Friday, October 27, 2023

Homecoming


That's what the sky and gulf looked like this morning when I got up. I knew it was packing-up day and I do not like packing-up day. I do not like packing for the trip or unpacking when the trip is over, either. This is enough to make me really have to want to go somewhere to make it worthwhile. The skies we've seen this past week alone have been packing-worthy. It looked like it was finally settling down as we were leaving- the sea flatter than it had been since we got there. I did not see one person in the water the whole time we were there. The constant rip current warnings probably had something to do with that. 

I'd mostly packed up the kitchen last night and it really wasn't that big a deal to get everything else loaded up this morning. We stopped by the realty agency from which we'd rented on our way off the island and presented the woman behind the desk with our keys and a list of the issues we'd found at the house that really need to be dealt with. These ranged from not being able to get out of the door to the top balcony to there being not one piece of outdoor furniture on the lower deck that wasn't cracked. Some of the chairs were even missing legs. 
Not classy.
Lights that didn't work. A toilet that was iffy. Blinds that didn't work. Etc. The house was fine, really, but when you're paying Plantation prices you should get at least get access to the best beach-viewing place in the house. And have chairs that are safe to sit in when you're on the deck. 
The lady wrote everything down and then most likely threw the list away. 
Ah well. 

We stopped in Eastpoint and had breakfast at the Mexican restaurant. Which was good, as always. 

Then the drive home. I read some of the car-trip book we've not yet finished from our trip to NC out loud and I swear, it seemed like it only took a half hour to get home. 

Home. Oh, my beloved little nest. 

Look what I found when I walked into the kitchen. 


I knew that Jessie and the boys and Vergil had all come out to the house to check on the cats and I thought that Vergil was doing something for Glen having to do with figuring out a way to put up some siding on the house in a place that needs it. Turns out, though, that what Vergil had really been doing was...

Well. Setting up this.


I saw a ton of boxes in the dining room and said, "What the heck is all going on here?" And then I turned around and there was a brand new turntable. Stereo. Record player. Whatever. Thing you can play real vinyl records on. 

I cried. I literally did cry. 
Vergil helped Glen shop for it, and Jessie and the boys unboxed everything and then Vergil set it up. I am so thrilled. 
I waited until I had everything brought in from the car and put away, and a load of laundry started before I played it. And I've still only listened to half of it. I am saving/savoring it. The stereo sounds great. 
There's also a blue-tooth function where I can put the record on and then listen through my airpods while going about my life in the house if I want. This, of course, may or may not be utilized but I have paired the speakers with my phone. 
My Lord. 
Who could ever have imagined such technology back in the olden days when I was listening to the Stones on my wooden radio with the Bakelite dials? 
You know, Boomers get a lot of shit for being...well, Boomers. But you know what? We've really had to learn and adapt to so much in the last twenty years that the Gen-Whatevers have pretty much grown up with. Our Boomer brains just don't have those same grooves but we learn. We do adapt. And by the way- didn't our generation invent a lot of that technology? Initially, at least. 

Well. Enough of that. This album was recorded the old fashioned way and as Keith said, it was really meant for vinyl to hear it properly and all that's old is new again, as dear Joanne says. 
From what I've listened to so far, I really like it. I think Mick Jagger had some angry ya-ya's to get out when he was writing a lot of these songs. And that's okay. I will tell you that I was quite impressed with Paul McCartney's fuzz-bass playing on "Bite My Head Off". It's serious kick-ass bass. 

So. Friday night and we are home. It was a lovely time away and being at the beach always satisfies and feeds my soul like nothing else. The ever-changing sky and water, the sound of the waves and the palm fronds rustling in the wind. Strangely enough, I think that my two favorite things about the whole week, excluding just being with my sweetheart and celebrating us, was that few minutes down by the bay in the little estuarine park, listening to and watching a mockingbird singing his heart out, and watching Brad helping Mr. Moon fish. 
Gosh. I must be getting old. And that is okay. 

