Saturday, March 9, 2024

Things I Love


There's old Jack, posing in the chinaberry tree, trying to look like he might be a hunter. The picture reminds me of those horrid studio portraits we all used to have to get at Sears or JC Penny. Remember those? Oh, god they were terrible. 


I shouldn't talk. My family got a few of those too. I mean MY family. Jessie has one hanging on the wall in her house, as a matter of fact. 
My hair was very blonde. 
My darling children- I am so sorry. 

So I thought I'd do a little post about why kids love my house, with pictures from the kitchen. The shot of Jack is appropriate because all the kids love Jack. As soon as he hears anyone come in, he races to the kitchen because that's where we always gather first, jumps up on the counter, and presents himself to be scratched. 

One of my very favorite memories of all times concerning this house was when my niece Riley, who was probably about six years old, was here once. She was sitting in the kitchen on one of the bar stools and looking all around her in obvious wonder. 
"When I grow up, I want a house just like this one," she sighed. 
"Well you can!" I said. 
She also got lost once going from the kitchen to a back bathroom. It did not seem to disturb her at all but rather just amused her. 

I'm not sure when I began my (to be kind) eclectic form of decorating. I think it just evolved organically. I was probably influenced by Liz Sparks who has an amazing artistic sense and an eye for the interesting. It finally occurred to me when I was in my thirties and early forties that my house was indeed MY house and I did not have to conform to anyone's sense of style or taste but my own. I am sure this did not, does not, always please Mr. Moon. But at this point, he just takes it in stride. 
He is a very tolerant soul. 

Let's look at some pictures!



I do believe that this was what Riley was looking at directly when she said what she said. 
I remember distinctly where that rooster came from and the day I saw him and fell in love with him. I needed him badly. He has been my faithful kitchen spirit ever since. The two little ristras on either side of him came from El Marcado in Cozumel. 


I do love a ristra. I believe I got this one at Wag the Dog or somewhere like that. 


That one came from Mexico too, I think. I got it for Billy's grandparents. Maw-Maw fancied one and asked me if I'd get her one when I was in Mexico and so I did. Billy gave it to me when they died. So you know that's special. That spoon was one of Glen's grandmother's. The artwork is by grandchildren. 


This is in the little built-in alcove above the kitchen sink. Various things end up there, including some vases. I love and adore my Seminole dolls and they have come from various places. They were made by Seminole women to sell as souvenirs a long time ago. They're made of coconut fiber. The little European plastic dolls are from some thrift store or another. 


This lovely mermaid came from River Lily in Apalachicola. I made the grave mistake of trying to clean her once and that's when she lost a nipple. She's okay with that. I think. She lives on the wall behind the sink. 


This is the doorway between the kitchen and the hallway. Those lights have been plugged in and working for over ten years and I kid you not. I got them on sale at a CVS in Monticello. 


This is my beloved kitchen hutch that I've had since 1979. I cherish it. It has the pull-out enamel work surface, a container for sugar, and one for flour with a sifter, all built in to the side panels. I keep a multitude of things in it. And a multitude of treasures on it. 


I got that celluloid angel from an antique/vintage place in Monticello. There is a hole in the back for a light bulb. The Virgin of Guadalupe was given to me by Liz Sparks who created that lovely piece of art. 


A little Florida corner. Linda Sue sent the salt and pepper shakers, the mermaid was made in the mermaid-making machine at Weeki-Wachee. The rooster pitcher comes from Kathleen. I gave it to her and once again, received it back when she died. 


This is the funniest thing ever. It's a Mick Jagger duck that Jason gave me for Christmas. "The Floating Stones." I could not love it more. 



Cards I have been sent by people who know me so well. 



Going out the kitchen door. 


Little things I have found in this yard. Mostly tiny plastic figures but also a blue poker chip and a guitar pick. 

And. Speaking of guitar picks. 
I am certain that many of you wonder what has happened to my eternal love for Keith Richards, my spirit totem animal? Or, perhaps no one has given it a thought. However, I am here to say that I am still deeply in love with him and I probably always will be. If you have no idea why, please take it upon yourself to read his very, very good book, Life. 


Until you read it, you have no idea who he is. I surely didn't. 
This morning, while perusing Facebook, I came across a link to a video of Keith recording a song for a new album dedicated to Lou Reed. The artists are all doing Lou's songs in tribute. 
I watched the video. 
I melted. 
Keith is all about the music, his body a medium for channelling it through guitar and voice. His guitar playing is authentic and nasty and twangy and gritty and his voice is no one's but his. 
He grows ever more beautiful with each year he lives. 
The song is entitled "Waiting For The Man" but Keith sings it "Waiting For My Man." It's about a junkie waiting for his dealer so he can score what he so desperately craves. Lou Reed may have written it but Keith lived it too. 

