Wednesday, March 12, 2025

I Will Be Leaving Lloyd. But Just For The Weekend


There are quite a few azaleas in this yard but it seems like years since I've had a good bloom from them. This year is the same and I am pretty sure it's because Mr. Moon trimmed them last year later than he should have. I told him but did he listen? 
Nope. 

Driving around Tallahassee, I have seen many in bloom so I am presuming that azaleas are relatively frost proof. 

The azalea in that picture is one I believe I planted and it's by the deck between the old kitchen and the laundry room. 

Another day of perfect weather but I went to town to do shopping. I also stopped by Lily's to drop off some medication that I'd picked up for her when she was out of town, and to sit and chat for a few moments. They just got back from their little jaunt to visit Lauren's parents yesterday and had to turn right around and get the kids ready and packed to go to DC with their dad today. So she was understandably a little tired but cheerful. Her tooth is all healed up and she'll be going to the endodontist soon. Hurray for antibiotics! 
And time for them to work. 

One of the reasons I had to go shopping was because I needed to pick up things to take to Gatorbone where Lon and Lis live. They are having their giant throw-down, shindig, music festival, St. Patrick's Day celebration, spring celebration...all that...party this weekend. 
They used to have this giant fest every few years at least and then along came covid. I don't think they've had one since. I could be wrong. 
Now you know me. Crowds scare me to death. Social anxiety? This sort of thing pushes me way over the redline. Social awkwardness? Oh please. I have enough of that for five other people at least. Inability to remember names and faces, even people I've known for years? 
I'm your girl! 
Okay. There are some people I'll recognize but so many I won't. And even if I do, I won't remember their names. Lis always says to me, "You know Cheryl. She's always at the party." And I'm like, "Uh. No clue. Sorry." 
And I don't play any instruments. I do not sing in public. I am, in fact, a useless deer in the headlights at this party. 
The one thing I am capable of is cooking. Lis plans meals to feed over a hundred and fifty people three meals a day throughout the weekend. 
No. I'm not kidding. 
And it always happens. 
And if there is one thing I can do, it is cook. Her kitchen is tiny but we make it work although refrigerator space is very limited, the stove is just your normal four-burner stove, and I always freak the fuck out trying to figure out how in god's name any of this will come together. 
And yet I know it will. 

Glen and I have rented a cabin at a nearby state park where we have stayed before. I have that place to go and decompress, drink vodka, and silently weep if need be. We had to reserve on the first day of the Florida residents' early chance at getting a cabin and it is so worth it. If you think I am camping with a hundred other people, you are wrong. And since I am not a musician, I do not need to sit around the fire all night drinking whiskey and singing the old songs. 
No, I do not, although I will be pleased to listen to some of what is played over the course of the weekend. These are real true musicians from all parts of the country, many quite well known. Everyone loves Lis and Lon. Everyone. And they are the most gracious hosts you can imagine. 

So that is that story. I was not sure I was going to be able to go because of this kidney stone and because I am so crazy but I have indeed pulled up my big girl panties and am determined. The kidney stone is no worse and no better. It is just there. And Glen is excited to go because he's taking the kayak and his fishing gear and can take people out on Gatorbone Lake (yes, there is a Gatorbone Lake) if they would enjoy doing that. Jessie and Vergil were going to come with the boys but they decided that due to the fact that they'll be just getting home from the beach on Friday, it was too much. 


I am glad they've had such a good time on the Gulf of Mexico but I sure will miss them being at Gatorbone. 

A few more pictures.


Fire spike coming back. 


The native buckeye, all set to bloom. 

Have you bought your Tesla yet? 

God DAMN, where are the checks and balances? 

Love...Ms. Moon 


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    1. Lis sent out an email today asking for privacy in regard to the party as to an online presence. Hmmm...
      I shall have to ask her what that means, exactly.

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    2. Scammer? Spammer? Troll? Gatecrasher?

