Here's Ms. Maggie, enjoying her cheese pizza last night. She had decided that maybe it wasn't cheddar cheese that she liked but she managed to choke down a few pieces anyway. That child! She did not want to go to sleep. Usually I put her to bed and by the time I'm ready to take my shower and get in bed to read, she's sound asleep but last night, she was not. And she fussed about the light being on which I understood and so I turned it off and I'm not sure which of us fell asleep first.
She still got up before I did and she was quite ready for her breakfast of eggs and toast, which is what she had requested. No pancakes or bacon for her. Eggs and toast. I reminded her of when she was a little bitty girl and every time she'd walk in the door here she'd want me to cook her an egg. Of course we had chickens then and so the eggs were especially delicious. We were talking about that and she said, "I hate that fox that ate all your chickens."
I sort of do too although he was just doing his fox thing. I miss my lovely birds.
Glen got up and out earlier than usual this morning. Marble Making-Tattoo'ed Guy who was supposed to get his phone up and running last night finally admitted defeat and left and so Glen had to get to Verizon this morning to see if they could do it and he had to meet a friend at the hospital whose father had had a stroke and this also coincided with the selling of a car for the same friend in which paperwork needed to be signed. He had about a thousand places he needed to be today and I reminded him to breathe when he left which I'm sure just helped a lot. When he's worried or anxious I get worried and anxious for him.
Maggie and I played a round of the matching game and I talked her into letting me read her two pages of "The Little Princess" which I adored as a child. I have the original copy I owned that my grandfather gave to me. She patiently listened to the two pages and that was plenty for her. I thought perhaps it would wet her thirst a little for the story but no, it did not. It's a different generation and honestly, the book was so very dated when I read it but that didn't bother me. Reading was my life and it was an excellent story and I have no idea how many times I reread it. Finally, it was time for her to go home and although I know she had a good time here, she was ready to be back in her own nest, I think. She was a very good girl besides the not falling asleep thing but she didn't do that on purpose. I guess she just wasn't sleepy. At one point this morning she did tell me that she thought her other grandmother was wiser than I am which I thought was hysterical. Not because I think I'm wiser than she is, but because Maggie would say that. There wasn't even any context for the remark as far as I can remember but it may have something to do with her other grandmother believing in god, which of course, I do not. I told her that I figured that her other grandmother is wiser in some things and I am wiser in others.
When I took her home, I wanted to go by Publix to pick up a prescription and then I took the interstate home. The clouds were amazing.
This afternoon I picked the garden again. It was quite overcast and for awhile, rain had threatened so it was a tiny bit cooler. Still, I got as sweaty as I always do. The humidity here is 88% today.
I'm expecting those gills to start forming any minute now.
I picked a huge amount of crowder peas and field peas, too. That has to be my next project. Those I freeze because they freeze so beautifully. I just blanch them, cool them, and put them in freezer bags in serving sizes. I'm going to cook some tonight though.
So. The question of the day- did Mr. Moon get his phone activated?
YES! Yes he did! It took the Verizon tech quite awhile but they got it done. Meanwhile, he filled out one more form on the Dollar Rent A Car site about knowing that his phone was in the Las Vegas airport office, there being a claim number on it, but no one was responding to the situation.
Within an hour, he'd gotten an email back and the phone should be arriving any moment now. Problem is, when it was shut down, it was immediately made illegal to sell in the US. No problem for Mr. Moon, though! When he goes up to Canada to hunt this fall, he will be selling it to his friend Gary who lives there.
I'm learning a lot.
I think cheddar would be good on a pizza covered with roast beef and caramelized onion! OMG ... that sounds so damned good! LOL
ReplyDeleteSo glad Glen is reconnected to you and the world via Verizon!
That would not be bad but I think I'd rather have a roast beef sandwich with melted swiss and caramelized onions. Dang. Wish I hadn't thought of that.
DeleteNot necessarily the type of wisdom you would share with the other grandmother, though.
