Sunday, May 2, 2021

A Whole Lot Of Love


You know how it is when you haven't talked to a good friend for a decade and then you do talk and you pick up right where you left off and the time that's passed means nothing? 

Well, that's how it was this weekend. First with Lon and Lis and then with my family. Of course, the family has all seen each other during the course of the year, but we all haven't been able to hug each other, kiss each other, see each other's faces. And with the Williamsons, we hadn't even laid eyes on them. And yet, fifteen minutes into being here, Lon said, "I feel like I was here yesterday with you guys, sitting right here in this kitchen."
Yep. It may have actually been fifteen months, but it felt like minutes. And with the kids and grandkids, kissing and hugging was as familiar as breathing and everyone hugged everyone over and over again, kisses were given freely, no one wore a mask, and tears flowed. 
"I love you, I love you, I love you!" The words were traded and given and received, heart-words, true words, sweet words, words we've been able to say but this time with nothing between us but clothes and air and skin. 

When Lon and Lis got here we all had martinis and we talked and talked and Lis made platters with Lori's (nicest person in the world) chicken salad, and smoked salmon, cheese, apples, crackers and the kind of mustard that cracks between your teeth because it's all seeds. And then, dinner!
One night when we'd all four been talking on the phone sometime in the last year, Lis and I discussed what we were cooking for our suppers that night and I was making scallops with cherry tomatoes and pasta and I promised them that when they next came to visit (which seemed like it would never happen) I would make it for them and I did. There was also salad and sourdough and we ate and talked until it was time, past time, for bed. 

Saturday we woke up and had very late breakfast and leisurely got ready for the day's events. Lis had to pick up a new instrument that a Tallahassee woman had made for her and then we all had the party at Jessie's. I made up a meatloaf so that when we got home we could throw it in the oven. The party's food theme, we had all decided, would be "international dips." And thus it was so. I took some Baba Ghanoush that I made and some Tzatziki that I bought and crackers and a pavlova with chocolate and berries and whipped cream. 

This was what the party food table looked like.


There were so many delicious dips! Corn, chard with artichoke and spinach, seven-layer...I can't even remember. Of course there were chips and crackers, celery, cucumbers, and broccoli. And May made a Caprese salad sandwich. I took some of the beet-pickled eggs (thumbs up, y'all!) and other pickles, Rachel made vegan double chocolate pudding cupcakes. Lily made a pickled relish of radishes, carrots, jalapenos, and onions that was to die for. She also brought toasted bread that she'd made. Vergil made lemonade and Rachel mixed up mulberry/lemon mojitos. 


Three of my lovelies. Why I didn't notice the candle blocking Lily's face, I do not know.

Before long, everything was chaos, the cousins had all found each other and ran from one place to play to another. August and Levon followed Gibson and Owen around with serious cases of hero worship. Maggie was the boss of everyone. 
Eventually, we all made our way outside to a shady part of the lawn and Vergil, the ultimate host, quietly moved chairs and liquor, ice, and more chairs and we ended up in a beautiful circle. 






We caught up and talked about how the past year has affected all of us. We talked about how precious it was to all be back together. We discussed the fact that some of us have become so used to staying home that it's going to be very hard to get back out into society while for others, it's going to be wonderful. Hank is about to start live trivia again in a very controlled outdoor socially distanced space. He's very excited for that. The kids are enjoying being in real school. Lon and Lis, in their year of staying home and not working their usual frenzy of gigs and recording work have had the realization that they don't want to go completely back to the insanity. We've had a very clear lesson in what is important and what is not. What we like doing, and what we don't. 

The children continued their raucous activity and occasionally one of us would go check on them. Or send Owen to do it. And eventually, we realized it was time for the birthday girl to blow out candles and be sung to and to open presents. 








The birthday girl cried. The babies ate chocolate. We caught August scooping whipped cream out of the container with his fingers and we just laughed and let him get away with it. The kids, after playing with all the toys and jumping on the trampoline and pretending in the RV, found a large cardboard box and that was it. It got so noisy and rough that Jessie asked if someone should perhaps intervene. Vergil reassured her it was fine. And it was. 


They took turns being inside it and being pushed down the little hill in the yard and being jumped on and flattened in it and they loved it. No blood, no foul. No tears. 

And then it was time for us to come home. Despite the fact that we'd all eaten our share of dips and cupcakes and pavlova, I still baked the meat loaf, cooked some of our frozen field peas and greens beans and fresh-out-of-the-dirt potatoes. Talk about your farm-to-table...

Lis played her new octave mandolin some. It is a thing of beauty, handmade with her imput and help with the design. Here she is playing it at Jessie's house.


We all got up this morning and kept agreeing that it had been so perfect for Lon and Lis to be there yesterday for the great unmasking, the love fest, the Jessie birthday. Lon and Lis are indeed Jessie's fairy godparents and all of my children adore them. 
We ate another breakfast. This time of pancakes and then the Williamsons had to pack and get ready to leave. They were going down to Sopchoppy to play a song at a memorial for a dear friend's mother's memorial service. 

We sat at the table for quite awhile after breakfast, though, talking about the old TV shows we remember from our childhood. We all got the Mr. Ed theme song earwormed into our heads. We sang the song from My Three Sons together and laughed and laughed. We talked about how every damn TV show about the south that we grew up on insulted the people and made us all look like complete hicks who called swimming pools "SEE-ment ponds" and took baths in water towers. Except for Andy Griffith. Bless him. Bless Mayberry. 

When it was time for them to go we sent them off with eggs, venison, and vegetables from our freezer and, because I love them so much, a jar of mulberry preserves. 

It was such a beautiful visit. I am so grateful they came to stay. 