And he's still here to tell us about it. 


Watch it or don't. It probably means very little to most people. But it means something to me. 
Survival. It is possible. Music and love can bring you through to the other side. 

Love...Ms. Moon

P.S. When I realized last night that tonight is when we start Daylight Savings Time again, I could not believe it and I do not like it. 
Man, I'm going to feel so guilty when I don't get up until 9:30 tomorrow. 
Why in hell do we keep doing this to ourselves? 

44 comments:

  1. I love your home. the house across the street from where I grew up in MA was a summer place for NY city people who were into collecting all kind of things and was decorated with an equally fascinating array of their collectables. my favorite thing was the pachinko machine with all those lil steel balls. xxalainaxx

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    1. I love those pachinko machines. They are so classic.

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  2. I commented to Tim, 'well...the good news is that the kitchen clock will finally be right again.' I just never quite got around to pulling a chair over to climb up and reach across the fridge to get the clock down and reset it. I meant to. Truly.

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    1. I'm waiting for Glen to get home to change the clock in the kitchen. I can't reach it.

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  3. I enjoy your eclectic decorations--all over your house! I have several small vases like the ones over your sink. I called them one weed vases, for all the small offerings the grandchildren brought in to me.

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  4. your house and decor is just wonderful....and so eclectic......and I love it! I will watch the Keith vid later....... and I detest the time change. Buzz asked me a few days ago *didn't we vote 5 years ago to abolish time change in Calif. and WTF happened with that*? Exactly.......... we DID vote and it passed by a huge margin....but the weak legislature will not move forward on putting it into effect. Ugh. I dread it already............
    Susan M

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    1. I'm faring better with the time change than I thought I would. I guess getting to go to bed an hour earlier makes up for having to get up and hour earlier.

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  5. I never changed my kitchen clock last time, so it will be right again. And I'll be as irritable as I usually am when the clocks change.
    You have a lot of toys! All with meaning, that's the best sort.

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    1. Lots of toys, indeed! Perhaps I am trying to make my inner child happy. Do we still talk about our inner child?

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  6. I love a lot of the things in your kitchen and the fact that special people gave them to you.

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  7. I HATE Daylights Savings!! Ours runs from October to April and all summer long at the end of the day I just want that blessed sun to go down already!
    I do however LOVE your kitchen so very much with all the little bits and bobs that make it your own very special place.

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    1. No one would confuse my kitchen for someone else's. Unless it was PeeWee Herman's, maybe.

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  8. I don't think you'd like my kitchen, too plain:) I like your tchotchkes but I'm too lazy to move things much to clean around them.

    I didn't realize that Keith Richards had such a lovely voice. Time has not been kind to his face but he doesn't seem bothered by it. I hope I can be the same one day.

    I lied to my daughter tonight, or rather her caregivers, told them I was sick. I took her out twice last week and just need a break from her. The hubby and I will build Jack's new bed in the morning. We bought him a double size bed so that poppa could lie down with him while he falls asleep. And I got a new mattress out of the whole thing, so yay for me:)

    Enjoy sleeping in. I know I will.

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    1. Clean? I'm supposed to clean these things? Haha!
      I think that Keith's face looks exactly how it's supposed to. And it's his eyes. I love him for not dying his hair and "getting work done." He knows who he is.
      I'm glad that Jack is getting a new big boy bed! That is certainly a sweet poppa to lie down with the boy to get him to sleep.
      I completely understand about Katie. Don't feel guilty.

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  9. Our clocks go forward at the end of the month.....what a palaver. Most of our house clocks are radio controlled, though it doesn't always work! The clock in my car needs a degree in changing clocks to sort it out.....usually leave P to do it or just remember to add/take off an hour ! And, why is it called daylight " saving"...there are only so many hours of light whatever the clocks say!!

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    1. Every time change I eventually figure out how to change the clock in my car. And promptly forget until the next time when I have to learn again.
      I think it was called Daylight Savings Time originally because farmers got more time to work in their fields. Or something agrarian.

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  10. We love eclectic. We don’t have the “stuff” we used to have because of downsizing for our move here, but I miss that colorful mix of stories we used to have all around the house. I think Keith Richards has gotten better with age and what a gifted group of musicians. Thanks for the reminder about DST. We don’t change yet, which means I would be an hour off on my call with The Kid Brother.

