Last night Mr. Moon and I texted back and forth about our respective suppers. He and the other hunter guys were eating shrimp that he'd taken all the way to Canada in a Yeti ice chest ON THE AIRPLANE!
Y'all have no idea how crazy my husband is. But in a good way.
So while he was sending me pictures of all the different ways they were cooking shrimp, I was sending him pictures of what I was eating. Above you see the cauliflower and asparagus, neither of which are favorites of his.
Carrots and orange bell peppers.
Scallions.
And of course...
The tofu. There were other things that got thrown in there too like spinach and mushrooms, ginger, garlic. In fact, the only thing I really used from the recipe was the peanut sauce.
So after I sent all these pictures to my husband he texted back, "Go ahead girl!"
And I did.
Here's what the temperature on my porch was this morning when I got up.
It was chilly, indeed! But perfectly lovely.
I headed out for a walk around noon and I enjoyed the so-very blue sky and the way the green trees looked against it. There is an intensity of the colors, I think, at this time of year.
Not a good picture but I did not care to cross through the devil's needles to get closer. I thought these were black-eyed susans but my plant app says they are swamp sunflowers which sounds about right for North Florida.
I had an interesting encounter with Harvey. We talked for quite awhile. I saw him when I was on my way home, picking up some things from the yard where the unbelievable amount of junk is and putting them in a bucket. And then he started walking back to his place, about half a mile away or so. I caught up with him when he stopped for a break and immediately he began telling me that the people who owned that property had told him he could have what he'd taken and I absolutely believe that to be true but I think he may have been worried that I would think he'd stolen the stuff which, as far as I could tell, were some random parts of random equipment, none of which I could identify.
Now, it's hard for me to understand Harvey. Not only does he have a very deep and pronounced patois, he also has very few teeth and there may be other things going on there that I am not sure of. But honestly, I only get about a tenth of what he says. Today he seemed to just want to talk about how he had permission to take that stuff and also, the guy who lives next door to the yard with all the stuff in it. Now the guy who lives there is someone I've spoken to several times at the post office and he has an interesting story but I feel it may be his only story. It's also a tragic story. He is gay and I guess his entire family has disconnected from him and he had a husband who was sick with AIDS. He took care of his husband until he died and now he is alone and from what I think Harvey said, he'd talked to Harvey and shown him a picture of his deceased husband and talked in great length about how his family has abandoned him because he is gay and all of this upset Harvey a great deal.
Let us just say that Harvey is not very comfortable around men who show him pictures of their husbands. "I ain't got time for that!" he said at least five times.
I told Harvey that I had a lot of gay folks in my family but he really did not seem to want to converse as much as he wanted to tell his story of this encounter and also, the junk he'd picked up in the yard. For a few minutes he talked about how hard it was for him and how people look down on him, but that he survives. He has not committed suicide and he is trying to get his property back together. I told him that I think he is one of the strongest people I know and that is the damn truth. Anyone who can live on a small piece of land, basically in a truck up on blocks with no electricity has to be strong.
There was more but as I said, I could not understand a lot of it. We parted and I walked on but before we did, he said, "When I see you, I wave because that's all I have."
Oh my god. And you know what? That is just about all he has.
He did discuss his Lord Jesus sign with the two white flags which symbolize peace and how someone had told him he should take that down. I told him that it's his property and he can put up any sign he wants. Hell, I'd rather see that sign any day than a Trump sign.
I had an interesting encounter with Harvey. We talked for quite awhile. I saw him when I was on my way home, picking up some things from the yard where the unbelievable amount of junk is and putting them in a bucket. And then he started walking back to his place, about half a mile away or so. I caught up with him when he stopped for a break and immediately he began telling me that the people who owned that property had told him he could have what he'd taken and I absolutely believe that to be true but I think he may have been worried that I would think he'd stolen the stuff which, as far as I could tell, were some random parts of random equipment, none of which I could identify.
