Thursday, April 3, 2025

And Now I know What A Culm Is


I picked the last full camellia in the yard just now and put it in a vase. The shocking pink azaleas blossoms beside the porch have finally lost their joy and color and are turning brown as we speak. They certainly gave me a lot of pleasure, as did the camellias. 
I've seen the father cardinals feeding their young on the feeder which means that at least one whole generation of spring babies have hatched, feathered, and are so very close to living on their own. I love to watch the way the daddies pick up a seed and put it in the waiting beak of their young'un who is almost as big as the adult bird. I like that it is not just the mother who feeds the children but the father too. 
The bamboo still has perhaps two weeks more of showing up unannounced and unasked for. No matter how careful I am to try and find and kick each and every shoot, I always miss some and don't find them until they're too big to take out with a kick. As they grow upwards, they also grow in diameter and become less pliable and harder to kick.
Okay. That sentence is just nature and science so don't accuse me of anything.
But what happens is that I'll inevitably find four or five-foot tall bamboo growing someplace like the camellia bed or right beside the porch where it successfully camouflaged itself as part of the structure which means there's no way I'm taking that thing out without a saw. "How did I miss that?" I'll say to myself, gazing up at an almost mature stem which I just discovered is called a "culm". Now that I did not know. I am trying to prevent culms in the yard. 

I made a very nice discovery just a little while ago which is that the pot of giant begonias I'd left outside during winter's cold, protected only by a sheet, is not dead at all, but coming back beautifully. 


Having seen that, I checked out the pot where the split-leaf philodendron looked suspiciously dead, I dug around and found this.


Hello, my darling green things! 
Now if the banyon and tropical gardenia on the front porch start to show any signs of life, I will be most happy. And if they don't...aw well. 

I was looking for an empty pot when I found those two sweethearts this afternoon. Liz Sparks, whom I met for breakfast, gave me some rootlings of a plant known as horsemint and some other common names but its Latin name is the most fun of all and is Mornarda Punctata. I think it can be a bit invasive and we know where that could lead us so I think I'll try to grow it in a container. Liz says that it is a fabulous pollinator attractor. I'd seen the plant before as it is quite noticeable in bloom but did not know what it was. 


I made two appointments today. One for the kidney stone scan and one to get my shingles vaccine. The scan will be in a couple of weeks and I discovered that the order wasn't sent from my urologist's to the place I thought it had been sent to (and even given a card for by staff at the urology place) but the radiology department of the local hospital. 
Whatever. 
The shingles vaccine I know I need because I have heard that getting shingles is not an experience anyone would ask for and if it can be prevented...
I also made Glen an appointment to get one.
Our shingles vaccines are scheduled for tomorrow after we have had lunch with Ms. Magnolia June at her school as it is lunch with grandparents day there. We bring her lunch and join her in the school cafeteria. She wanted the same thing she wanted last year which is a ham and lettuce and tomato sandwich with mayonnaise, cheetos, and mini cupcakes. She called me herself several weeks ago to give me a heads-up about the date. This is the sort of thing that Maggie thrives on. And what elementary-aged child does not like being the special one every now and then?

I've heard the shingles vaccine can lay a person out for a day or two and I am such an over-reactor to vaccines I am expecting that. The damn thing is, is that I really don't feel that well now. Achy, tired (I took a nap!) and rather unexcited about life in general. And I see that Trump has managed to tank the world economy, starting right here in the good ol' USA by not having the slightest clue how tariffs work or what they are and although some good things are happening, especially as to people being stunned at his administration's stupidity, not one day goes by without a completely new low being hit.

Meanwhile, Barack Obama accidentally photobombed a little family taking family photos in Washington, DC.  


You know what I did when I saw that picture?

I cried. 

You know what I did just now when I looked at it again? 

I cried. I cried for what America was when we elected Barack Obama as our president and what it has become now. 
How in hell did this happen? 

Love...Ms. Moon









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  1. I've also read the shingles vaccination seems to be a deterrent to alzheimers. From a study in, I believe, Wales.
    Love that photobomb.

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    1. I read that too. It was the last little push I needed to schedule the appointments.

