Tuesday, September 2, 2025

A Beautiful Man, A Beautiful Painting. That's The Most Important Stuff


I got a text from Hank last night telling me that he was sorry and he didn't know if I'd heard but that Graham Greene died yesterday. 
I had not heard. 
I was grateful to Hank for being the one to tell me. It came easier that way. Hank is so protective of me. He knows me well. 

I have no real ties to the prolific and talented and beautiful actor, Graham Greene, but as Hank knew, I loved him. I loved him in that way you can love someone from afar who has brought so much richness to your life. Even if his name isn't familiar to you, you've probably seen him in one movie or TV series or another. His acting career has been long and busy. 
I first became aware of him by way of "Dances With Wolves."


I loved that movie inordinately. It has some serious flaws, especially viewed through the lens of today, but it also had some serious beauty, some excellent writing, some very fine acting. Kevin Costner played the lead and he did well, but it was Greene who was the star of the show in my opinion. I've loved him on "Northern Exposure" and on "Reservation Dogs." In fact, I've loved him in everything I've seen with him in it. I love the way his acting technique was always low-key. He let his eyes and his face show more emotion than his voice and he was a master of that, although he had a beautiful voice, too. 

He was born into the Oneida First Nation in Canada and he died in Ontario, if internet sources are to be believed. His death has prompted a large outpouring of testimonies to his character, his talent, his goodness. I like that. I like it a lot. I hate it when I think so highly of a person and find out that they're really a jerk. I don't think that is the case here at all. 

This all causes me to wonder- why in hell did Graham Greene die yesterday at the age of 73 when Donald Trump, whose death was being hailed as imminent because of his absence from the camera for five days or something like that, is alive and with no signs whatsoever that I could see, of a recent stroke or other associated health crisis. He was able to lie and brag and be his usual complete asshole self- an asshole like this world has never seen!- as well as he ever could. He may have been wearing a diaper and a catheter but his mouth was still flapping and lies were still pouring out and his toadies were still praising him like he was Jesus come again. 

I don't want to talk about it. 

A very good thing happened to me today. I got a piece of artwork in the mail. It came all the way from Hawaii and it's a painting done by an incredibly talented artist named Holly Braffet whose work I have come to know and love through the internet. If you'd like to see examples of her work, please go visit her HERE. She was doing a small online sale of some of her paintings and I jumped at the chance to buy one. 
This is quite unlike me but I will tell you that I want to support Holly and her work in any way that I can and I didn't think twice about buying this painting. 

When I went to the Post Office today, I knew it had arrived because when I checked the mail yesterday, I had a slip in my box, telling me I had a package. It was after noon, so there was no post mistress or post master to fetch it for me but I went back today and there it was. 

I was on my way to town to meet Jessie at Costco for us to do our shopping and I didn't want to open it quite yet and so I saved it for when we went out to lunch, after we'd ordered. I took my handy pocket knife out of my purse (my granddaddy always said that everyone should have a pocketknife and I have followed that advice my entire life) and carefully slit the tape and unwrapped the painting from its bubble wrap and I almost swooned. I love it more than I can say.


Jessie does too. 


Now I just have to figure out where to hang it. When I decided to buy it, I thought I might hang it in the cabin to give me something to love so much that it would give me reason to want to spend time there. But now I'm not sure I can let it get that far away from me. 
This may mean I have to rearrange my entire house but if that's the case- so be it. 
Thank you, Holly. You have made an old woman very happy. 

So. Not much more to talk about. I did boil my tofu last night and then I air-fried it and made the sesame/soy/garlic sauce to go over it and it was good. But I'm not exactly sure what the boiling did for it. But I didn't have to press it or freeze it so there is that. 

Yesterday evening I took some pictures of a golden orb weaver and her web being lit by the setting sun. 
Talk about the golden hour. 


And then, I realized that there was a web within the web. A tiny, almost microscopic spider had built her web using the orb weaver's anchor lines as support. 


And two more pictures. 
This is to illustrate why I can't just let the crocosmia have its way. 



Sigh. When I talk about "invasive" this is what I mean. 

I am ready to go to pottery tomorrow to have another go at the flower bowl with the things I learned what not to do from last week tucked into my pocket. I have made another template and watched the video yet one more time. I have hope. 

Mr. Moon appears to be doing well up in the wilds of Canada. May you be doing the same wherever you are. 