Now, it's hard for me to understand Harvey. Not only does he have a very deep and pronounced patois, he also has very few teeth and there may be other things going on there that I am not sure of. But honestly, I only get about a tenth of what he says. Today he seemed to just want to talk about how he had permission to take that stuff and also, the guy who lives next door to the yard with all the stuff in it. Now the guy who lives there is someone I've spoken to several times at the post office and he has an interesting story but I feel it may be his only story. It's also a tragic story. He is gay and I guess his entire family has disconnected from him and he had a husband who was sick with AIDS. He took care of his husband until he died and now he is alone and from what I think Harvey said, he'd talked to Harvey and shown him a picture of his deceased husband and talked in great length about how his family has abandoned him because he is gay and all of this upset Harvey a great deal.
Let us just say that Harvey is not very comfortable around men who show him pictures of their husbands. "I ain't got time for that!" he said at least five times.
I told Harvey that I had a lot of gay folks in my family but he really did not seem to want to converse as much as he wanted to tell his story of this encounter and also, the junk he'd picked up in the yard. For a few minutes he talked about how hard it was for him and how people look down on him, but that he survives. He has not committed suicide and he is trying to get his property back together. I told him that I think he is one of the strongest people I know and that is the damn truth. Anyone who can live on a small piece of land, basically in a truck up on blocks with no electricity has to be strong.
There was more but as I said, I could not understand a lot of it. We parted and I walked on but before we did, he said, "When I see you, I wave because that's all I have."
Oh my god. And you know what? That is just about all he has.
He did discuss his Lord Jesus sign with the two white flags which symbolize peace and how someone had told him he should take that down. I told him that it's his property and he can put up any sign he wants. Hell, I'd rather see that sign any day than a Trump sign.
I wanted so very much to ask him if I could take his picture. His face is truly beautiful. But I just couldn't. I'd have to tell him that I write about him on a blog and I seriously doubt he has any idea what a blog is and I really didn't want to get all deep into that. Maybe one of these days.
And I walked on home to my beautiful house that shelters us and gives us privacy and has beds and a kitchen with a stove and refrigerator, and electricity and a generator and bathrooms with showers and toilets and a heater and an air conditioner and a TV and computers and water that comes out of taps in four rooms of the house, not a spigot outside.
I had a lot to think about.
I had a lot to think about.
And again, the day has flown by. I cleaned the door in the kitchen, clearing it of cobwebs and polishing the glass panes in it.
You have no idea how much better it looks now and I should be embarrassed to admit that but I am not for some reason.
I tried to do some more clearing of the bed by the fence in the front yard but it became apparent to me in just a few minutes that I can either take a walk or I can do yard work. I cannot do both on the same day. Knees, hip, god I'm a mess.
This depressed me more than I can say and that is all I want to say about that.
This depressed me more than I can say and that is all I want to say about that.
Here's a picture that Mr. Moon sent me this morning.
I know that you are patient and a good listener so if you can only get a tenth of what Harvey says then imagine how it must be when he meets other local people! I send my regards to Harvey - living on the fringes of modern life - out on the edge of things.
ReplyDeleteI do not mind listening to Harvey at all. I feel good that he trusts me with his frustration and thoughts. He gives me a lot to think about.
DeleteMary, I hope you know what I mean when I say you are a Good Christian Woman and Jesus would be proud to know you. Please don't be offended by that.
ReplyDeleteThose yellow daisies look like the ones we have in Ohio that have a bazillion little prickers on them and you spend an hour pulling them out of your clothes.
That was me, Carol.
DeleteOh, Carol. I don't do one damn thing that eases anyone's burdens and I think that if there was a historic Jesus, that was mostly his message.
DeleteDon't you hate misleading prettiness in flowers? Like the thorn on the rose.
