Monday, March 4, 2024

We Persevere


 Here's what's going on in Mr. Moon's potato bags. The way it works is that as the plants get taller, you add more soil which ensures, I suppose, that the potatoes are all down where they're supposed to be. I don't know. As I've said before, I've been gardening for almost fifty years and I feel like I know nothing about how to do it. Well, beyond the basics of soil, and mulch, and enriching the dirt, and sun, and water. But I am quite excited to see what sort of a potato harvest we get this year. 
I took a walk today. It was almost noon before I left the house but it wasn't that warm yet. It did eventually get up to 78° on the back porch later on in the afternoon, but it hasn't felt like evil heat by any means. 
Not looking forward to that. 

I walked by Harvey's. His yard is looking rough. Not sure what the deal is. He appears to acquired a truck that as far as I can tell is just parked and not being driven at all. He naps in the front seat with his legs and feet sticking out the driver's side door. See what I mean about Harvey and his privacy? He has none. When I was walking west to the county line, he was talking to someone in a truck that I guess did drive and he and the other guy both waved at me. On my way back, the guy in the truck was just leaving and I am never sure of the protocol of waving twice. You know what I mean? But Harvey gave me one of his arms-outstretched-to-the-sides-and-then-up waves and I said, "How you doing?" and he said he was fine. He smiles so big when he gives that wave. I always appreciate that. 

The robins have been visiting today. This time of year they fly in and rest for awhile and eat whatever it is they eat off the ground or from the ground and then they resume their travels. They cheer me. 

Mr. Moon's had a hard day. He started early on the phone with Lily, trying to figure out the best way to do house financing so she could make an offer on the house. This involved far more of the sort of thing than I can ever imagine doing. I think back to when I was a twenty-five year old, recently divorced mother of two in nursing school and I bought a house with some money that I had thankfully inherited, and I have no idea how I did that. None. I was in such a deep depression in those days that there's a great deal I do not remember. I do recall that I had a wonderful realtor who took me under her wing and guided me through the process. That was a sweet little house, and turned out to be such an excellent investment, especially after Glen and his daddy added a bedroom and bathroom and new deck to it. 
It looks like the house we looked at yesterday may not be Lily and Lauren's house. Someone has already made an offer on it- a good one- and it's been accepted. So. 
It really would have been a sort of miracle if they'd gotten the first house they looked at. It was already a sort of miracle that it was so suitable to their needs. 
But I know that Lily's depressed and so is her daddy. 
Seems like life just keeps on shaking its tail feathers at you whether you want to dance or not. 

I took a picture of the blueberry blossoms this afternoon.


Sweet little bell-blossoms. 
And probably for the first time ever I actually looked at the bloom on the cherry laurels which as far as I'm concerned are true trash trees. The birds poop out their seeds everywhere and they are all over the place. But my god! The flowers look otherworldly!


They almost look like a form of sea coral to me. All these years I've been walking right by them, never noticing, never appreciating the strange beauty of them. 

I decided to try and finish clearing up the little piece of ground by my driveway that I spent some days on months ago. 
I swear to god. I'm about to give up. Just when I think I've seen every sort of invasive plant that can grow in this yard, I find another. Or two or three. The latest one to make its appearance is what we now call Wandering Dude. I, however, will be calling it small-leaf spiderwort, which is another name for it. It's growing all UP in that space, along with plenty of new croscomia that I didn't get up earlier. I knew I hadn't. It's impossible. So I spent about forty-five minutes yanking out border grass that has the spiderwort all intertwined in it. I did not finish the job because Mr. Moon called for some paperwork information and I decided that that was enough of that. 


That border grass is a bitch to dig up and yank out. And it spreads like wildfire here too. This is a contest I can never win. You should see what's on the other side of the fence which I also cleared out last year. 

Bitch, bitch, bitch. I am being bitchy and I know it. But I am grateful for the rain we got last night and are supposed to get more of tomorrow because the beans will be so happy. I know it's too early but I've already been checking to see if they're poking out of the ground yet. Soon. They will be soon. 

I am listening currently to a book I've been "meaning" to read for a long time. "The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks" by Rebecca Skloot. Dear Liz at Field and Fen inspired me to finally take up that book when she said she was reading it and I am so glad she did. I knew who Henrietta Lacks was, and I knew the barest of bare bones about her seemingly immortal cells which were harvested without her permission in the early 1950's which have absolutely changed the world of science and medicine while meanwhile, her children and their children have lived in poverty. But there is so much I did not know and Skloot has done an excellent job of helping the world to not only come to know who Henrietta Lacks was, but also to understand a little bit more of the science behind her remarkable cells and how they have changed the world. 

And here's a little funny thing. Levon and August's school is sponsoring a fund-raising event. No candy-selling, no gift wrapping, just- hey can you give us money?
I am behind that a 100%. So the kids had to make a list of the top ten people they thought would donate in their name. Here's August's list:


It's official- I'm the biggest pushover in the family. Glen said he and August were discussing this yesterday and August told him, "You can donate a thousand dollars," and his Boppy said, "No I can't." 
Good try, August!

One more thing. A picture of Magnolia June getting her hair washed by Miss Melissa before she got her hair cut. 


Is that joy or what? 

Love...Ms. Moon

27 comments:

  1. If the Florida housing market is as tight as that in Ohio, Lilly and Lauren will look at a lot of houses and be prepared at every one for what kind of inspections they will want and what kind of financing they will have. Not to tell the relator up front, but to be prepared with if they are interested in purchasing.

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    1. Oh yeah. Same-same here. And our realtor is totally on top of all of the inspections and everything. We're getting the financing figured out too.