Love...Ms. Moon

50 comments:

  1. The wilds of Canada. LOL. It was smokey today and will be again tomorrow and then it's supposed to clear up. It was cooler today which was so nice.
    I love that painting. I tried your link, it didn't work. I tried looking the lady up, her website didn't work either for me, but I did find her instagram. Love her paintings.
    I loved Graham Greene too. He was a good looking man and an amazing actor. He was also only ten years older than me. WTF!

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    1. Graham was only two years older than I am. I'm pretty much at the anyday/anyway stage of life, I think.
      Yes. Glen said it was cooler. I'm hoping he's in some sort of wilds as he is hunting.
      I see that link isn't working. Glad you could find her.

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  2. have always loved Graham Greene.....not only his acting ..but his physical beauty. I'm VERY sad to hear it. And that painting......ooh......makes me think of *the Harpy* and her beautiful work...which is similar at times. Nah.....I think you should keep this one at your house....the cabin .......at this point......is not *worthy* of it.....IMO only....and I don't mean this in a critical or negative way.....just being *real*...........
    Susan M

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    1. That IS the Harpy's painting.
      You're right about where the painting should go.

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  3. I agree that you love this painting so much it needs to be right where you'll see it a lot.

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  4. Spider art is truly amazing. Holly's measures up i would say! I loved her trees ! Holly's work and spider's , absolute favorites. The painting looks more like your house rather than the cabin. But I know nothing...(hang it in your house, hang it in your house ....)

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    1. You know, I could take it back and forth with me!
      I loved Holly's trees too.

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  5. https://thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/graham-greene#:~:text=Graham%20Greene%20was%20Oneida%20of,1970s%20in%20England%20and%20Canada.

    You might be interested in his extensive (workwise) profile at TCE, where I was subject editor for the film and threatre sections for 13 years.

    His death comes as a shock.

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    1. He fit a lot of roles into that life of his, didn't he? A lot of roles, a lot of living.
      I was shocked.

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  6. That picture is GORGEOUS! I want it. I have a place all picked out for it!
    You lucky girl!

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    1. I'm sure you could convince Holly to sell you a different one!

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  7. Graham Greene was indeed a gift to us, a handsome man and a good one. I didn’t know you loved him like that but it makes so much sense. I’m sorry for your loss, all our loss. He added light to this world. How beautiful Jessie is, holding that exquisite painting. You definitely want to hang that where you will see it every day. I’m looking forward to more pottery chronicles.

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    1. He DID bring light to the world. He was what I would call a very good spirit. I hear he was hilarious in real life. I have no doubt.

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  8. The spider webs are so perfect. I've never seen so much of one before, the light never seems right for catching many threads. The painting is lovely, I'd like to see it in position when you finally decide where to hang it. I see the crocosmia surging forward with much determination. Did Mr Moon dig out the small bit at the cabin?

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    1. Mr. Moon has not dug up the crocosmia at the cabin as far as I know but he may have mowed over it.
      Those spiders are very aptly named, aren't they? Golden Orb weavers.

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  9. Also I am sad that Graham Greene has died at only 73. It seems so unfair. Dances with Wolves is one of my favourite movies and I liked Northern Exposure too. I'll have to look up what else he has been in.

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    1. He's been in a MILLION other things. Seriously.

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  10. What a terrible loss Graham Greene is to humanity. I too first met him in Dances with Wolves. I still love that film, even with it's flaws.
    It's strange how we can "love" someone that we have never met and yet i believe we can and do. I hope you don't think badly of me but I feel the same about you. The things you write have such a resonance with me I could have written them myself.
    As for the picture, it's stunning. It reminds me of the old Dutch master paintings. I'm sure it will bring much pleasure.xx

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    1. It is strange how we can develop such strong feelings for someone we've never met and we KNOW that we cannot really know anyone from their stage presences whether in films or as musicians and yet, I think we can grasp a bit about their souls from what they bring to their art.
      And why would I feel badly about you and what you said? That is a beautiful thing and I hope that if I ever met you, I would not disappoint you too much. I'm glad we have this connection.
      Isn't Holly's art incredible?

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  11. When I saw that Graham Green had died I immediately thought of the author (who, in fact, has been dead over 30 years)! I didn't realize he was the actor Graham Greene. What a handsome man he was!

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    1. Yes, Graham Greene the author lived a good time ago, didn't he?
      Wasn't the actor Greene a gorgeous man?

