Saturday, August 24, 2024

A Visit


 Two puppies and their parents came over today for a visit and it was so nice to see them. Vergil's truck needed brake work and Glen has all the equipment and stuff so out Vergil came while Jessie was with the boys at a birthday party and then she came out and brought them. She went into the Glen Den to check on those guys after they'd been here for awhile and found them like this. They were watching the FSU-Georgia Tech game on the TV because they'll watch anything on the TV. The big guys had planned to watch it after the brake work and so it was on. For some damn reason, the game was held in Dublin, Ireland which was the most interesting thing about it to me. I watched zero minutes of it. 

Jessie and I went to the Hilltop to get lunches for all of us and that was fun. The Hilltop is always a trip with all of the different types of people there to buy food and the people who work there. It's pretty much a microcosm of this country and I love the people-watching aspect of it. The food's pretty good too. I mean- for a tiny little place in the middle of just about nowhere that only has food to-go. As I have so often pointed out, the variety and choice are fairly amazing for such a small kitchen. Today we got three shrimp po'boys, ten hot wings, ten mild wings, an order of chicken strips and fries, sides of potato salad, onion rings, and fried okra. And they serve it up pretty fast. 

While everyone was here, Glen got out some pictures that had been in the possession of a relative who died fairly recently. There were pictures of Glen's people from way, way back. And school pictures of him as a little guy. We could see both August and Levon in those as well as in some of the other relatives, his nephews mostly. There were also pictures of our children playing with their Tennessee step-cousins and sitting on the laps of Glen's parents. After we'd looked at all of those, Glen got out his collection of the newspapers that had pictures of him from when he was playing ball. It's so funny to me that basketball was such a huge part of his life for years and I never got to see him play once. 
I had to take a picture of this.


He's number 33. Look at that glorious man! 
The caption says, BATTLE UNDER THE BOARD- The fight for a rebound in a basketball game can be rough, as this scene from Saturday's Auburn-Tennessee game at Memorial Coliseum shows. AU's Glen Moon (33) nudges the face of Tennessee's Wayn Tomlinson (51) as the ball bounces off the backboard. Tennessee's Doug Ashworth (43) also leaves the floor while Eddie Johnson of Auburn (left) watches. 
Photo by Kennard Halacker.

I love the phrase, "...nudges the face of Tennessee's Wayn Tomlinson."
Anyone who thinks that basketball is a non-contact sport is simply wrong. Basketball can beat up a body. Both of his knees were wrapped because he'd had surgery on both of them earlier in his college career. I cannot help but wonder if some of the neurological problems he has now stem from those years of pushing his body to its limits and beyond. 
Which he still does. 

His first wife was with him in the glory days. They married very young and she was the one who got to move to Europe with him when he played pro ball there. In some ways, I wish I'd been the one with him then but in other ways, I know it never could have happened. Marrying an athlete was simply outside of my reality. Hell, dating an athlete was outside of my reality. And I have much to thank her for. They moved to Tallahassee so that she could attend the dance program at FSU and one thing led to another and when she wanted to move to New York City to try and start a career, that country boy said, "Ummm. Don't think so," and they got quite amicably divorced and he was there, ripe for the picking when I met him, wanting children and before I knew it, he had moved in with me, bringing his first-marriage casual china and a dog named Honeybun. 
And the rest is history. 
He overcame my aversion to jocks with the same ferocity he fought for the ball on the court. 
And thank god he did. 

It seems to me that these days August and Levon do not have a lot of use for me. I am sort of like a very well-known and comfortable piece of furniture. There if you need me, not worth a great deal of thought if you don't. Unless of course, treats are involved. And I did bake a lovely cinnamon-sugar crusted banana bread before they got here which interested them a great deal. Also, Levon wanted to make a bracelet. He's been wearing the necklace he made at my house a long time ago and wanted a bracelet to go with it. That, I could help him with. We got out the beads and the elastic cording and all I did was cut and tie the elastic for him. He chose and strung the beads. Here's a picture I got as they were leaving. 


Stylin', for sure. 

I wanted to read them a book and they picked out a weird and horrible children's book called "Love You Forever" 


which, despite the weirdness and horribleness of it, always makes me cry. I told them that no, I was not going to read it to them for that very reason but they insisted and I'd probably read them the Bible if that's what they wanted and so of course I did. 
They watched me closely to see the exact moment I began to cry. 
"I can see tears!" August said, as the inevitable began to happen. They were fascinated by the fact that I had said I was going to cry and then I did. 

Cruel, cruel children. 
But I think it touched them too. 

I'm making my favorite Creamy Cashew Butternut Squash Soup tonight in hopes that it will help reverse some of the unhealthiness of our Hilltop lunch and also because dammit, I am not going to let my one butternut squash that ripened and one of the two acorn squashes that ripened go to waste. I always use more than one type of squash and a sweet potato in it. And it is so good. I've got dough rising to make naan too. This will only take me about two hours to make. My poor husband. 

And so now I really must run and get this supper started. I have made the dough, as I said, and partially cooked the squashes so that I can easily peel them. Still, it will take forever. 

See you tomorrow.

