If you are especially observant (and no one needs to be that observant), you may notice that this hibiscus-to-be is not the one I had drying from last week to hopefully go into the kiln this week.
Sigh.
That hibiscus looked like this.
And THAT hibiscus which was the single most thing I've made in pottery ever that I felt truly, truly satisfied with and excited about.
So of course I broke it this morning.
I picked it up incorrectly by one of the petals and that was that. It fell apart totally and completely. I understand now that when clay gets to what they call bone dry, a stage of hardness before it goes into the kiln, it shatters like that.
So I sure as shit learned a lesson and I shouldn't have picked it up like that anyway.
But. What can one do?
I started another one. I am not nearly as happy with it as I was with the first one. When I was making that one, I felt as if my hands had a mind of their own somehow. This time I felt awkward and incompetent. Everyone kept saying, "This one will be easier because you already made one," but it wasn't.
I have finishing to do on it, including making the filament and related sexy parts. And then it will have to go into the kiln and if I'm lucky it'll only take a week to get it fired and then I'll glaze paint it and it will be fired again...
And so forth.
Sigh.
But you know- it was not the end of the world. It didn't even register in the "bad things that can happen" category. It was just a thing made out of clay and no one will go hungry or be injured because it broke.
And I still enjoyed class a lot. It was another class where everyone concentrated on their projects but we chatted a lot, too. We laughed and we hugged. Lizzie was back from her journey and her gentleman caller stepped in to say hello. We all get a little tittery when he comes in. He's so handsome.
Jessie is working on some amazing things and why I didn't get a picture of them is beyond me. I just sort of forget. Another class member is working on a beautiful vase and Lizzie is making the most precious little whippet dogs. And today there was an airedale, too. She has whippets and adores them although I'm not sure about who has the airedale. Gentleman caller? I know their first real meet-up was at the dog park.
Our Shelly in the class went to a festival this weekend and we were all excited to hear about that. She is making exquisite bowls. And there is another woman in our class who also makes beautiful bowls. She is starting to struggle with memory but she has no problem remembering how to sit at the wheel and throw a bowl.
After class, Jessie and I went to the Mediterranean restaurant which is always good and Lily, Lauren, and Gibson came in to sit with us and visit. They'd just had a big brunch so were not hungry. Gibson was out of school because he needed to get an ID today. The official kind that you get at the driver's license place.
And the reason? Now that he is fourteen, he has gotten a job at Publix. He will start out as a bagger, as everyone seems to do. He is so excited. In his Gibson way, which is quiet but very smiley. He is one of those people who KNOW stuff. Like, facts. Like facts about presidents and scientific things and, oh hell, I don't know. But he does. He was explaining the presidency of John Quincy Adams to us today and all of us were rather astounded. He was so much more educated on how our government works than any of us adults that we were sort of ashamed. And then he told us about a duel that Andrew Jackson was in wherein he cheated and killed the other guy.
We were not surprised about that.
As I said to my grandson, "He was a son of a bitch."
I felt fairly sure of my facts in that statement.
And so it went. I stopped by Costco on my way home for avocados and cherry tomatoes and a few other necessities including some face cream which is absolutely going to erase years from my skin.
It will be a miracle!
Of course I don't believe that but what the heck? You gotta put something on your face before you go to bed. A girl needs something fun like new face moisturizer now and then.
Am I right?
Glen's been having a time of it and I haven't even discussed the tooth that caused him pain all weekend and probably a lot longer than that. He does not bitch about pain so if he even mentions it, I know it must be pretty bad. He hasn't had a regular dentist in quite awhile so I sent him to my dentist, the young and lovely Dr. Jones who took over my old, longtime dentist's practice when he retired, and he liked her fine and today she pulled the tooth that hurt and so that was a relief. He is now on a journey to take better care of his teeth and I am very proud of him. He spent so much time in a dentist's chair as a child and in college that he has avoided dentists as much as possible but it's time to man-up and get this done.
He decided that what he needed after the extraction was a little water therapy and so he is out on the St. Marks river, fishing for bass and loving his life.
Here are two videos he sent me which absolutely belong in the OMGitswicks category of Only in Florida.
And this one has manatees in it.
So I guess he's had about the perfect day.
Well, except for having to get a tooth pulled.
He just got home so I guess I'll go heat him up some soft food.