That's so kind of you to give Harvey the time and listening to him, even though understanding him is a challenge. It's the 'listening' that is meaningful to him. Doubt if he's asking advice. People like Henry, living on the fringe with very little resources (money or otherwise), must be a significant hardship. It does give one cause for pause and re-look at all we have. I used to do home nursing and....OMG, some of the homes I went into. I ended up cooking, cleaning, taking the dog for a walk, cleaning litter boxes, helping them figure out bills, dealing with crazy, threatening neighbors (and other family members) and the list goes on. I came home with a new perspective on things. I never took anything for granted again.
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Home nursing is a whole other story from nursing in a clinical setting, isn't it? Yes. You absolutely see that some people live in conditions that we would not let a cat or dog live in or have problems that we can't even fathom. Or disabilities that prevent them from being able to do the simplest ADL's. I think it would benefit society in general if we all had to step out of our bubbles at some point and see what life is like for those around us whom we may never even notice.
DeleteYour window is fiercely clean, your supper looks great and the sunrise is beautiful.. I need to fish my feather down from the shelf tonight. I needed it for my nap, but wound up with a blanket I don't like, cat hair side up.
ReplyDeleteThat blanket does not sound like a suitable substitute for a comforter at all.
DeleteI love that: 'he waves because that is all he has to give'. He sound like he has a wisdom that most folks never listen hard enough to discover. Which is sad, isn't it?
ReplyDeleteIt is very sad but I tell you- for twenty years I have been observing neighbors who have very, very little but who are so generous of spirit. Absolutely precious people.
DeleteDefinitely not black-eyed susans, whose petals aren't as forward-facing, whose centers look like dark fuzzy gum drops, and whose leaves are nothing like those. But after a contact dermatitis attack triggered by a cutely cheerful type of susan that left my ankles looking like something from a medieval leppers' colony for weeks, I'll take good honest straight-forward prickles any day!
ReplyDeleteThat sounds horrible! Who knew flowers could be so threatening?
DeleteI can't imagine how Harvey manages to live on a small patch of land, in a truck on blocks. That said, I've heard of people living in tents in Boston, MA and the city has insisted they must move to housing provided by the city. I'm glad to see services provided to anyone experiencing hardship. It only seems right.
ReplyDeleteWell, for one thing, he has put one side of the truck higher than the other and Glen and I assume that's so when he sleeps on the bench seat, his head is higher than his legs. And yes, his legs do hang out the door.
DeleteJefferson County may provide services which would help Harvey but he's one of those people who might not take any help at all.
probably not many people *listen* to Harvey the way you do.....he may not express his appreciation of that in a common way....but I trust you can feel it. I bet his face....*is* beautiful, as is his soul. And your clean window puts me to shame.......ugh.
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Harvey has friends. I see them at his property sometimes. I really can't tell you if his soul is beautiful or not but his face surely is.
DeleteHarvey is a real character. Nice photos. I tried to post earlier but Mercy sat on the keyboard. I am not a waitress was a favorite of mine too.
ReplyDeleteWhen I take pictures outdoors in the sunlight, it's often a Point, Shoot, and Hope situation. I can't see what I'm taking a picture of, really. Sometimes it works, sometimes it does not.
DeleteI'm Not Really A Waitress is such a rich color, isn't it?
Your Harvey sounds like Robert, who lived on our road. He and his brother had almost their own language. But hard workers, survivors, yes.
ReplyDeleteI don't even know if Harvey has siblings! I think he has family who live next to him but I rarely see any interaction.
DeleteI'm glad you gave Harvey some time and some listening. That's gift a lot of people wouldn't give.
ReplyDeleteThere are so many reasons that people on this road do not always speak to each other, not many of them good reasons but I don't have that problem. Mostly. There are the Trump supporters...
Delete" cannot do oth on the same day" I get that, I spent yesterday playing with the twin grand daughters, aged two and a bit, so I took today off and did nothing but go out to buy cat food.
