Wednesday, January 31, 2024

Back To The Big City Of Tallahassee


Honey- those boots weren't made for walkin'. 
And the picture does not do them the slightest bit of justice. They were the sparkliest inanimate objects I've ever seen in my life. You'd need a video of them to really be able to see the way they caught light, tossed light, splashed light, and lit up the world. Those shoes are the disco balls of footwear.
Jessie was modeling them in the Goodwill. 

She texted this morning and asked if I wanted to meet her in town. She was going to take Sophie to get groomed and needed to go to Goodwill to look for costume items. Tomorrow is 100th day at school for August and they can either take in a hundred items of something or dress like a one hundred year old person. Also, Jessie and Vergil and some other folks in the family are going to an Edgar Allan Poe reading at a bar this weekend and dressing appropriately is suggested. Vergil had nothing to wear for the occasion so obviously a trip to the GW was indicated. 

We dropped off Sophie at the groomers and then went and ate lunch. We were at the way north side of town where neither of us ever go. I used to live up there on the road that the pet place borders along with about a million other stores, shops, bars, and restaurants. When I lived there, back in the seventies, I doubt there were thirty houses on that road and it's not a short road. There were a few churches and two juke joints. It was a Black community with one very large house where white people lived. The other white people who lived out there were, to put it bluntly, hippies. My ex-husband and I were two of those. We were so graciously welcomed into the community. I cannot stress that enough. We rented a little bitty house from a woman who lived next door in her double-wide which was a far superior dwelling in all regards to the house we lived in. I've written about this time in my life before and I won't go into it all again tonight but I am so grateful for those months we lived there. Perhaps a year? I don't remember. But I was allowed to be a small part of a community so rich in a completely different culture than the white one I'd always lived in. 
But now that whole area is one mini-mansion after another and although we did not drive down the whole road, just being on a small part of it was almost more than I could bear. If you're interested at all in that time of my life and some of my experiences then, do a blog search for Smitty's Club. 

But back to lunch. We chose a place that serves seafood which you know we love. Jessie had read some good things about the place and so we decided to try it. 
Okay. Let me ask you a question- have you ever worked in food service? If you have and you have nightmares about the worst experiences you ever had working in a restaurant, then you know what was going on in that restaurant today. It really bothered Jessie far more than me. 
First of all, the food was sort of ridiculously expensive. Secondly, the service was wacky. Both servers seemed to get everything wrong from dishes to checks. And there weren't that many tables filled. But you know- you forgive that sort of thing. However, it was one apology after another. "He's new, I'm new, we only have one cook," and so on and so forth. 
We finally got our food after a somewhat extended wait. I had ordered a shrimp po'boy. The roll for the sandwich was not exactly what you'd call fresh. It wasn't grilled or heated. There was some nice looking lettuce and tomato on it and a few dabbles of what was described as "our own Remoulade sauce." No worries. I threw the Louisiana hot sauce to it and tried one of the shrimp. It was way too salty and fried so hard that it was like trying to eat a piece of something chewy wrapped in asphalt. 
Also, the thickness of the bread and the lack of moisture created a situation where it was impossible to take a bite of the entire thing. I ended up just discarding the bread entirely and eating the shrimp and lettuce and tomato like a pathetic salad. 
Jessie got shrimp scampi and it had absolutely nothing to recommend it. 
So when the lady server came by to ask us how things were, Jessie said, "Oh, okay," but I said, "The shrimp are over-salted and over-cooked."
I was not fucking around with that shit. 
To her credit, she took my sandwich off the bill. I had been chewing steadily for at least fifteen minutes and had not managed to eat all the shrimp. And I told her- look- I'm eating it! You don't have to do that." And she said, "No. That's okay."

I was not sorry to see that plate go away. 

And then we went off to Goodwill where we had a good time looking at stuff. Here's my nomination of "last thing I'd ever buy in a thrift store."


I'd buy a broken Fry Daddy before I'd buy that. 

Here's something lovely though.