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  12. The painting is so beautiful! It looks rather Old World-ish, doesn't it? Like a Dutch Master or something like that --

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  13. Im doing well here now in great part thanks to seeing the spectacular Jessie hold that beautiful painting. Itbepreminds me of two paintings my mother bought in 1950. I wish I knew you when I emptied her apartment. I would have sent them to you from New York! So many things I would have sent to you!

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    1. You send me everything I could need or want, Mitchell. You send understanding and light to my life. Thank you.

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  14. I could see a spider’s web a million times and it would never cease to fascinate me!

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  15. Sharing love of Graham Greene's talents. A loss to the entertainment industry as well as the tribes of Indigenous Peoples. The spider web photo is amazing.

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    1. A loss to us all, I think. I believe he did a lot for educating people about Indigenous Peoples. He refused to be put in a cliche-box.

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  16. I saw that yesterday about Graham Greene. A loss to the world. And a very lovely painting, all those voluptuous folds.

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  17. Beautiful painting! You will find the perfect spot in your home.
    Sorry to hear about Graham Greene. I will have to look for some of his work to watch again so I can celebrate his talent.

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    1. That is such a good idea, Ellen. A celebration of life and talent.

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  18. I love the painting! The link doesn't work ... you can find Holly on Pinterest!

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    1. I do not know what's up with that link. If I try to go directly to it from google, I get the same message.

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  19. RIP GG. You will be missed but always remembered. I loved Dances With Wolves too.
    Your new painting is lovely, and I'd hang it somewhere where you will see it every day.
    Your invasive plants are much more aggressive than mine. The same can be said for spider webs. It has to be all the FL warmth!

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    1. Yes, I want to be able to see it every day but I also want it to be in a place that honors it. You know?
      Yes. Our invasive plants are incredibly aggressive. And the spiders do seem to like our climate.

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  20. This is from the obituary for Graham Greene in the Guardian:

    “When I first started out in the business, it was a very strange thing where they’d hand you the script where you had to speak the way they thought native people spoke. And in order to get my foot in the door a little further, I did it. I went along with it for a while … You gotta look stoic. Don’t smile … you gotta grunt a lot.

    “I don’t know anybody who behaves like that. Native people have an incredible sense of humour.

    “And that’s what I said to Kevin [Costner]. I said, you know, the people in this film [Dances with Wolves], in this village, they have an incredible family, incredible relationship and fun has always been part of that. Fun is 50% of how they live and enjoy things. Family is family, no matter what.”

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    1. Yes! Yes! I can remember so many times in the movie when he absolutely portrayed humor with just those eyes. And I think it was mighty good of Costner to listen to him and to follow his advice.
      Thanks for that beautiful quote.

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  21. It is true that your crocosmia "slumps" (for lack of a better word) more than ours does. Ours stands up and gives a sort of grassy effect. Maybe this has something to do with the species or soil or who knows what. Anyway, yeah, I see your point.

    I loved "Dances With Wolves" when it first came out. I went to see it several times and it inspired a real desire in me to get back to nature. In fact, in some ways I imagine it helped fuel my desire to join the Peace Corps. Of course that IS problematic through a modern lens, the white savior and all of that, but still -- it was a powerful movie in its day. And Greene was terrific in it, as was the young Native American actor Rodney A. Grant.

    I've never seen a web within a web!

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    1. Oh, and that painting is perfect for your house!

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    2. Our crocosmia is ridiculous. All that massive growth and perhaps a dozen blooms a year. WTF?
      Interesting about how Dances With Wolves may have influenced you to join the Peace Corp. I know what you mean about the white savior but at the same time, as you were trying (and probably succeeding) to help others, your mind was being opened, your heart too.
      And here's what I have to say about Rodney A. Grant- hand me a fan, honey. I'm having a little flash here.
      Oh, Wind In His Hair!

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  22. I met Graham Greene at our local theatre after he performed in Dry Lips Oughtta move to Kapuskasing. His character, Pierre St. Pierre allowed Mr Greene to be as comedically funny as he could be. He was hilarious! And also human, real, vulnerable and wise. I got a chance to meet the cast, especially Graham, who were very kind to a star struck volunteer.

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    1. Not anonymous…dedicated reader, retired nurse, admirer…
      Laurel

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    2. What a beautiful story! And I would expect no less. I'm so glad you got to meet him. I know you'll never forget that.
      And thank you for being here, Laurel.

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  23. This is a great comedy sketch with Graham Greene ... I think you'd enjoy it if the link works!
    https://www.facebook.com/share/14J135L6Bwp/

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