Sunday, January 18, 2026

A Dreary Sunday But Still Okay


Jessie and Vergil found this lovely couch in their neighborhood by the side of the road. There was another couch and a decent looking lounge there too. They scooped this one up and brought it home and the boys organized their toy room to fit it in. As Jessie said in her text when she sent us the picture, "The sides are torn up from cat scratches but that works well with our aesthetic." 
We are not casual spenders around here. Nor do we overly value the new. We search for the classics and when we find them at great prices, or, better yet, FREE! we are happy. 
Could those boys and Sophie look any cozier on a brand new sofa from a designer furniture company? I think that may be the best picture of Ms. Sophie ever taken. The girl knows how to work a pose, does she not?

Well. The weather here was dreadful for most of the day and then suddenly, in the later afternoon, the sun came out and the sky turned blue whereas five hours before the forecast had called for sleet for the next hour. Some parts of North Florida got a little snow but we didn't. I'm not even sure we got sleet but we sure did get rain. It's supposed to be clear tomorrow but it's going to get even colder. This winter stuff is stressful. It takes so long to get dressed in the morning! 
You got your socks, your however-many-layers of shirts and sweaters and jackets, then your britches or overalls, finally your shoes. And of course if you go outside, you need more jackets and a coat. How do y'all do it? If it got Ohio cold here or Canada cold here or Pennsylvania cold here, I'd just stay in bed all winter. Either that or I'd have one small room with a wood stove (and of course I'd have central heat, too) and I'd just huddle in there all day, feeding the fire and wrapping myself in blankets and phoning for pizza delivery. 

I am really, really boring this evening. I didn't do a damn thing that was constructive after I made our breakfast. Mr. Moon passed on the dawn duck hunting and subsequent he-man breakfast with the guys and so this was the first Sunday breakfast I'd made in a long time. I was worried I'd forgotten how to make biscuits but they turned out all right. Of course we didn't eat until noon but, oh well. Mr. Moon never eats lunch on Sunday anyway, preferring to have a huge bowl of popcorn that he makes in the Whirley Pop. He has his routine down pat, melting the butter, getting out the salt and nutritional yeast, layering the butter, salt, and yeast over the popped corn in the bowl in order to ensure that all of the corn is equally coated with the good stuff. I laugh at him but I really shouldn't- we both have our habits and routines and we do hate to break them. I'm far worse than he is. 

I think tonight I'll make this quite brief. I'd like to get supper on the table before we perish of hunger although Mr. Moon should be good for at least a few more hours after all that popcorn. I'm making some fish and grits and cooking some artichokes. I don't usually serve artichokes with fish and grits (don't call the southern cooking police on me, please) but if I don't cook those things they're going to dry up and shrivel into nothingness. I believe there will be some yellow squash with onions too. This will all take a little time so I better get to it. 

I am so grateful to have such a sweet, warm home and sweet, warm  husband on this cold night. I wonder if Maurice will sleep on my legs as she did last night as I dreamed every one of my dream tropes. All of the usual elements were involved, including the huge, museum-like house with all the rooms. I was trying to explain the house to someone, telling them that there were rooms that still had the old clothes in the closets, the original sheets on the beds, make-up and hair brushes on the vanities, and jewelry in the jewelry boxes. Whoever I was talking to about it wasn't really listening so I gave up. The stepfather was there and so that was a lot of angst, and somehow he was at fault for me not having the right food to cook for Thanksgiving (once again), and oh yes, there'd been some sort of school event for the children and I got roped into cooking for that too, but in this case, in a big industrial kitchen. My old therapist was there. I got lost driving around in an ancient car. I was taking care of a small child whom I KNEW needed to be potty trained and was absolutely sure he or she was old enough and mature enough for that to happen. This is a rather new addition to my list of things to dream about. I don't think Glen left me for the black-haired, truck driving bitch in this dream but I know I had a lot of laundry to do. 
Somehow it all blended together, not seamlessly, but in the way it often does. 
Oh. I forgot to mention all the heavy machinery being used to clear land and build new roads. 

I must worry a lot. 

There is a lot to worry about these days. Too much to worry about. So possibly these dreams are just a distraction to keep me from obsessing about the real horrors. I do not know. 

Meanwhile, stay warm unless you're in the down-under portion of the planet in which case I hope you stay cool. 

Love...Ms. Moon




  

42 comments:

  1. I don't think you're cut out to be a northerner, somehow! I think the picture of Mr M cooking his popcorn just right is so funny. Yes, other people's routines are funny. Our own are serious and just right.

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    1. When I first moved to Colorado to go to college there, I had no idea that if you washed your hair and then went outside in the winter, your hair would freeze.
      I really do not care to ever live any place that is a fact of winter.
      I know my routines are pretty funny. They make no sense to anyone but me and I feel like they sustain me.

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  2. To suppress those weird dreams, my advice is stop swallowing LSD tabs just before you go to bed.

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    1. Mr. P- it is impossible to sleep after taking LSD for at least twelve hours. I revoke your hippie card.