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  2. SO glad to hear yall are getting the shingles vaccine! I was stupid and kept putting it off. Sure as shit, 2 days after getting home from St George, I started breaking out in itchy spots. Yep, gd shingles. I couldn't believe it bc we had such a nice, relaxing time, I thought stress was a factor in getting it. Guess just getting older and weakened immune system was to blame. Who knows?! I did jump on the antiviral meds quickly and it helped slow the spread but I was still pretty damn miserable. Can't imagine having a full blown case. So yes, you might be down for a day or two but much better than dealing with this shit!
    Obama. God, how I miss that man. And normalcy. I have serious doubts that our country can heal from the insanity that has taken over. Not in my lifetime. It makes me happy to see your plants re-emerging, hopefully one day America will do the same.
    Angie D

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    1. Oh no! I am so sorry you got shingles! If I may ask- where were you itchy spots? If you'd rather not say, I understand.
      I hear the antivirals do help but I'd really rather just avoid the whole thing.
      Obama will always be my president. Always.

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    2. The worst ones were on my left chest and then went up and wrapped around my neck. The ones on my neck weren't *too* bad but still plenty itchy and zapping pains which make me yelp a little. Still having that but not as much or as often. Today I feel like a turned a corner toward the healing side. I'm really glad yall got the vaccine.
      Angie D

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    3. That just sounds so miserable, Angie. I really hope that you feel the effects of the virus less and less every day now.

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  3. Do you have two shingles vaccines as we do? I was laid low by the second one for a few days. But 2 days of side effects is better than getting shingles

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  4. I was knocked down by the second shingles shot. I stayed in bed all day. Just sort of wiped out. Thankfully was OK by the next day. The first shot was fine. Don't know why that second one is the slammer? Never had any issues with Covid or booster shots and no problems with flu shots. You may sail through fine and dandy. Hope so!
    Paranormal John

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    1. We shall see. I always react strongly to vaccines and my husband doesn't which makes me suspect that he thinks it's all in my head to which I must reply- WHAT ISN'T ALL IN MY HEAD? I've heard the second vaccine can be much worse than the first which I guess is proof that your body has developed an immunity and is going to fight if it sees that antibody again. You think?

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  5. I love that pic down at the cherry blossoms 🌸
    Obama reminds me of when America was America 🇺🇸

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    1. Yes. The cherry blossoms are the kiss of perfection there.

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  6. I was laid out by the shingles vaccine which comes in two doses. When I finally went back for the second, just under the wire, delayed because I was worried about COVID, the pharmacist said ih, I'm glad you came back! He said some people are so upset by the first one that they skip the second, silly, because you need both. But I'm very glad I did get it
    So much better than the disease.

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    1. Yes! I always look to you when I wonder what sort of reaction I'll have because I know you and I react in similar ways to vaccines. We shall see if that is what happens this time.

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  7. Does bamboo have an underground root system causing it to randomly pop up? I've never seen anything grow so aggressively as what you show on your property.
    I like the horsemint. The flower is lovely.
    Lunch with Maggie at her school sounds really nice.
    The shingles vaccine seems to work well. Everyone I know that had the vaccine evaded shingles. The others were not so lucky.

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    1. Oh yes. Bamboo spreads from rhizomes. And obviously, those suckers can grow a long way before they decide to pop up.
      I would love it if my horsemint has blossoms like that.
      I knew a grown man who was knocked to his knees by the shingles. I do not want to know what that feels like.

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  8. Interesting how people react differently to vaccines, especially shingles. We've had both 1st & 2nd and had no reaction to either one. But even if we did a reaction is certainly better than shingles. good an ys for getting it, you do not want to get shingles.

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    1. It is interesting. Glen and I react so differently and I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm just a whinging baby. When I saw the study results about the shingles vaccine and a possible reduction in dementia, I finally caved and made the appointments.

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  9. It is a two jab deal here as well. I don[t react to vaccines much at all. The two jab shingles did it to me. So, get ready to just listen to podcasts or stories for a couple of days. The second jab is not as rough.
    No mystery how we got here with the orange turd- no mystery at all ..you live in Florida, your neighbors are crazy AF.Ground zero Mar a Lardo. You know how we got here.Will we ever get out? Mend the gaping wounds? Probably not in this lifetime.

