years. I'd never eaten there so I was excited. I'm always excited to eat. It was a meat-and-one, two, or three, meaning you could pick out your protein and either one, two, or three sides. It was all served cafeteria style. I got oxtails which I have never eaten in my life and they were delicious. I also got rice, collards, and a piece of cornbread. Glen and Jessie got spicy fried chicken and some different sides.
Good Lord, it was good.
I did some stuff after I got home but nothing exciting. I finished watching "His Three Daughters" and it was fine but not as fine as I thought it would be. I stand by my original opinion about Natasha Lyonne who was fantastic.
Because it seems to be pictures of the three youngest grandchildren day, here's one more.
Sheer joy for all of us, those sweet babes.
ReplyDeleteI had pottery in high school, with a kiln and all and this was not a wealthy neighborhood. Unfortunately my works tended to explode in the kiln, taking others with it. Not that I ever had a masterpiece to begin with. Stay warm.
Oh god. I would hate for that to happen- to explode other pieces in the kiln. I love that you had pottery in high school.
DeleteYour beautiful grands..! My goodness … I’m swooning too! Glad you’re enjoying the pottery class, and eating too!😄xo, Rigmor
ReplyDeleteOh, I always enjoy eating.
DeleteA potter friend decided to "teach" me how to throw a pot. It became too up close and personal. I would never sit on the bench with a weaving student, arms around them, holding each hand and throwing and catching the shuttle. I have no idea how to teach potting, but his method didn't show me; I quit before we began.
ReplyDeleteThat is NOT the way to teach someone to throw. Sorry you had a bad teacher.
DeleteI've helped a lot of beginners but I can sit to the side of the wheel and help. If things go really wonky, I'll ask to take their seat and recenter the clay for them. Centering can be frustrating; I think a beginner should try to center for no more than 30 minutes. Then instructor can center clay and let them to try pulling the walls.
Enjoy being a beginner and laugh at your mistakes. Pottery is really fun.
Joanne-
DeleteYeah. No.
I seriously doubt the point of that potter friend was to teach you anything. What a jerk!
Pictou-
Our teacher is very big on taking over when things were getting wonky with me. I "made" one bowl but in all actuality, it was she who made it.
the curls on those two children, be still my heart! Oxtails....surprised you have not had them. Mom (having been european) used to cook them often when I was a child- always loved them but they are not readily available at market here- almost considered offal. Glad pottery class going a bit easier....it will flow better each session!
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I don't think I realized until relatively recently how big oxtails are in some southern cuisines. I really enjoyed them but not a whole lot of meat there.
DeleteLook at those adorable grands with glorious blonde curls. Sweet and innocent. Where does the time go? They grow up so fast.
ReplyDeleteI am glad to know Maggie is okay.
Having zilch experience with clay, I'm impressed that you are producing a few pieces and enjoying the class.
It is cold (29 degrees F) here too. Arctic air is settling in.
Same temperatures as here!
DeleteI'm glad Maggie is okay too.
And I AM enjoying pottery. Thank you.
Those babies really were and are adorable! And I like feisty, willful little girls. They probably grow up to be strong women.
ReplyDeleteIt's supposed to get down to 20 degrees here tonight! That's really low for us. I'm dreading the trek to work at 6:45 in such cold!
Well, Lily is certainly a strong woman. So there you go!
DeleteTwenty degrees! I don't even have a coat for that sort of weather.
Oh the beautiful babies! That's northern MO weather for sure, down in the 20's. I should be used to it but I hate the cold more each winter... At least I don't have to get out and go to work no matter the weather.
ReplyDeleteThat's a blessing- not having to get up and to work when it's so damn cold.
DeleteI feel the same way about the heat. Every summer I tolerate it less and less.
I love your bringing back the baby pictures! Who's that in the stroller behind them? I'm losing track of the Moon who's who!
ReplyDeleteOh wait, Levon?
DeleteIndeed! Baby Levon!
DeleteThree babies in a basket- dreamy! Goes so quickly we never realize, do we.
ReplyDeleteI have only eaten ox tail soup in chinatown. As well as chicken feet and pig knuckles, and god knows what else.
It is very cold tonight- I am ready to snuggle under duvets, two of them , with a hot water bottle. It is only 6:00 pm...Ready for bed.
I really do miss those Costco shopping trips with the baby cousins. They were so cute and funny. That time passed so quickly. I'm really glad I've got some good pictures to remember it by.
DeleteI love my bed way too much in winter.
I heard there were freeze warnings down there. My gosh. We've had quite a storm today and there is another coming. By Monday, the temps will be in the 40s (one day it will actually be 1 degree from 50!) You've got polar weather. We've got bi-polar weather.
ReplyDeleteOur weather is sort of bi-polar too. After getting down in the twenties last night, it's supposed to get up to sixty-eight tomorrow.
