Saturday, March 8, 2025

A Rather Unusual Post, I Think

The first thing I want to talk about this evening is the fact that an anonymous commenter posted the actual listing link for the house that I was discussing yesterday. This is not a terrible thing but I am so curious- how and why?
I tried using Google Lens to search the two pictures I did post from the online listing and did not get to the listing that way. I did not mention what lake in Georgia and there are more than one. So... how?
As to the why part, obviously I HAD the link to the listing so it's not like I needed it and I had chosen not to share it. I'm not sure why and I actually spent some time thinking about this. The main reason was simply a silly one- I didn't want to jinx anything and I didn't feel the need to get everyone invested in this possibility. Besides that, pictures can lie. Especially real estate listing pictures. They can make a place look far better and larger than it is and they can also do it no service and not really represent the charm that may be small but powerful. And until I look at the house myself, I really see no purpose in sharing the link. I shared a picture of the dock because that is what Mr. Moon loves the most about it, and a picture of the porch because a porch, in my opinion, can make or break a house. 
I do not block anonymous comments and I have rarely had any regret over that. Most of the people who comment as anonymous here add their name at the end of their comments and I hardly ever get comments that are mean-spirited which somewhat surprises me but I am very grateful. I certainly say a lot of things that people may find a lot to disagree with. I am a very opinionated person and I am not afraid to express my opinions. I suppose that people who don't agree with me just don't bother to continue reading my posts which is the way it should be. 
I will add one more thing- if whoever "anonymous" was had no ulterior motives in posting the link, I am fine with that. I just wish that they'd thought about it for a minute and realized that I may not have posted it myself for a reason. I did delete the comment because I still don't really want to share it. 

And that is that little speech. 

I don't have much else to talk about today. I've done some embroidering. I embroider like a child. I made a soup with beans and split peas and a chunk of ham I had leftover in the freezer and greens and a stock made of carrot tops and scallions tops. There are, of course, other vegetables in it too. 
Another thing I did was to NOT go to the funeral of a very old friend because I didn't want to and he would not have cared. I know, I know- funerals are for the living but my presence would not have done a damn thing to comfort anyone. Glen went. They were mostly his friends from way back when I met him. I don't think they ever took a shine to me and thinking about it now, I believe they may have been a bit resentful of me. I took THEIR friend and before anyone knew what was happening, the Glen they knew as a lighthearted, frisbee-throwing, happy party boy, became a business owner, a married man with two stepchildren, and within nine months, father of another child born of his loins. (I love that phrase.)
In other words- boring and rarely available for fun and frolic. 
But this particular friend, the one who died, was a truly good and funny and intelligent soul and he always accepted me so gracefully and we had such good talks at the beer garden on Fridays that I've talked about. He became an elementary school teacher for awhile in a very underserved community and I volunteered in his classroom one year. I liked his wife very much but I think they sort of got Jesus later on in life and you know how I feel about that. The last time I saw them, I ran into them in a Tallahassee restaurant and she was wearing a big ol' cross around her neck and the obit was quite full of god-talk. Of course Glen does not care and is far less worried about these things than I am and so he went and I'm glad he did and I'm probably just using that as an excuse for not having gone. 

If we can't be good, let us at least be honest. 


I was astonished last week to see that my one and only and very tiny orchid had sent out a bloom stalk. It started opening yesterday and this is what the first flower looks like. It looks sort of like a cartoon character based on a pansy, doesn't it? 

Mr. Moon is just home from the basketball game that he went to after the funeral and I have just washed and cut up potatoes and put them in the soup. I cannot seem to get enough carbs these days. Since the election I have been reaching for food as comfort more than I ever have in my life and I was already far from any sort of control. I just cannot seem to get a handle on it. And it's not just carbs. Let us be honest. It is cheese and it is butter and other unhealthy fat-related food. It is also peanut butter and meat. It is everything except broiled lean sources of protein and steamed vegetables. Fruit? Get outta here. Is this my body's way of preparing for doom and devastation involving vast food shortages? 
Sure. Let's say that. 
And Glen just brought home a brownie and pecan pie from the funeral lunch. Why? Why does he do this? Because he is sweet and he loves me. Or perhaps he's trying to kill me. 

We'll be going to see that house on Monday after I get my mammogram. As Jessie said today in a text, "Well damn. I know you can't wait for that day."
But I do want to see the house. And I am hoping there is nothing about it that I can't live with because Mr. Moon is sweet. And he loves me. 
And perhaps he is trying to kill me. 

Probably not. 

Love...Ms. Moon

P.S. Here is an article about Keith Richards with a very short video. It is not wild rock-and-roll related news, but an account of an award that the governor of Connecticut gave him at the Westport Library. You know how I love the old boy and this gives me even more reason. Some people do not scream of their virtuous works from the rooftops but quietly live their lives and doing their screaming onstage. Often with guitars.

And as he said in the video, "Keep Our Books Unburnt."

Good on you, Keith. 









