This. This my friends, is an Ashe magnolia. That bloom is probably nine inches across. At least. And it smells so good. That's the one I planted in the camellia bed years ago and it is currently only about three feet tall. It was much bigger but a pecan limb fell off the tree above it a few years ago and broke off a good bit of it and it's taken awhile to recover. These guys are not fast growers. I planted another one in front of my swing porch more recently and it is about five feet tall and is just about to bloom as well. With both of these it's been one and done when it comes to blooms so far and I doubt I'll live long enough to see either one of them get anywhere near large.
I really hope that whoever lives here next doesn't just go about willy-nilly cutting down everything that doesn't fit their idea of a pleasing landscaping element. I've planted so many native things including the cabbage palms and the wild azalea, and even though I did not plant the trillium, I feel very protective of it. Like an adopted parent, perhaps. Or a loving aunt. I can easily see how someone might have no idea what some of the plants are if they're not blooming. The phlox and the fire spike, for instance.
I almost had a heart attack last night when I realized that Glen might have cut down exactly those two types of plants from the front yard when he mowed. The man's knowledge of flora begins and ends in the garden and that's not even a for sure thing unless the plant in question has a vegetable hanging off it. But he can identify almost every make and model of car that's ever been produced.
We all have our talents.
But truly, I thought that he may have destroyed the phlox which I have transplanted over the years and the fire spike that I have lovingly rooted and planted. I had not given him specific instructions on that part of the yard (or any, for that matter) and had a moment of panic when I realized I had been remiss. But no, he had not decapitated everything. You will not be surprised to hear that he does love a tidy yard. He'd probably be so happy with a nice green lawn and a flower bed edged in bricks and two symmetrically placed fruit trees. Meanwhile, here I am, planting palms whose fronds get in his face when he tries to walk between them and who plants things where her heart moves her to plant them, creating a busy and definitely untidy sort of jungle. Untamed, shall we say?
How we manage to live together is beyond me. This may be why he's buying that lake house. He made an offer on it today. It's taken him some time to get the inspections done and gather estimates for necessary repairs and improvements. That part of Georgia is not teeming with people qualified to do these things.
Well, not legally anyway.
He spent the day spreading compost on the garden and I am not sure about that compost. He got it at the dump and it's basically decomposing wood. It smells awful to me. Can wood rot? Well, I don't mean wood rot. Or, perhaps I do.
I know so very little. But damn, his tidy garden looks good!
That cabbage is showing insect damage already. I need to get him to spray it with the BT which is some sort of "natural" pesticide. It works pretty well for a few days, anyway.
I spent my outdoors time working in the area beside the kitchen porch. Mostly just weeding general things and pulling up about one thousandth of the invasive plants trying to take it over. I'm not done yet. I will never be done and I will never be entirely happy about what's going on there.
But the amaryllis are looking good, aren't they? Despite being choked by some irises or something that never really blooms.
The man has gone off to some Coastal Somethin' Somethin' dinner and I'm on my own tonight. Sweet quiet. It got hot today, into the eighties, but is cooling off again. Tomorrow we shall retrace our steps to the Lunch With Grandparents Day at Maggie's school. Saturday August and Levon will be coming over for a sleepover and fun. Jessie and Vergil have an anniversary on Sunday and are going away for the weekend. The boys are staying with Aunt Lily tomorrow night which is their idea of heaven. Being with the cousins is their favorite thing. They'll be wired and crazy when they get here Saturday but it'll be okay.
Oh god, I hope we don't have to play Life. We need to teach them to play gin. Oh wait. I think we did teach August already. Yeah, now I remember. On his second game, he beat us both.
Hoo-boy.
Hoo-boy.
All right. That's enough. I'll save the story about finding a dead anole in the Roomba's rollers for another day.
As so very often, too much nature.
As so very often, too much nature.
Love...Ms. Moon
I missed a lot here! Off to catch up. I’m afraid I’ve been offline and off the news and mostly burying my head in work as a kind of escape from real life but now I’m back because one can only pretend the world isn’t happening without you for only so long. Sleepover and gin. Sounds fun!
ReplyDeletePerhaps we should teach the boys to DRINK gin. That would help in getting them to sleep. I'M KIDDING, I'M KIDDING!
DeleteI don't know, Rosemarie. I think can pretend the world is happening without me for the rest of my life. Or at least try.
This musing post was great. I think it should be a podcast..