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    1. Not ALL my neighbors are crazy, I promise you. In fact, Jefferson County is often a blue county. We have many people of color who live here. I tell you what though- if Trump screws around with social security and medicare, his ass is going to be kicked hard. Do you KNOW how many old people live in Florida?

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  10. Your darling green things are inspiring. The monarda is spectacular. Our western version is also called beebalm, and the bees (and hummingbirds) do love it.

    Have fun at Maggie's Grandparent's Day. The menu sounds delicious!

    Very glad you signed yourself and Glen up for the shingles vaccine. It may knock you down for a day or so, but you do NOT want shingles (reiterating what everyone else has said, and you already know). Best of luck with the kidney stone scan.

    Chris from Boise

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    1. I am very excited to see if my beebalm blooms like that! First though, I suppose I must plant it!

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  11. I'm so happy that your begonias and philodendron have survived, two of my favourite plants, though I don't seem to be able to grow begonias. I had some when I lived in a different state and my mum took cuttings and soon had her entire back porch full of them. Love the photo bombing, I saw it on the news here last night. I wouldn't mind at all if Obama turned up in one of my photos, I liked him so much as President and still do.
    I hope the vaccine doesn't have too much effect on you.

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    1. Begonias are usually pretty hardy but I had not tested the sturdiness of this variety. I've always babied them. I'm so glad to see them coming back.
      Obama. Be still my heart.

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  12. I get you on the overlooking sprouts and suddenly dseeing a tall, thick specimen somewere obwious. For me it's ashen trees. I pull sprouts every spring - thosand of small sprouts - and no matter how dilligently I look and pull, then suddenly, WHAM in the middle of my blackcurran bush a 2 meter tall young ashen is growing, and as they have tap roots, they are nearly unkillable once they reach a size where they can't be pulled - somewhat like a tree-dandelion.
    Good luck with the shots!

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    1. From how you describe that tree, I am quite shocked that it isn't growing in my yard. I'm sure it would love it here along with all the other invasive plants.

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  13. How exciting to see those plants with their new shoots. I recently potted up a few dahlia tubers that had been wrapped in newspaper over winter and can't wait to see if they will sprout. They look very dead at the moment!

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    1. Isn't it just the most exciting thing to see plants come alive after seeming death?

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  14. I had an absolutely terrible reaction to the first shingles vaccine. The only reaction I've ever had to a shot. I have to go back for the second. New study links the vaccine w/a slowing of dementia risk, although that still must be confirmed. I saw where Obama responded to the family whose pic he photobombed. He is just a lovely man, in every way.

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    1. Well, we shall see what these vaccines do to us. I guess as long as we never get shingles, it will have been worth it. I saw that study and it made me want the shot even more.
      Obama IS lovely. He just is.

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  15. I had shingles in my 50's. Horrific experience. Mine followed my sciatic nerve down from my hip past my knee. I still have nerve pain and just started PT for a dragging left foot they are attributing to the shingles 10 years ago. SO get the vaccine. We both got the vaccine then, a year later they came out with the new one. It is two shots, weeks apart and the first one made us nap the day after. No reaction to the second. So fingers crossed. Any reaction is better than shingles, trust me.

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    1. Oh god. That sounds horrific! I'm not sure I was aware that shingles could cause such permanent damage. I will take your word on how important it is to get this vaccine.

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  16. My BiL got shingles and it was horrible for him. He had such nerve pain on and off for quite a few months. It lasted way too long. I had the 2-shot shingles vaccine and didn't have a problem with it. I'm glad you two are getting the vaccine and I hope you don't have a reaction.
    Best of luck with the kidney stone scan. Happy Friday, Mary!

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    1. Ugh. Your poor brother-in-law. Maybe we will react to our vaccines the way you did. One can hope.
      The scan is a few weeks away.