It wouldn't fit either me or Jessie but I should have bought it just to hang on the wall because you know I would. I always love coming upon Indian dresses at Goodwill because they are so often handmade. I think this one may have been. The fabrics are gorgeous and brilliant in their hues and sheens. Just so lovely. 
Jessie did get this.



She did not buy the disco booties but she did buy some other sparkly shoes. Also, vests for both August and Vergil, a pair of shoes for Vergil, and some shirts for the little guys. I found nothing I needed and very little I wanted. I didn't buy anything although I was happy to find some really nice Williams Sonoma place mats that Jessie bought. Their colors made it obvious that they belonged at her table.
And then we picked up Sophie who was a bit traumatized. She looked like a teddy bear going in and more like a lamb coming out. She's such a cutie. 

On our way to the pet place, we'd passed a huge new building that looked like it had to be place of worship of some kind but not anything we were familiar with. There are some HUGE churches on that road, even one that just flat out calls itself a cathedral, because it's rich people territory. But this was...different. And then I figured it out- it's a new Mormon Temple. I'd heard they were building one. The temples are not to be confused with the regular Mormon churches which look relatively normal. Temples are where they hold special secret ceremonies like sealings (marriages) and do Temple work which is where members go and wear special garments and get baptized in proxy for everyone ever born in the history of mankind. Well, that's the goal. So temples are big deals. Here's what this one looked like as we passed it on our way home. 


And there you go. Sorry it's such a crappy picture. 

And last but not least, we went and picked up August and Levon at after-care. I was so happy to see those boys! And I think they were glad to see me but would have been more glad if I had brought them treats. August was carrying a yard sign that said, "Kate Sullivan Elementary A+ Student." 
"Whoa, August!" I said. "I'm so proud of you."
I was quickly informed that no, it was Levon's sign. August had not gotten all A's this semester. 
"What you gonna do?" he asked, as he closed the car door. 




I like their haircuts. Precious boys. 

And here's a picture of some of the blooms on the Japanese Magnolia tree in Jessie's back yard.


Mine here in Lloyd hasn't begun to bloom but all over Tallahassee they are showing their glory and so are the redbuds. 

The wheel of time turns and turns and with it, comes nature's reminder of the repeating patterns that form the structure of our lives whether we realize it or not. 

Or, you know- we can use things like the Super Bowl to keep track of where in the year we are. 

Each to their own.

Love...Ms. Moon



43 comments:

  1. A good hunk of years ago (definitely before Hurricane Ike which hit in 2008 and is how we locate events in time) we toured a Mormon temple in a suburb north of Houston before it was consecrated and forever off limits to non-Mormons. It was a fascinating expedition, an extremely slick operation that moved the gawking gentiles - as I believe they call us non-Mormons - through several staging areas before we got into the temple proper; it involved exhibits and slide shows, all designed to keep us moving along. This was all in tents set up outside where we donned blue booties before entering the temple itself. The interior was furnished and decorated in about a thousand shades of white, carpeting and all (reason for the booties,) and looked a whole lot like the offspring of a funeral home and an events venue. It was bland beyond belief despite its lavish window treatments, chandeliers, etc. And it was interesting as hell. I highly recommend you keep your eye on your local temple’s construction to see if it too will be open for tours. Margaret.

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    1. Once upon a time I would have questioned the "thousand shades of white" but I have been to the paint samples wall at several hardware stores and I believe you. I do prefer the warm whites over the cool ones though.

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    2. "White and delightsome" is from the Book of Mormon. It actually refers to the skin color of their god's favorite people. I AM NOT SHITTING YOU! But yeah, they do love the color white. Purity. Did they talk about the Baptisms for the Dead at that Temple opening event? Did they show you examples of temple garments? I doubt it. They don't want to be seen as too weird so they hide a lot of stuff. I've heard that the decor of the temples is basically like a poorer person's vision of what a rich person's house would look like. They are bland people though, in their color choice. The church of theirs I pass on my way to and from town is brown and beige. Ugh. And if there are any cars in the parking lot, they are mostly white.
      River- you're right. White comes in many shades.