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  3. Oh my! Sophie is truly the cutest!! I've fallen in love again. I have that problem with dogs....and cats (some...LOL). I'm a huge Rottweiler fan as that's what I fell in love with after volunteering at the Human Society. I got a 13 week old puppy (30 lbs.) that GREW into a 125 lb. sweetheart. I miss my Maax so much. Jessie made a good haul with that sofa. Perfect for dogs and boys. I like the color.
    I was wondering if you had gotten any snow. I had read some parts of norther Florida did get hit. I spent the day on Lake Erie (well, beside it). I think the wind chill was in the single digits. It was beautiful, though. You can google Huntington Beach, Bay Village and that can give you a little clue. I hope it warms up for you. Do any of your outside plants freeze?
    Does that moss hanging on trees ever freeze?
    Stay warm. I'll try.
    Paranormal John

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    1. We are wondering how big Lily's new pup, Xena, is going to get. Half Bull Mastiff, half St. Bernard. I think. She's going to be massive but she sure is sweet.
      Nope. No snow here. I did google Huntington Beach, Bay Village. It looks like a beautiful place.
      Yes. Sometimes our outside plants freeze but generally if they do, they come back. Otherwise they'd just be dead. I just read that Spanish moss does not freeze in temperatures above 25° F. I've never noticed any frozen moss.
      Trying to stay warm here. Not as hard as it will be for you!

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  4. Hey, free works for our home, too. I have a story about a golf cart and a huge tool chest on wheels. It’d take me a week to write it out but i still chuckle over it thirty years later. I’m not usually a blue in the house person but the couch is pretty darn cool! Of course, Sophie and the boys make it shine.

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    1. You got a free golf cart and tool chest? Awesome!
      You don't like blue in the house? Oh dear. You'd hate my house. I love blue in almost all regards and places.

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  5. The couch is a great find and free is always ideal. Sophie looks quite happy sitting on the comfy couch with the boys. The couch looks perfect in the photo.
    Your dreams stream at a rapid pace. Remembering all the dream detail is quite surprising to me. I rarely dream and remember very little when I do dream.
    Hopefully the warmth and sunshine will return quickly to FL.
    Currently, it is cold and snowy in MA. To keep warm, I find fleece ideal. It is light weight, soft against the skin and very warm.

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    1. Sophie looks really proud of the new couch, doesn't she?
      The dreams I had on Sunday morning were more far-ranging than they usually are. It's like I was just flicking through the offerings on Netflix or something.
      I bet fleece is great in the cold. You just don't see that much fleece for sale around here.

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  6. Darn, I've just given up popcorn! The sprinkle of yeast sounds great.

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    1. If you don't mind my asking- why did you give up popcorn?

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  7. Ms Sophie is a STAR and clearly she KNOWS it, the diva!

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    1. She's such a goof. She really may not know what a star she is.

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  8. Sophie is probably the loveliest dog I know. She is indeed posing. I wonder if there is an IQ test one can give dogs, she looks extremely intelligent. I need to look into nutritional yeast, I don't believe I've ever had any of it.

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    1. Sophie is pretty smart. She was house-trained easily and generally responds to instructions.
      Nutritional yeast is delicious and has lots of B vitamins. Also fiber and protein. I think it's delicious and so do a lot of people. Vegans, and others often use it as a substitute for cheese as it sort of has that flavor. I use it in sauces myself.

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  9. At first I thought Levon had a friend over but later realized it had to be August. He somehow doesn't look like himself there don't you think? Sophie almost looks too pretty to be real!

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    1. No, I think August looks like himself. He's just reading his book.
      Soph looks like she's just come from the hairdresser's doesn't she?

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  10. That is a wonderful couch and now I am wondering what is the difference between a couch and a lounge and a sofa. Aren't they the same thing called differently by people? My German mother said sofa, my mother-in-law said couch and somehow I always said lounge, but they are all just places to sit, aren't they?

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    1. I think we may have discussed this before. I use sofa and couch interchangeably but lounges here are more like chaise lounges which are ideally for one person to lay on rather than several people to sit on.

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    2. Thank you, I'd forgotten about the chaise lounges.

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  11. Lovely photo of Sophie and the boys. Didn't realise that Sophie was so big!
    How do you remember your dreams in such detail? I can usually only recall very small bits of mine when I wakeup....though I know if it was an " anxiety" dream! ( I would have lost the dog or something similar!)

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    1. Sophie does look big in that photo. In real life she's not THAT big.
      I am constantly losing babies and children in my dreams. I truly hate that.

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  12. I’m exhausted just from reading about your dreams. I can’t remember last night’s, but I know I was yelling at someone about something at one point and woke up SG. The photo of Sophie is a prize and I can’t believe how LONG the boys are getting. I like the family’s aesthetic. Cat scratched furniture is ours whether we like it or not. Everything is messily covered with throws. And that looks worse.

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    1. I will admit I frequently wake up exhausted. Not physically so much as just mentally. It's almost like I enter an alternative universe in my sleep. August and Levon are getting longer, for sure, but I think they're going to be like their mama who was a fairly little thing for a long time and then suddenly, she was 5'7" and kept on growing after that. Lily got her height earlier.
      Cats will scratch furniture. When Maurice comes in to sleep with us at night, she always announces her arrival and intention by first giving the base of the bed a good scratching. It definitely wakes me up and I move to make room for her.