ReplyDeleteWe have the nicest realtor selling our house. The subject of karma came up. Of course I told him my theory and he said he always said a little prayer that he would do the best he could for his clients. And we agreed to disagree on that subject. It might be comforting to believe in judgement days and St. Peter and his big book, but I just can't.
Well, I guess new ageish people would say that his prayer was an intention and a good one, too. Sometimes I, too, wish I believed in a loving god who answers prayers. Observation has made that impossible.
Deletesorry to say but when Maggie is old enough to think for herself and her prefrontal cortex has not been shut down by ridiculous beliefs- she will be so grateful that she had Mer Mer, the wisest of all, the most perfect grannie ever to guide her. To love her. The christian story is compelling and frightening to little kids- child abuse I reckon. But I remember hearing the story from catholic friends , running home to my mother in tears convinced that our family was going to go to hell.She just said "no such thing".
ReplyDeleteLittle kids are indoctrinated hard in some religions and yes, there are scare tactics used for sure. Especially in the more culty one. Mormons tell their kids that if they don't obey all the laws and doctrines, they won't get to be in the highest level of heaven with the rest of the family. "Gee, Joey. It'll be so sad that you're not there. Grandma will probably never stop crying."
DeleteGood for your mama.
I cannot tell you how much I loved A Little Princess and how strongly I was influenced by Sara Crewe, her ability to find goodness and beauty everywhere and her ability to create beauty from what others perceived as trash, her kindness and her refusal to succumb to self-pity. I still have my childhood copy with its illustrations that were from the first edition. You’ve reminded me that I must reread it, it may help in this most frightening of times, or at least distract me for a bit.
ReplyDeleteAnd I’m not really anonymous, just an absentminded Margaret.
DeleteMargaret, I've thought about rereading it. It is a heartbreaker. I was delighted yesterday, reading that first two pages, to realize how very well Frances Hodgson Burnett wrote. Just beautiful writing.
DeleteMaggie will grow out of the need to compare her grandmothers and appreciate each of you. Your beans are certainly prolific...
ReplyDeleteI imagine that Maggie will grow out of the stage. Still, I was impressed that she used the word "wiser" instead of smarter or something.
DeleteMy verizon store has always taken good care of me. For ten or twenty years, it seems. Glad Mr. M is back in the phone business.
ReplyDeleteWe see no reason to change carriers. They've always been there for us.
DeleteChildren are impressionable. God is a heavy topic. I have to wonder what miracle of miracles was pitched. You must be happy to have your phone dedicated for your use again. Your zinnias are beautiful. The tomatoes and beans are amazingly still producing.
ReplyDeleteGod IS a heavy topic. And/or Jesus. I was sort of with the program until I read the Bible at which point I went, "Oh hell no."
DeleteThe zinnias give me so much pleasure.
Look at those goregeous fluffy white balls just hanging in the sky with no visible means of support! Who says miracles are rare? Maybe Maggie meant mozzarella cheese, my kids use about a ton of it on their pizzas while I'm happy with a handful of it. The zinnia is beautiful and looks antique.
ReplyDeleteThe clouds were so beautiful yesterday. I agree- it's the pragmatic miracles that happen every day.
DeleteWho knows what Maggie meant? She sounds so convincing when she tells me these things though.
That color does look antique.
That zinnia color is fascinating. You’re too much fun and too down to earth to be described as wise for a kid that age I think. I’m so glad she thought better of cheddar on pizza. Leslie Jones is fucking hilarious.
ReplyDeleteHave you read her book? I definitely recommend the audio version. She is indeed hilarious. And as fucking profane as any motherfucking bitch I ever heard in my life. Which makes me respect her as well as like her.
DeleteChildren are random and honest, at times. When I was young, I believed in the the whole god thing but the older I get, it just makes no sense to me. I do believe in the divine, but not a judgemental god or hell or commandments, or a book written BY MEN. There, that's my two cents.
