Saturday, October 28, 2023

Our Biggest Boy Is Here!


It is Owen's night to stay in Lloyd! I made him pose for this picture and when I took it I told him that it was for the blog and that although I knew I had told him this many times, there are people who have been reading my blog since his mama announced her pregnancy. 
He said, "Yes, you've told me," and then he said, "Didn't she tell you the day Obama became president?"
And she had. I told him how incredibly moved I was to think that my grandchild would grow up in a world where there was no doubt that a Black man could be president of the United States. 
And of course I teared up because that is what I do. I must have the leakiest tear ducts in the South Georgia/North Florida area. 

As I always do, I asked him when we made the plan for him to come and spend the night, what he wanted for dinner. 
"Hmmmm..." he said. "Pork chops and pasta!" 
Well. 
I spent some time today looking up recipes for things like pasta with a butternut squash sauce and I got the things I might need for that at the store before I picked him up but when I quizzed him more closely on what sort of pasta dish he was thinking about, he told me that he wanted pasta with a white sauce. 
"Like Alfredo sauce?" I asked. 
"Exactly!" he said. 

I will do my best. I also got the pork chops and artichokes. He loves artichokes. So do we. 

Oh, he's my darling boy, that Owen! 

I did a lot of laundry today and washed the sheets on the bed Owen sleeps in and got that remade. I do this when any of the grands spend the night. I want them to have visceral memories of the good-smelling, clean sheets when they stayed with us. Clean sheets and yummy food. And a Boppy that plays Wii with them and a Mer that reads books to them. Although...sigh...Gibson is the only one who will let me read "The Little Red Hen Makes a Pizza" at this point in time. 

Sweet Gibson. He gave me the best hug in the world when I went to pick up Owen. Maggie gave me a hug too but she was worried about her hair which she said was "turning red" in some mysterious process I do not understand. 
She already knows more about beauty than I do. 

Owen is so proud of having gotten a new job. He has to go to the DMV to get a government ID. "And so it begins," I told him. And so it does. Why are children so eager to grow up and leap to the finish line of childhood? I do not know but I know that I did it too and it's the natural way of things, a beginning of the process wherein they think they are ready to leave the nest far before we can even begin to believe that they may have the wings to fly with. 

I better go get those pork chops and artichokes going. I need to grate some Parmesan too. Of course. No purple cows for Owen anymore. He has outgrown them and in fact, doesn't much care for desserts. I did buy some fancy English biscuits. Ginger with dark chocolate coating. I thought that sounded sophisticated. If he doesn't like them, I know I will. 

Love...Ms. Moon

32 comments:

  1. A lovely trip to the ocean, a new stereo and a grandson for supper. Heaven I should imagine:)

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  2. I think kids long to grow up and be independent, because they think there won't be pesky rules, that they'll be able to do whatever they choose. Then later they find out it's not exactly that way.

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    1. You and I think alike on this one for sure. But you know- it's like with anything you've never done but that looks good from the outside- you can't know until you've done it. And sometimes, the nests children are leaving need to be left. Not in Owen's case, but for some.

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  3. Teenagers are so much more self aware. They don't often wind up in uproarious shots with younger or older relatives. You have to ask them to stop and stand still for a picture, and the generally good humoredly do so. And Owen even recalled his own bit of family lore to give you back.

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    1. I know- isn't that wonderful that he knew that fact and told me? I did love that moment.

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  4. Owen gets taller and more handsome every time I *see* him! And good choice of dinner fare. Bless his heart. He just seem ready to delve into the *adult* world of a job....and paving his own way......and good for him! Enjoy the evening/night with him...and I know a special breakfast will be in store for the morning as well!
    Susan M

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    1. Oh yes. There were pancakes this morning! You bet!

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  5. "...wherein they think they are ready to leave the nest far before we can even begin to believe that they may have the wings to fly with." Such an evocative - and very true - sentence.

