Thursday, June 8, 2023

May There Be Traveling Mercies And Fun Times Galore


The wild phlox that I brought from my previous yard has begun blooming. I have it planted all over the place and it is one flower that seems to do well here. It is quite tall and healthy looking this year, no doubt because of all the lovely rain we've gotten. 

I took another walk this morning which went better than the last one I took although once again I waited too long and risked spontaneous combustion. WHY do I do this to myself? My inherent need to suffer is going to kill me one of these days. 

I got a text from Jessie asking if I wanted to meet for lunch. She had to go to Costco and since I was just about to text her and ask if she wanted me to come and help her with the boys while she packed, I agreed to meet up with them and we had our lunch and then I took the boys to go home while she went to Costco but on the way to their house I said, "Let's go to the Goodwill bookstore!" and they said, "Okay," knowing full well that there was the chance of me buying them something. We went to a different Goodwill bookstore than the one we usually go to and it is a treat. What I really wanted was a new jigsaw puzzle. I have been consciously limiting myself with the one I've been working on, afraid to finish it because I didn't have another one to start as soon as I was done with it. 
Typical addict behavior, of course. 
They have many, many puzzles at that store but I only found one I was even halfway interested in. As I have said, I am not drawn at all to the cute puppies and kittens or the nostalgic images of old fishing villages and cottages but the one I got today was so absurd that it tickled me. 


I think the random pottery and butterflies really sell it, don't you? And of course- chickens. 
And yes, I bought the boys some things. August picked out a game and Levon picked out a put-it-together project what has moveable pieces and they both got a few books. So that was fun. 

And then we went back to their house where both Mama and Daddy were working their way to the goal of getting the car loaded and being on their way before dark. Not only are they packing for the summer but Jessie and Vergil are flying to a wedding in Colorado this weekend while the boys stay with their grandfather and his darling wife whom the boys call Go-Go. So- Jessie was stressing out about what she was going to wear to the wedding all the while packing clothes for the boys that will be suitable to the weather (much chillier in NC than here) and all of the blankets and pillows and billions of other items necessary to life with two small children. I tried to help a little bit and did a few tiny things but the best thing I did was getting the boys that project kit because from the moment we got back to their house to the moment I left, they were both completely wrapped up in it.

Finally, I told everyone good-bye again and wept a tiny bit when I hugged and kissed Jessie before I got in my car. Every year I go through this, don't I? So thrilled for them all to be able to spend time where their daddy grew up with their mountain relatives who love them as much as we do, while at the same time, grieving the fact that I will not see them for a month and then for only a few days. 
I always survive and somehow, miraculously, they do too! 

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I see that Pat Robertson has died and none too soon. You know I don't really believe in the sort of karma that would cause him to die during Pride month but he did indeed die during Pride month and I'm sure that if he could send messages from the beyond, he'd be blaming his death on the evil gays with their evil ways. I'm sure his followers are claiming that on his behalf. But damn, the guy was 93. He lived long enough and then about another seven or eight decades in my opinion. 

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Just as I could not stop thinking about Tina Turner on the David Letterman show, I now can't stop thinking about a short video that Sabine linked for me in my comments. I cannot find a Youtube of the clip that allows me to embed but click HERE to see it. 
Lucille Ball had no fucks to give about telling a male talk show host to get his hands off women and I have suddenly realized that she was worthy of even more respect than I could imagine.

Thank you, Sabine. I needed that. So does the rest of the world. 

Love...Ms. Moon






36 comments:

  1. Lucille rocked that......and that clip must be ancient! She earned much more respect from me than I already possessed for her! Ah..the family heading out to NC.......... but you will see them soon! Pat Robertson.....yes..... lived way too long. Didn't he have a *500 club* TV show back in the 70's or 80's? I had a very devoutly religious work partner that used to schedule her lunchbreaks around that show so she could watch. Ugh. And your new puzzle is *you*. !
    Susan M

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    1. Robertson was such a hateful man, blaming the 911 attacks on gays supporting abortion and said that Haiti deserved the horrible earthquake that decimated it. Hateful, hateful, hate-full. I wonder how many people he scammed and how much money he made in the scamming.

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  2. Patty playing patty cake with the devil hiself down yonder in the fires! That is what I reckon. You notice how Kilauea is throwing up all over the place? Even hell is make ill by Pat.
    Lucille was GREAT I had never seen that one- no little mousie woman in the kitchen for her! She inspires!
    Gosh, another summer with the little boys so far away. Photos of them texted to Mer - keeping them a bit closer in that way. Iphones are a great invention.

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    1. If I did believe in hell, it would be such a pleasant thought to think of him getting down there and being absolutely shocked that St. Peter himself had not greeted him at the pearly gates.
      Jessie has already sent me some pretty cute pictures. Thank goodness for our phones and those pictures!

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  3. Your new puzzle is your view out the back door, across your yard, Perfect. You are the perfect MIL, too. Like my mom, showing up to help whenever asked.
    I never saw Pat Robertson's show on TV. I remember he started that Christian Coalition or some such name, and ran for the Republican presidential nomination. Then he butted in on various issues over his career. That is what people of opinion on all sides do, however.

