Tuesday, September 3, 2024

Same As It Ever Was


That's the very large live oak in the front yard that Glen's been clearing around. The left of center plant there is a camellia so we're not cutting that down. That was the only camellia planted in this yard when we moved here. Of course I remedied that situation soon after we settled in. We've let the bamboo grow up around the tree as well as a plant called nandina which is yet another invasive import. Nandina also has the charming quality of being highly toxic. 
And it ain't even that pretty. Also, it's scratchy. 
So Mr. Moon's been cutting bamboo, some of it as big around as my wrist, and pulling up nandina, and also cutting and pulling vines that have been trying to strangle that tree for years. We have not been the greatest stewards of our trees. 

Here's a picture of it from the other side. 


That's what it looks like from the swing porch. To get any sort of scale look at the ferns growing up the trunk. They are your regular-sized ferns. It is probably an ancient tree and although you can't see it, the branch reaching out to the right has a hole in it so big a large dog could crawl through it. With every storm that comes we figure that branch will fall but so far, it has not. I have no idea how old the tree is but live oaks can live to be over five hundred years old and even up to a thousand or more. 
If I were to worship something, it would be live oaks. 

I went to town today to get my shopping done. I met Jessie for lunch at a Cuban restaurant and it was fun and it was good. She wanted a Cuban coffee so I got one too and what a delicious treat that was! Thick and sweet and guaranteed to power you through the rest of your day. 
For possibly the first time in my life I did not order a Cuban sandwich in a Cuban restaurant. Except for when I was actually in Cuba where I never saw that particular delicacy on any menu but boy, did we eat some good food there. 
Sigh.
What I got today was garbanzo bean soup and a PORK sandwich with grilled onions and they were both excellent. I brought home some soup and half the sandwich which showed a great deal of restraint on my part. 

We both went to Costco which of course is always a joy. I mean, in a way. If by "joy" you mean walking around in a huge space looking at giant packaged amounts of everything from cereal to asparagus to garlic to onions to cheese to pickles to shampoo, vitamins, toilet paper, milk, eggs, waffles, salsa, and individual containers of chocolate mousse. 
"Why don't they ever sample chocolate mousse?" I asked Jessie. 
She didn't know either. We agreed that they definitely should. 
Sometimes the containers are just too big for me to deal with. Case in point: I wanted some Cascade dishwasher detergent. The liquid kind. And they had a HUGE plastic bottle of it for about ten bucks which is a very good price but it was so big and so heavy that I just said, "Nope". I got a normal large bottle later at Publix for about nine dollars which was probably half the size of the Costco bottle but fuck it- I just didn't want to deal with that much weight and size. 
We had a good time, though, strolling about, looking at babies, laughing at stuff. And then we saw Brenda and I got TWO hugs from her and that was wonderful. 
Costco is always an adventure. 

Jessie had to go pick up the boys for piano lessons and then karate lessons, after which she had a staff meeting for her unit at the hospital. She also has to work tomorrow. I told her that I would die if I had to do all of that. I used to do all of that. How in the world did I do it? 
I don't know. I surely don't want to do it now. 

I made a run through Publix and a very successful one if you ask me. I did not have to retrace my steps for forgotten items once and I got everything on my list. Victory! 

And now here I am, waiting for my husband to get home from cleaning windows at our rental place. At four o'clock he texted me that he'd be leaving in a hour or so and it is now 6:20. 
That man. I swear. 

Tonight I'm frying that mullet. I'm going to make cole slaw and heat up the rest of the okra and tomatoes and I may just go crazy and make hushpuppies. I've never made decent hushpuppies in my entire life but who knows? Tonight could be the night. 

Sorry that all of this is just reheated leftovers like the okra and tomatoes. It really is. By now y'all could just write these things yourself. I'm grasping for something, anything, new to give you but really, there's nothing. 

Let's see what happens tomorrow. 

Love...Ms. Moon




25 comments:

  1. that oak is gorgeous and look at those ferns....and the spanish moss! It's well worth caring for, that ancient tree! Costco/Publix.....just kill me instead..... but.....hush puppies to go with your fish/slaw dinner...now that's something I would almost die for.....and they might even work well in your air fryer! Mr Moon will be happy!
    Susan M

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    1. The air fryer is great but it is not really frying. I love it for many things but hushpuppies? No. They deserve real oil and a skillet.

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  2. Dennis is at Cost co right now, of course he is, he is married to Cost Co...I never go, would rather stick a needle in my eye. I do love your big big tree, you really live in a beautiful yard/house/life.

