Although I cannot be sure, I don't think we've ever run the air conditioner in November. And we didn't run it for a few weeks in October but as the temperatures inched back up we finally caved in the evenings and turned it back on. We're not using it very much, mostly at bedtime, but it feels so wrong. By this time of year we should have doors and windows open, a breeze sweeping the hallway, the house breathing in its own quiet way.
So did we all feel virtuous when we got up an hour earlier than we usually do? I am seventy years old and have been through many, many fall-backs and spring-forwards and I still get confused. "Let's see. If I go to bed at ten, it'll really be eleven. Right?" This was a real topic of conversation last night as applied to when the guys should get up to go hunting. The sun rises when the sun rises and will that be earlier by the clock or later? I have no idea what time they got up this morning. Probably around three or something. And right now the sun's about to set and it's only 5:39. Why do we continue to do this? To prove that man has dominion over the sun, the moon, the planets, and the stars? Over time itself?
I don't think that was the original purpose but it's really time to quit this foolishness.
I was fairly productive today. I had a lot to catch up on. I knew I wanted to make cookies for the cookie table at Rachel and Hank's wedding and since Lis and Lon will be here later in the week, of couse I want the guest room, at least, to look nice and be tidy and relatively dust-free. And yes, Candie still comes to clean now and then but she knows I'm and easy with schedules and so when she needs an extra few hours for someone else, she asks if I mind if she skips me and I always say, "No problem," and it's not but let's face it- it would take a team of cleaners a month to really get this house in shape and four hours on alternate weeks just ain't getting it so I try to take up the slack but we all know that I hate to clean. Hate it with a passion. I'm much rather dig up crocosmia. However, needs must, as you Brits are so fond of saying.
But back to the guest bedroom. Because I cut up the curtain in there as fabric for Hank's pocket square, I needed a new one. First I hemmed up another piece of bark cloth that I do like very much but it did not please me as a curtain. The main color in it is yellow and I do love yellow but that room has generally had a sort of dark red and dusky green thing going on and that just did not work with the curtain so I brought out the quilt I'd bought for our room, which is indeed yellow, and put the matching pillow shams on the pillows that had always had a tropical red and green print on them and tried that out.
Eh.
It just did not look right. Or more accurately, it did not feel right.
And because I am so weird, I was obsessing about this situation. Truly obsessing to the point where I was being a little over the line with it.
And then earlier today, I was in the hallway and noticed the piece of bark cloth that I had covering the old cedar chest in there that has peeling veneer and is really not an attractive piece of furniture but I can't get rid of it because I do have things in there that I cannot let go and also- THE CHEST IS NOT MINE! Okay. It's a very long story and the beginning of it goes back a very long way and I am not going to bore you with it now but the bones of it are that a woman who was vaguely related to my first husband asked me to keep it for her when she was going through some stuff and she never came back to get it and I have no idea where she is. He doesn't either.
Sigh.
Anyway, I took the piece of bark cloth off of it, took it to the guest room, held it up in the door that needed the curtain, and...well. Not bad. So I cut that to size and hand-stitched it and it's okay.
Yes.
Ms. Magnolia June.
This is one of the pictures that got sent in the group text on Halloween night.
Maggie said to Jessie, "If you want a picture with your sister, I know how to do it." She snapped and said, "Yeah. I got it."
Good Lord!
Oh, I do like the new curtain!
ReplyDeleteMe too! It satisfies all my sensibilities.
DeleteA woman after my own heart, hanging up fabric like that!!
ReplyDeleteI feel like this house gives me liberty to use whatever I love in it from art on the walls and window sills to curtains.
DeleteGlad to see that you could actually use the stuff sent! You saved the day! So...what's happening on Tuesday???? You realize that it will be months before anything is settled, if ever....
ReplyDeleteI know. I can't talk about that either. I would much rather concentrate on the ways I have used your gifts. The other stuff is just way too big for me right now.
Deletelove the new bark cloth curtain....and understand the *obsession* (not meant in a negative way) of getting your room ready for Lon and Lis. It's lovely! I detest the time changes. Hubby keeps saying *is dinner almost ready- it's 7 oclock for goodness sake*.....and I keep saying.....no...it's really 6 oclock". I'm a light/dark person.....like a chicken......and I just detest time change. We, as a state, voted (about 3 times already).... to abolish it here in Calif....but has that happened? NO, it has not. Carry on, Ms Moon....as will we.
ReplyDeleteSusan M
When I get to heaven (haha!) everything will be decorated in bark cloth. We will get used to the time change. We always do.
DeleteI absolutely understand your intuitive process in bringing that room into harmony for Lon and Lis, and that you knew it was right when it *felt* right. The bark cloth is lovely. Oh what a week this will be! I’m excited for the happy event coming up for your family.
ReplyDeleteAnd today I started cleaning in there. "Started" being the operative word. I am a terrible housekeeper.
DeleteThis is indeed going to be a week.
Wonderful curtain.
ReplyDeleteI think so too!
DeleteI felt a deep breath reading this post. Thank you, my friend.