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    1. Yes. That is what people of all opinions do but Robertson's opinions were so horribly bigoted and hateful. He was just a terrible person, wrapping himself in the crucified Christ's loin cloth. Ugh.
      I am NOT the perfect MIL. Trust me! But I try to be a decent one at least.

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  4. I said a hoorah this morning when it was announced ole Pat was called to wherever his narrow white supremacist soul was heading!
    It was the 700 Club ... I imagine it will carry on for the Robertson fanatics!
    I wonder how the other grandparents are about only having a month every year with those kids ... or do they get more then one visit during the year? You have them near and dear all year except for their one summer month away! Rest up and plan the coming events for the rest of the year!
    Enjoy your new puzzle ... It's a good one! I have gotten a lot of puzzles from that company!

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    1. I mostly feel guilty about being glad when someone dies but in this case...
      Nah.
      I am sure the other grandparents do very much miss these boys and I am so aware of that. They usually get a few extra visits a year and actually, they spend more than a month up there. I think it's almost two months.
      I'm looking forward to starting that puzzle.

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  5. thank you Marcia. Yes, the 700 club. I couldn't recall........
    Susan M

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  6. Lucy truly was a queen. You’d think David wouldn’t have to be told repeatedly and he seems a little stunned each time. I’m going to see if there’s a goodwill book store near me, sounds like a wonderland. Enjoy your puzzle!
    Xoxo
    Barbara

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    1. God- that is so true. That guy wasn't particularly swift at learning, was he? And I love how Lucy brooked no defense. Just do it. Do it, David.

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  7. That puzzle was designed for you, Mary! It's like a shelf in your house, all sorts of things there.
    I hear your annual vacation sads. You're so attached. As you say, you'll all survive.

    Lucy rocked! Not just once, but every time he grabbed! And I liked the young woman who firmly elbowed him! Great stuff.

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    1. I loved the woman who elbowed him too. St. Lucille Ball, The Defender Of Women Against Creeps.
      Yeah. I do get sad when the Weatherfords leave but I know it's good for all of them.

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  8. I think Pat Robertson got a big surprise when the final moments came.

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  9. True story. Lucille Ball grew up not far from here in Jamestown New York. I live over the state line in Pennsylvania. Tucked away in my county is a farm house on a back road, which is where her grandparents (step-grandparents?) lived.

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    1. I did not know she was from that part of the country! She was a force of nature from the beginning, wasn't she?

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  10. Yay Lucy! One of my favourite women. I like how one of the women elbowed him in the ribs after Lucy said put your hands away.
    You will miss Jessie and the boys, but a month goes by pretty fast these days and you have that lovely new puzzle to do and all the usual garden and house things.

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    1. You are so right! And I can't even begin to keep up with the garden and the house and the yard! And as I said above, I too loved the woman who elbowed him. What a creepy creep he was.

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  11. You will be busy doing a jigsaw puzzle, smooching with Mr Moon, tending the other grandkids and before you know it they will be back you will wonder where time went.

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    1. I know. You are right. It's just that when they leave I feel so bereft.

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  12. That is my sort of puzzle! I hope that it takes your mind off not seeing those lovely boys.

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  13. I always loved Lucille Ball - and now I love her 1,000 more. And she wasn't even pretending to play nice. She just said it as it was!

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    1. I know! She wasn't making a suggestion that the guy might want to remove his hands from the women's bodies. She was ordering him to do it. He sure was a slow learner though.

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  14. Pat Robertson died and Trump got indicted...yesterday was a good day all around!

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    1. As Larry David would say, "Pret-ty, pret-ty good."

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  15. Susan Z from OhioJune 9, 2023 at 7:26 AM

    Damn! That Lucille Ball is fierce! I have no words for how much I love that video. After the third time she has to tell him to keep his hands off, it's clear that she's not making a joke. You can hear the nervous laughter of the mostly female audience. Make him uncomfortable, Lucy. We see you blazing the trail--ahead of your time. Marvelous.

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    1. Can you imagine what all Ms. Ball had been through in her life and career that made her so adamant about not letting a man get away with treating women like that? Yeah. She was not joking.

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  16. “ I always survive and somehow, miraculously, they do too”

    Well observed xx

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    1. It's just amazing that they can live without me.

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  17. Yeah, I heard about Pat Robertson. I couldn't muster much enthusiasm for his death given that he lived 93 years. Why didn't God smite him down much, much sooner?! I guess to keep the rest of us on our toes.

    That Lucille Ball clip is fabulous! She had a reputation for being quite formidable and demanding (in a good way). She was a smart, tough cookie, as my mother would have said.

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  18. I clicked on the link and watched Lucille Ball and she inspired me. She looks like she was post menopausal and completely out of fucks. I shall try to emulate her.

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  19. 37 paddington: every year you get a bit sad when Jessie’s family leaves for the summer. I understand it so much. I miss them too, but then I look forward to your own trip to the mountain. Our children expand our world.

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