Tuesday, July 25, 2023

Summer Sweetness


I have truly enjoyed myself today and honestly, the most exciting thing that's happened is that when I went to the post office and was checking my box, the postmistress said, "Miss Mary, there's a package for you." 
Now THAT my friends, is small town living at its best. 
And no, we shall not be discussing Jason Aldean and no, I have not listened to the song and no, I have not read the lyrics and no, I don't have time for that mess one way or the other. 

So. What else did I do on this day I've enjoyed so much? Well, I took the trash and I cleaned the toilets. I also played with my sourdough dough that I started last night, and I worked in the garden some more. Mr. Moon has pointed out, and rightfully so, that "my" sweet potatoes are taking over the whole garden and I pointed out, and rightfully so, that there ain't much left for them to take over but that he should feel free to cut cut back whatever vines he wanted to. 
He was not enthusiastic about this idea. He is in the middle of taking care of lots and lots of other things right now including closing down his car business and listing Dog Island for sale and all of this business requires a lot of activity like looking for car titles and, oh hell, I don't know. But he's doing the things I can't and so I can surely deal with sweet potato vines and you know how much I love being in the garden anyway, even if I can only handle an hour or so in this heat. 
The sweet potato vines were indeed overtaking the okra and some of the peas so I cut and pulled some of them. I do not want to pull the ones that are rooted because that's where the potatoes will be but the vines that are just snaking about like kudzu trying to cover the entire planet were up for grabs. Literally. Now, I know for a fact that the vines are edible and are part of the diet of many cultures. I had no idea about this until a few years ago and I've only tried cooking them once. I should try again because that's a wasted resource if there ever was one. It's also true that cutting the vines back encourages the growth of the tubers so there's that, too. 
In my trimming I accidentally uncovered two smallish sweet potatoes and I am going to try very hard this year to do a better job of harvesting that crop and preserving what I dig up. 

And then after I played with the sweet potato vines, I did some weeding around the peas. I think there will be more of those coming along shortly. I had thought about going to the river after I reached my limit with the heat but then I got to thinking about supper because you know I am obsessed with food. I knew I wanted to make a gumbo to go with my sourdough and that takes a lot of time. So I took a shower instead and got to work chopping and stirring a roux, and peeling shrimp and making a stock with the shells and so on and so forth. Because I never really figured out how to make gumbo or even tried before I hit my later sixties, I am making up for lost time. Here's what it looks like at this point. 


The shrimp will go in right before we eat and I'll make rice to serve it over. This is good stuff, y'all. 

I wish the okra had come from our garden and the tomatoes too but they did not. The peppers, however, did. 




That's what came out of the garden today. That poor last little cucumber. Bless its tiny heart. 

Just as with the camellias in the winter, the zinnias will no doubt be over-presented here while they last. I can't get enough of those glorious colors. 

And so it's been a pretty perfect day here in Lloyd for me. I've done the things I love to do and done a few things I don't love to do but don't mind doing and give me a tiny feeling of accomplishment. For this moment, everything here in my tiny world feels pretty okay and I am grateful for that. 

Here's a cartoon I saw in the New Yorker today. 


And if that doesn't sum up what I am feeling these days, I don't know what does. Again I want to say thank you all for your thoughts on this "whole house situation" as I've been thinking of it. I surely am learning a lot about myself because of it and if I distance myself from myself, if that makes any sense, it is quite interesting. 

Meanwhile, here I am, happy with the sound of the crickets singing as the sun is doing its slow dance to meet up with the horizon and my kitchen smells like heaven. I expect I'll hear that juvenile owl again soon as I have been hearing it every night. I am sure its parents must be ready for break from that demanding baby. 

Time to go stir the gumbo and bake the bread. 

Love...Ms. Moon




24 comments:

  1. Gumbo and sourdough ... how can you miss with that combo? Well, you simply cannot! 🍞🍲
    I had to give myself a pep talk this morning just to get me up and moving ... reintroduce myself to my vacuum cleaner and then use it and, after that ... Scrub the kitchen and bathroom floors!
    Somehow or other ... the additional attachments and the caddy for the vacuum cleaner stuff has come up missing!
    Boggles my mind that anyone would come into my apartment and take such a thing ... but it is gone!
    🤦🤷

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    1. That is so weird! Do you think you could possibly have loaned someone those attachments?

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    2. Nope! I even suspect a resident ghost, but what the hell are they going to do with vacuum attachments? Nah ... sticky fingers and knowing I was out of the apartment for awhile!

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  2. I had absolutely no idea Jason Aldean is until I googled him. That's as far as my interest goes; His name is just a way to sell records.
    It's good to hear Mr. Moon is wrapping up his career(s) pre retirement. I have the feeling he may never really give up cars (for friends and family).
    I need to offer up my probably final opinion on the new house. This house is not you.You certainly are entitled to new construction, but it needs to look more "old Florida" and more Mary Moon. You are a 50/50 partner in this venture; you should be as willing and anxious to move into the new house as Mr. Moon is anxious for this. And you're not. It will come. You will know. But it's not this house.