ReplyDeleteMay and I used to talk about doing a podcast together. We think we are quite humorous and have a lot to say.
DeleteDo it!
DeleteThe flower on your Ashe Magnolia is beautiful and at 9 inches it must be the size of a dinner plate. Having a nice scent is a real bonus too. I love the way you saved the magnolia after being damaged by a large falling tree branch.
ReplyDeleteYour veggie garden looks amazing. Everything is robust. That's a very nice mulching job and always great for holding moisture and weed control.
I'm sure Levon and August are looking forward to their stay with you. As for board games, boys do really get totally engaged. Card games sound like a good option too. My son also liked chess.
It IS the size of a dinner plate! I didn't do much to save the magnolia after the branch crushed it except to trim the dead parts off. It's done the rest itself.
DeleteI always laugh when I play board games with Glen and the boys. All of them are obsessed with winning. I have to say though, that both August and Levon are graceful about winning or losing. August likes to play chess. I have never learned.
Have you considered a map of everything planted with the names and care needed in case someone -- even you -- wants to remember what is where and how to best tend it? That way, future generations will respect the flora and trees. If you start slowly, it won't be burdensome.
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That would never occur to me! I'll have to think about that. And you know- if someone were to buy the house who does not share my love of native plants, they'd just want to tear everything out anyway.
DeleteYou described my yard when you mentioned the green lawn and the bricks surrounding the flower beds near the house. I'm too lazy and inexperienced to have any type of gardens at all.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Patricia that you might start a simple map of your yard and mark the plants that are most important to you. Maybe with helpful hints on when to trim (or not trim). Add photos of the lovely flowers...
If I'm alive when we sell this house, I believe I'll just give the new owners a tour and leave it at that.
DeleteThere is nothing wrong with a lawn and flower beds. That can be beautiful. But this house would look weird with that, I think.
Oh, I empathize with your hope that the next owner of your house doesn't rip out all your pretties. We sold our house in Los Angeles 4 years ago, and the new people cut down all the trees, removed two used brick planters and a path of the same brick, covered the clapboard exterior with bright white SOMETHING. Those trees were huge and wonderful. I feel some guilt.
ReplyDeletePeople who cut down all the trees should be arrested if you ask me. I know those actions grieved you.
DeleteI thought the lake house buy had gone ahead already. I'm sure he'll be exicted to have a new project. I'm usually the same way, happy to have a project. It's amazing that you two ended up together, he likes a tidy garden and he married a hippie. I'm guessing you two complement each other quite nicely.
ReplyDeleteYour garden looks beautiful. I have the windows open today and the sun is shining, but so windy. No burning today which is okay. I cleaned and did laundry instead. I'm also in the process of doing taxes. Yay.
It is amazing that we got together. He was certainly not "my type." But he had just enough bad boy in him to enchant me. And plenty enough good man to keep me.
DeleteI wish I cleaned as regularly as you do.
I haven't been to "Bless Our Hearts" for a few days so it's nice to catch up and confirm that you are still trucking along. It's funny how different people have different ideas about how a garden should be. Some like everything neat and well-manicured - all growth under control - while others like a little wildness or apparent chaos - letting nature have some free rein. I am more drawn to the second group.
ReplyDeleteOh, you know I'll be here unless I die or break all my fingers.
DeleteIt just occurred to me that Glen's desire for order is why he's always trimming the azaleas at the wrong time of year, ensuring that there will be no blooms in spring. He doesn't do it to purposely prevent blooms, he's just trying to make the yard look tidier!
I don't ever think I've seen a full picture of your house behind the garden. It really is beautiful.
ReplyDeleteOne of my previous homes with a huge yard had ALL the garden ripped out and the yard concreted so the new owner had a place to store his trucks when he wasn't on the road. I wasn't too attached to that place anyway, but it did hurt my feelings a tiny bit because I'd been the one to plant everything.
ReplyDeleteThat Ashe magnolia bloom must be amazing to see on the little tree. I have to remember to plant amaryllis bulbs for pots on the terrace late in the year. I’m a cross between you and Glen when it comes to garden design. I don’t like random, but I don’t like perfectly arranged either. Off balance. Like me.
ReplyDeleteThose amaryllis DO look amazing. I miss our amaryllis. I should buy a few more.
ReplyDeleteYou gotta love a tree that gets partially crushed by a branch from another tree and just keeps on growing. That's the kind of garden plant I appreciate. Nothing too precious! My gardening style is a lot like yours -- a bit willy-nilly.