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    1. I almost always think of Dennis when I go to Costco and wonder if he's shopping at the same time on the far side of the country.

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  3. It's just a very newsy post today, Mary! Very enjoyable!
    I, however, clicked and got scammed online today! 😞

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  4. It's a beautiful oak, and surely grateful for any groundskeeping.

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    1. I wonder if it even notices us at all. I do think of these trees as sentient beings.

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  5. Some of our supermarkets here are opting for the "bulk buy" range too which seems like a great idea, but I need to remember I simply don't have storage space like I used to when I lived in a house. I don't even have a linen closet, which is why I have chests of drawers in both rooms, to hold my towels and sheets. Like you, I also can't be lifting giant bottles of detergent anymore either.
    I bet the live oak tree is grateful for the new "freedom" happening around it.

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    1. I get exactly what you're saying. It would be ridiculous for me to buy some things at Costco but if I have room (and I have a lot of room) to store things like toilet paper and cleaning products, I do. Also, a lot of their food is organic, both fresh and packaged which I like a lot. Their store brand is very good too.

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  6. I guess I understand that people who live very rural and/or have large families would want to buy such huge quantities but I agree with you that sometimes just trying to get that stuff into the caddie just ain't worth it. Heck, I even drive out some ways to a garden centre for their bags of soil because they sell them in 20kg bags that have a handle. Maybe one day the more local garden centres will realize that not everyone can even pick up a 50kg bag!

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    1. There are definitely things I don't buy there because they're too heavy for me to handle and I NEVER fill up my cart (their carts are HUGE!) but I do like and use a lot of their products.

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  7. The oak is majestic. I wonder how many hundreds of years it’s stood there. Can you imagine what your property would look like if you didn’t stay ahead of the bamboo and nandina? It would probably be coming up through the floorboards! I used to enjoy wandering Costco. There are 5 in Spain. The nearest, in Seville, is a 2-1/2 hour drive.

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    1. I would say it's hundreds of years old. An arborist told me that around here, oaks grow for two hundred years, live for two hundred years, and die for two hundred years. I would imagine that this one is in its last two hundred.
      Oh. Without a doubt plants would come up through the floorboards. The bamboo does indeed shoot up through the deck.
      2-1/2 hours is a long drive just to go to Costco.

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  8. I've never been in Costco. So I read your expeditions like something out of Lewis and Clark. I've always thought that year round gardening would be too much. I really appreciate our long dormant season when everything stays put for a while.

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    1. Haha! Let me be your Sacagawea! "And beyond those potted plants, you will find the River of Wine and the Mountains of Cheese!"
      We have to garden year round if we want things like lettuce and greens. It's just too hot in the summer. I don't mind doing it year round. You know me.

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  9. I enjoy hearing about your day, Mary. Your posts are never boring. I haven't been to Costco as I'm not a member and just don't need to be anymore.

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  10. Ha! I felt the same way when I blogged this morning. It was a struggle! Some days are like that.

    We had nandina on our balcony when we lived in Notting Hill, and I liked it there. But I can see why you wouldn't want it running rampant in your yard. (Pretty much everything is invasive in Florida, isn't it?!)

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    1. Yes. EVERYTHING IS INVASIVE IN FLORIDA. Especially nutballs, shithead politicians, and pythons.

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  11. Nothing wrong with leftovers. That oak tree is beautiful. I didn't think we had any trees that live that long in Alberta, but then I googled it and found out that there are pine trees in the province that are between 1000 and 3000 years old. Who knew? Not me, that's for sure.
    Have a lovely day Mary. It's cold and cloudy here today, a foreshadowing of days to come.

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    1. Now that's some old trees! We have cypress trees that can reach over 2,000 years of age. I find this just mind boggling!
      Yep. Sounds like your beautiful, fast summer is coming to an end.

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  12. it's an impressive tree but it doesn't look like a live oak to me, at least it doesn't look like the live oaks here which spread out horizontal. there was a little hole in the wall cuban restaurant we used to go to when we lived in the city but it eventually closed even though the food was excellent. Marc did the grocery shopping for me yesterday.

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    1. Some of our live oaks spread horizontally too. Not sure why some are different. That was good of Marc to do the shopping. Cuban food is delicious, isn't it?

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  13. I don't care...I just like whatever you take the time to write. It's more than I'm willing to do anymore.
    Life has meaning at the Moon house, and that's A lot. We have meaning here too, it's just different!
    And you have those sweet grands! My youngest grand is 17! I have great grands but not where I can see them!
    I just enjoy your sense of humor and that you still have one! Have a great weekend!

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