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  2. That sounds like loads of fun, and you'll have your quiet space to retreat to when you need it. I totally understand.

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  3. Cooking and dong the dishes are where my party enthusiasm lies as well, The kitchen grounds me . The music will be grand I am sure! Parties make me feel like....not going, always. I am glad you will have a cabin to go to to take a deep breath and a slice of vodka. It does sound like a wonderful party. Wear your invisible cloak of confidence!

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    1. "...a slice of vodka." Yes! Now. Off to go find my invisible cloak of confidence.

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  4. I am always in awe of people who can pull off huge get togethers like that. Much as I wasn't keen on my former sister-in-law, nothing ever seemed to phase her about having a huge group of people at her house!!! That wouldn't be me - I'd get too worked up!

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    1. I used to have some pretty big gatherings but boy, not any more. I have no idea how I did it.

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  5. We had azaleas way up north. Definitely frost proof. And, yes, they’re particular about when they get pruned. That music fest sounds like fun... sort of... if you have a quiet cabin of your own to escape to. Lon and Lis must be exceptional to be able to pull that off every year. The beach photo with the boys is a gem!

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    1. You know, I don't think I realized that azaleas grew up north. How could I not have known that?
      Lon and Lis are not only exceptional, they are magnificent and splendid.
      I like that photo too.

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    2. I grew up in Connecticut. My father often gave my mother a potted azalea for Easter and it went straight into the ground. Yes, we have azaleas. And hibiscus. And trumpet vine. Margaret, now consigned to exile on the Gulf [of Mexico] Coast.

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  6. No I have NOT bought a Tesla and never will. i don't drive anyway, so there's that. I know you will have a wonderful time at the music festival/party/get together, especially since you have a cabin to retreat to when you need. I'm a bit the same with large crowds, I much prefer to be on the edges looking in, you won't find me in the thick of things in the middle. I love the beach photo with the boys.

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    1. Well, I won't be buying a Tesla either. I hate that Tesla's name is now known for that horrid billionaire. As if he didn't suffer enough when he lived.

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  7. I'm glad you have a cabin of your own so you can relax if you need to. I'm sure you will be a great help in the kitchen as you are so good at that. Hope you have fun and good weather!

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    1. I'm not sure how much Lis will need me. We shall see.

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  8. Your friends have way more energy than I do. One hundred and fifty people, wow. It sounds like a good weekend but not my thing either. I too would stay in the kitchen and be quite happy cooking and cleaning, with an occasional foray out to listen and watch. Have a lovely weekend.

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    1. Yes. That is how I like to do it- mostly be in the kitchen and then slip out for a little of the entertainment.

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  9. Have the best time! I am with you re the social anxiety and stuff but in hindsight, friends are friends and just imagine that out of the next ten people you meet, at least three are possibly half as or even more anxious than you.

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    1. I know that's true. I also know that I tend to think that I am the only person so burdened by anxiety in such situations even though I know that is not true.

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  10. Happy anniversary and all the best to May and Michael.
    Liz and Lon are amazing hosts. I can't imagine preparing for 150 guests. Maybe with a party planner, catering and full set-up help, I could do it.
    I hope you enjoy the festival. Having the cabin to escape to seems ideal.

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    1. Lon and Lis are the party planners, the caterers, and the setter-uppers. Friends do come in early to help and thank goodness for that.

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  11. It will be big fun and you’ll escape to your cabin when you need to recharge and afterward you’ll be happy to have made that memory with Lis. I know how sweet and grounding it would have been to have your Jessie there too, though. She sounds so much like my Kai.

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    1. I will miss having her and her sweet fellas there. You can bet on that. Just bad timing with spring break. Jessie and Vergil planned this trip ages ago and have had the cabin at the beach reserved for many months.

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  12. I too am a sitter on sidelines and cook kind of girl. Great plan with the decompression cabin. Enjoy!

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  13. I have an azalea, which has weathered zero temps, so yes, hardy shrubs. That party sounds a bit extra! Good for you for going.

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