I did something today that I've been thinking about doing for a long time which was to use my beach umbrella in the garden for shade. The reason I've never done it before is because every time I'd think about it I would also think, "That is ridiculous."
For some reason though, today I decided that the possible benefits would outweigh any ridiculousness. I think my biggest concern was that it would only cast shade on a small area but after considering this once again, I realized that moving the thing would not be that big of a hassle. I could simply pull it up and put it where it would shade the place I wanted to weed next. The soil in the garden is fairly loose and not hard to screw the umbrella down into.
And so that's what I did.
It worked out quite well.
I didn't get that much weeding and mulching done but I put a few hours' time into it and I am happy with that for now. I crawled around on my hands and knees and I listened to a Mormon Stories podcast and then I mulched the area I'd weeded.
I've almost quit listening to Mormon Stories podcast after years of having a fairly genuine addiction to it. To this day I am not sure why but I did and I don't regret all those hours. I mean, I was always doing something else while I listened. Weeding or sweeping or making the bed or folding the laundry. Whatever. And for some reason, I just must have needed to learn about The Church of Latter Day Saints of Jesus Christ.
And boy, did I!
I feel quite certain that after listening to a few thousand episodes, I know more about the history and present day practices of the church than most of its members do. I had a little crush on the man who started the podcast and hosted it, John Dehlin. He started the podcast in 2005 which was early days for podcasts and when he began it, he was trying to help members find reasons to stay active in the church. He had had his own crisis of faith after having spent his life as the very best Mormon boy of all times and could not imagine a life without the church, nor could he believe that he and his wife could possibly raise their children without the church as a way to guide and shape them.
Well, eventually he gave up on the trying to stay active part and got a PhD in clinical and counseling psychology. His dissertation was on the the Mormon experience for LGBTQ+ individuals.
Spoiler alert: The Mormon experience for LGBTQ+ individuals was not and still isn't good.
The church excommunicated him for apostasy in 2005.
They've also now sued him for using the word "Mormon" in the name of his podcast.
Okay. Enough of that. Obviously, I am still a fan.
So yes. I weeded, I mulched, I listened to an interview John Dehlin did with a woman who has recently written a book about her experiences being brought up in the Seventh Day Adventist church and her eventual leaving of that religion. The similarities in the Adventist church and the Mormon church are striking and sometimes humorous and you know what they really have in common?
They are both cults. As are so many other high-demand religions.
Besides doing those things, I got to visit with the Weatherfords who came out to return some tools Vergil had borrowed so that Mr. Moon can take them to the cabin to use there. And Jessie brought me a new supply of clay because she is so kind and sweet to her old mother. She won't be attending classes this summer as she'll be in North Carolina for most of it but I will and she has handled every bit of the clay purchasing for me since I started taking pottery.
The boys tussled like puppies on the little couch in the library between Jessie and me as we tried to talk and she said, "It's the first day of summer vacation and I already wish there were more camps I could put them in." She's got them in two different day camps (basketball for Levon and art for August) for the two upcoming weeks so she can get ready for their annual trek up to Black Mountain.
Those boys. They are exactly who they are and I love them immensely. Of course. They're funny and smart and sassy but not rude.
They couldn't stay long because Jessie needed to take a nap as she's working tonight. When they left I gave the boys a bye-bye treat which I haven't done in quite awhile. Today that treat was three peanut M&M's apiece. Surprisingly, they did not groan or ask for more or accuse me of being stingy. They just said thank-you and ate them with pleasure. It took awhile for the tool transfers to take place and then there was a trek out to the garage where the ground wild pork is being kept in one (yes, one) of the freezers and the boys, who were in the car, began to do the puppy thing again. When all had been taken care of and we were well and truly saying good-bye, Boppy told those boys to be good.
"You don't want me to come over there and give you the side-eye, do you?"
Somehow the side-eye has become a thing for the three of them.
Here are some pictures of those boys demonstrating the side-eye.
