Another walk on yet another gloomy, doomy day. Muggy too. As in- where did winter go? It's so confusing. You just start to get acclimated to the cold and then the heat and mosquitoes show up again.
But yes, I did take another walk, and this time I walked down to Lloyd Creek Road and then walked a half mile on it, turned around and came home. I didn't feel like I was going to die but I didn't walk very fast, either. I saw a dead armadillo and a dead snake. Because I am kind, I did not take pictures of the poor creatures.
Here's the railroad track.
Yep. Looks like a railroad track, doesn't it? They keep it pretty tidy.
And here is a picture of the flags in front of the Trump lovers who live right across the street from the dump. Not that there's anything wrong with that! But hey- Dump rhymes with Trump. Coincidence? I think not.
They've been flying those fucking flags upside down since Biden came into office.
It was a Candie day and for some reason, I end up doing some housework myself on those days. Today was mostly all about laundry and bed-making and sweeping the floor after Glen took the four ferns back outside because they were shedding a dry green leaf confetti. "What are you DOING?" he asked me when I was sweeping. "That's Candie's job."
"I know, I know," I said. "But, but, but..."
The man had to go to town to do some business and after I got back from my walk he called and said that if I hadn't eaten my lunch he'd love to meet me at a restaurant right off the interstate which I thought was pretty sweet. We had a date! The restaurant is one of those supposedly "farm to fork" places and they do have a lot of growing going on right there. Greenhouses and mushroom cultivation and citrus trees and vegetables, all right there on the property. Also chickens!
An artist's rendition of the place. It's semi-accurate although I have no idea what those cloud/mountain things in the background are supposed to represent. This is not saying I don't like the picture. I very much do.
Here's what the front garden looks like as a photograph.
Even a tractor for the kids to play on. That bare tree in front on the right? It's a pear tree and it has a secret.
Super scary! Some poor child probably left it behind one day.
The food there is good but not always healthy. We decided to split a wild boar burger and a Cobb salad. The server said that if they plated the shared meals in the kitchen, there would be a charge of three dollars but that you got more food that way. Mr. Moon, who was in a most genial mood, said that would be great!
And then she brought out our salads and I said, "Well, bring me a to-go box too because this is more than enough for lunch." And it was. As for it being a salad- well. Let's just say if you'd had a couple of tortillas, you could have made about five delicious quesadillas from those two salads. There was enough cheese for ten salads PLUS bacon. And some lettuce and tomatoes.
Of course we had to try a bite of our boar burgers and they were tasty and there was no way we couldn't eat any of the french fries so that happened too and yet, there was still enough left to fill up the to-go container with no room to spare.
Of course we had to try a bite of our boar burgers and they were tasty and there was no way we couldn't eat any of the french fries so that happened too and yet, there was still enough left to fill up the to-go container with no room to spare.
We had a good time. We're in a sweet place right now, Mr. Moon and I. You know how tides come and go? Our tide is high and that is always a joy. We talk and find each other incredibly funny and laugh a lot. So we had a very fine time eating and looking at their garden and it really does look good with all the winter vegetables as green and sturdy as they can be.
Of course neither one of us is hungry again yet, but I've made the beginnings of one of my favorite soups which is the creamy cashew butternut squash soup from the NYT's food app. I've got the squash and also a sweet potato because that's how I make it southern, the cashews, onions, garlic, broth, ginger, and curry spices all simmering away.
I've also got naan bread dough theoretically rising and in a little while I'll puree the soup and add the coconut milk and taste it for needed salt and pepper and a little more of this and a little more of that.
Yet another fuck you, Jay Leno! dinner.
After I'd gotten all of that together, I suddenly felt as if I'd hit a wall. Between the walk and the little bit of housework and going out and then chopping and steaming and peeling and mincing and so on and so forth, I was done.
I think, however, after I finish this delicious martini I am sipping I'll be just fine. And oh, how good those clean sheets will feel! My floors, thanks to Candie, are spick and span and smelling of Fabuloso and vinegar, and the bathrooms are sparkling.
Yet another fuck you, Jay Leno! dinner.
After I'd gotten all of that together, I suddenly felt as if I'd hit a wall. Between the walk and the little bit of housework and going out and then chopping and steaming and peeling and mincing and so on and so forth, I was done.
I think, however, after I finish this delicious martini I am sipping I'll be just fine. And oh, how good those clean sheets will feel! My floors, thanks to Candie, are spick and span and smelling of Fabuloso and vinegar, and the bathrooms are sparkling.
So a very fine Friday indeed.
I have a sneaking suspicion that Mr. Moon's good mood may be at least partially due to the fact that he is going to leave to go to Arkansas to hunt ducks on Sunday. He'll be going with his Nashville friends and he always loves hanging out with those guys. He's making plans to take oysters up there and will be gone for a few days. Whatever it is, making him so happy, I'm glad for it because I get the overspill. He told me to go ahead and eat all the cauliflower and definitely the cooked peas and carrots while he's gone. I told him I would. I will also bake him cookies tomorrow to take with him.
Golly, I'm such a good wife.
Golly, I'm such a good wife.
And I've got a good husband so it all works out.
Happy Friday, you dear people.
Love...Ms. Moon
I do understand the tides. We're struggling right now, but I know that low tides come, and low tides go. That knowledge is the secret of long marriages.