And by the way- I did not get the kitchen mopped AGAIN!
Tomorrow. I swear. Tomorrow.
Love...Ms. Moon
And yet another P.S.
The link to the video of the Oprah episode Hank was on can be found HERE.
Oh my heart.
Thank you, Anonymous. So much.



Well, shit! on your hibiscus!🌺 my heart would’ve dropped.
ReplyDeleteThe manatee is so beautiful!
I can’t believe Mr.Moon could do anything after getting a tooth pulled! I guess I had a baby tooth pulled four years ago though and managed to adopt a precious 10-year-old Pomeranian named Enzo later that day! But it hurt like a motherf.
I watched Hank on Oprah earlier today and he was so poised, and I’m glad he grabbed that little overconfident asshole in the polo with a sweater inside the Tallahassee Mall. (Maybe I should not admit that. Oh well. I did.) But Oprah was definitely disappointing that day. WTF.
-Nicol
Glen seems to have a very high tolerance for pain which is why when he was really obviously suffering from that tooth, I knew it was serious.
DeleteHank was a shining star! Still is.
Manatees, that's really exciting. Thanks for the video. Too bad about the broken piece, so now you know not to do that, oh well. And that effortless feeling will return. It just doesn't come on command, sigh.
ReplyDeleteSo many things you could say that about- "It just doesn't come on command."
DeleteAnd yes.
Sigh.
Weren't those manatee lovely?
How can anyone possibly know how fragile a newly made plate can be. Oh well, accidents happen. Your replacement plate is coming along nicely.
ReplyDeleteHank's recollection of the story and the Oprah experience was a bit different. A few new details and all. Thank you Hank.
Nothing seems to stop GM. Fishing likely helped him recovery after the tooth extraction.
I should not have picked up that plate the way I did but if I had had any inkling how brittle it was, I wouldn't have.
DeleteI am so proud to share part of Hank's story.
Very little does ever stop Glen. He's tough, that one.
Unfortunately the link does not work for me. Please share the date and maybe I can find the show your son was on. I am interested in what he had to say, My niece is gay and my step daughter is trans so I am always interested in this subject. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteThe link should work now.
DeleteI wonder if you find your niece and your stepdaughter to be the most interesting people in your family.
Yeah, no link! I did find a two minute clip and for sure that red head was Hank but alas, Hank couldn’t get a word in edgewise at least not in that clip. /Sarah
ReplyDeleteI think I fixed it!
DeleteI can't get the link to work but I would love to see Hank on Oprah. Good on him for doing that and good on your for letting him go, even if you were overwhelmed with May and surgery and life.
ReplyDeleteThose manatees are beautiful. What gentle creatures.
I pretended to drop my moon vase at pottery this morning and a couple of the ladies made loud noises. Usually with my luck, if I try a smart ass move like that I do break something, but not this morning:)
Well, as Hank said, I probably couldn't have stopped him.
DeleteThat was indeed an overwhelming time. I feel certain you understand.
Manatees always amaze me with their size. They are huge! And such alien creatures in a way. They are very gentle although I hear that if you're in a kayak or canoe and come across a pod of them during mating season, it gets scary.
Don't even PRETEND to drop that vase.
And I just looked up to see what a group of manatees is called. An aggregation! Or a herd.
DeleteHis accent! Mrs. Moon, you did not tell us what a beautiful old-leather-and-whiskey voice your Mister has. So good. —Jenn, also woman who has a man with a beautiful down-home voice
ReplyDeleteSometimes Glen does have that voice but usually he sounds less husky. But yes, almost everything about my man is pretty down home.
DeleteThe link did not work but I found it just by googling Oprah 1994 gay students/bully...
ReplyDeleteThe manatees wow - what a treat! I can see why Mr. Moon wants to spend his days on the water- truly beautiful, peaceful.
this must be drop pottery day- I dropped one and there was BLUD!!
We have some of the most peaceful, beautiful rivers I can imagine. We are very lucky in that regard. And there is a lot of wildlife both in them and around them.
DeleteI read your post about dropping that vase on your toe and I feel so sorry for you!
Oh my word, that truck on a what? Floating platform? That's hilarious!
ReplyDeleteGlen said it was like a pontoon barge. Even he was a bit surprised to see such a thing coming down the river.
DeleteI'm going to google the minimum working age for Australia because I think it is 15 but I could be wrong. Congratulations Gibson, I am sure you will do well.