They're getting good at it.
That area around August's scar between his eyebrows which is red?
That's paint.
He got the scar from an accident involving a Nerf missile launcher or something like that. He will have it all his life and I hope he tells anyone who asks that he got it protecting his family from a bear.
You may also notice that Levon has his hair in braids. He asked his mama to do that, wanting to look like one of his favorite musicians and she did. Levon's a guy who loves to experiment with hair styles, jewelry, his clothes, and other fashion elements.
Jessie took this photo right after she gave him his braids. I believe that although Levon is front and center, it is the slight sight of August behind him that makes the picture.
Off to go cook some...triggerfish! I'm not sure I've ever cooked triggerfish. This should be fun. And hopefully tasty.
Love...Ms. Moon





Those boys are so adorable -- they have golden skin!
ReplyDeleteThey do, don't they? August always has and Vergil and Jessie make sure they both get plenty of outdoor time.
DeleteThat boy is doing a complete side face! Too funny. I love that his love of fashion and accessories and all that fun is being allowed for and encouraged. It's not always the case for young kids.
ReplyDeleteIt's all encouraged in this family! We celebrate our differences around here. And we all do love to have fun.
DeleteThat's a lot of serious little braids! So I want to take your Jessie to coffee when they come to Black Mountain. We can talk clay! I'd love to meet her. If you don't have my email, I'll gladly send it to you, or the phone for texting. Of course I may not be here all that much longer this summer...but hey, meeting her will be almost like meeting you, only different!
ReplyDeleteBarbara! That would be so cool! I'll let Jessie know. Send me your email and text #. My e-mail is right up there at the top of my page under my name. And here it is again-
Deletemmerluna@aol.com
And I'll be up to visit, perhaps sometime in July. We can meet for real!
It would be hard to keep a straight face while getting the side-eye from these two! I suspect Mr. M can make his more severe, although he doesn't have that kind of face either. Love this. Those braids must have taken some serious time (I say that having spent most of my childhood in 2 braids that were so tight I could hardly move my eyebrows).
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the weeding. We are getting rain for the first time in a month and it's in the 40s so gardening was a no-go today. Maybe tomorrow!
Ceci
Those boys have some seriously good facial expressions. Glen can do a pretty good side-eye too but not nearly as good as the ones I can do. Trust me.
DeleteJessie said she spent an hour doing those braids. They sat and watched The Great Pottery Throw Down while she was doing it. She said it was a sweet hour.
Temps in the 40's- I'd be freezing to death.
I love the braids! And how Jessie is so kind as to buy your clay for you. I beach umbrella is a fine idea for gardening. You could even sit under it for reading or shelling peas or whatever else you could do outside. I would copy that idea if my own garden soil wasn't rock hard and full of tree roots. There is just no way I could screw an umbrella into that! I don't need to be out there weeding anyway, weeds don't grow out there.
ReplyDeleteJessie is a very, very thoughtful person.
DeleteI have my porches to sit on for those activities and I love them so much. But the umbrella idea is a good one, I think, for weeding.
Your garden sounds pretty severe in nature. No pun intended.
Those boys are very talented at giving side-eye! Do they know about stink-eye yet?
ReplyDeleteI don't know! That's an important skill to have too. We shall have to discuss that.
DeleteIs it just me, or is August giving Levon the side-eye in that last picture?
ReplyDeleteKinda-sorta. I love the expression on his face.
DeleteAlso- hello! I don't know that we've met. I just read a few of your posts and I like your writing.
DeleteI am so envious of your triggerfish! I know you have cooked it once a while ago because I remember also envying you then, ha! It's one of my favorites and I haven't had it since I was a kid. But my dad always did the hard parts, so even though I've caught triggerfish, my dad got them off the hook and cleaned them. I hope you enjoyed it!
ReplyDeleteLots of love -Rachel
Oh, Rachel! You are right! From here on out your are my official rememberer and object locator. Okay? Thank you very much!