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  1. I don’t understand why someone would highlight the property. It feels kind of invasive.
    I’n not a lover of pansies but your flower is fabulous! It really does look like a cartoon character.
    And, yay Kieth! I’ve learned more about him through your blog than anywhere else. I could use some of his stamina!

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    1. His and Mick's stamina! Did you catch Mick at the Academy Awards? He was handing out the award for Best Song in a movie and he skipped out like an eight year old. I think rock and roll may be the fountain of youth. If it doesn't kill you first.

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  2. I find it odd too, adding the link but anything I say would just be speculation on the reason.
    People grow and friends come and go, mostly anyway. Why wouldn't Mr Moon grow up and move on to his family and life? But jealousy comes in all forms doesn't it?
    We are much alike in our opinions on the jesus bunch. If we spent an afternoon together we could have a good old natter on the subject. There's much too much to unpack herein.
    Orchids are funny looking aren't they?

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    1. Well, whoever added the link probably did not do it for nefarious reasons but it did make me wonder why it was given.
      Glen just changed so fast. He went from care-free house painter to husband, father, business owner in like ten minutes. It was a bit shocking.
      A natter about Jesus. I love how that sounds.
      Orchids have become masters at creating themselves as something that their pollenators are drawn to.

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  3. Providing a link seems creepy to me, anonymous can correct me if I'm wrong.
    I bought myself another orchid today, a pink one. I'm hoping it does well. That dark pink orchid of yours is beautiful.
    And if you don't want to go to a funeral, you don't have to.

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    1. I hope your new orchid does well too. Orchids are a nice little gift we can buy ourselves.
      It is nice to be old enough to realize that we do not have to attend funerals.

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  4. don't know about the mystery real estate person but I looked it up on Zillow, just like *that * - typed in Georgia lake front property and there it was, like spy magic! Anyway it is weird that "anonymous would post it without your permission.
    Awww Keith- he looks more like an elf wizard every year. God I love that man! Thanks for that! Beware of matches.

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    1. The orchid pansy face looks like the flowers in Alice in wonderland

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    2. I love that, Linda Sue! And you're right.

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    3. Really? It was that easy? That's amazing.

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    4. That is crazy, Linda Sue. I guess there are fewer lakes in Georgia than I realized.
      Keith IS an elf-wizard. And he's had those ears since he was a child. Probably since he was a baby. The better to hear with, my dear.

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    5. Zillow has a really good search engine.

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  5. Yes please, be careful with the matches and keep our books unburnt. Keith is a very fine man and I'm pleased to hear he still has a strong voice.
    That tiny orchid has a snake head aimed right at me so I scrolled away, though I do like snakes.
    I'd like a link to look at that house for myself, it's a hobby of mine to look at real estate online, but there's really no point with this one because I know I would never live in your country. It's too far from all my kids and grandkids and the great grandson who turned two just last week.

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    1. Plus it is becoming a fascist's wet dream!

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    2. Looking at real estate online is fun, isn't it? It's so hard for me to envision entire house lay-outs from individual pictures though.
      Gold rings on Keith! Who would have thought?

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    3. Do they not show the floorplans on the sites you look at? They do here. Makes it easy to see if the layout is suitable for you.

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  6. The orchid is stunning as is the backdrop.
    I would have been annoyed by that anonymous commentator. So many reasons people feel the need to share or elaborate on what we don’t choose to share or elaborate. But then to do it anonymously. I wouldn’t have gone to that funeral either, although I wouldn’t turn down a brownie and pecan pie.

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    1. You like my Dollar Tree fishes? I bought those things probably thirty years ago. At least. I put them up in a rental place we stayed in on St. George Island for a few summers. And then they got moved to Dog Island. I could not bear to leave them behind. They are such happy fish.
      It was a Presbyterian funeral which means that although the funeral was probably far less jesus-died-for-your-sins than a Baptist church funeral would have been, the food afterwards was not as good. Or so Glen said. NO FRIED CHICKEN!

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  7. I'm glad you deleted the link. Sometimes people don't think. Oh, I rhymed.

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  8. I can entirely sympathise with you about that odd anonymous comment. You are lucky that you have avoided mean-spirited commenters thus far. Behind the scenes, I have three "regulars" whose nasty, erosive remarks have to be repeatedly flushed away via comment moderation. For more than half my blogging life this was never an issue.

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    1. That just sucks. What is WRONG with people?

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  9. Well, I don't think "anonymous" meant any harm, I think they were just excited to see that house and didn't realize there was a reason why you didn't share that link yourself. But you have explained it so now they know.
    I enjoyed that bit about Keith Richards. I didn't realize he has lived in Connecticut for so many years.

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    1. You are right about anonymous. I was glad to get out my frustration but now it's done and over.
      Yes. Keith and his wife have lived there for many, many years. They have other homes too, as one would imagine.

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  10. Yes to your decision about funeral, and you sideways did a memorial about his life! I know you'll take your own photos of the house/cabin on the lake. Enjoy the trip!

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    1. I thought about that- I said what I wanted to say about our friend. He really was a sweet man.

