Thursday, December 25, 2025

We Did It And It Is Done!


I do believe this rainbow wreath on the purple door of Lily's house sums it all up for our family. We are quirky, we are not traditional and yet we keep the traditions in our own way which is often a very gay way and we are NOT AFRAID OF COLOR in any aspect. 

When I got up this morning I wasn't certain I was going to be able to make it to the gift-opening/lovely meal at Lily and Lauren's house. The strained muscle between my ribs seemed worse than it did yesterday and I didn't want to be touched or even move more than I had to. But as the morning progressed, it did loosen up and I reminded myself that the third day after an injury or a surgery or whatever can be the hardest. Even when it comes to childbirth, the midwives say- on the third day the milk comes in and so do the tears.
I managed to pull up the big girl panties and made Glen a breakfast. Not a full-on Sunday morning type of breakfast but it did involve sausage and eggs. 
And then I peeled the eggs I boiled yesterday and smushed up the yolks with traditional old southern lady ingredients which (for this old southern lady) are mayonnaise, Miracle whip, sweet pickle relish, mustard, salt, and pepper. Sprinkled on top with paprika. 
No candied jalapeƱos, no dang caviar, no fresh herbs, no cheese or shallots. In short, deviled eggs as the god of Sunday dinner on the grounds has ordained. 

So we did make it over to Lily's and I have to say that Xena (aka, Large Marge) was the center of attention although here's a picture of me that Rachel took, trying to give a little love to Pepper, Lauren's sweet old lady dog. 


And here's a picture of Rachel getting her pet therapy. 


Xena is the sweetest puppy. She's laid back, she's cuddly, she shows affection and receives affection until she gets tired and then she goes and lays down on her bed and takes a nap. 
And as you can see, she is getting larger by the moment. 
Here she is loving on Michael whom all animals adore. 


"I want a dog," he said. 
"Well, let's get a house and then we can get a dog," May said. 
She is a sensible woman. 

The gift openings were quite civilized this year. No frenzied screaming or frantic tearing of paper off of presents. All of the wrapping paper made its way directly into a huge garbage bag about which Hank asked Lily, "Are you getting rid of bodies this year?"
We kept the gifts down to a bare minimum and I think everyone appreciated that a lot. 

Hank and Rachel gave me two very lovely, very appropriate things they knew I'd love. 



Official Rolling Stones Christmas ornament. Of course I will hang it somewhere I can look at it every day and it will stay there 365 days a year. 

They also gave me this little zipper bag. 


I love it so much and how I miss the library card, stamped and named, and put in the box as having been checked out.

And then the next thing I opened was May's gift which was a Mexican banner and this little box of matches. 


It is a Little Women Christmas and that's all right with me. 
We are a Little Women Family. 

After the delicious meal Lauren and Lily had made, Glen and I took our gifts to the Weatherfords along with the little chicken salad I made. Also Rachel and Hank's gifts. They had to go home early. Rachel is having extremely serious back and spine issues which of course affect every damn thing in the body in the worst sort of way.
We got to see August and Levon outside and that was far better than nothing. 



The recipients of the WhirleyPops and Tupperware sets were thrilled. And Maggie told me that what we got her, which was an interactive (?) Lilo and Stitch puppet, was the main thing she'd wanted. 


She had already started creating scripts for their adventures when we left. My smart, pretty grandgirl. 

Y'all, I am as tired as I've ever been. I'm about to go crawl into bed, beyond, beyond, beyond glad that Christmas 2025 is done. 

I sincerely and truly hope that each and every one of you has had a good day, depending on however you define that. And I'd like to share something Hank texted us all this morning when we were checking in with our various ailments and pains. 
It was this.

Merry Christmas! Individually we're kind of broken, but as a family we're whole! 

And of course I cried. Hank has always been the wisest one of all of us. 

Sweet dreams. 

Love...Ms. Moon







31 comments:

  1. Another Christmas done and dusted and in the books. My day was spent with some of my family, eating and playing cards. Good times. I love Hank's saying. I'm going to write it down before I forget it.