ReplyDeleteYes. Sometimes it is best to just hold on and wait for the next rising tide.
Deleteyes, the tides are part of our life..... glad you are on *up* tide! Nothing better! Clean sheets, martini.....soup and bread..... and your love. Happy weekend!
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Thank you, Susan. I hope you have a good one, too.
Delete37paddington: Love those up tides where everything makes you laugh together, and shared history means you can have whole convos with just looks and laughs. Sounds like a sweet day and a sweet evening too.
ReplyDeleteYes, I knew you'd understand. I love all of the private jokes and language between long-time couples. It's such a sweet and lovely thing.
DeleteHad to laugh about cleaning on cleaning day. That happens around here a lot. I always feel the need to clean what know Diana hates the most, though that really is changing the bed, and I can't do that any more. Sadly, last cleaning day I was away at the dentist when she arrived. When I returned she came in with my clean sheets and told me she'd deep cleaned, with me out. And had she ever! Places I never ever dusted.
ReplyDeleteCandie has offered to change my sheets and I always say, "No thank-you. I'm fussy about it." And I am. Same with the laundry. I want it done my way. Scrubbing mildew? However anyone wants to do THAT is fine by me. That is a blessing.
DeleteI love to read about your Fridays. And this one was particularly good. Our marriage etc was more a roller coaster than a tidal system, both of us having a healthy firecracker side.
ReplyDeleteSometimes I try to imagine what your marriage etc was like and I always come to the conclusion that you must have loved each other VERY much. I know you do not suffer fools, not that I think HP was one of those. But you know what I mean. And he had to be the kind of man who was not so threatened by a very strong woman. I bet there were lots of sparks of every kind.
DeleteAin't that the truth!
DeleteAnd happy Friday dear Ms Moon. That soup always sounds so tasty when you make it. And naan, well num.
ReplyDeleteIt was, as always, pretty darn good.
DeleteIt's how marriages, and I guess all relationships, tend to swing on a pendulum. I hated my husband for the last few months of last year and now we're fine. I don't know what changed but it's nice not to have that feeling anymore.
ReplyDeleteGood on you, going to a mall with your daughter. Stepping out of your comfort zone. Sending hugs.
I bet it IS nice not to have that feeling anymore! God. Marriage is hard enough without hating your partner.
DeleteSending hugs back your way.
That Soup has my mouth watering. The upside down Flags the MAGAts are displaying is a disgrace. But, not much about his Supporters surprises me anymore, they no longer want a Democracy, clearly.
ReplyDeleteYeah. I sort of think it's a disgrace too. At least they don't have the giant Trump flags flying on their truck anymore.
DeleteA beautiful day from start to finish. I'm a little astonished at the amount of food at that restaurant. Your squash is what we call butternut pumpkin and I make a soup with it and sweet potato, but no cashews. I've never added curry to it but think I'll give that a try next winter. I love the grey fox in the pear tree.
ReplyDeleteIt is an excellent soup. After it is all cooked, you puree it and add coconut milk. So very good.
DeleteI hope you're already having a happy Saturday by the time you read this. What a nice Friday all round. And your favorite soup looks amazing.
ReplyDeleteYou should see the soup in its creamy state with a little yogurt and paprika on top. It's a lovely soup in all ways.
DeleteI remember when I lived in the US how stunned I was at the portion sizes. I remember going to place called Fat Heads in PGH and nearly fell over when I saw the size of my salad - even my MIL remarked on it. On a positive note, I guess being able to have a doggy bag made up for all that excess! And as for the cleaning lady, well I could never do it. I'd be running around in front of her saying "oh let me do that"!
ReplyDeleteThe portion sizes are ridiculous and why restaurants don't offer smaller portions alongside the "regular" ones is beyond me. But it is nice to be able to eat leftovers the next day.
DeleteYour description of how you'd act with a cleaner is pretty much how I do it.
Well, since I am divorced, I do not remember many high tides in my marriage. I think all of the resentments drowned out the happy times.
ReplyDeleteGlad you had such a nice day with Mr. Moon.
Hope you enjoy your weekend, Mary!
That's so sad, Ellen. I'm sorry that your marriage was like that. A bad marriage is a terrible thing to try and endure. I know from my first one.
DeleteIsn't it ridiculous how much food restaurants serve? I don't get it. I mean, I guess it's not a bad thing if you spread it out across a couple of meals but a lot of people don't.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you and Mr Moon are in a good place. I'm sure he's excited about the hunting but I'm sure he's also excited about coming home to you when it's done!
I can't imagine leaving that much food behind. I really can't.
DeleteI think you're right about Glen. He's pretty much living his best life.
once again out lives are parallel. the husband and I are also in a good place, getting along well. did out supply run hitting the liquor warehouse, Costco, and the Evil Empire.
ReplyDeleteI think I've made that soup. I don't remember but it sounds familiar.
It's a really good soup.
DeleteI'm glad that you and your Mister are floating on the high tide too. It sure is nice, isn't it?
Looking at your land and surroundings remind me of that film
ReplyDelete“ fried green tomatoes”
Yep. Pretty much. The film was made in Georgia and we're more Georgia than Florida here in the north part of the state. At least in some ways.
DeleteMarriage and even life mirror the high and low tides of the sea. I always feel we are riding the waves. The restaurant sounds pretty good; having enough for a second meal is pretty good too. Your soup with naan sounds delicious.
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