ReplyDeleteToo bad about the broken Hibiscus :-( . The little videos are nice.
I don't bother with fancy promises for face creams, I just stick with the same old Nivea that I have been using for decades.
When a child is fourteen, there are very strict laws about how many hours a week they can work and things like that. I'm not sure I would agree that it should be legal but it is. And if didn't hurt Owen. He's still at Publix and getting promoted.
DeleteI've never been one for fancy face creams either but this was at Costco so it really didn't cost that much. I like Nivea too.
I came back to watch the Oprah clip and only watched half because I'm cooking dinner, my goodness Hank had gorgeous hair back then! And that little dweeb next to him needed to learn some tolerance and also, Maybe, how to ignore things he doesn't like or agree with.
DeleteSeeing the manatees is amazing and that’s my first pick-up boat. The link doesn’t work, but I did find the Hank-Oprah episode myself. I am in awe of Hank. To be that calm and poised in that situation and at that age. Do you suppose those homophobic classmates are more enlightened now? One can hope.
ReplyDeleteNot only are the homophobic classmates more enlightened, at least one of them has come out as...GAY! Are we surprised?
DeleteNot at all surprised!
DeleteYour link didn't work for me but Linda Sue's advice did. Your Hank did such a great job looking calm and sounding so logical. I would have been a nervous wreck! I wonder if those guys changed their views as they got older. I hope so.
ReplyDeleteHank has always had a strong sense of self. Always.
DeleteSee my reply to Mitchell above about those guys changing their views.
Gibson takes after his Uncle Hank in the knowing stuff department! My son has that same kind of mind, facts just lodge themselves in his brain and remain accessible there, able to be connected with new facts as they arrive. Your new hibiscus plate will be just as beautiful, and perhaps you will make a whole set of them. That would be so cool. Speaking of cool, I'm off to watch Hank on the Oprah episode.
ReplyDeleteGibson has a history teacher whom he really likes but he knows a lot of stuff that's not about history. And you can be pretty sure if he says something, it's true. People with that sort of mind baffle me.
DeleteI hope the new plate is nice. The glaze ends up having SO much to do with it.
Oh, I'm so excited we have a video of at least a portion of that Oprah show! I will watch it ASAP.
ReplyDeleteI loved Glen's videos. The first one made me laugh so hard. Gotta take the truck on the river! I showed it to Dave and he said, "Only in Florida." And I said, "That's what Mary called the video!"
The manatees were astonishing. We could see them so clearly.
I can't believe Gibson has a state ID and a JOB! This is the child who was three, I think, when I first met him!
So sorry about the hibiscus bowl. It's not the end of the world but it still sucks.
I'm pretty sure that even Glen had never seen such a thing. But yes, definitely- only in Florida. That was Floridaing at its best.
DeleteAren't manatees the most amazing creatures? They just don't look like anything else on the land or in the sea as far as know.
Yes! That little guy you met is now a 5'9," fourteen year old workin' man.
Breaking my bowl did indeed suck.
Thank you, as always for the sweet mention of me and my GC. My sister has fallen in love with an Airedale and that is the reason I am swerving away from my beloved whippets for a moment. See you next Wednesday! ❤️ Lizzie
ReplyDeleteOh! I missed that part of the story! So MUCH going on in that class, right?
DeleteThe music thing was pretty funny.
And yes, definitely see you next Wednesday.
Just. Wow. Just that...wow. on the Vid!.. you have raised children/ people who are whole, strong and *know who they are* sure of themselves people. I was in awe watching this vid. Thank you. Bless you Hank! I cried....for the sheer strength behind the narrative... Just WOW. So sure, so strong..... what could be better? Nothing.
ReplyDeleteSusan M
All of my children astound me with their strengths. I am the luckiest mother of all.
DeleteThose grand babies of yours are growing up so fast!
ReplyDeleteFun on the river. Sorry about hibiscus bowl number uno...hope the next one survives and is even better!
ReplyDeleteI would of beat up an entire high school for your Hank as a teen. xxalainaxx
ReplyDeleteI have absolutely no doubt you would have. You and Hank would have been best friends.
DeleteI’m in total awe of Hank! He was so calm and sure. It seems like he was the most mature person in that entire room.
ReplyDeleteXoxo
Barbara