This afternoon, Vergil and the boys came out to help Boppy with the  unloading of his new boards. The boys decided they were done with that pretty quickly and came in the house where we read books, they finished up the pancakes from this morning, asked for more, and got to watch some TV. So it's been another full day. 

There will be leftovers tonight. 

It sounds like all we did was eat. And drink. And here's what I have to say about that- we did a lot of eating and we did some drinking and we did a lot of sharing and laughing and celebrating. We are alive, we are healthy, we survived 2020, we know how very, very lucky we are. 

And that's what happened here this weekend. 

Our hearts have been well and truly blessed. 

Love...Ms. Moon. 

P.S. And as usual, some of these pictures were taken by Rachel. The best ones. 








37 comments:

  1. Oh, what a party! That cupcake couldn't have been any more perfect looking, Levon's sweet face, the dips!! All the wonder.

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    1. It was fun! I love how we just settled on the dips sort of as a joke but then ran with it and they were delicious.

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  2. reading of your weekend/day made my head hurt......so much love and wonder and food......it looks and feels like perfection. beautiful photos.....and I have to add that the blouse/dress? May is wearing is literally to die for........gorgeous and it suits her so well. A joy to "share* your festivity and love
    Susan M

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    1. Isn't that beautiful? It's an over-blouse thing. It does look so gorgeous on May.

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  3. What a joy to read about your family reunion! Lots of food, love, and laughter!

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  4. So wonderful. What a difference from a year ago when you had that drive by celebration and Jessie wasn't feeling that well. You all made it through and the love and joy abided. Your family is awesome. Happy birthday again Jessie!

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    1. Yes! We were all thinking about that day a year ago. Such a huge difference. And happy birthday to you, precious woman.

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  5. Very happy looking, but sacrilege - chocolate with Pavlova!

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  6. Why the hell am I all teary-eyed now? Such loveliness, such joy. Thanks for sharing it here. Recently I wrote a poem called "The Real England" but arguably this was "The Real Florida". Beautiful.

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  7. Your family has the best parties! It also made me teary eyed,like Mr YP. I am so happy for you.

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    1. We cried a lot of happy tears that day.

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  8. How wonderful. The chocolate covered faces were my very favorite. We had our second covid shot yesterday. It was a happy day for us. Which is not the same as joyous...but we're getting there.

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    1. Definitely on the path to joyous! Hurray!

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  9. what is there to say that you didn't say? a good time was had by all.

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  10. What a fabulous celebration! So many smiles to see!
    My kids are planning a gathering for my birthday in August where all of my children and my daughters-in-law and my grandchildren will spend a few days and nights together at a farm with a pond. This will be the first time we will all be together in over 3 years so I am excited for that!
    Have a relaxing week!

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    1. Oh Ellen! That sounds perfect! I know you must be looking forward to that with all your heart!

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  11. Good times; the best of times...
    I have client in Florida and a nephew who has only just had a first son - both in Miami. Maybe one day soon I will visit the US again - I do hope so.

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    1. We live at the opposite end of the state from Miami and are about as different as two places can be. But yes, we are in Florida. And it is a beautiful part of Florida.

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  12. Well it sounds like a landmark occasion for sure. I'm so glad you all got together and had a great and meaningful time!

    I love the pic of Maggie with that blob of chocolate cake on her dress, and of course Levon with it all over his face! It's great to see everyone looking so happy and healthy.

    You know, those shows about Southerners WERE insulting, but I don't remember ever feeling insulted when I watched them. I guess I didn't feel like they applied to me, even though I'm a Southerner! (Did "Green Acres" take place in the South? They never really say, but Oliver keeps going back to NYC for business, so I kind of assumed it was in upstate NY or maybe Pennsylvania. But the people sure talked Southern.)

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    1. Chocolate and kids is just a wonderfully messy combination, isn't it?
      I have been thinking about Green Acres too. It never really seemed southern to me. Just...rural. Did you know that that show was the first to let a married couple sleep in the same bed? Remember all those stupid twin beds they used to have on TV?

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  13. An excellent romp! Finally! Agree with Steve, the chocolate faced Maggie with a blob on her royal frock sums up the whole get together.
    Television did not treat southerners with any amount of respect- "if you want some one to sound like a dim bulb, slap on a southern accent using questionable grammar". and that is how it was done.

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    1. Exactly! As if there weren't ignorant rednecks all over this damn country. And the accents the actors used were so fucking fake. Except in Mayberry.
      Isn't Maggie great with that chocolate on her dress? She was so happy. They all were.

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  14. This post makes me so happy!

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  15. What a wonderful time you all had. Makes it all worthwhile somehow doesn't it. I had to laugh when I saw the kids in the cardboard box. I remember rolling around my parents' backyard in the large box the new washing machine came in and had the best time ever. Even though I was about 21 nobody liked to mention it! And I think you're right about this pandemic making so many of us re-evaluate exactly what we want the future to look like - less busy, less running after money, more family time? Who knows!

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    1. Haha! Cardboard boxes never lose their appeal, do they?

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  16. What a heart warming celebration of friendship and family. I feel it in my heart even from here, far away. We had a small family gathering in SF, early birthday for my boy, now 45 years young, with a nod to Mother's Day, and it too felt wonderful. Sending love to Y'all across the miles. x0x0 N2

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    1. The best part about vaccinations to me is that families can come together to celebrate each other again.

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  17. Well, I'm late to the party, and have enjoyed it immensely. Thank you.

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  18. I adore this post. I could feel my heart the whole time I read.

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  19. This is just so much bounty and beauty I can hardly stand it! Scrolling through the photos of your gorgeous family and the food and the joy bursting out of everyone -- well, it's a great start to my morning. Love to all of you and happy belated birthday to Jessie.

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