Saturday, April 5, 2025

Checking In


I have taken no photos today whatsoever but that rose picture was taken within the last week and I do not think I have posted it, although I may have. That rose bush grows in the little area by the kitchen where the bananas grow along with a sad gardenia, the leopard plant, some oregano, pine cone lilies, and at least five kinds of invasive plants that I can't begin to keep on top of. That rose has more blooms on it this year than I've ever seen on it before. 

Okay, okay. I took a picture. 


The roses are mostly blown now but they were glorious for a red hot second. That's another one of those places in my yard that I should hire a backhoe guy to come and scrape down to the bone. 
This will never happen. I will just look at it and chastise myself for not tending to it every time I walk by it or look at it through the screen door in the kitchen which means about fifty times a day. 
I did just realize that I have an amaryllis about to bloom. 


It's been so long since I've seen an amaryllis bloom in that spot, I'd forgotten it was there. I may or may not have brought those bulbs with me from the last house we lived in. I tend to think I did but as always, I could be wrong.

So here's what I have discovered about the shingles vaccination: it is rough. 
I swear, I've felt worse today than I did when I had covid. That is no lie. I slept until ten this morning and spent the day aching and hurting and doing nothing but looking at stuff online. I kept thinking about watching TV and doing some sort of needlework but that seemed way too involved and possibly strenuous. I finally went back to bed and slept for another hour and when I got up, I remembered the wonder drug, ibuprofen, and took two of them. 
Now I feel almost human again. 
On the other hand, Mr. Moon has spent most of the day outside, doing things with a ladder and getting a truck ready to show to a possible buyer and showing the truck to the possible buyer and I have no idea what all. 
The entire reaction that his body has manifested from the vaccine is a slightly sore arm. 
I am at once very glad for him and also infuriated. I feel as if he must think I am making this up and being a baby when I most definitely am not. He doesn't give me any reason to think he feels that way, it's just my own psyche telling me that I am indeed just making this up and he's too kind to call me on it. Mr. Moon simply does not give in to illness or discomfort which can drive me crazy. Now in this case, I don't think he is having much of a reaction. But when he IS sick, which is rare, he refuses to acknowledge pain or fatigue or the need to rest which makes me insane and sometimes cry. Which is not to say he does not have his own little things that do cause him discomfort that I cannot fathom be bothered by. Luckily, they are few.

I put a pot of red beans to soak last night and have been cooking them all day with an onion, garlic, celery, and peppers. That has taken little to no exertion on my part. I've never cooked red beans before. Frankly, my favorite beans are pintos. Black beans come in a close second. Garbanzos are right up there too. But Glen wanted some and so why not? They are served with rice and I already have some chicken and rice that I made a few nights ago and I will be using that. Definitely not the traditional way to go but so what? Do I look like I'm worried the Traditional Cajun Cooking Police will come and arrest me? 
Oh wait. That joke isn't as funny as it used to be. 

I certainly hope that I am feeling better tomorrow. I am deathly afraid the bamboo is going to be out of control if I don't get out there and kick it. I don't even want to go look right now. I'd also like to get at least a few of my cherry tomato seedlings into the ground and also figure out where I want to plant the horsemint Liz Sparks gave me. I'm having a deep internal dilemma about what to plant in a very large pot that I had Glen move onto the back porch steps for me yesterday. I had thought maybe I'd like herbs there but then I got the notion that it is time and past time to repot the sea grape that I grew from seed. I love that plant as if it were my child. 
Well, almost.

Speaking of my child. 


Gibson is now officially taller than his Uncle Hank. He's taller than me, too, but we needn't discuss that. Hank and Rachel took Gibson out today, just him, for his birthday present. They had lunch and ice cream and went to Target and a comic book place, and Gibson got to choose where they went. I love that my grandchildren have fun aunts and uncles who do things with them and love them and spend time with them. That means everything to a child. 
You know what? It means a lot to all of us to have people in our lives like that. We never outgrow that. 

I see that at least 1200 protests were organized and carried out in the US today and that is a beautiful thing. I am sure many people I know were at the ones in Tallahassee. Every person who showed up at any of these demonstrations is a better person than I am. That's just the truth of it. There was even a demonstration a few miles from Mar-A-Lago where Tangelo In Chief was... hanging out on the golf course at the Seniors' Club Championship. 
Of course. 

I think I'm fading here. 

Love...Ms. Moon









34 comments:

  1. The turnouts for the rallies are amazing ... the largest crowds "for" the Orange Bastard ever ... bigly, in fact!

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    1. I heard they were huge. And I've seen pictures and footage.

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  2. I didn't want to mention it, but I had a hard reaction to the shingles vaccination, too. It will taper off quickly.
    The demonstrations today were fabulous. They will not end.

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    1. Yes. I feel better this evening than I did this morning.
      The demonstrations definitely were a wonderful outpouring of how Americans (and Europeans!) feel about this administration.

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  3. Funny how we're all different when it comes to vaccine reactions, I've had both Shingles shots and had no reaction to either one. Hopefully it wall pass soon.