DeleteThe trigger fish was great. I sort of used a recipe I found online and I thought it was really good.
Ha! Sure! I really remember far too much. And I have always been extraordinarily good at finding things.
DeleteSo glad you enjoyed the triggerfish!!
Your grandsons are absolutely adorable. I love the photos of their side-eyes!
ReplyDeleteThey are growing up Too Damn Fast.
DeleteThey're still pretty cute though.
Using your beach umbrella for shade while weeding is a great idea. I also like the bench next to the umbrella for a rest (and maybe a cold drink) after a round of weeding.
ReplyDeleteGM's side-eye signal is very familiar to me. My mother was a master at giving visual cues. They were serious. Nobody dared to defy a signal. The boys mastering the side-eye is quite funny and all in good fun.
I have mixed feelings about religion. The cult aspects I deplore.
In my experience, churchgoers can be lovely until you question or refuse to comply.
I hope the boys love their summer camp experience.
When it's time for a rest and a break from weeding around here, it's straight to the house to cool off in the AC for a little while. And lots of water-drinking.
DeleteMother's can definitely communicate with one look, can't they? Speaking of religion, I think that church is one of the places they use that talent the most.
My feelings about religion aren't very mixed, as you know and one of the reasons for that is based on exactly what you said.
The boys are going to get a lot of camp this summer. They'll be going to an overnight camp for two weeks while Jessie is the camp nurse.
Your August and Levon remind me so much of my grandsons, Thomson and Michael! I just got the text that my youngest son, Tom, and his wife, Edith and Thomson and Michael have safely arrived in Rwanda. They will be there for a month and will get to visit Edith's family and friends. They haven't been there since the boys were only 1 and 2 years old so it will be a happy time for them. I sure will miss them but the time goes fast and, luckily, they can keep in touch via WhatsApp.
ReplyDeleteOh man! Rwanda! What a fantastic adventure! How cool that the boys' mama has family there. I know you'll miss them but they will come home and you can love 'em up.
DeleteThose two boys are a hoot. That's a good idea using the beach umbrella. Wouldn't work here, the ground is not compatible. I'd be sweting and cussing before I ever got it in enough.
ReplyDeleteYeah. If it wasn't easy to move the umbrella would be of no use.
DeleteLevon's braids are awesome! I got a good laugh from them -- in an admiring way. It's great how Vergil and Jessie let those boys explore and experiment and become their true selves. The side-eyes are great too. I wondered why August had that scar, though I'm confused about why there's paint on it!
ReplyDeleteI've never listened to Mormon Stories but I think Dehlin should take it as a good sign that he's been sued. That means he's speaking the truth and the church fathers don't like it.
Don't ask me about the paint. He was a little vague when questioned.
DeleteExcommunicated AND sued. The church is definitely afraid of him. The truth is though, that Dehlin never, ever has told anyone they should leave the church. That's not how he lives his life. He just tells the truth and lets people come to their own conclusions and sometimes the truth is harsh.
Side eye is such an important skill to have in life. My dogs can give it as well:)
ReplyDeleteI'm only just starting to get working in my garden but I'm enjoying it. The pear tree and the apple tree are flowering and my fritillaria is up which I always enjoy.
You will miss those boys but it's so nice that they get to spend summer with their other grandparents and cousins. Love Levon's braids!
Dogs are definitely side-eye masters.
ReplyDeleteWhen your spring hits, it hits hard! You'll be spending lots of lovely time outdoors.
I always get pretty sad when the Weatherfords leave for North Carolina but it also makes me so happy to know that they're getting this whole other life in a way. It's good.
Those side-eye photos are hilarious. Not very threatening, but hilarious. And you’re right about the final photo being even better having Levon in it.
ReplyDeleteLevon looks good with his Braids. I had wondered about the Scar August had. The Side-Eye, they do have it Down!
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