Monday, April 21, 2025

The Kind Of Day I Needed


I went for a walk today and got some decent milage in although I did some stopping for sure. For example- I had to stop to take that picture of the fally-down house which, as you can see, is quite near to being completely collapsed. 

I have such a tender fondness for that old house. The fact that it's standing at all is a testament to whoever built it and whatever kind of wood it's built of. I can't even imagine the number of hurricanes and other storms it has survived. 
Here's what the house looked like sixteen years ago.


Honestly I had forgotten how straight and true it stood at the time. And peeling tatters of wallpaper still graced the walls then. I have written about it many times but I think the first post I ever did about the house is HERE. 

The longest stop I made today was just a few yards down the road from the old shack where Mr. Abraham, as I call him, although I think most people call him Abe, was crossing the road with a wheelbarrow and a rake to work on the lot he owns there. Mr. Abraham and I had never really had a conversation of any length until a few years ago when they were building the Dollar General which is on property adjoining the lot he was about to go tend to when I saw him today. And on that day when we first talked, I asked him so many questions about what living in Lloyd was like when he was a boy. He was born and raised here and he's about to turn 91 next month so he's seen some changes. He hasn't spent his whole life here. He moved away after he got married and had children and he had jobs in some sort of construction planning I think, in other parts of Florida and maybe Georgia. I can't remember. 
But I really enjoyed that conversation and I think he is very shy. I learned that day that he and his wife (now deceased) had actually lived in the now falling down house when they were first married. 
But it's been a while since we really talked and so today when my path intersected with his and he stopped and said "hello" to me I was a little surprised and very happy. 
We discussed how both of us have the same hobby which is taking care of our yards. The lot that his house is actually on, across the street from the property he was about to rake, is so very tidy and he pointed out a magnolia tree that he'd planted. He told me that when he and his wife first moved into that house, he'd bought a new plant just about every time he went to town. So we definitely have that in common. He is very proud of the fact that at almost 91, he can still get out there and make his property pretty. Hell, I'm proud of myself for doing the little bit I do in my yard and I'm only seventy. I told him that if he runs out of things to take care of in his yard, he is welcome to come down to my place and pull a few weeds.
"I had a feeling that's what you were going to say," he said. 

I enjoyed that chat and when we finally really meant it when we said, "Well, it's been nice to see you!" and both of us shut up, I continued my walk down the road and just a little distance from his house I saw this.


It was in front of the house that was deserted for so long until recently when crews came in and restored it and cleaned up the yard and so forth. 


I had posted a picture of it a few weeks ago. Or was it months? Whatever. 
The "For Sale" sign gave me the courage to go up the steps to the porch and peek in the windows. I was surprised at how nice it looks. 


Although...beige. 
No thank you. 
Of course as soon as I got home, I searched for it online and the link is HERE if you're curious. 

And so it goes. A day in Lloyd where I did Lloyd stuff. I worked in the garden a little, I watered my porch plants with the new hose Mr. Moon got me which you know darn well was pretty exciting. 
For me. 
Laundry, laundry, laundry. 
No naps. 
Tomorrow I will get my CT scan, finally, for the kidney stone. It's at the hospital radiology department which involves PARKING at the hospital and being IN the hospital and I'd rather mow a golf course with a paring knife but it'll finally be done. I am absolutely certain the scan won't show anything that we didn't already know so I'm back to the place where I'm asking myself why in the world I'm even doing this. 

Definitely time for me to make supper. Tonight we are having the always-delicious and also exotic recipe from my childhood which is pineapple chicken. It was about the best thing my mother ever made and it never disappoints. 

One last thing. How in the hell did it happen that one of the very last things Pope Francis did before he died was to speak with JD Vance? 
All I can think is that if there IS a god, they sure do have a viciously cruel sense of humor. 

Love...Ms. Moon




31 comments:

  1. Interesting that you looked in the house, said beige, and moved along. To me there are quite a few shades of color there, restful and a blessed relief from the color and shape uproar always going on in my head. I mean onward rush of useful ideas. Yes, that's what I mean 😉

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    1. Oh, I didn't mean to be dismissive of the house! Beige is just not my friend. Now that pale green- I love it. Yes, of course it's an onward rush of useful ideas in your head! What else could it be?

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  2. They sure didn't that poor house any favours with those wall colours. And it also looks like the wood counters are varnished. Who does that? And why would you?

    It sounds like you've been busy with family and gardens and such. We went away for the weekend which was nice. Jack stayed with his mama and hubby and I took off to Jasper for one night, but it was worth it. We saw the extent of the fire damage, but we also saw what wasn't burnt, and we saw our friends and the plans for their rebuilt house. Mother nature was cleaning house.

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    1. I agree. And I really dislike that shiny wood finish in the kitchen.
      Am I understanding this right? Jack's mother remarried?
      I'm glad y'all got away, even if it was just for a day or two.

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    2. No, I should have used a colon. Jack stayed with his mama, hubby and I took off to Jasper:)

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    3. Doesn't look too shiny to me, but I don't like the colour of the wood, too patchy, looks fake.

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  3. I hope JD got a good tunin' up. I'm not Catholic or especially religious but I feel Francis was one of the most important peacemakers of our generation.

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    1. Was he? I know he wasn't afraid to speak to world leaders but did any of them take his advice as to peace? I know Trump didn't and I doubt JD will either. But perhaps eventually his words will mean something.