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  2. I feel your frustration with invasive plants. I’ve been battling goutweed on our property and have had good success with smothering it after digging out as much as I can. Maybe it could work for you as well? After either digging out or cutting back the unwanted plants cover them with cardboard or thick layers of newspaper and then cover that with 3-4 inches of mulch. This blocks sunlight and kills off the roots. I know you have a huge yard , so this may not be practical, but thought I’d pass it on. Gwennie

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    1. Well, it might help to do all of that but the problem is, is that most of these invasive plants do not end individually at the root. They have runner roots, and those would easily just escape any sun blocking to pop up wherever there isn't mulch.
      But thank you for the idea!

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  3. I'm so uncomfortable about that fundraising idea. Unless all the kids actually have people to ask. Every kid in our family was put through fundraising, Catholic school, and endured the embarrassment of coming from a home that couldn't possibly be asked for money. By payday, there was no food. So a decent kid couldn't ask. Maybe this is just me, reliving trauma!

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    1. Same here, we made it from payday to payday, barely, with no money for school things.

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    2. And when more families had so many children, I'm sure there wasn't anything extra to give.
      The damn thing is that schools need extra funding to get the things they need. Why IS this? One reason of course is that we have perverted priorities and let's not forget that the richest people in America don't pay taxes the way the rest of us do.
      On the form that you fill out to donate there is an "opt out" choice you can click.

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  4. love the cherry laurel blossoms and I agree they resemble sea coral! Ah, Lily and Lauren.....yes, having a good *go* at the first house almost never happens, sadly. I know they will find something and I hope they don't have a deadline to meet....as far as giving up the current home. I trust Jason will be flexible..... and *the immortal life of Henrietta Lacks* has been on my reading list for years...... hasn't come to actually reading it yet, though!
    Susan M

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    1. They have a sort of deadline which would work best if they could follow. Jason's not going to kick them out but certain things depend on their leaving.
      Susan- pick up that book and start it. It's amazing.

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  5. You know, I have heard of schools sending home paperwork that allows a parent to opt out of fundraisers for the year, and the price was shockingly low. I have not had kids in school for ages, but what it showed me is that these fundraisers mainly benefit the companies who are hawking their wares via thousands of adorable unpaid sales agents.

    In today's housing market the competition is fierce. Tell Lily and Lauren not to be discouraged. Have them pass that word on to their mother.😉

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    1. I really like the idea of just asking for donations rather than dealing with those skeevy candy and gift-wrap companies. I can remember when my kids were in school and were supposed to sell that crap and I would think, "Oh god. Please just let me give you the money." I guess schools have wised up.
      I know that about the housing market. I'm not worried and I think Lily and Lauren are being realistic as well.

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  6. Home buying is not easy today. A friend's daughter looked to purchase a home for 6 months and ended up in a bidding war a few times with no success. Ultimately, a family friend knew a woman looking to downsize and a private sale was made. Sometimes a friend knows about a good opportunity and it all works for both seller and buyer.

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    1. Yeah. Bidding wars suck. It does help if we know someone who knows someone...
      We've gotten property like that.

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  7. The blossom on the tree is amazing, does it have a scent? Invasive plants are blinging hard to get rid of, we are plagued with dandelions.

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    1. Those blossoms do not have a scent as far as I can tell.

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  8. Getting your hair washed is definitely a JOY, yes, in capitals. The blueberry and cherry laurel blossoms are amazing, I have never seen either before.
    Potatoes grow new potatoes from roots that grow off the stem, so the more stem you bury, the more potatoes you grow. Just keep adding soil until the bag is full.
    I am so sorry Lily did not get that house, but maybe there is a better one waiting.

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    1. Yep. That's how you do it. And I think Glen has filled up the bucket/bags now.
      I'm sure that Lily will find something that works for her family. It may take awhile.

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  9. Oh, there's plenty of joy in this post. Too bad about that first house, the weeds, and volunteer plants, and all the other crap. But, still, plenty of joy. In the ’70s, my grandmother received dozens of donation requests from every place in town. She would always put $2 in the envelope and send it back. My cousin and I, both in college at the time, talked about sending our own donation requests.

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    1. Haha! Y'all should have done that!
      Some people are just so kindhearted and I hate how organizations take advantage of that. Two bucks here and two bucks there adds up, especially for an older person on a fixed income.

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  10. I guess it was too much to hope for that Lily would get the first house which seemed perfect. Hopefully Jason will give her the time to find a new house before he takes possession of the old one. I'm going to plant my potatoes today and hope it's not too late. I waited too long last year. I think having your hair washed by someone is one of life's little luxuries but those chairs and resting your neck on the scooped out part of the sink is so uncomfortable.

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    1. Yeah. Jason's not going to kick them out.
      Ellen, I have always wondered why in the world they can't make those sinks and chairs more comfortable for the luxurious hair-washing experience. I mean- they COULD!

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  11. "Things have a way of working out" my brother always says so Lily and Lauren will find a good house soon. It's hard to be patient, tho, and I am sure it is stressful for them. Luckily, they have all of you to help them out.
    My daffodils are blooming which is way early for Illinois but I am still enjoying them! :)

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    1. Yes. They will find a house.
      Everyone seems to be nothing that things are blooming earlier this year.
      Sigh.

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  12. What a great picture of Maggie! Having a stylist wash one's hair IS an incredibly pleasurable experience. I remember that from way back when I had hair...which was indeed WAY back.

    I always liked cherry laurel trees. They do proliferate like crazy but they're pretty, with those dark, glossy leaves. I can't remember if I ever noticed the flowers or not!

    I guess house-hunting normally does take a while. Too bad this one didn't work out, but there will be others.

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    1. Well, now that I've noted the cherry laurel blossoms, I will feel a little more affection for them!
      Yeah, I guess the joy of getting your hair washed is not really a thing for you anymore, Steve. That's so sad. In a way. But you can still get head massages! Those are awesome.

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