Tuesday, December 30, 2025

The Tail End Of The Year Is Upon Us


The coconut palm our sweet landlord in Roseland gave me is struggling. I think it probably has culture shock, in the way that plants can have culture shock as in- the culture in Roseland is a lot warmer than the culture here although it may be just the shock of moving it that has it anxious. But Mr. Moon, of his own accord, got a bag of potting soil and repotted it for me in a much bigger plastic pot and that is another gift of love. 
I have been thinking all day that he's in Eufaula, Georgia but I just realized that although Lake Eufaula is in Georgia, Eufaula the town is in Alabama. He drove up there this morning to take his boat to get worked on and don't even ask me why he chose Eufaula but I am quite sure there was a good reason and he should be home any minute now.

He's texted and we've talked on the phone too, and he says it's a beautiful drive up there, back roads all the way, and that Eufaula is a pretty little town. He sent me a picture of his lunch and I'll bet you anything it was excellent in all regards. 


I just realized that the picture was taken from Glen's perspective and looks off to me because of his height. That's a long way down! In case you're wondering, the foods are, left to right, buttermilk pie, turnip greens, fried chicken, a corn muffin, lima beans, and rice and gravy. Sweet tea to drink. 
And that, my friends, is how they do it in these parts. Praise the Lord and pass the hot sauce. 

I went to the dermatologist this morning. I'd looked her up online last night and realized she was a PA (Professional Associate) and not an actual MD but that didn't bother me. What did bother me a tiny bit was that she looked like a high school freshman cheerleader in the photos I found. I mean, Rah! Rah! Bouncy-looking blonde hair! The works! 
But she didn't come off like that at all in the office. Very professional, pleasant, reassuring, and funny too. I mean, she's not going to be doing stand-up anytime soon based on what I saw today but she could could be jokey if it came to that in the conversation. She says my skin looks great except for the fact that I have all these age spots which are a genetic thing and also a sun-exposure thing. She did freeze two places on my face but wasn't concerned. I pointed out one rather dark spot I had noticed and she said, "Wisdom spot." 
"Wisdom spot?" I asked. 
"Yes," she said. "You're getting wiser."
See- I told you she could be a jokester. 
Her assistent who took all the notes was a beautiful young woman named Cherish. Isn't that just the nicest name? 
So that went well and then I went to a store that sells Indian spices and all those things that you can't find in regular grocery stores. What is the approved name for those stores? I used to say "Indian store" and many of the spices and foods are indeed what I would call Indian but is that correct? I just looked it up and the term seems to be Indian market. So. I went to the Indian market. There were lots of shoppers there today. Here's what I got.


I see now that the picture wasn't entirely in focus but oh well. I got the sesame and sunflower seeds for the chili crisp I want to make and I also got some munakka raisins which I've never had before but some chili crisps contain a bit of dried fruit and I thought I'd give these a try. I got the ginger paste because- why not? If it's good, I'll use it. 

When I got home I did a little bit more housework. Toilets, taking trash, and so forth. And then more jeans patching. Now I'm waiting for the man to get home and I'm going to make soup with some of those red lentils. I have half a cabbage, carrots, and a large leek which are some of the things going in it. 

I'm glad I'm going to see that urologist on Friday because I have a stone that's troubling me. This is a very constant story, isn't it? 
Ay yi. 

Tomorrow's New Year's Eve and I have no resolutions and no plans to make any. On New Year's Day we eat black-eyed peas and rice, collard greens and probably some cornbread. I had to fucking BUY collards this year. That's ridiculous. 
Oh well. They're pretty collards and not all cut up and in a bag.

So that's the plan. Do you have a plan? Do you have NYE traditions? I'd like to hear about them. 
I wish we could build a giant pagan fire, big enough to fill up Stonehenge and...
You know what I'd love to do with a fire that big but I'm a cowardly left wing scum. And I refuse to lower myself to the sort of rhetoric those nazis use. Except in their case, I am terrified it's not just rhetoric, it's their hopes and dreams and plans. 

Well. That got ugly quickly. Sorry. 

It's been a hard year. 

Love...Ms. Moon


11 comments:

  1. No traditions here, unless you count being in bed asleep when the ball drops. We had a party going into 2000. Remember the fuss about Y2K? My crazy son-in-law snuck down to the basement and cut off the power for a moment. We had one bottle of cheap champagne. Even the kids got a sip so we could toast the New Millennium. And here we are, dreading what is coming.

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  2. As Carol said, we will also be in bed when the ball drops. We’re expecting ten more inches of snow. So, realistically, being in bed is the best move.
    All the best to you and the Mr. in the New Year! All the best to all of us who believe in democracy! Fuck the regime!

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  3. I always make red beans and rice, greens (mustard this year), and cornbread for dinner. I’ve been doing this for years. This year it’s lumpia with sweet and sour sauce for breakfast.Then hiding until the noise stops. XO Rebecca

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  4. Very left-wing scum here! I'll be glad to help you with that 'fire' project!
    We call PA's here...Physicians Assistants. Many offices employ NP's
    (Nurse Practitioners) or DNPs (Doctor of Nursing Practice). I see more NP's here. Glad your derm appt. went well. Hope the Urologist can do some miracle work. Those damn stones!
    Wishing you a healthy new year and a gentle Maurice. OK...a healthy new year.
    Paranormal John

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  5. We have over 6" of snow and wind in the forecast. I will be sitting in my jammies on NYE eating frozen appetizers I picked up at the store while drinking some Aldi white moscato. I am sleeping in and making pork chops and sauerkraut. Our tradition is a pork roast and sauerkraut but I forgot what I went to get at the store.

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  6. Cornbread, black eyed peas and greens here too. I also burn a bayberry candle like my grandma did. “A bayberry candle burned to the socket brings joy to the heart and gold to the pocket”. More joy for all of us, please!
    Xoxo
    Barbara

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  7. I know that in Canada, people from India are now usually referred to as South Asians. I thought that was the term you were looking for, so "market" caught me a bit off guard, LOL.

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  8. I don't exactly celebrate New Year, but I observe it by doing all the laundry and getting the garbage out. Then I'm very smug on New Years day about how ready I am.

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  9. I consider Solstice to be the flip of the new year. January first is just a new calendar in this house.

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  10. I know exactly what (who) you want to barbecue in that giant fire at Stonehenge. I have no NY traditions, nor do I make resolutions. Tonight I'm having half of a home made pizza for dinner and the other half will be my welcome to 2026 dinner tomorrow. Wisdom spot? I've never heard of that one.

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  11. It's been a hard year for a lot of people, hasn't it. Let's hope 2026 turns the tables on all that shizzle!
    No tradition here. Just gratitude to have been above ground for another year, even if its been hard.
    Whatever is coming, law of averages says there will be sunny days, sitting in the garden, gin and tonics, good food and a sprinkle of joy. Here's hoping. Happy new year, Mary. Thankyou for your wise words, angry words and downright hilarious words. You are a shining light in a dark sky. Xx

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