The cats are fine. Jack showed up immediately after we got home and accepted our love and apologies. Maurice, on the other hand, stayed away long enough for us to worry a bit. But she has just shown up, acting as if she wants a little affection. 


Right after I took that picture, she tried to bite me. 

I expected nothing more. Or less. 

Mr. Moon has gone to a celebration of life for a friend's daughter who died by suicide this week. He has grieved for his friend since he heard the news and absolutely had to be there. A beautiful seventeen year old girl. 

Oh, let us be kind to each other. Let us say something sweet to everyone we can. Let us smile at friends and strangers in such a way that says I am human and you are human too, and because of that, we both inevitably struggle, but for this second, in this place and time, we are two humans together and I see you. 

I see you. 

Happy Friday, y'all. 

Love...Ms. Moon




38 comments:

  1. Welcome home indeed! The cats had their say.

    So sorry about the girl who ended her life, so sorry

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    1. Yes. The cats definitely let us know how they felt.
      The sorrow for that girl- oh god.

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  2. yes, I see you as well (thank you, Marcia!). All is well other than the loss of your friends daughter. But.....a new turntable? and the album? What a homecoming!
    Susan M

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    1. PS I also just noticed that *someone* stocked your big cookie jar as part of your welcome home! How thoughtful!
      Susan M

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    2. Yes- all is well. Thank you, Susan.
      The big jar has peanuts in it that I roasted. It was like that when we left!

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  3. Welcome back from a wonderful trip. That is an impressive gift from Mr. Moon for your record playing. I had to squint, but made out August's signature.

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    1. Yes. August writes smaller than his brother does. More control, I guess.

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  4. I'm very sorry about that young woman. What a tragedy. You are right about kindness. I hope you enjoy the new record player and the cute card.

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    1. I am enjoying my new record player!
      What a tragedy that a child with so much ahead of her decided she could not live any longer. A tragedy for anyone in that position.

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  5. What a perfect homecoming (cats included).
    How terribly sad about the young lass. I worry so much about young people. What is wrong with our society? Boomers aren't perfect but I think we care about others.

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    1. I see caring people of many generations and I am glad of that. There is indeed a rise in teenage suicide. I do not know what's wrong with our society but something for sure is.

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  6. That just has to be the BEST homecoming EVER! I love your family.
    So sad to hear about the young girl though, 17 is too young to die.

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    1. Seventeen is definitely too young to die. Too young to want to die. But it does happen. And that is horrible.
      I do have a wonderful family, don't I? And you're right- what a great homecoming present.

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  7. Welcome back, and what an amazing, thoughtful and fun gift!

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  8. That is the coolest present ever. They know you. They adore you. You are so right about boomers having to adapt to living in a sci-fi alternate existence. Brains are amazing. Sending love and crumpets❤️

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    1. Crumpets! Yes, please! And you nailed it with sci-fi alternate existence.

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  9. What a wonderful gift, I just know you will enjoy it so much. And I'm so sorry to hear about Mr. Moon's friend's loss. I guess at 17 everything seems so magnified and that there is no alternative. Poor child, and poor parents!

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    1. You are right. At 17, it is all so overwhelming, even when things are relatively good. I remember that. I do.

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  10. How tragic about the girl. I remember how intense everything feels as a teenager.

    LOVE the turntable! You are so hip! :)

    You're right about Boomer adaptability, but I always think of my great-grandmother's generation as the one that really saw change. When she was born, everyone was on horseback. By the time she died, we'd been to the moon. THAT must have been an incredible social shift to witness.

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    1. Steve- you're right. And I can remember my mother saying that exact same thing about my grandfather who was born in 1888. He saw some of the first automobiles and he saw a man land on the moon. Just incredible!