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    1. I know- I keep thinking about that. How differently different bodies react.

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  4. I think the only vaccination that I remember having a reaction to was the covid, and I was just more tired than usual. My little town usually has a couple dozen people on the street corner in front of the courthouse. I knew that today was a special day. Tim and I wanted to be counted. We were astonished that there were 150 people or more that showed up. Most of the traffic that went by was supportive. It felt different.

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  5. I found the shingles vaccine worse than the covid vaccine but I recovered by 24 hours or so. I don't feel guilty about feeling tired etc. I just drink water and sleep until I feel better.

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    1. Yes. The shingles vax has been more difficult for me than the covid ones too. And I'm trying not to feel guilty. I mean- this is legitimate.

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  6. Feel better 🙃

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  7. Yep, shingles injection is the worst! Even Dennis who is like Glenn in that respect- felt like a truck hit him. The second one is not as bad.

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    1. I swear- Glen has had almost zero reaction. I think he may have had a slight reaction to the covids though.

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  8. I'm so scared to get the shingles vaccine because everyone I know who's had it feels horrible for days. I honestly can't feel horrible for days given my situation with Sophie, but I guess having shingles themselves would be way more horrible. Sigh.

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    1. Don't be afraid. I think that by tomorrow I'll be feeling pretty normal. I was able to cook (of course) and mostly stay awake. I have just heard such nightmares about shingles.

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  9. For what it's worth: https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/apr/02/study-finds-strongest-evidence-yet-that-shingles-vaccine-helps-cut-dementia-risk

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  10. I'm thankful that people are protesting.
    I know the shingles vaccine kicked my middle daughter in the ass. She was down hard for two days. You're not alone.

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    1. I haven't been down so much as just mostly inert.

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  11. The rose is beautiful. I'm sorry the shingles vaxx reacted so strongly, apparently that is proof that your own immune system is strong and reacting to what it sees as an invader. Good that the ibuprofen helps. Take a nap. Gibson is going to be as tall as Owen and Glen it seems.
    I truly hope there are NOT such people as Cajun Cooking Police. And if there are, just offer them a plateful and you'll be fine.

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    1. Your last sentence made me laugh, River. Those beans really were that good.

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  12. my shingles vaccination was in 2 doses and they both sucked for me. I think they give the same amount of the vaccine to everyone despite stature/weight so that may be why it was harder for you then the mr. Tony needs to get his but they said he could get one dose so maybe they are doing something different. 2 -3 days of feeling shitty is still better than the actual shingles so I was good. we drove to Lansing --- and there were at least 49 other protests, 15 of which we could have gone to that were closer but tony's never been to one at our capital so..... 10K strong was the low end crowd estimate. we love you xxalainaxx

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    1. I'm so proud of you and Tony! Ten thousand people is a LOT of people. Hurray for Michigan!
      You might be right about dosage and effect of a vaccine but I honestly think that some people are just super reactors and some are not.
      And I love you too.

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  13. And this is why I haven't got the shingles shots yet even though I know I should. I just need to suck it up and do it. My pink roses are in full bloom and abundant this year. Probably because I pruned them all this year which I don't do every year. Usually every other year.

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    1. I always cut mine back so I don't know why they were so much more prolific than usual.

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  14. I'm sorry that shot hit you so hard, but I'm sure it's better than having shingles. I can't believe Gibson is so tall!

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    1. From what I've heard, almost anything is better than having shingles.
      Steve, I can't even believe how tall Magnolia is. My Lord!

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  15. Sorry to hear you had such a bad reaction to the shingle shot. I had mine last year and had no reaction. I tend not to get reactions with things like that tho. Hopefully you will feel better very soon. We had a rally in my town yesterday as well.

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    1. I just learned a new word: "Reactogenicity." That is what the body's reaction to vaccines is. Some of us have stronger ones than others!
      I would like to know what percentage of towns across the US had protests and demonstrations yesterday.

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  16. Sorry you had a bad reaction and hope you feel better today. It's not as bad as getting Shingles as that is really, really terrible and the pain lasts a long, long time.
    I'm happy to say that I did join a Hands Off protest yesterday and it was fabulous! Thousands of people with lots of clever signs! It was so great to be around so many, many people that feel the way I do about this administration.

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    1. I think that's one of the best things about people coming together to demonstrate or protest- it gives you the knowledge that you have power when you join in with others who feel as you do.

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  17. It seems everybody reacts differently to vaccines. Hopefully, your reaction will be short-lived. I had a sore arm but nothing more. It was the multi-variant covid shot that made me sick for a week and required prednisone treatment.
    Your red rose is beautiful and full of blooms. It must be very happy in that spot.
    Handsome Gibson definitely has the Moon genes for height.
    Gibson is having multiple B-day celebrations, and it all sounds perfect.

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    1. Whoa! You really DID have a reaction to the covid shot!
      Gibson deserves all the celebrating he can get. He is such a sweetheart.

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