Wednesday, April 2, 2025

How We Learn To Love And A Possible Social Blunder


Those are the roses planted by Lily's front door. Aren't they electric? They greeted me when I went to pick her up to go to pottery class this morning. 

Man. I am getting good at this getting-up-early thing. I'm not saying I want to do it every day but it's not that hard and knowing that I will be doing something with two of my kids that I enjoy makes it all the easier. I have never not had a good time in pottery class except for the time I felt so defeated by my inability to create anything of use or even halfway interesting to look at. And I really still haven't although I do love my wavy bowl. Today I decided that I really wanted to sit back down at the wheel. I was terrible at throwing the first two classes I tried it and so gave it up and went on to slab building and pinch pots. 
But today was the day I wanted to try again. My teacher really did help me and the video I watched a few days ago on how to center the clay helped too. I felt more comfortable today even though my first try collapsed on me and the second try was so very far from perfect. BUT, I did it, I made a vessel (of sorts) and will trim and sand it next week. And I think I will try again. Funny how much I am starting to enjoy this stuff. And it is so very, very special having both Lily and Jessie with me in the class. As always when any of our family gets together, we laugh. 

So. Here's a funny story about something that happened today:
There was a piece that someone had done sitting by the edge of the sink and Lily and I were washing up something and we were a little concerned about how close it was to the edge. It was a cool piece and we both saw the same thing in it- a woman's nether parts. I mean, plain as day. And lovely! Someone else came up to the sink and we shared with the woman our admiration of this piece and Lily pointed out that there was definitely a vagina in there. 
Well. Turns out the woman herself had done that piece but the funny, awkward part was when she said, "I never thought of that as a vagina." 
Ooh boy. 
How could she not have? 
I hope we didn't ruin it for her. I mean, we sort of worship vaginas around here, having our home births and working in the birth field and all that other stuff. So to us, vaginas are as lovely as a flower's beautiful entryway for the bees. But I suppose that not everyone is of that mindset. 

We went to lunch after class which was very good. We ate at a noodle place and I got something called Jjajangmyeon. It looked like this. 


And underneath all that vegetable glory, there were noodles, beef, and mushrooms with a sauce. So, so good. 

And of course I did other things this afternoon, although NOT OUTSIDE. 



And that was in the shade on the porch. 
Here we go. Next thing up- HURRICANE SEASON! 
Why, why, why do we live here? 

But. In a complete segue, Levon got a card from his girlfriend today. It is absolutely and completely beautiful and the the girl asked him if he likes her, told him she loved him, and drew pictures of them together with butterflies and rainbows. There was even another little girl in one of the pictures who was hugging Levon and we are not sure about that one but we think that the girlfriend just loves her too and so why not? 
Oh, my heart. 
I was going to share the pictures but I can't. It is too pure and too much Levon's and not mine to share. I will tell you he made HER a card, declaring that yes, he liked her and that he loves her very much. Rainbows and hearts and a shining yellow sun are part of the accompanying artwork. 
I would never, ever make fun or make light of a romance between seven year-olds. That is plenty old enough for some children to start feeling the specialness of another child their age and the desire to form a bond of sorts with them. I never had a boy who liked me at that age but I can remember how deeply I felt I was in love with a boy at my school. He was two years older than me and I spent hours trying to figure out how we could somehow be in the same grade and classroom. I could skip a grade and he could be held back a grade but I knew he would never be held back. He was a smart boy. 
It was a doomed relationship. 
But all these years later I remember how handsome I thought he was, how kind, how smart. His mother was a teacher at our school and a good friend of my mother's and his father was our pastor so I saw him outside of school too and that only acted to make me think about him, admire him, fall a little in love with him, all the more. I will never forget the year I played Mary in the Christmas nativity play and he played...Joseph. My doll played the role of the Sweet Baby Jesus.

Oh my heart. 

So that's some of the things that have happened here today. As always, nothing earth-shattering, just small and simple things and I have been of a mind and mood to recognize and appreciate them more than I have been for awhile. 

Here's what the buckeye tree is looking like. 



I feel like a proud mama. 

Love...Ms. Moon










36 comments:

  1. I’m so happy you’re enjoying pottery, and what a gift to do it with your daughters! Keep at it- you’ll master the wheel soon enough (or never, but so what?!😄) Here’s to young love!!🥰 Xo, Rigmor

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    1. I don't want to master the wheel. I just want to be able to use it!

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  2. Those Roses are some of the most vivid I've ever seen, did they smell as divine as they look?

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    1. No. They are a hybrid, bred for blooms but they do have a slight sweet odor.

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  3. The other weather is coming on fast. We had a massive rain and thunder storm today with on flash of lightening that lit the whole studio. I looked on my phone and saw the nearest lightening strike was 0 miles away and take caution. Keep cool down there.

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    1. Oh boy. It's so scary when lightning just hits like that.

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  4. I'm so glad you had a good day at pottery and so glad you have such wonderful daughters, and so lucky they live so close.