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    2. My grandfather was also born in the 1880s; by the time he was a young man he was a test driver for early cars. I marvel at the technological changes that generation saw. Margaret

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  11. We have a local BBC radio station that has a " consumer hour" every morning. Often, the problems are about people staying in hotels or self catering etc, and there have been problems such as you experienced. Jonathan ( the presenter) always says that if they haven't complained at the time to give the owners the chance to put things right, they can't then claim any refund afterwards. I guess it would be too much bother anyway for you to try and get money back?
    Love your turntable, what a great idea that was! Do you like the Stones album? I think I said previously that the local radio plays " Angry" at least 5 times a day and I am sick of it!!!
    Re ginger cats......I was looking after a pal's ginger a couple of weeks ago, and I was kindly trying to spend a few minutes with her rather than just put the food down and dash off.....I was stroking her and she suddenly reared up and scratched my hand, definitely on purpose ! Little devil! I didn't bother to be nice after that.

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    1. Yes. We "should" have called the agency about getting some of those problems dealt with but for the life of me, I did not want maintenance people in the house dealing with hard ware issues. You know?
      I do like the Stones new album and I am sure I"m going to be listening to it a lot.
      Yes. That ginger cat sounds exactly like mine. I think they are all crazy.

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  12. Regarding the tragedy of the young woman who took her own life, I think of that excellent song by Janis Ian... "At Seventeen". If she had heard it, perhaps she would have thought, "That's me!" and it might have enabled her to realise that she was not alone in her unbearable self-doubt and feelings of helplessness. I don't suppose you will be spending more time by the sea this year.

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    1. You're right- I wonder how many people Janis Ian has saved with that song. Bless that child who could not see her way out of whatever she was going through.
      No. I'll probably not be spending any more time by the sea this year. But who knows? I suppose anything could happen.

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  13. I have a tote bag from Barnes & Noble and it says, "Vinyl Sounds Better". I carry it on my walks and when someone of a certain age sees it, they smile knowingly. Because let's face it, it really does!

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    1. Hello, Kay G.!
      Vinyl does indeed sound better. Hell, I love the pops on my old records. It means they are real.

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  14. That certainly was a successful anniversary celebration and gift!
    Your talk of packing up reminded me of the days when my kids were little and I would pack everything in laundry baskets instead of suitcases! It was easier to manage and at the end of the trip the baskets went right to the laundry room.
    I'm so sorry for Glen's friend. The poor girl.

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    1. Laundry baskets are a great idea! I mostly use my canvas shopping bags to tote things. Also my plastic woven Virgin of Guadalupe bag that holds a ton of stuff.
      I do use a suitcase when I'm going away for awhile but in this case, I just used an overnight bag and a favorite large leather bag for my clothes and stuff.

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  15. 37paddington: welcome home! What a great surprise to come home to. The kids are rediscovering vinyl and leaning into the personal relationship you can have with music when you can own the album and read its liner notes and lovingly place the needle on a track, an engagement that you just can’t have when you stream music. I’m sorry to hear about that lost 17 year old girl. How many despairing days and nights I got through at her age by putting one record on the turntable after another and sitting in my darkened room, the album covers splayed all around me as I sifted through them and chose the next song to play through my tears. I’m glad I had vinyl.

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    1. Streaming music is cold. That's all there is to it. It's "perfect". Too damn perfect. I, too, remember my albums and the ones I played over and over and over again. I still have some of those exact same albums.

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  16. what a wonderful surprise when you got home! a brand new turntable. I'm so glad they are making them again and music is being pressed into vinyl again. I have a turntable that hooks up to my desktop and plays through it but I rarely use it. I had to buy new needles for it the last time I tried and while I have the new needle, I haven't tried to play anything since. sorry to hear about the young woman. no telling what her demons were.

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    1. You're right. Ellen- no idea what that girl's demons were. I really don't know any of the details at all. I feel so very sorry for her parents and for her sister, too.
      You should play some records, girl!

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  17. Welcome home, dear Mary! What fabulous gifts! I foresee some hallway dancing.
    Xoxo
    Barbara

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    1. I did a little bit by myself yesterday, in fact!

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