All right. Here's another can-you-guess-what-this-is? picture. Sorry that it's so blurry but there's a reason for that which I'll go into in a minute.
That, my friends, is a hurricane lily, the first one I've seen sprouting this year even though I've been keeping my eyes out for them. I knew they'd be here soon. They are the most curious plants. One day they're not there, the next day, they are. They're at least a foot tall and over the next few days, that one will open and reveal itself as a delicate and fancy orange-red blossom. They're called hurricane lilies because they bloom this time of year which is peak hurricane season.
And I'd rather not think about that if you don't mind.
And I'd rather not think about that if you don't mind.
So I screwed the pooch today and I screwed it good. My sciatic nerve situation has not disappeared but it's gotten better over the past week or whatever length of time it's been since it showed up so today I decided to take a walk. It was a little cooler this morning and I put on my shoes and took off down the sidewalk only to realize after about half a mile that this was not helping my pain in the least and in fact, was intensifying it greatly. Immensely. But of course I kept on because I am stupid as shit and by the time I turned around and started heading home, it got to the point where I came the closest I've ever been to calling Glen to come and get me. It was that bad. And I'm not a wuss. At least I don't think I am. We can never really know how well we tolerate pain because we have nothing else to compare it to. I know that childbirth and kidney stones are the two things that have hurt me the most and this nerve pain in my butt is nothing like that but it's enough to make me want to stop doing whatever it is I'm doing that's making it hurt.
You know?
But of course I did not call my husband. I had less than half a mile to go before I reached home and that would have been ridiculous so I kept walking and by the time I got to our place, I decided that it was somewhat better and passed the house and continued on to the post office because that's really a very short distance away and also because I AM STUPID AS SHIT and now I've just about crippled myself.
So when I went to take that picture of the hurricane lily, I could not force myself to bend over properly or to (gasp!) kneel down to take a decent picture and so there you go and there you are and I'll do better with further pictures. I promise.
You know?
But of course I did not call my husband. I had less than half a mile to go before I reached home and that would have been ridiculous so I kept walking and by the time I got to our place, I decided that it was somewhat better and passed the house and continued on to the post office because that's really a very short distance away and also because I AM STUPID AS SHIT and now I've just about crippled myself.
So when I went to take that picture of the hurricane lily, I could not force myself to bend over properly or to (gasp!) kneel down to take a decent picture and so there you go and there you are and I'll do better with further pictures. I promise.
Here's a picture I took on my walk, mostly just because I wanted to stop for a second and taking a picture was a good excuse.
Can you see the pecans? They will soon turn brown and drop. It's a sort of complicated process which I really don't know anything about but those are definitely pecans.
Now. Let's discuss something important. Many of you here also read the blog 37 Paddington written by the amazing human being, writer, mother, wife, and friend, Rosemarie Robotham. Now stop right there, hit that link, and see what she's done now.
What she's done is to co-author a book by our Supreme Court Justice, Ketanji Brown Jackson which has just been released.
What she's done is to co-author a book by our Supreme Court Justice, Ketanji Brown Jackson which has just been released.
And...on top of all of that, guess what the #1 selling book on Amazon is right now?
I cannot even tell you how thrilled I am for Rosemarie. She is...well. She's simply amazing. And I know how very, very much of herself she gives to the books she collaborates on. Blood, sweat, tears, and guts. That is the sort of woman she is.
Go visit her now and then visit her again perhaps tomorrow where she'll be talking about the launch reception that happened last night at THE APOLLO THEATER and how gracious and light-filled Ms. Jackson is.
I am so blown away. I cannot wait to read this book.
Go visit her now and then visit her again perhaps tomorrow where she'll be talking about the launch reception that happened last night at THE APOLLO THEATER and how gracious and light-filled Ms. Jackson is.
I am so blown away. I cannot wait to read this book.
And that's all I have to say tonight.
Love...Ms. Moon
Looking forward to seeing the hurricane lily bloom.
ReplyDeleteMe too!
DeleteI saw Ms. Jackson interviewed on TV and was blown away. This is definitely on my reading list! Sure hope your pain/sciatica is better. I have periodic flare ups, and it knows my socks off.
ReplyDeleteParanormal John
Such an amazing accomplishment on the part of Ms. Jackson. And also, on the part of Rosemarie.
DeleteThis fucking sciatica can fuck right off.
'blows my socks off'. I think besides sciatica...there's some dementia there too!
ReplyDeleteParanormal John
Well then, we have that in common too.
DeleteOn our side of the Gulf they’re called surprise lilies. And, of course, they bloom here in peak hurricane season too. We also have the much daintier rain lilies that pop up after the rains we get this time of the year. I think of them as my daughter’s flowers as her birthday is in late September and I always made her a Bundt cake with the rain lilies in a little class at its center. Margaret
ReplyDeleteI love that! Surprise lilies! Because they are. Yes, we get rain lilies too. I bet that is a beautiful birthday cake you make your daughter. What a nice tradition.
DeleteMary, Mary, you have got to take better care of you. I had one bout of sciatica pain several years ago and I hope to never repeat that experience.
ReplyDeleteI read Rosemarie's blog and so enjoy her and the lovely family she and her husband have created plus the extended family they have such close relationships with. It's rare in my experience to have family like that. The new book is sure to be a treasure.
You are so right about Rosemarie's family, both her and her husband's and the extended family. SO many beautiful, loving people. The world would be a better place if we did have more families like that.