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  4. I thought the house was pretty...inside and out, though I couldn't figure what that second sink was doing in a corner? Not so sure about varnished counter tops. Is this the going for price for houses in this area? That was so interesting the 91-year-old gentleman used to live in the fally down house. Mother nature is taking it back now, as it will all of us.
    Paranormal John

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    1. I was thinking that sink might be in a laundry room. With these old houses you do have random spaces that probably had a definite purpose at one time but are a little mysterious now.
      The varnished counter tops look very tacky in my opinion and what a cruel way to treat wood!
      Home prices depend a very great deal on location. Lloyd is not exactly the center of the universe. I mean- you can't even get a pizza delivered! In certain neighborhoods in Tallahassee that house would be on the market for a whole lot more.
      You're right about mother nature. Ashes to ashes, dust to dust.

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  5. When I was a child, there was a fally-down house like this on a neighboring property that we kids were not allowed to go inside of, for safety reasons. I was talking the other day with the now-elderly property owner, who mentioned that the old, empty house had been strong and standing just a few years before I “met” it, and I have been wondering ever since how a house “knows” that it’s not being lived in and it’s time to fall down? Because while the old houses that I’ve lived in and been acquainted with surely needed lots of work, they never seemed to need repairs of the “keep the building standing” variety… I too wonder about the lives of the people who lived in these old structures! Dee.

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    1. They do say that an empty house deteriorates more quickly than one that's lived in. I have no idea if that's true or not.
      I used to think "if those walls could talk" about that house but now, there really are no walls to speak of.

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  6. That house for sale does look very nice and a bucket of paint will take care of the beige.

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    1. True. Sometimes I think that someone looking to sell a house is very careful to use neutral colors for the walls so as not to offend anyone with TOO MUCH COLOR!

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  7. They sure did a beautiful job renovating that house. I just don’t like the wood in the kitchen. The kind of conversation you had with Mr. Abraham (so Southern) is the kind that makes my days, too. Do you suppose his wife is the one who put up that wallpaper? Thanks for the link to the old post. Beautifully told.

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    1. I don't like the wood in the kitchen either. I've never seen anything like it as far as I know. It may be easier to clean?
      Mr. Abraham's wife could have been the one to put up that wallpaper. He said that when they lived in that house, there was another, older woman living there too. I don't know the story on that. A relative? Or just a woman renting out a room for extra money?
      Mysteries lost to time.

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  8. I think they did a good job of fixing up that house and I hope it sells quickly for them. I'm glad you had a good day with a good walk and a fine visit, Mary.

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    1. I will be very curious to see if and when the house sells.

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  9. That's a big house with an interesting arrangement of rooms. I would not have chosen that tile for the bathrooms, it just jumps out and I really don't like that wood island or those counters in the kitchen and laundry room and why that dark blue color? And why did they paint that panel above the old fireplace black? Otherwise it's a pretty nice house.

    I wonder when the fally down house was built. If it's old enough it could have been built from first cut timber.

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    1. You know how it is with these old houses- they kept getting built on to as families expanded.
      The tile for the bathroom is a bit seizure-inducing, isn't it?
      I'm thinking that perhaps the restorers had economy in mind for a lot of what they used in the house. But it actually doesn't look too shabby.
      I really don't know how old the fally-down house is. I'd say it was probably built sometime in 1930's or around there?

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  10. Your 91 year old neighbor knows the history of the neighborhood and likely has a lot to share. He surely has seen many changes. You and he had a pleasant chat.
    The new house is not to my taste, but I'd rather see a new build than a house in disrepair and falling down. I suppose one day a new build will replace the house that is slowly falling down.

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    1. That house for sale isn't a new build. It is an old house that was done over.
      I don't know what they're going to do with the land the fally-down house is on. Someone used to own it (and probably still does) who had dreams of someone putting a Hardees or a McDonald's on the property as it's right down from the Interstate exit and entrance.
      I think he was seeing riches where there aren't even ditches.

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  11. I enjoyed looking at both houses. I like the renovated house but for me, I need a basement. I think it has an interesting layout. I do like the bathroom floor.
    Patricia

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    1. Basements are VERY uncommon here. We're basically on a thin crust of limestone under which is a whole lot of water. If you dig down far enough for a basement, you're going to have an in-ground swimming pool. Plus- they flood during storms. I have lived in two houses with basements in Florida which is highly unusual and they both flooded.

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    2. In the area around Charles Town, WV, where I live there's limestone also and caves so many homes do not have basements. We live outside of town so we are able to enjoy one. That was a requirement for me when we were searching for a home. A basement, a dining room, and a nice yard for a garden. Win/Win.
      Sending love to y'all.
      Patricia

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  12. The falling down house story would be such an interesting novel!

    It's strange that in the US houses for sale are so done up and polished. Here, that would reduce its value. People buy for location, access and renewable energy potential and prefer to fix up their own dream house interior. Putting down new floors or a fitted kitchen is a waste of money bc the new owner will most likely just rip it out.

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    1. Maybe people are lazier here and want their houses ready to move in.
      I'm sure there had to be a whole lot of actual restoration of that house. Foundations, insect damage, old leak damage. All that stuff. I mean, it's old. For here. And for a climate that is constantly trying to cover everything with mold and also has storms that take off roofs, knock down trees on houses, and so forth.

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  13. I am so glad you had such a fruitful walk. I think that I need a diagram with that house, as the photos were confusing! So many doors.

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    1. I can't follow any floor plan there either.

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    2. When homes in Australia are for sale there is always a floorplan available.

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  14. It's hard to believe that when I saw the fally-down house I was able to walk around inside it! I still have my bookmarks made from the wallpaper.

    That house down the street seems like a pretty good deal. If I were moving to Lloyd I'd be tempted! (But maybe I'm just used to London prices.)

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