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  11. I have not gone to the last two family funerals. One was during covid and maybe the other too or just after. It's not like they were here in town, would have had to drive into the city and traffic and no thanks.
    I love that orchid. So exotic (as if all orchids aren't). I guess I'll just have to wait until you see the house to see it myself. I tried Linda Sue's trick but no luck.

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    1. Did you get my email?
      I guess if funerals are for the living, we who are living who don't want to go to funerals are important too.

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  12. That is very odd about the link. I'm surprised they were able to find it based on the information you gave, but as usual I probably underestimate people's Google search abilities. Maybe they're a Realtor working in Georgia? Anyway, I could tell you didn't want to post it, so I'm not sure why they couldn't.

    That is a beautiful orchid! Quite unusual!

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    1. Well, as Linda Sue said, it was very easy for her to find it. But yeah, I didn't think it would be that instantly available with such a simple search. No secrets anymore these days.
      I don't remember the first bloom of that orchid but I'm sure it must have looked just like that.

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  13. after my not fun stalking experience I agree, the link posting was creeper. love the orchid. xxalainaxx

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    1. It felt a little odd, my dear Mrs. M. I was not horrified but I was perturbed.

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  14. The orchid is a true wonder. Divine color.

    Sometimes I'm forced to post as one of the anonymous commenters b/c the little box where I can add my name is frozen. In those instances, I've included my name at the end of my comment. I've assumed it was the same with others who do likewise.

    That said, I have no clue why someone would post the link to your potential lake property.

    I must say that the porch from the photos you posted looked picture perfect. And I love the idea of sweet Mr. Moon being able to walk the dock and put in a fishing line. I've got my fingers crossed that the visit doesn't disappoint on Monday.

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    1. I'm fine with anonymous posts, even the ones where people don't add their name or forget. IF they aren't weird. Which they hardly ever are.
      And Glen can get out on his boat any time he wants.

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  15. I hope you're not offended by this: I don't care where you and Mr Moon buy a lake house, nor even if you do or don't. I don't understand why someone unknown to you would, so much that they look it up. It seems like a violation of your privacy and posting it violated blog etiquette (if there is such a thing).
    As for craving carbs and other food, maybe you're stressed? Who wouldn't be under the current circumstances. I am a major stress eater, and I've been overeating since the election. It shows, too. I'll be whale-sized in 4 years... If I make it that long.

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    1. I am not offended at all! I will admit to being curious about the places the bloggers in this community live. Or as much of those places as they would like to post. But I'm sure not doing google searches to see the details.
      I had to laugh when you asked if maybe I'm stressed. Yes, I think how I feel lately qualifies as stressed.

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  16. Completely Anonymous Commenters often are suspect and who knows why that one felt compelled to Share something you had chosen not to and just touch upon? I do Hope when you visit the Property that you like it as much as Mr. Moon seems to find it perfect. Listing Pixs can be deceiving, so I always like to look at a prospective purchase and get the Feel of the place and what it's really like. So much to consider. Your Orchid is lovely, I only had one Property Orchids did well at, they are lovely if you can get them to grow and Bloom again. I don't like attending Funerals and often haven't. And I like you comment of if we can't be good at least be Truthful... and Keith's of leave our Books unburnt.

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    1. From how Glen has talked about the house, I think he likes it but is not overwhelmingly in love with it. We shall see. Or rather, I shall see.
      I believe that orchids depend on the correct light to thrive. In winter the plants in that window do quite well because the pecan tree right outside it has lost its leaves. It doesn't get as much light in the summer.

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    2. And also- yes. I love Keith's take on books.

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  17. I don't think that I have ever had a truly malicious comment but spam grinds my gears quite enough. Yes, it was definitely an overstep although my pollyanna self says maybe it was by innocent accident - she is sometimes annoying, that pollyanna self. I love how your orchid takes on a cartoonish silhouette and looks to be tiptoeing toward you - it is gorgeous.

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    1. I often think the best of people unless they have shown me I should not. That is as Pollyannish as I get.
      The orchid has quite a face, doesn't it?

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  18. The color of the orchid is so royal, yet the aspect does indeed look like a cartoon. Mr Moon was a party boy till he met you and then he took the party home and you’ve been kicking up your heels together with those beautiful kids and now grandkids ever since. Love a man who knows who he is and chooses the party he wants to be at with no backward glance.

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    1. You are so right! Glen did not give up all his bad boy ways. Just the ones that interfered with his family and his business, of course. He and I have both been known to party together and I love that we have. No way could I have fallen in love with a man who didn't have a little bad boy in him. But Glen's bad boy is not the same kind of bad as other men I have...known...shall we say?

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  19. I wouldn't post it, but here is how to search. It takes 30 seconds. Take a screen shot, crop away anything not on image. I use Preview. Drag image onto Google Image (the little camera icon to the right on Google homepage). That picture of dock came up first from Homes. com. You can use this method to find many things you might want to buy. It works best for very large sites and items that are mass produced. Mary in Maine

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  20. I use google lens which is even easier, I think. Just open google, tap the little camera icon, and take the picture.

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