    I have wonderful, visceral memories of all the overnights at my grandparents' house. They are a huge part of the grounding of my life. You're building strong foundations for Owen and the other grands.

    Chris from Boise

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    1. I hope that we are at least giving our grandchildren the gift of the knowledge that they were loved and that there is always a safe place for them as long as we are here.

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  6. You are blessed that you had your kids and they had their kids at a young enough age for you to see the grandkids grow to adulthood.

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    1. And I had Jessie and Lily when I was much older than when I had Hank and May!

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  7. Ahh my heart. He's getting so dang grown up. I really do find comfort in knowing your family exists in this world, including that fine young human. I bet that meal was delicious. And as usual, reading a post about you and a grand felt like a hug from my own gma.

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    1. Thank you for saying that, Jill. I appreciate it so much. And I appreciate you being here for all these years!

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  8. A lovely young man. I hope he and you have a wonderful time.

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  9. I love that story, that you found out you were going to be a grandma the day that Obama became president! My youngest was in Washington that day to celebrate with the crowd. We were so optimistic, and that seems like such a very long time ago.

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    1. Oh, we were, Debby! We certainly were. There were so many tears of joy when Obama won. I had so much hope for my country. More than I'd ever had in my life. How in the world did we get from there to where we are now?

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    2. In large part because of the many people who hated what we loved, that the country was finally mature enough to elect a Black man as its leader. Margaret

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  10. 37paddington: How beautifully he growing up, his good heart intact. The boy who named you, with those big Moon feet. He’s going to be tall. And so handsome. He already is that.

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    1. I see his mama in him so strongly. He is a Moon child, for sure. And yes- his feet are, well, like a St. Bernard puppy's feet! He will grow into them. I just wonder how tall he'll be.
      And I think his heart will be proportional to all of him.

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  11. Aww, grown out of the purple cows. I guess that's just what happens and he now had more adult tastes, like artichokes which I have never even tried. I never have anyone sleepover, (no room and no spare beds) but if I did I would make sure to have freshly laundered sweet smelling sheets too.

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    1. He loves artichokes! As do we.
      He's not a big sweet eater. But he surely does love all the other stuff!

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  12. I never thought about how the smell of clean sheets might stay with him. I know I love getting into a freshly made bed so you might be on to something there!

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    1. Well, you know- nothing wrong with hoping that the feel and smell of clean sheets will always remind him of us.

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  13. He is looking so happy to be staying at your house! Isn't that great? I am sure you all had a wonderful time and added to the many cherished memories you have with him.
    I hope the world will become a more peaceful place as he grows up.

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    1. He and I did talk about things like school shootings and how hard some things are now that we never even thought about when we were young. Oh, bless our grandchildren. What a world we've given them.

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  14. I'm glad you're getting some Owen time. (And he's getting some Mer time.) It's fascinating to watch kids grow up!

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  15. Owen has a job? what job? did I miss that? he is so amazing. you and yours have done a good job with him but really I think it is just his true nature to be loving and helpful and nurturing and so sure of himself.

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    1. Yes! He's going to be working at Publix like his mama, his daddy, and his Lauren. I also think he has the sweetest nature.

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  16. I bought a book for my now 33-year-old niece called “Good Night Elmo.” I read it to her every time she spent the night then she got older and I started reading it to my now adult grands (ranging in age from 19 to almost 27). I did different voices while reading to them (Hoots the Owl is everyone’s favorite), and if all six were there they gathered on one bed so I could read to everyone. Even as they grew nobody wanted to read it aloud….MawMaw had to read it. I’m sure you won’t tell anyone but my now 21-year-old grandson came by just before he went into the military at 18 and spent the night (and asked me to turn off the light and read it to him). We moved to Florida six years ago, and five years ago we became great grandparents (I’m Gigi, thankyouverymuch) and for Christmas last year I passed the torch and the book to our oldest grandchild, this sweet little boy’s Mama. I didn’t think it was such a big deal to them at the time, but it warms my heart every time I think about it.

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