DeleteI can't wait to read this book.
I have never visited 37Paddington before and didn't know anything about a book being written.
ReplyDeleteLook after that lower back, don't go overdoing things for a couple of days at least.
I didn't overdo today.
Delete37 Paddington is a joy! As is Rosemarie and her whole family.
A strong second to that. I have been following Rosemarie and her beautiful family (in every sense of the word) and fascinating career for several years. Margaret
DeleteHave you got a heating pad? That helps me when the low back is out of whack, as does movement. Another fabulous book under Ms. Paddington's belt. Have a peaceful night.
ReplyDeleteThis is more of a deep nerve pain situation. In my butt, to be frank.
DeleteHow proud are we of Ms. Paddington? SO, SO proud.
I'm so sorry to hear about your pain. I haven't had it often but it's bloody painful all the same isn't it!
ReplyDeleteAh, I'm hoping that in a few months I'll have forgotten it.
DeleteBlogger has sent me to "Spam" Jail again. I hate sitting in there looking through the bars as other inmates rant and rave.
ReplyDeleteWell, you just have to be patient. I do the spam folder check almost first thing every morning. Also, not much ranting and raving in my comments.
DeleteSciatica pain is so awful. Wish there was something that would easily cure it. I just read about “Lovely One” and knew I had to read it. Now, there’s even more reason.
ReplyDeleteExactly, Mitchell! About the book.
DeleteYou're not wrong about the damn pain, either.
I'm very impressed by Ms Paddington's success. I've read her blog without grasping who she really is. Now I know her real name I know to look for her book. Jackson is a heroine of mine, so this is a must.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about the sciatica, so painful from what I've heard. I hope you get it cured soon.
Rosemarie stays pretty low-key on her blog and I had to convince her to write about the experience of the release and all the love from that. She wants to hide her light under a basket and I told her that in this case, she just can't. You know how bossy I am.
DeleteThe sciatica is not a picnic in the park.
those are pecans but what you see in the picture is the husk which will dry out and open and the pecan inside will fall. I know I have some of those lily bulbs which we here always called surprise lilies because, duh, they surprise you appearing so suddenly, but they rarely bloom. because they are old? don't get enough sun? and yeah Rosemarie should be rightly proud of herself.
ReplyDeleteExactly, Ellen. The squirrels around here don't let many of our pecans get to the dried-husk stage. They pick them and take a bite out of them and throw them to the ground. Or to the tin roof of the shed which makes a terrible noise.
DeleteI've never seen Surprise/Hurricane lilies that didn't bloom. I have no idea why they wouldn't. How weird.
You're so right about Rosemarie. What an amazing achievement.
I have that book waiting at the library for me and I will pick it up today. So exciting!
ReplyDeleteI hope you take it easy on your back - heating pad, massage, soak in a hot bath - whatever works to make you feel better, Mary.
It's not really my back. More deep, deep in the hip.
DeleteOh Mary, thank you for this robust support of the book, and for believing in me even in those moments when I am inflamed with doubt. You are my true sister spirit, and how grateful I am that we found each other in this life. Yes! The book is accomplished, and how crazy to be on this end of it when just yesterday, it seems, I was wondering whether and how I would find the first thread. But the muses found us, and between us, this extraordinary history-making woman and me, we found the story, and honestly, it is a love story, because that it the thing that most defines the Justice, the way everything she does is infused with love. She definitely lives an examined life. I do hope people read the book and get to know her journey. She's given us hope and a voice on the high tribunal we can trust. It has been the privilege of a lifetime to help shine a light on her extraordinary path. Thank you, thank you dear Mary, for always offering your hand. I love you always. Before this life and beyond it.
ReplyDeleteRosemarie - I have loved your blog from afar for YEARS, and am so proud of you for this accomplishment! Much love to you and your beautiful family. - SJ
DeleteWoman, you keep making me cry! Thank you for those beautiful words. And I will keep reminding you that the muses are always favorable to those who know what to do with what they offer.
DeleteHere's to us always holding hands.
I’m another, Rosemarie, who has read your blog for years and loved every minute of your sublimely beautiful and loving family and your outstanding career. Margaret
DeleteNow, about your back, please take care of yourself. Maybe some prescribed physical therapy would help relieve the pain? Plus, you know, PT doubles as exercise, so you could feel guilt free if you choose not to walk on those days.
ReplyDeleteIt might. At this point I know I really need to rest it which is harder than anything.
DeleteAre physiotherapists in the same group as doctors, people to be feared? If not, definitely go see one. They can help. Plus stretching, although as I write this I realize how hypocritical I am because usually the only time I stretch is when I'm already in pain. Do as I say, not as I do:)
ReplyDeleteI can't wait to read the book!
I really don't know the answer to that good question, Pixie. That might really help. I'll have to think about this.
DeleteNone of us always does what we "should" do. Or even often, I think. That is the way of humans.
Sorry the sciatica (or whatever) is acting up. Maybe a period of rest and recuperation is called for. Back to Roseland?
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, Rosemarie's achievement is remarkable! It takes a lot of skill to tell another person's story deeply and personally.
Yes! I think I should go back to Roseland to gently move about in that little pool! For sure!
DeleteI can't even imagine how one would go about helping someone tell another person's story. And to do it so well...unbelievable. One's own ego would have to be shut up in a dark closet, I think. I doubt seriously I could do that at all.