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    1. Amen! On the Christmas being done and dusted. Whoo-hoo!
      Hank can be incredibly insightful and he knows how to put things into words. He always has.

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  2. You survived, we survived, and Hank's comment is perfect. Hope you are feeling less broken in body tomorrow. Chris from Boise

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    1. Body feeling better, thank you. I'm just so relieved it's all over for another year.

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  3. Hank's comment should be engraved on precious metal, embroidered in silk, handplaced in diamonds and shouted from the rooftops. What a wise man.

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    1. He IS a wise man. And I tell you what- I might have to take up needlepoint again in order to make something to hang on the wall with those words.

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  4. Hank is a sage. How exceptional that, as a family, you are whole. Hope you’re feeling much better today.

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    1. We are rather unusually united, I think. There don't seem to be any underlying resentments or disagreements. Of course we don't all agree on everything but overall, we respect each other very much and that goes for opinions, too.
      I am feeling better today. Thank you.

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  5. What a day! So glad you had a chance to see everyone, no matter their conditions. I hope all are getting better soon.

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    1. I think it's going to take the flu-people at least a few more days to get entirely back to normal. That is one hell of an illness.

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  6. I love Hank’s comment. What a beautiful family. -Nicol

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    1. It's funny how diverse we all are in some ways but not in the ways that would cause division. Thank goodness! On religion and politics we're all on the same page and those are the bigs one that break up families. Mostly.

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  7. I'm glad you survived and thrived! And I hope you feel better soon. You're looking great, though, you'd never know!

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    1. I don't know how much thriving I did. I surely was glad to get home and I slept for a crazy amount of time last night. And this morning. But I've been pretty productive today.

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  8. Those Rolling Stone ornaments are perfect for you! And I love the rainbow wreath!

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    1. That's only one ornament, front and back. I'm trying to figure out where it needs to go. It's SO flashy. Like...Jumpin' Jack Flash. Or something.

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  9. I am reading about so many people who are really sick this Christmas, and those of us who are not sick physically are heartily sick of this shitshow that is being forced upon us. Ask Hank for some wise words on this topic because honest to God, I have none at the moment.

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    1. You're right. So many of us are heartsick at what's going on in our country. You know it's bad when the only obvious solution to a problem is to hope that natural causes kick in and knowing that even then, all will not be well for a long, long time. If Hank gives me any wisdom, I'll let you know.

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  10. i'm sorry to hear you are still sore but glad you all got to get together. santa's gift to me was two-fold. a fair evalaution from a better admin and someone else who got moved GOT SENT TO CENTRAL OFFICE TO PUSH PAPER vs being in a building and continuing to bully adults and children alike. collective action works.
    xxalainaxx

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    1. Both of those are GREAT news. Finally. You've been dealing with this shit for a long time.
      I hope you and Tony had a very cozy and fine Christmas.

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  11. Sounds like a perfect day and the kind of christmas you needed and by that I mean low key.

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    1. Absolutely. There was no yelling. Well, there's never any angry yelling, just overly enthusiastic yelling. All of that was at a minimum yesterday.

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  12. Hope you and all your family members who aren't feeling well will be feeling fine soon! Our Christmas is done and everyone was happy with their gifts. Leftovers today and tomorrow and then they will be on there way back to Texas. Have a restful day, Mary!

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    1. I can only imagine that you've had all the Christmas closeness and cheer you need at this period in time. It's been great! Now...see you soon!
      At least that's how I'd be.

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  13. All in all I would say that you had a very merry christmas.

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    1. As Christmases go, it was pretty okay although none can compare to the ones I've spent in Cozumel.

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    1. Wasn't it? My kids are always making me cry. But then, I am an easy crier.

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  15. You had a very nice gathering and celebration despite a few aches and pains, and due to flu, minus the Weatherfords. Always something!

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  16. From dawn to dusk, a very fine day.

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  17. What Hank said brought tears to my eyes. Merry Christmas Moons. I’m so sorry your body was hurting. I hope Rachel and the Weatherfords find healing soon too.

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