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  13. I don't see how people live up in the lands of ice and snow either. too many clothes! With just an undershirt (tank), long sleeve shirt, flannel shirt just to be in the house is too damn many. I start feeling tangled up in all the clothes. I had a rather bizarre dream yesterday one portion of which was I was undergoing some sort of procedure and my sister and another know it all woman was taking me to the facility. I finally told her she was annoying. I dream about having to feed the cats a lot or that I forgot to feed them.

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    1. That is a bizarre dream, Ellen. I don't dream about those sorts of things, thank god. I do, however, dream about forgetting to feed or take care of babies, children, and chickens. Also gardens.
      Go figure, huh?

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  14. It is so very cold here but I am retired and so I do not have to go anywhere at all today. I will do laundry and I will read and that might be enough.
    Hope you have a good week, Mary. :)

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    1. I hope you're feeling better, Ellen. Stay in, stay warm, and get entirely recovered!

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  15. Ditto what others have already said, and I must add my amazement at your dream memory! I also use nutritional yeast on buttered toast, simple substitute for popcorn which bothers my innards these days.

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    1. Now I've never thought of nutritional yeast on buttered toast. I bet that's damn good. When I was pregnant with my first babies, I would mix nutritional yeast into milk and drink it. I've never like milk but it wasn't bad with the yeast in it.

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  16. Do you know why us northerners wear so many clothes and LUV it? Because we would FREEZE if we didn't! I went to the movies yesterday to see Hamnet and found out people carry in blankets to bundle up in while stretched out in the Strat lounger movie seats. The high temp today is supposed to be 16 degrees. The low this morning was 7. Later this week suggests a low of 9 below 0. THAT is why we learn to wear layers and layers and love them.

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    1. People bring in blankets to the movies here and that's just for the AC! I am not kidding you. It is freezing in our movie theaters.
      I've heard that Hamnet is very good.
      I can definitely see why you love your layers but honestly, I just hope never to live any place where I would need to dress as warmly as you do.

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  17. My husband goes on food jags. When we first met I was worried, but the jags eventually pass and he moves onto another fixation. Right now it's cinnamon buns, sometimes it's fruit, sometimes it some other sweet.
    I have dreams like that too, very detailed and I can remember them quite well. I used to dream about my old house a lot until in a dream one night, the new owner demanded that I hand over the keys and stop visiting, and I have.
    When I was working I often dreamed of patients but no longer thankfully.
    You're right about the layers and how long it takes to get ready in the winter. Summer is so easy, you can just walk out of the house. Stay warm my friend.

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    1. I love that you dreamed you had to give the keys to your old house back! Isn't the brain bizarre? At one point when I was dreaming about the museum house endlessly, I dreamed a real museum did take it over and for awhile, I quit dreaming about it. But then I started again.
      I go on food jags too. I can relate. Remember when all I wanted to eat were salads with miso dressing? And then BOOM! I was done.

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  18. Interesting house dream - I have one where I discover I was supposed to get my grandparents place ready for them to visit (they both died about 35 years ago but in my dream they are coming up from their Miami place to stay) and am rushing around cleaning and dusting years worth of debris. So many of my dreams feature feeling guilty or negligent. Mr. Moon's popcorn sounds good! Maybe I'll have that for lunch today, start a holiday tradition.

    Stay warm!
    Ceci

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    1. My dreams feature anger and frustration and anxiety more than guilt but I DO dream that I'm being negligent. Or trying my hardest to fix a bad situation and realizing I simply cannot.
      Glen's popcorn has a lot of butter and salt along with the yeast. I do believe that's his secret.

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  19. That sounds like one of my dreams in places! Unfortunately my brain hasn't let me dream since before 2am this morning!!

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    1. Does that mean you couldn't sleep after 2 a.m.? I hope not.

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  20. what a great photo of the boys and Sophie! She is a beauty...and a large one at that! And those two boys....the first thing I always think when I see August and Levon is always *those boys are all limbs......arms and legs*.... they most definitely (as do all your grands) have the Moon *tall* gene! And your post also gave me a sort of craving for two things I have not had in quite a while.....popcorn AND artichokes. Artichokes are primarily grown in California as you know...so they are available year round for us. I really haven't put much thought into cooking since Buzz passed a year ago....I feel like I'm taking Zepbound...my food *spark* is gone and the cooking spark along with it. But dammit, now I'm going to get some chokes and popcorn soon!
    Susan M

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    1. I remember seeing artichoke growing in California. I was astounded! It was so cool. They are not so commonly eaten around here. Almost every time I buy some and go through check-out, the cashier and bagger want to know what they are and how to eat them. So I tell them. I wonder if any of them ever subsequently buy, cook, and eat one after that. I doubt it.
      It would be a good sign if your appetite is returning. Food is one of the pleasures of life. Or at least it can be.

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  21. Your dreams are so cinematic. Paul Thomas Anderson could do wonders with them. Maybe you should write him. :)

    I love the free sofa! What a find!

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