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    1. That man who was playing drums is a guy named Steve Jordan. He and Keith have been good friends and played together for many years. When Charlie Watts knew he was dying, he told Keith and Mick that he thought Steve should be the one to replace him. I love the way Keith interacts with Steve. He seems like a very affectionate man.
      Lucky you not having to change your clocks. And your life.

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  11. fun stuff. my kitchen is plain, only two things on the wall because I really don't have much wall space and the kitchen is fairly small though it's bigger than the one I had at the city house which was basically a wide hallway. but the long narrow shelf above the sink and counter has all kinds of stuff on it which all desperately needs to be cleaned.

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    1. I hardly ever clean all my stuff. Every now and then I go a little crazy and do it.

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  12. It's great that you enjoy your home so much, Mary, and I always enjoy the tours around it that you give as I am a bit on the snoopy side.
    I have a rooster on my wall, too, and it came from my Mom's kitchen and will go to my oldest son in the future. We have happy memories with that rooster.
    I also have grandkids' artwork but I keep them on my bedroom walls and they always make me smile.

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    1. I'm glad you have a rooster too! I like to keep the kids' artwork up where they can see it. They're in the kitchen a lot more than any other room of the house except maybe the Glen Den but that's their grandfather's to decorate.

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  13. I love your house so much - it has so much soul. In planning our weekend to NOLA for JazzFest this year, I realized the Stones will be playing! Unbelievable that they're still touring!

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    1. You know- I had heard they were going to be at Jazzfest but forgotten. Those boys love to tour. I think it is their joy.

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  14. I love your home. Everybody that comes inside must feel so welcomed and embraced by comfort and love. Your rooster is amazing. The colors are shiny and vibrant; is that enamel? I also love, love, love all your plants inside and outside. Your kitchen hutch is fantastic. I have one that belonged to my mother. My home is eclectic as well. Some by choice and some due to inheriting family treasures which I continue to love.

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    1. The rooster is painted tin- very Mexican.
      I'm glad you, too, like to mix things up when it comes to decorating.

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  15. It's great to be surrounded by so many little objects that all tell a story. I have that same decorating tendency, but I've moved so many times that many of my objects have gone by the wayside over the years. Some of them I miss still.

    I also have things that have come back to me after the original recipients died. Pottery that I made, mainly.

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    1. Some of my things I would miss and some I would probably never remember I had. Ha!

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  16. Dear Ms. Moon,
    My name is not really Beverly, that's my Mother.
    I very much enjoy your writing. You and Carl Hiaasen and Tim Dorsey are my go-tos. They should be honored to be included in your company.
    I used to go to Florida (Fort Pierce, Shamrock Village) for Christmas. My grandparents spent the Winter there. I gather it's different there now.

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    1. Beverly (not really your name), my daughter lives if Fort Pierce. She actually came to me in WV last week for a family event. She just left this morning! Patricia

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    2. Hello, not Beverly-That's-Your-Mother!
      Thank you so much for that compliment- it is huge to me.
      Ft. Pierce is very close to where I lived as a child. I've been there some. I"m sure it's changed a lot since you were there.

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  17. Your house is a delight! I love everything1 AND I do love Keith - read the book and loved him more, watched the video and , well , you know...

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  18. Thanks for the house tour. So many charming things you've collected.
    I hate Daylight Savings Time! Why do we still do this?
    Somewhere there is a weird photo of me and my daughter from a studio. I keep waiting to see it in one of those oddball family collections.
    How is Keith Richards still alive? I mean, I'm glad, but science should be looking into that.

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    1. Why DO we still do this?
      Yeah- "Awkward Family Photos." I can look at those things forever and just laugh and laugh. People are so funny.
      Science should be looking into why Keith's still alive. It makes no sense. In his book he said repeatedly that he was blessed with a very strong constitution.

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  19. Mary I forgot to ask, would your kitchen hutch be considered a Hoosier cupboard?

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  20. Hi Mary, I love seeing your home. I want to see more of it! We do love Keith! Patricia

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    1. Ah! Another Sister-In-Keith! We are a fine group of women.

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    2. A fine group of women indeed! Patricia

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  21. I love all your treasures. One of my friends visiting from Australia told me the minute you step into my house, you know hippies live here. No, we don’t have macrame, patchouli incense and such, just a lot of meaningful stiff, including treasures from people I’ve lost. I could never be a minimalist! It would be a form of severe torture.
    Xoxo
    Barbara

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    1. Barbara- me too! No patchouli or macrame (I never understood the fondness for that) but lots and lots of color and interesting little things to look at. I love being an old hippie.

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