Boy, was I in a snit this morning. And on into the afternoon too. Mr. Moon had asked me yesterday if I would drive up to Thomasville, Georgia, to give him a ride home after he drove the truck he sold yesterday up there and got the paperwork done on it.
"We can have lunch!" he said.
That strategy generally works but in this case, I was not in the mood to be driving to Thomasville and I told him so. We kind of left it at that.
This morning he announced that he had to be at the courthouse up there at eleven so he'd be leaving by 10:15 but that I didn't have to leave that early.
He announced.
Again I said, "I really don't want to do that. Also, have you seen the weather report? We're about to get a bunch of storms."
All he said was, "We'll beat the storms up there and I'll be driving you home so you'll be fine."
I HATE driving in heavy rain. Nothing creates such anxiety in me as that. And I was not happy that he just assumed that I would indeed be driving up to Georgia to help him out and on top of that, he did not even ask me how I was feeling. I'm sure he figured that since it's day three after the vaccine, I would be just fine.
That's a lot of assuming and figuring, you know?
But in reality there was no one else to drive up there and give him a ride back and I don't hate Thomasville at all and, and, and...
Still, I was pissy.
The drive was fine although the sky was as gray as lead and felt as heavy, too. Just as I got to the courthouse where the papers were being signed the heavens opened up and rain poured down. When the man came out of the building a few minutes later, he got drenched. He thanked me and thanked me and was so sweet but I still wasn't really having it.
But, you know- lunch.
We decided to go to a place where we used to go a long time ago which is a very pure southern country buffet. It had closed for a few years when they decided to move the operation to Tallahassee where it was quite popular. The matriarch of the business was no spring chicken and, in fact, when they made the big move to Tallahassee, I was shocked to see her working in the dining room, acting as an all-over hostess and and greeter and manager and example of southern friendliness. She wore big jewelry and plenty of make-up. Her hair was always done. As in- I know she had a regular weekly appointment at the stylist's. At least weekly. And she wore clothes that probably would not have been considered appropriate for her age but look- if a woman can stand in heels all day on a dining room floor, managing a huge restaurant, she's allowed to wear anything she wants in my opinion.
Oh. By the way. Her name is Miss Mary.
So when Covid came they sold the Tallahassee place and have reopened back in their old location and they're serving the same food which is a relief because some things just do not need to change. And we asked the lady sitting behind the cash register if Miss Mary was still with us and yes, she is. She is just enjoying retirement.
I think the woman who brought us our drinks today might have been her sister. She was definitely nearer to eighty than I am. I think. Glen said to me, "Honey, if everything goes south, you can always get a job here." I gave him a steely look and said, "Or you could."
While we ate, the weather outside got more and more intense. Rain was torrential, great booms of thunder shook the place. And at one point, everyone's phone in the entire restaurant gave out the emergency signal. More tornado warnings.
There weren't a whole lot of people there which was not surprising. Who wanted to be out in that weather? A couple did come in with a small dog in a dog carriage and the lady explained to us that the dog is so afraid of thunder that they had to bring her. They sat her up at the table in the carriage and folded napkins and put them on the table in front of her to place little morsels of tasty treats on. It was fine with me. It felt like we were all in it together.
Things finally cleared up a little bit and we made it to the car. Glen wanted to go to a bank there to deposit the check for the truck and then I said, "I think we should go to Goodwill."
They have an excellent Goodwill in Thomasville because there are a hell of a lot of rich people who live there.
And so we did. I found at least five cashmere sweaters but only bought two as the others were too small for anyone in the family except May and those sweaters just did not look like my Maysie's style. But I got two along with about twenty nice napkins, some with a ladybug and dragonfly pattern on them, some yellow damask, and some plain white cotton. All of this goodness PLUS a blouse I can wear over a bathing suit this summer, cost me $39 which sounds like a lot but when was the last time your priced a cashmere sweater? Not even any moth holes in them!
So I've washed them on delicate and hung them to dry in the laundry room. I know that's not how you're supposed to treat cashmere but that's what I do and it seems to be fine.
Just looked at my weather widget. It's supposed to start up again in seven minutes.
Okay.
Well, the garden is very happy, I'm sure. And that makes me happy too. I'll probably be canning green beans by this time next week.
You can put wool in the wash in cold or cool water. The washer is great; it spins out so much water. Then hang to dry. It's the dryer that felts wool. Heat plus pressure = felt. From someone who made a living from washing pounds and pounds and pounds of wool.
ReplyDeleteThank you! I would never put a wool or cashmere garment in the dryer. You have verified my technique.
DeleteOk, that was a little bit nerve-racking to read. I knew Tallahassee had bad weather today, same that affected us yesterday, so I hated to think of yall out driving in that mess. So glad to hear everything turned out alright in the end. And you even got new cashmere and napkins and a darling blouse! Love the pic of you and Lily, thanks for sharing it, it's always nice to see your sweet face. I hope you and your man have kissed and made up by now.
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When we were driving, the wind wasn't bad and the rain had calmed down so I wasn't so worried at that point. Tallahassee did get two tornados, though.
DeleteWe have kissed and made up. For sure.
This is going to sound odd, but it's so nice to read that you were pissy. I get pissy and feel so bad about it, but some days are like that. It's good to know that I'm not alone:)
ReplyDeleteWe go back to court tomorrow, again, for Jack. I don't think there'll be any problems but you never know. Gracie wants him more, right now, but we want to wait and see. Just makes me tense and irritable.
Your husband knows you well. As long as he keeps you fed, he's good. I'm the same way.
Of course I get pissy! And bitchy. Who doesn't? I don't feel that way a whole lot of the time but when I do, I certainly do.
DeleteI hope things went well in court today. Gracie may be doing better but she needs to show some long-term improvements in her behavior before she gets Jack more often. That's what I think, anyway. And Jack needs time to learn to trust her.