ReplyDeleteOh. I'm so glad.
Deleteyears ago, I painted my bedroom a cyclamen pink. I found a bedspread and shams at Marshalls (good ole Marshalls again) with the same color in a floral print. Looked around for curtains and found a second identical bedspread. I brought it home, cut off some of the scalloped edge for a valance, split the remainder in two, lengthwise, reversed the two pieces so the scalloped edges were in the middle. I hemmed the outer edges, added a heading of old sheeting which would be hidden by the valance, and poof! - matching curtains and valance all for a great Marshall's price.
ReplyDeleteWhoa! You are crafty! I would never be able to do all of that.
DeleteWhen the clock "falls back" in late autumn it is falling back to correct natural time so going to bed at ten means going to bed at ten. It's the summer season that is out of whack, with the clocks being forward an hour so going to bed at ten means you're in bed at nine by "natural time".
ReplyDeleteYes! And yet we still have to adjust our internal clocks again.
DeleteI'm in Scotland and if the clocks didn't change we would get up in the dark and the schools would be coming home in the dark so maybe a safety issue although I understand it was originally done for the farmers during the war.
ReplyDeleteThat's what they told us here too, about the farmers. But good Lord! Tractors have lights on them now.
DeleteMemories of the photos I took as a kid! I love the Moon Women costumes. That curtain looks beautiful. Great decision.
ReplyDeleteI hear that Jessie did the Alexa dance and NO ONE FILMED IT! Are you familiar with the Alexa dance from Schitt's Creek?
DeleteYes! I loved Schitt’s Creek.
DeleteI just watched a little bit Alexa again... and again.
Delete"It's really time to quit this foolishness". I entirely agree with you about changing the clocks. There seems to be no justifiable reason for doing it. Apart from anything else, parents get young children into bedtime and morning routines and then the clock changing upends their schedules. Why oh why?
ReplyDeleteIt absolutely does indeed throw children's schedules off. It's like trying to make a blanket longer by cutting off one end and sewing it to the other.
DeleteI was listening to a radio program, as I do (all day long), and the guy was saying how hard light evenings and dark mornings are for people. It disrupts our circadian rhythms, and it's hardest on teenagers. I think it would be a great idea to go back to standard time, even though that would mean the sun rising as 330am, at least it would be getting dark at bedtime. I have no desire to stay on daylight saving time because that would mean sunrise at 949am in December which is just damn depressing.
ReplyDeleteThe curtain is beautiful. You're going to busy this week. Enjoy.
I remember as a kid absolutely hating having to go to bed when it was still light outside. Invariably, other kids were still playing. It was so depressing.
DeleteThe curtains look great and you will have a busy week getting ready for the fabulous wedding. Don't worry; be happy! It will all turn out and will be a fabulous day with friends and family and will distract you from all else!
ReplyDeleteIf you know how to not worry and be happy on command I BEG you to tell me how. I've never been able to figure it out.
DeleteThat was a new word for me bark cloth and it's a real interesting fabric with history! You have got me on a trail of discovery now.
ReplyDeleteIt is an interesting rabbit hole to go down, isn't it? I am very fortunate to have several pieces of it. I just love it so much. The colors, the textures, the patterns- all of it.
DeleteI'd be happy not to switch back and forth but let's keep it at DST because I would rather it be light an hour later than light an hour earlier. love the retro fabric for the curtain. I'm pretty sure the woman who asked you to keep the chest for her has no intention of ever retrieving it. I'm going to have my head in the sand all day tomorrow. and tomorrow night. going for shock or awe Wednesday morning.
ReplyDeleteI think I have completely disassociated with what's happening tomorrow. I mean, I keep thinking about it but not with a great deal of emotion. This is not an attitude of acceptance. I think it's just a way to not fall apart completely.
DeleteYou are probably right about the woman who's grandmother's chest I have in my hallway.
It's always like coming home to catch up with you and yours. Happy Halloween, Day of the Dead and beautiful curtain in the guest room day! I'm more excited for Hank and Rachel's wedding than the dreaded Tuesday. May our fears be for naught!!! I've been lighting an Our Lady of Guadalupe candle each time the anxiety washes over me for the disappearance of the orange lumpkin. MAY IT BE SO! x0x0 N2
ReplyDeleteAnd it is always so nice to hear from you!
DeleteMay it be so, indeed. Keep lighting candles.
Fingers crossed for tomorrow...Loved the Halloween photos!
ReplyDeleteYes, m'am!
DeleteUsual beautiful post Mrs Moon..family looking glorious. Praying, ( I don't pray) for the right outcome tomorrow ..ffs x
ReplyDeletePlus the big stuff can be little stuff; & even if it's big stuff it can be dealt with..
ReplyDeleteIt also takes me weeks to deal with the messing with time..have you ever watched Emily D Baker ? She's a " neurospicy" ex lawyer who does true crime shit..I like that stuff, makes me realise I'm no where near as bonkers as some folk..she's also astonishingly bright. I'll shut up now x
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