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    3. They weren’t giving away any secrets, that’s for sure. Yes, very much as you’ve heard, bland and gaudy at the same time. And then there’s Mormon religious art, a whole nother category. Margaret

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    4. Oh god. I've heard of that. Did you know that some of the artists of some of those pictures were not even Mormon? It was just a job to make money off of.

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  2. Recently I found out one of my nieces in Florida is Mormon. I guess there are quite a few in the state. I was raised Baptist, but am nothing right now. To each their own, I think all faiths have a story that requires logic be suspended. I am a little uncomfortable with huge, expensive monuments but that's all I want to say.

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    1. The LDS church owns over 2% of Florida. That's a lot of land. They are also the fifth largest private landowner in the US. And of course, they don't have to pay taxes on any of it. At this point, they are far more of a corporation than a religion although they still very much use the religious aspect of the church to keep members in line and paying tithing.

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  3. wow, this post is all over the place and I cannot even begin,,,,,LOL! Love it all.......but only wish someone you know would snap up those silvery glittery boots.....that are made for kicking up the heels for sure!
    Susan M

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    1. Well, if Jessie just could have actually walked more than three steps in them, she probably would have.

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  4. Jessie rocks those boots. Levon rocks red sneakers, too. Shame about your lunch. It's such a disappointment.

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    1. Oh well. As I told Jessie, "We didn't have to wash the dishes."

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  5. Of all these travels, I enjoyed the thriftie the most. The boots! The dress! I need to visit my thriftie.

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    1. You just never, ever know what you would find. I can imagine you finding all sorts of things to make art out of.

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  6. Levon looks like a little man with his haircut! I remember 100 day. William has grown too old for such frivolity😭

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    1. Of course. Children William's age, or Owen's age are way too cool now for that kind of thing.
      Levon IS a little man.

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  7. I love those boots that Jessie was modeling. They'd be nice just to have in your closet.
    That lunch sounds disgusting, at least you don't have to go back there. You know the food is terrible. Hubby and I saw our financial guy this morning and then had lunch out at a new place and it was delicious. Turns out I'll make more money retired than I make working, so I've got that going for me. Huge relief and I started crying.
    100 days of school sounds like a pain in the butt. I suppose the kids could take one hundred pennies.

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    1. WHAT!!!???? You'll make more money retired than working? Well, hallelujah! That's great! I bet you did start crying.
      About the 100 days- I told Jessie just to send the kid to school with a box of wheat thins.

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  8. Marcia in Colorado here ... Geez ... I just got that same haircut today! When I tell my lady to cut it short, sometimes she does and sometimes she doesn't! Today she did! LOL It's an old lady cut!
    Love those sparkly boots ... I would have worn them a long, long time ago! The shawl is a keeper for sure!
    Lunch ... Oh, well!

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    1. Your old lady cut reminds me of one of my favorite kids' book with jokes in it. One of them shows these two kids looking into a hair salon and and one of the children says, "That's my grandmother. She's getting her hair cut so she won't look like an old lady anymore." And the other kid says, "You're right. Now she looks like an old man."
      Although I am sure you do not look like an old man.
      I might have worn those shoes. I had some pretty darn fancy ones.
      Isn't the shall pretty?

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  9. 37paddington: Levon is getting tall, too. What a lovely wander you had with your girl, tough shrimp and all.

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    1. Tough shrimp- oh, who cares when you're having fun with a darling child of yours?
      Levon is getting taller.

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  10. I made Rob drive me to the Portland Mormon Temple last weekend. I was too chicken to get out of the car (SO. MANY. MISSIONARIES. in the visitor's center. "That looks like a lot of uncomfortable conversation about magic Jesus," Rob said. And there WAS a giant huggy Jesus statue in the lobby.) There are lots of Mormons out here in West--I kept hearing John Dehlin and Mormon Stories as we drove through the parking lot and watched folks get scanned in with little suitcases full of their temple garb. The Portland temple is huge and clearly Mormons have a thing for white marble (https://churchofjesuschristtemples.org/portland-oregon-temple/.)

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    1. Oh my god, woman! You are as obsessed as I am with the Mormons! We should start the Never Mo John. Dehlin Fan Club!
      My obsession is unexplainable, even to me but I am comforted by knowing that you understand.