I'm glad you decided to go. You got good food and a Goodwill shopping. You think $39 sounds like a lot? In most thrift shops here if I paid $39 I'd get maybe two items, while for the price you got three clothing items and twenty napkins! I don't know any places here that sell cashmere sweaters.
ReplyDeleteGoodwill has gotten so expensive lately. Of course the funny thing is, you will pay exactly the same for a 100% cashmere sweater as you would for a polyester sweater. I hadn't seen cashmere in a thrift store in a long time so I was really surprised and happy.
DeleteI am finding it hard to imagine a thunderstorm as we have had sunshine and clear blue skies for what seems like weeks now. Cold in the morning ( almost frosty) and then up to mid teens temps ( C) in the afternoons! We need some rain....preferably quietly at night would be good!
ReplyDeleteThat weather does sound almost perfect! I hope you get some rain soon, though.
DeleteWell, I’m glad you got over your damn self and went to Thomasville for Mr. Moon (although I’m glad you allow yourself some attitude). AND, you came home with goodies! That blouse is a beauty. I love cashmere. I’ve never found anything in a thrift shop. The photo of you and Lily is beautiful. And you are BOTH beautiful.
ReplyDeleteHaha! I love that expression- get over your damn self. Amen. But you know, sometimes you just have to give in to the damn self.
DeleteYou've never found anything in a thrift shop? I can only imagine that you have not put the time into the searches that I have. It's not just shopping, it's a treasure hunt.
Thank you for your sweet words, Mitchell.
Your honesty about the day’s ups and downs made this a relatable and oddly comforting read. The way you wove together frustration, weather, memory, and thrifted treasure gave the whole thing a lived-in richness. And that dog in the carriage—somehow that detail summed up the whole mood perfectly. I shared a new post; you are invited to read.
ReplyDeleteYou know what? That's exactly how I felt about the dog in the carriage. It's presence was quiet and perfect.
DeleteCanning green beans? Next week? *Looooooooooonnnng envious sigh from up north.* Can I ask a question about that blouse? Is it Izod. I am too lazy to go look but I bought a blouse at a thrift store that looks quite like that if my memory serves me (which quite often it doesn't).
ReplyDeleteWell, that was a bit of hyperbole. It will probably be a few weeks at least before I am canning green beans. They sure look good after that rain yesterday.
DeleteThat blouse is an umgee brand. Looking that up, I see that it is a woman's wholesale clothing brand. Their things are not expensive, to say the least. Funny about that blouse. I saw it, pulled it out off the rack, held it up, threw it in the cart. Just that fast. I was really drawn to it.
Glad the day turned out all right for you. It's hard not to feel pissy these days, Mary!
ReplyDeleteI know and I know that we all get in moods like that but I really don't need to make my husband feel bad. Sometimes I just can't help it, though.
DeleteI'm always so happy to see pictures of you. Before I saw any in times past, I wondered what you looked like. Now I see how beautiful you always present yourself. In everything you wear, even overalls. What shows most of all is your kind and loving heart.
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Thank you, Patricia. I do appreciate your sweetness.
DeleteWell, that sounds like an adventurous day, and it worked out well even if it wasn't really your first choice of things to do. We never know where life will take us, right? I think your Goodwill purchases made it all worthwhile. :)
ReplyDeleteI thought of you at the Goodwill, Steve. You're such a good thrift shopping companion. We agree on the the tackiest of items.
DeleteOh no! You're human! Well, good to know. I probably wouldn't have wanted to do it either but what choice? Make him take the bus home?
ReplyDeleteI never look at the clothes when I go to a thrift store. Of course, I doubt I would find cashmere here in this dinky town.
My daughter asked me to send her a recent picture of me that I liked. I told her there weren't any recent pictures of me that I liked.
I don't think there is a bus between Thomasville and Monticello! He'd probably have to go through Jacksonville!
DeleteLooking for clothes that could be costumes was so much fun for me when I was in plays. I found some fabulous things over the years that really helped me get in touch with the character. Shoes, too. And I have found some very fine garments at thrift stores. You have to look at everything though.
I hear you about the picture. A picture of me that I like? A recent one? Hahaha.
Like you, I prefer not to drive in heavy rain or snow. Especially when there is always an Uber solution. You did it and had a nice lunch as well as found a few fabulous purchases.
ReplyDeleteI wash cashmere on the delicate cycle, with cold water.
The photo of you and Lily is wonderful. Nice smiles.
No Uber between Thomasville and Lloyd- trust me on that. We're here in a sort of dead zone.
DeleteYep. Cashmere in cold water. Seems to work fine for me.
I live in a town where there would never be need of cashmere in any form, but that blouse I think would go anywhere! Lovely to see a picture of you. The secret to a bitchy day is getting a few wins and that you did.
ReplyDeleteI think the whole day managed to improve my mood a great deal. Even the rain and storms served to remind me of how tenuous life can be, how small we humans are. It was a good thing.
DeleteGreat photo of you two jolly folks!! The injections for shingles made me cranky for a while- the rest of my life actually. Losing eye sight has double it so I am one heap of cranky! We should get together- we could start something!
ReplyDeleteWhen dennis has to take his truck out to another town north of here- He takes a bus home. Losing eyesight has its perks!
Oh, I know that you and I could start something- a lot of trouble, mostly!
DeleteNo bus service around here. Or Uber. Just miles and miles of rural country between here and Thomasville. I mean- Bigfoot could live in there and no one would know. Or as we call Bigfoot in Florida- "Skunk Ape." I suppose his hygiene is rather poor.
I like the Selfie. Glad most of the trip went okay, I don't like to make reluctant trips either or be on the Road during inclement weather.
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