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    1. Well, we have not even really talked about it in the past few days so if the idea is still on the stove, it's on low simmer. I hear exactly what you're saying and I agree with you, Joanne but we also have to factor in the point that Glen did NOT want to live in this house and yet, he has allowed me to make it our home for almost twenty years. So there is that, too!

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  3. Sounds as if your doing better, maybe finding your footing around the house issues. So Mr M is closing his business? As in retiring? Hence the house?

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    1. Oh, he's barely done anything in the car business since Covid because cars are just too hard to come by. He has always sold very high quality, personally inspected by him pre-owned vehicles with low milage and those are just not available and if they are to be found, cost almost as much as new ones. So- time to get out.
      The house has come about because his fishing buddy, who is also a real estate agent, knows the people selling the house. So that's the connection there.

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  4. ah...some work in your yard....bread rising and gumbo.....and continuing to ponder life...is a good way to spend a day! And those Zinnia's ....OMG
    Susan M

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    1. PS I admit that I had to Google Jason Aldean....... never heard of him and don't care LOL! I also must say I love the fact that your post mistress calls you *Miss Mary*. Such lovely southern *manners*! Susan M

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    2. That was some damn fine gumbo and bread. And yes, here in the south, especially the small towns, we do address our ladies after a certain age as "Miss". It is an honorific.

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  5. You sound settled and content and this can only be good.

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    1. I am going through a fairly easy-going moment here. I love it!

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  6. Gardening and cooking are two of your best hobbies, Mary Moon! They always calm you down and bring you some peace, I think.
    Picked zinnias with my daughter-in-law today. The flowers were so beautiful and my sweet daughter-in-law is too!

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    1. You are so right. Gardening and cooking make me happy.
      I'm glad that you have such a sweet daughter-in-law. What a blessing! And I bet she loves you too.

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  7. Yummm...gumbo! Your zinnias are always so pretty, mine never look that good. Do you have a secret tip?
    I have to agree with Joanne above that the house, although beautiful, doesn't seem quite "you". Could you make it your own and make some great memories there? Probably...but are you willing to settle? I just keep remembering the joy and excitement you had when the property in Roseland was up for sale, not a bit of hesitancy or indecision, I don't hear that now. I wish you could have some of that same joy for your next home purchase but I also understand in a marriage the need to compromise at times.
    Just curious, do yall still own the property in Apalachicola? Is building there just too overwhelming for you? Believe me I get it, we are having that discussion right now and I just don't know if I can take that on. But Apalach is such a cool funky little town with stores and stuff to do, I think it would be a charming place to live.
    Wishing you peace in your heart for whatever the decision might be.
    Love, Angie D

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    1. It's hard to compare the house in Roseland with this one. The house in Roseland was on property that used to be my grandparents' which made it so very special. The house itself was not especially appealing at all. It was built after my grandparents died. And I have to say that Mr. Moon jumped on that too. He called the realtor the second I showed it to him. He would have bought it in a heartbeat for me and I know that. So yes- compromise is important.
      We are selling the lots in Apalach. It's just too hard to get things built now in Florida and besides that, we are not as enchanted with the little town as we used to be. It is still a great place but it is overrun with tourists. Not quite what we want.

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  8. Not eating the sweet potato trimmings doesn't have to mean a wasted resource if they are chopped up and added to the compost heap. The gumbo looks delicious, it's basically a thick vegetable stew with shrimp, right? Love the cartoon.

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    1. Yes. Gumbo is a thick vegetable soup and it can have all sorts of seafood in it and/or sausage and/or chicken. It is quite adaptable. The thing that makes it a gumbo is the roux which must be stirred for up to twenty minutes. Constantly. And actually, the word "gumbo" is the African word for okra so in reality, it should contain okra but many people don't use it which I think is a sacrilege.

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  9. I actually wondered if - supposing you buy the new house - would that mean you would own three properties, but now I see you're putting the Dog Island house up for sale. I guess it kinda makes sense really because it's a lot of work, even if you seemingly love the place!

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    1. Yes. We're putting Dog Island AND the Apalachicola property for sale. Time to let those go.

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  10. I do miss a good gumbo. when we lived in the city there was a restaurant nearby that served a pretty good one. any that I have made since and by since I mean in the last year has been straight out of a box. I see you have a zinnia in a little bottle...and of course so do I though mine is an antique ink bottle. I just cannot make myself get out there in the heat and do anything. I'm beginning to think that maybe this ennui I've been in is maybe a result of lowering my afib med.

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    1. It's not hard to make the gumbo but it is a bit labor intensive, especially as to stirring the flour and oil or butter to make the roux. That can take up to half an hour. And of course there's lots of chopping of ingredients. But it's worth it.
      Wow! You know- you could be right about the lowering of your afib meds causing your ennui. But honey, it could just be this heat.

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  11. Well I read this post but I don't know what to say except that it was good to find you in a pretty cool state of mind.

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