    Maybe the lady doesn't know what a vagina or a vulva look like. Direct her to Georgia O'Keefe:)

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    1. Some prissy souls think okeefe is obscene!! I completely flattened one when I said, well the flower is the sex organ of the plant. She avoided me after that.

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    2. Here's another funny thing- she did say that she'd been thinking of a flower. So yes, appropriate for the O'Keefe reference.

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  5. Your pottery class is lots of fun. A pottery vagina is hilarious. I bet the maker never dreamed she could produce a vagina. Hopefully, everyone has a good sense of humor.
    It is Spring and love is in the air. Sweet Levon has his first girlfriend.
    The flowers on your Buckeye tree are fabulous.

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    1. It is lots of fun and it's a good way for us Moon women to be together doing essentially the same thing, together, but also on our own. I like that.
      Yes. Spring is here. Or, actually, HERE, we are entering summer.

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  6. Clay vaginas, there should be more of those. Seems that penis shaped items are a given- all over the place- buildings, gates, vases- Vagina bowls make sense.

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    1. I think there are lots of vagina/vulvas all around us but generally, they are showing up in nature whereas a whole lot of man-made objects are phallic.

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  7. This is the loveliest of posts. Every part of it. Darling Levon. I bet he’s going to be one of those steady men you know you can count on.

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    1. He was born a man and has already had seven years of practice at being a good man. I think he will be a steady one for sure.

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  8. "How could she not have?" Easy. Not everyone sees them. I don't see vaginas in things unless it is pointed out to me and then I can't see anything else which kind of spoils the item for me because I can no longer see the pretty thing I was looking at. And there's probably as many like me as there are of you.
    Childhood romances are so magical and sweet aren't they?
    That lunch looks fabulous, I almost dived into my screen to taste it.

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    1. Do you never look at flowers and see the beauty in their anatomy which can look so very much like our human reproductive organs? Well, yes. We are all different.
      Childhood romances can be the absolute sweetest.
      That lunch was excellent.

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    2. I honestly don't see flowers that look like that, maybe we don't have them or maybe I need to look closer. But I'll settle for just enjoying any flowers I see.

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  9. You have so many reasons to always feel like a proud mama. Can’t believe your temps are already hitting 90. No wonder the roses are so far along and look so stunning. Well, that and being close to Lily, I’m sure.

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    1. Yes! I can see those roses taking on the energy of all those people living in that house from Lily on down to Maggie! Maggie alone could power a garden full of roses, I think.

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  10. Congratulations on the pottery success! Well done for going at it again.
    Vagina or vulva?

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    1. Well, both in a way. There was a for-real opening framed by lacy lips. Although I'm sure that's not what the woman was going for.

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  11. The temp is up and down here and we are getting lots of rain this week. We may even have a bit of snow early next week. So Spring is trying to make a comeback but Winter doesn't want to let go yet.
    I'm glad you have that time with your daughters and pottery and lunch. Sounds like a fabulous time.

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    1. It really was a good time. It is every week.

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  12. I'm glad you're enjoying your pottery classes. And the company. That lady may perhaps be in denial about her vulva..

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    1. She may indeed. Or you know- she may have no idea! This is not impossible, I suppose.

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  13. Your vagina (well, not YOUR vagina) story reminds me of the What About Raymond episode when Marie made "the" sculpture and all the men thought it reminded them of something but they couldn't think what! Until Ray told them!
    Your story about Levon made me want to search for my first crushes online.
    Patricia

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    1. I never saw that episode but I can definitely see it happening.
      That boy I loved so much when I was young? He died about a year ago. How can this be?

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  14. Oh yes, keep on playing with clay on the wheel...and finding vaginas wherever they might appear! Flowers definitely! I retired and finally spent the next 12 years enjoying making clay things. Wonderful life. Now I need to breathe so have to stay out of clay making. Loved hearing of young loves.

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    1. I have heard that clay can be so very dangerous for the lungs. Silica dust? I'm glad you had your twelve years enjoying it.

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  15. I am glad that you had a happy day, Mary. I wanted to run right down there and give you a hug after reading the last few posts. I really would have...except...well...Florida. That you for allowing us to savor the day with you.

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  16. When I was in 3rd grade I had a boyfriend. I still remember his name, Mark Klar. He gave me a big gaudy ring with a glass gemstone. Three days later he asked for it back and gave it to my best friend.

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    1. I just googled his name with Houston and damn if he didn't turn up. He went to Lee High School, I went to Lamar. Everyone in our area went to one or the other. Graduated same year as me 1968. Has to be the same guy. Died in 2001.

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    2. Well, THAT was pretty shitty, for him to ask for his ring back! LOL

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  17. OK, I thought I commented on this post, but I guess I just read it! I think it's awesome you revealed the vagina in the pottery to its maker. Maybe it will make her think! I enjoyed your recollections of your young crush, too. Levon's young love is a sweet story.

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