ReplyDeleteWe have a red sun up in the sky this morning and it's hazy, not sure what's up with that. I'm done with the heat but then I was reading about Europe and the heat wave there. Things are getting worse. I wonder what future generations will think of us, "Why the fuck didn't they do more?" And "Why did they elect that fucking moron trump?"
I don't have answers. I'm just feeling down today, knowing that I have to send my grandson back to see his fucking mother today. On the upside, we will now recieve that child benefits that she has been getting for the last year and a half. She might even have to get a fucking job, but I doubt it.
I've got sheets hung on the line to dry and there is a little bird outside my open kitchen door, singing his heart out. That's as good as it's going to get today.
Do y'all have that saying, "Red sky at night, Sailor's delight. Red sky at morning, Sailors take warning."?
DeleteThe smoke and haze may have made the sun appear super red. But yeah, the old "normal" when it comes to weather is not ever going to happen again and as bad as we think this is, you know it's going to get worse.
I'm sorry you have to send Jack over to her house but I'm glad to hear that are going to get the benefits you so obviously deserve.
I hung my sheets out today too.
My grandson, Michael, told me I am his #1 grandma which was so sweet but I told him his other grandma is also #1 but she lives in Rwanda so she does not get to see him as much as I do but she is wonderful too. But inside my brain I was thinking "I'm #1!! Hooray for me!"
ReplyDeleteI love your zinnias and am waiting for mine to bloom. I hope mine look as lovely as yours, Mary.
And of course when Maggie told me that, I was thinking, "The hell you say!" Haha. We may be adults but we're all still little school kids at heart.
DeleteYour zinnias will be gorgeous!
my zinnias are all laying on the ground. still blooming though I think. haven't really ventured back to that part of the yard much. treacherous walking to get back there past all the hurricane debris. Maggie's growing up. and I disagree, believing in god does not make you wiser. being in tune with the universe and the ways of nature does, like you. she'll learn that. glad to hear Mr Moon got his phone set up.
ReplyDeleteI actually staked up some of my zinnias because they, too, were lying on the ground.
DeleteI wish I had a say in whether or not my grandchildren got taken to church but of course I don't. It sort of enrages me though, the thought of them putting all those concepts of sin and a magical sky being in their heads.
So funny when Kiddos load up their plate but then pretend it's not something they really like or become food critics... and eat it all... under protest of coarse. *LMAO* You're making Memories for them all and your Home Cooked meals are always the best Food Porn in the Land of Blog. Your Harvests are enviable too... all my Victory Garden is spent by now, even the hardiest of the plants. Interesting about the Phone Laws.
ReplyDeleteI guess they made that law about the selling of phones to discourage people stealing and then reselling phones. I wonder if that works.
DeleteYeah. Kids can be weird about food.
Saying "The other grandmother is wiser in some things and I am wiser in others" was a ****ing wise thing to say! As for that zinnia - what beauty and what geometry!
ReplyDeleteI'll tell you honestly- her other grandmother is extremely more wise than I am when it comes to crocheting. As for everything else, I am not sure.
DeleteAren't zinnias just little works of mathematical art?
With that title, I guess Leslie Jones was trying to make clear what the book was going to be like! It sounds funny and intriguing, as is Maggie. What is up with the cheddar cheese thing? Maybe that's the only kind of cheese she could think of by name. Her comment about wisdom cracks me up.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad Glen got the phone thing worked out, more or less. It's too bad the car place couldn't have just promptly sent him the phone and avoided all this mess.
Well, this post finally showed up on my feed and now I understand the phone situation of the more recent one. Mrs Moon's Serial Story needs to be read in order.
ReplyDeleteI'm tickled by the hint of grandmother competition. My friend Maureen used to claim she was the "real" grandma to all the grands, the hell with the other two, who lived away! She was dead serious, as I found when I laughed thinking she was joking. I had no idea there was a grandma hierarchy.