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  11. Eating out here is so disappointing. London did contribute to higher expectations- London food is amazing. Bellingham is pedestrian and expensive, not worth it that is for sure- but eating out company is always great. So whatchagonnado? I would have purchased those shoes just like you would have purchased the east Indian dress- As art!

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    1. Really, Jessie should have gotten those shoes. And yes, I should have gotten that dress.
      I attribute that bad restaurant to the fact that it's in the rich people section of town where they can get away with bullshit like that.

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  12. Oh my gosh -- those precious little boys have grown up so much! I loved reading every one of the words in this post and feel like I've come home after a long nightmarish trip away. Thank you for always being so warm and beautiful and funny. Oh, we have one of those temples out here in Los Angeles -- and there's one in San Diego -- they all look the same. Like Oz, but white. I bet they have a wizard behind a curtain, too.

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    1. Haven't the boys gotten big, Elizabeth?
      You are so right about the man behind the screen. Only in the case of the Mormons, they have 12 apostles behind the screen, making everything happen.

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  13. Please NEVER go back to that seafood place. Hooray for the A+ :)
    I think you should have bought that dress for Maggie to grow into.
    The temple looks like a city Town Hall building that somone forgot to put a clock in at the top of the tower.

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    1. I would not even consider going back to that place! Jessie and I decided that maybe they have good drink specials. They do have a full bar.
      She also said that the Mormon Temple looks like a Lego building.

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  14. Is the apparent obsession with all things religious (and big) a Florida thing or a USA thing? And are they mainly of the christian based sects or do you have representatives of other (arguably kinder) belief systems.
    Yes, I have my cranky pants on. Not helped with your story of seafood abomination.
    You should have bought the dress AND the boots.

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    1. It's a USA thing but Florida definitely has its share of crazy religious stuff. The main capitol of Scientology is in Florida. Look that up if you don't know what Scientology is. Another cult.
      Yes. Probably a large proportion of American religions are Christian based but that covers a whole lot of ground. Everything from giant Evangelical Churches to very small churches with only a few members. Even within the religions themselves, there are different branches. There are, though, non-Christian in the US. Wikipedia seems to have a pretty good article about that if you are interested. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion_in_the_United_States#:~:text=The%20most%20popular%20religion%20in,Mormonism%20or%20the%20Jehovah's%20Witnesses).
      Don't get me started on lousy seafood.

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  15. When I was 15 (i.e. before I could legally get a job) I worked all summer in my aunt's café, which was on the quayside in Conwy, North Wales. Problem was, they catered to the fishing trawlers so we had to be up with the tide in order to get the fishermen their breakfasts. I earned my money that year, I can tell you. But I do remember one old bastard who would always speak to me in Welsh, which was embarassing because I didn't speak Welsh. Well one day some French people came in and I spoke to them in French - he never did it again after that!

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    1. I bet you DID earn your money that year. I can't imagine a job much harder or demanding than that one.
      Glad you were able to shut the old Welsh bastard up.

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  16. Oh, now I wish I had gotten a picture of the woman I saw wearing silver go-go boots the other night when I was out for dinner! But, as August so wisely said: "What you gonna do?"

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    1. Yes! I wish you'd gotten and posted a picture of that!
      I swear- the expression on August's face when he said that was so perfect.

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  17. August is a stitch. "What you gonna do." The perfect response.

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  18. It will be fun to see August dressed up as a 100-year-old person. Hope you get a photo from Jessie. Sorry about your lousy lunch. Cross that place off your list.
    There is an Open House at my grandsons' school tonight and I get to go! I'm looking forward to that. I'm so glad these 2 now live close to me.

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  19. In my mind's eye I can see this "last thing" statue whatever being hurled across a room by a frustrated wife of a preacher.

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  20. I love seeing those blooming magnolias! And I also love any post that has to do with thrifting. Jessie scored with that white poncho but I CAN'T BELIEVE she passed up the sparkly boots!

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    1. I never go thrifting without thinking of you, Steve. And that is the solemn truth.
      Jessie should have gotten the boots. You cannot believe their sparkle.

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