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  17. I think where we are now is a direct result of Obama getting elected. That's the America we lived in then and still do. It just wasn't so overt back then. That and women having the audacity to run for president. I saw on FB that the Inspector General at the DoD is opening an investigation into Hegseth and the security breach. I'm surprised Trump has allowed it, so far at least. I thought he fired all the IGs.

    I did not protect my pot of begonias this year and so far no sign of survival. Are you getting the two shot shingles vac? I should get it, all us of a certain age should, but I just don't want to get laid low for a few days. Piss poor excuse, I know.

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    1. I think you're right. Remember the Tea Party? That is when the outward expression of racism and hatred really got started, I think, and it was formed as a direct reaction to Obama's presidency.
      Give your begonias time. They may decide to spring forth for you.
      Yep. Two shots vax. I know what you mean about laying low but hey- look at it as a chance to read or watch TV.

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  18. I've had shingles which was quite unpleasant, between my eyes, on my forehead but I know of many people who have had it much worse. Mine was cut short by using Valtrex, an anti viral which worked amazingly well.
    I have to say, I am very glad I don't have bamboo in my yard. It would drive me crazy/er.

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    1. From what I've read, shingles can even get IN the eyes and hell, no! I'm glad the Valtrex worked so well for you.
      You know how crazy the bamboo makes me.

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  19. Begonias are the hardiest little plants! I have seen them come back from a sure and certain death many times. In fact now that I think of it, I've got a lot of plants that came back from the brink of death. In fact now that I think of it, it is a prerequisite for any plant in my care.

    I know. I miss 'sense' too. I miss the sense of 'we' and 'us'. Now it is 'them vs us', and it is just mean.

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    1. Ha, Debby! As I say to my plants, "Root hog or die." Do y'all say that in Pennsylvania?
      I miss empathy, kindness, and intelligence. And I don't think "mean" is the word. I think it is "cruelty."

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  20. I suspect a lot of what we're going through now is direct backlash to Obama. His election upset so many conservative white supremacist types that they retaliated by electing Trump (having been unexcited by Romney). Obama's successes just made them all the angrier -- and here we are.

    (I didn't cry at those photos, but it was so great to see Obama again. Now there's a REAL leader!)

    I'm glad your begonia and philodendron have survived. Plants are pretty hardy but I don't know what to think about a banyan up your way. You're pretty far north for that, aren't you?!

    Oh, and good thinking getting the shingles vaccine.

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    1. Yes, as I said to Ellen, I think the Tea Party formed in direct reaction to Obama getting elected and that's where the outward expression of hate and racism and all the other horrible "isms" started. But...how did we get so MANY of those people? It is terrifying.
      Yeah. The banyans may be well and truly dead.
      We got our vaccines at Publix. Of course.

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  21. Begonias are survivors. I have more than once had a pot of dirt sit for over a year and then surprise me with a healthy begonia. Good you are getting the shingles shots. I got mine after a talked to a 30 year old acquaintance in the park who got it on her face and almost lost her eyesight. The first shot was mildly sore but the second was a much more severe reaction. Still I am very glad that I got them and I have been reading about the connection to a 20% reduced chance for Alzheimers. The studies look good and that sounds significant.

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    1. I have a prayer plant like that. Every winter it apparently dies and then, give it some time and back it comes.
      Can you imagine getting a disease that could destroy your eyesight and/or cause permanent nerve damage, knowing you could have prevented it? I'm not saying your friend did that. She was so young it was probably very unexpected for her to get shingles. But really- if you have access to the vaccine, why not?
      I like that possibility of the reduced chance of Alzheimers.

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  22. Yes, what America has become brings me to Tears also, it's beyond tragic and embarrassing. I bet that little Family cherishes that Photo, what sweet serendipity to capture thru the Eye of your Lens. Yes, the Shingles Vax is painful, you get Two, spaced apart, not Fun but very necessary, I'm glad we got ours. I remain all Vaxxed up.

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    1. It IS embarrassing to be an American right now. It just is. I felt this way when Bush was president but I had no idea how much worse it could get. And has gotten.
      You know that family was thrilled. What a wonderful and unique family portrait!
      Let's all get vaccinated while we still can!

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