DeleteIn pottery, learn about slam wedging. Easier on the wrists and is fabulous for getting frustrations out. Search YouTube for videos.
ReplyDeletePotters are really generous with their knowledge. There are so many, many good potters who make videos just to share their knowledge. I don't have a name for slam wedging, but for excellent beginner videos, search for Tim See. He's a master potter and a wonderful, funny teacher. But as my grandma would say, "That boy ain't wrapped tight."
I do know about slam wedging and have done some.
DeleteI have noticed that the experienced people in my class are very kind and helpful. I have also noticed that what one person says is the correct way to do something may not be at all what another says.
I will look for Tim See. I have a fondness in my heart for boys that ain't wrapped tight.
Snuggling here, stay warm!
ReplyDeleteDang Maurice just does not want to sleep with me.
DeleteI checked my conversion chart and "down into the twenties" is below freezing! You all are going to be icicles! Rug up please! I didn't think it was possible for Florida to get that cold. The baby photos are absolutely gorgeous. I'm very glad you are happy in pottery class now, small changes to routine are good.
ReplyDeleteYes! Our freezing is 32. It does not make sense. Celsius does.
DeleteAnd yes, it does get that cold here. It almost always freezes at least a few times a winter. I have even seen snow. Not a lot but enough to impress us.
I sympathise with you about the pottery class. I tried it once and my "pot" looked like a cow pat! But I'm so glad you're enjoying it and glad Maggie is ok too!
ReplyDeleteYep. We could have made matching pottery! "Here we have the cow shit style of fine serving ware..."
DeleteWe’d be talking about the arctic blast, too, if temps dropped to 20s here. SG already had his long johns out for 60-degree evenings. Those kids are treasures. I don’t know how you can ever stop looking at photos of them when they’re not right there with you. Glad Magnolia is doing better. "Well, when I was a kid I got spanked and it sure didn't hurt me. I needed it!" Yes! That IS sick! So happy you’re getting more into the pottery. The Pieta won’t come until you master marble.
ReplyDeleteWell, there is that about the Pieta and marble. If I can't even handle clay, I'm pretty sure that working in marble is way above my pay grade.
DeleteI know that every mother thinks her little ones are the prettiest and as I have found, grandmothers feel the same way about their grandchildren. So I know I am not being completely objective.
However. Mine ARE the prettiest.
I got spanked. I remember thinking, "This is so ridiculous." All it is is parental anger and I do understand that BUT, no.
I wore thermal underwear in Denver when I went to school there for a little while. Don't you know I looked cute? I bet SG does too.
I'm glad you are starting to enjoy your pottery classes. It's nice to spend more time with Jessie no matter what you are doing!
ReplyDeleteIt's warming up a bit here - our high has been 20°F but today we might get up into the 30s. Wind chill makes it seem colder. Stay warm, Mary!
Oh, Ellen. That is TOO cold. No, no, no. Please don't freeze to death.
Deleteyou're making me think about signing up for a session at the new pottery studio. I feel for you with this dip into the 20s. it will be brutal. we've had these arctic blasts for the last four years and I hate them. I've lost so much in my yard. they say this winter will be a mild one for us and I hope so.
ReplyDeleteWhy doesn't the cold weather ever kill my invasive plants?
DeleteI think you should sign up for a pottery class. You really might enjoy it, Ellen. I bet you'd be good at it.
I never think of Florida as a cold place but, yes it's going to be cold! We often get below freezing here. I always think it kills bugs off. Whether it does or not is anyone's guess.
ReplyDeleteI am a knitter, nothing fancy but I have knitted a couple of Alpaca cardigans. So warm and light as a cloud.
I love that last photo where you can just see baby Levon peeping!
Yes. I like to think that the freezes kill off bugs too but then we must realize that Alaska has some of the biggest mosquitoes in the world.
DeleteIf you knit cardigans, you are a fancy knitter in my book.
Little Levon. He was so young there.
Very cute photos! I'm glad you're sticking with the pottery. Will you show us pictures of some of your creations? As I recall, glazing is no trick, really -- you can choose the colors but how the pieces turn out is largely left to chance, depending on kiln placement and how the glazes mix and that kind of thing.
ReplyDeleteI don't see how I'm going to have time to get anything into the kiln and then glazed and back in the kiln before this session of classes is over. This is not distressing me in the least.
DeleteA pottery course sounds nice but I have such a hard time commiting time to something longterm. Then I feel so obligated. Weird, I know, but I'm glad you're going with Jessie.
ReplyDeleteAnd those grandkids, so freaking cute.
I would never have signed up for this class if Jessie had not signed me up herself. She knows me so well.
DeleteBeautiful babies, then and now. Oxtails are a staple in the cuisine I grew up with. Eaten with rice and peas, they make a hearty meal.
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