Love...Ms. Moon







35 comments:

  1. Awww - those boys love and need you no matter how it seems! They are so very blessed to have you and their whole familyđŸ„°Sending you all many hugs- xo, Rigmor

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    1. I know they love me. And I know they're little boys. They are so lucky to have all the family they have and to them it's just the normal thing to do which is sort of beautiful.

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  2. they may not say they need you *today*......but they need you and love you on all days. That top photo is priceless......like race horses they are....all arms and legs (or legs and legs?)......and that leather couch looks so comfy! .......on with your soup!
    Susan M

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    1. Well, no one can make a peanut butter, raisin, and honey sandwich like I can. So there is that.
      They are like little colts, aren't they?
      The soup was so good.

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  3. Wow. That Glen Moon is taller than the face he's nudging and equally tall as the long legged fellow behind him. Sweet the boys settled into the game instead of changing the channel.

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    1. Glen is a very tall man. Almost shockingly so.
      The boys were sweet.

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  4. Grannie takes a back seat- Flora Jane has been doing that lately, especially when I pay more attention to Emmett.

    That book- I remember when it came out and i was all hormonal , watching my child grow too fast and it just about did me in. Nope, I can not do that book. The Runaway Bunny hits me the same way.

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    1. Children can break our hearts, can't they? But they love us.
      You are so right about Love you Forever. Also, the The Runaway Bunny. These mothers have no boundaries AT ALL!

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  5. I hope you enjoyed that supper. Your photos of the boys are priceless. I'm glad you had a good visit even if it involved tears.

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  6. I guess they're past the demonstrative stage now. But you're just as important as ever.

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    1. Yeah. They're all cool and stuff now. But Lily's kids are still huggers and that makes me happy. They're all different.

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  7. I never read that book when my children were young. In fact, my mother in law got it for my ex-husband. I thought it was creepy.

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    1. Creepy is right. I'm throwing that thing away.

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  8. I think you're right about the sporting youth being part of the adult problems. My older son did a lot of skateboarding in his teens and had knee surgery in his 40s.
    Levon's necklace and bracelet are very nice.

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    1. People who were athletes when they were young definitely beat their bodies up.

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  9. Levon really is the most beautiful child!

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  10. Wayn Tomlinson's parents must not have known how to spell Wayne so all his life he'll have been saying, "No, it's Wayne without an 'e'...yes I'm ****ing sure. It's my goddamn name ain't it?"

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    1. My thoughts exactly lol.

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    2. I am not discrediting that theory, Mr. P., but it may have been an old family name too. One never knows.

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  11. Thanks for sharing some of Glen’s history and that great newspaper clipping. Those boys are adorable and you are a wonderful grandmother. I remember reading Love You Forever and finding it incredibly creepy.

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    1. Creepy is the exact right word. At one point in the book, when the old mother was driving in the dark with a ladder on her car so she could climb up to her son's window to go through her little weird ritual, I said, "She's kind of crazy, don't you think?" And one of the boys said, "What do you mean?" I tried to explain. It made me laugh that they were just really into this weird plot line. AND THE DAMN THING STILL MADE ME CRY!

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  12. those boys. reminds me of when the twins were younger. they would often curl up together. I had/have a bead box too. all four of my grands made many necklaces and bracelets. I knew Glen had played basketball but I guess I didn't realize he did it professionally.

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    1. I know that Glen played in Belgium, not sure where else.
      I think that grandmothers are obliged to have boxes or tins of things like beads and buttons.

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  13. I loved that book and bought 5 copies to give to each of my children back in the day. We just laughed at the sweet mom who always cared for her baby no matter how old that baby got! They know I am always loving them forever and ever.
    It's amazing that Glen had that basketball life before he had his life with you.

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    1. I don't know. I sort of think the mom was sort of a crazy lady. Can you imagine a woman climbing into her grown son's bedroom to snatch him up and rock him?
      It is weird that Glen had a whole life before he met me. But then again- so did I.

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  14. What a lovely photo of the boys together. I have one similar of my eldest two asleep on a bed in our house - of course, they are long grown now, but it brings back memories of the way they were as children and the boundless energy they had, before flopping to sleep! Happy days.

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    1. Besides puppies, the picture reminds me of a pile of noodles. Those long legs and arms. Sweet boys.

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  15. They have played the opening game of the college football season in Dublin gor the past couple of years. Great boost for our local economy as a lot of people travel from the US - they even have tailgate parties
    Breeda - Dublin

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  16. That looks like a very weird children's book. (I don't think I've ever heard of it.) I guess what you're seeing in August and Levon -- when you say they don't need you as much -- is the growing independence of kids as they get older. A natural progression. Of course they still need you but maybe not in quite the same ways.

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    1. Steve, I still think to this day the eeriest childrens book was a book called *The Red Shoes* by Hans Christian Andersen. I had nightmares for years as a child after reading it!
      Susan M

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    2. It is a weird book and the pictures are creepy AF.
      I know that my grands definitely do not need me the way they used to. But I tell you Steve- if I thought my children grew up fast, the speed at which these grandchildren are growing is unbelievable. It sort of breaks my heart.

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    3. And Susan- I think I remember that story. People used to write just cruel things for children.

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