ReplyDeleteYour scallions are what we call spring onions and I love them in salads and very finely chopped and slightly softened in a pan before I add the beaten eggs to be scrambled. Also I looooove cauliflower but you can have ALL the asparagus.
Yes- one day of energy, one day of rest. It's all about the balance.
DeleteSpring onions are the same. Also green onions.
I'm surprised that Mr. Moon was actually allowed to take shrimp across the border into Canada. It sounds ridiculous but my first thought was that he would (might) be banned from transporting it across the border, you know, like they do between one state and the next in Australia (because of the fruit fly problem). Huh, you live and learn I guess!
ReplyDeleteI think you just have to declare the seafood you bring in. He's been doing it for years. Mostly it's been oysters but they are getting harder to get.
DeleteI love that goose shot at the end! I don't think you need to worry about telling Harvey that you write about him. I'm not sure he'd get it, and you're respectful of his privacy. You're writing about your encounters with him from your perspective, which is your story. That's how I see it, anyway. Debby is right -- he DOES show quite remarkable wisdom.
ReplyDeleteI can't believe Mr. Moon took that shrimp into Canada! Surely that's not legal?!
Isn't that a beautiful photo? I mean- geese! But that sky.
DeleteDo you think it's ethical to publish pictures of Harvey? I am torn about this.
I believe you have to declare any seafood when you cross the border but Glen does it every year.
It's nice that you let Harvey talk and talk. You are a kind woman, Mary. It does make me think about all of the crap I have and I wonder if I could survive without my stuff like Harvey does.
ReplyDeleteThat's a beautiful photo from Mr. Moon!
Why wouldn't I let Harvey talk? He needed to get these thoughts out, I think, and I feel good that he felt he could get them out with me. I guarantee you that I could not live like Harvey does. One day and night and that would be it. I have no idea what I'd do if that was my only option.
DeleteI'm going to take out Pam's big herb bed in the front of that house this winter because it is completely overgrown from the summer and I can't take care of two yards. barely taking care of my own. it's a shame that people would think Harvey is just taking stuff simply because of who he is when a person's circumstances have nothing to do with the quality of that person. that's probably the most he has ever spoken to you.
ReplyDeleteIt definitely was the most he's ever spoken to me, even if you added everything else up together. I surely hope that no one would accuse him of stealing stuff. It was pure junk, anyway. If anyone called the police and they saw it, they'd laugh. I think.
DeleteI can totally understand why you need to take out Pam's herb bed. It gets to be too much just dealing with what we have.
Sounds like Harvey may have some brain damage of some sort. Perseveration, getting stuck on one thing, is a symptom brain damage. Poor man, and he's homeless.
ReplyDeleteI had a bunch of shoes, five or six pairs, men's and women's, all still in good shape and comfortable, that I needed to get rid of. I had lunch on Whyte Ave, where a lot of homeless people hang out, and I left the shoes on a bench for whoever needs them.
Yes, it was you who convinced me to try zinnias and I am so happy I did.
Love that photo of the geese by Mr. Moon. They're gathering and getting their youngsters to practice flying longer distances, strengthening their muscles. I've already seen sandhill cranes and pelicans head south. I'm so thankful we bought where we did. We're under the flight path of a lot of beautiful birds.
I don’t know if Harvey has brain damage or if he was just born that way. But he's not homeless! He has a piece of land where he stays.
DeleteThat's an excellent way of donating those shoes. Cut out the middleman. I like that.
Well, I am so glad I was able to convert you to the Church of Zinnias!
I love the fact that you live under the flight path of all those birds. I wonder if we ever see any of "yours".
Hi, I recently learned a new way to cook tofu. The recipe called for grating the (very firm) tofu before throwing it in the pan. Cooked up great!
ReplyDeleteYou know, I saw something about that. What did you use the cooked, grated tofu for?
DeleteThat last picture is a keeper with the silhouette of that Canadian goose in it!
ReplyDeleteI think so too!
DeleteI kind of get Harvey. There is only so damn much you can take in.
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