This is a very interesting photo to me. I took it last night as I was about to get ready for bed. What you are looking at is mostly the reflection of the wall to the left of our bed (my side, as you can probably tell) from the mirror on Glen's dresser. And as such, you are seeing things in front of or on the mirror as well as things that are across the room and to me, it is difficult to determine which is which.
Here's another view from a different angle.
House of mirrors, I guess.
I have not been in the best of moods today. Nothing truly dire. It's just one of those days. We all have them. I wonder if the Dalai Lama has them? Days where he wakes up and thinks, "Really? Do they not make robes in any color but saffron?" (Note: I do realize that sometimes he wears other colored robes but just pretend with me for the sake of the joke. Thank you.)
I started out okay. I was having a typical dream when I woke up which involved all the usual totems. A falling-apart house with many washing machines and more laundry than I could ever do in all of them, many people I need to feed with not nearly enough food in the house, a child I need to take care of which brings me happiness and great nervousness because I am always losing the child, possibly a beach that sometimes features giant waves, sometimes features different marine animals, and is always rather threatening.
These are some of the things I dream about regularly. I think even my brain is getting tired of trying to come up with anything new.
So that wasn't anything out of the ordinary and I had all these plans to work in the garden and be all happy-hippie with life and I did get the laundry hung on the line and I kicked bamboo. Maurice helped me with both of these things.
I started out okay. I was having a typical dream when I woke up which involved all the usual totems. A falling-apart house with many washing machines and more laundry than I could ever do in all of them, many people I need to feed with not nearly enough food in the house, a child I need to take care of which brings me happiness and great nervousness because I am always losing the child, possibly a beach that sometimes features giant waves, sometimes features different marine animals, and is always rather threatening.
These are some of the things I dream about regularly. I think even my brain is getting tired of trying to come up with anything new.
So that wasn't anything out of the ordinary and I had all these plans to work in the garden and be all happy-hippie with life and I did get the laundry hung on the line and I kicked bamboo. Maurice helped me with both of these things.
Yes. I kick bamboo in my flip flops.
Here's an interesting photo of bamboo with a vine wrapped around it.
Here's an interesting photo of bamboo with a vine wrapped around it.
Probably wisteria. More on that later.
But then I just didn't want to do anything. Glen had already been to town to run some errands and was working on taxes and things like that and I asked him if he wanted to go to the Hilltop for lunch and he said he did so we drove over there.
I just did not receive that same amount of joy I usually do, eating my chicken salad. This did not stop me from eating finishing every molecule of it.
When we got home I still didn't feel like doing anything so I made a loaf of bread because I can always make a loaf of bread. It's like being productive without having to expend much energy. I am trying to explain my ennui on the pollen or perhaps the kidney stone although it's not really bothering me today. My eyes do burn a little which I feel certain every person in the North Florida/South Georgia area could say right now.
I got the laundry off the line, made up the bed with the clean sheets. These things usually make me happy but today they just wore me out.
It's been a day where everything annoys the hell out of me except for MY things and I don't mean like my jewelry or my potato masher or my clothesline although no, those things aren't bothering me.
When we got home I still didn't feel like doing anything so I made a loaf of bread because I can always make a loaf of bread. It's like being productive without having to expend much energy. I am trying to explain my ennui on the pollen or perhaps the kidney stone although it's not really bothering me today. My eyes do burn a little which I feel certain every person in the North Florida/South Georgia area could say right now.
I got the laundry off the line, made up the bed with the clean sheets. These things usually make me happy but today they just wore me out.
It's been a day where everything annoys the hell out of me except for MY things and I don't mean like my jewelry or my potato masher or my clothesline although no, those things aren't bothering me.
Perhaps I mean anything that isn't my specific problem or my specific interest or my...life?
Could I be having a narcissism attack? Like a gall bladder attack except with narcissism?
Could I be having a narcissism attack? Like a gall bladder attack except with narcissism?
Two things that have made me happy today and made me smile and made me laugh were two voice message texts from Billy.
I'll tell you something- Billy is the funniest person I know. Also, definitely one of the most loving, intelligent, and honest people I know. He had taken his son, Waylon to a bull-riding event because Waylon really wanted to go and besides all that other stuff, Billy is the man I text every Father's Day to say the same thing which is that I wish that I had had a father just like him. And I mean this to my guts. So the descriptions he wrote of going to that event were as good or far better than anything I've ever heard on a Netflix special.
I'll tell you something- Billy is the funniest person I know. Also, definitely one of the most loving, intelligent, and honest people I know. He had taken his son, Waylon to a bull-riding event because Waylon really wanted to go and besides all that other stuff, Billy is the man I text every Father's Day to say the same thing which is that I wish that I had had a father just like him. And I mean this to my guts. So the descriptions he wrote of going to that event were as good or far better than anything I've ever heard on a Netflix special.
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We're sipping our martinis here and I'm going to heat up the soup from a few days ago to go with the bread I made for supper.
And the Jessie/Vergil family is coming over after they have supper at Lily's to watch "the" basketball game and don't ask me what that is. Also, they're all going to get up early and go bass fishing together so they'll be spending the night.
I, of course, will neither be watching the game or going bass fishing but I do know that besides fishing, they will see many beautiful birds and probably a lot of native plants and trees in spring bloom on the river. I'm sure it will be a good time for all. Just as I feel so compelled to pass on to the grandchildren the things I have learned in my seventy years of life here, Mr. Moon has a deep desire to instill a love of the outdoors and fishing to them.
I understand that.
Forgive me if this post is a bit scattered. Let us blame it on the pollen.
And hey- look at this:
Even as I was in wonder yesterday about how high the wisteria had climbed a neighbor's tree, this was happening in my own yard. That is so far up. Obviously, I am not being very good at looking up. I vow to do better.
That tree is in the bamboo jungle and I have no idea whether the wisteria killed the tree or is just taking advantage of its branches while it still stands.
That tree is in the bamboo jungle and I have no idea whether the wisteria killed the tree or is just taking advantage of its branches while it still stands.
Happy Friday, y'all.
Love...Ms. Moon
Happy Friday to you!
ReplyDeletePeace ✌️
And happy Saturday to you!
DeleteHappy Friday, complete with Friday ritual sheets, etc.
ReplyDeleteOh, the rituals. They must be followed or who knows what might happen?
DeleteWell hopefully tomorrow is a better day, for you and for the world. Sending hugs and love.
ReplyDeleteI guess the days Trump lays golf are a little safer than the other days. Maybe. Probably not.
DeleteAnd so we go on from day to day and event to event. It's OK to enjoy living.
ReplyDeleteI think you are exactly right.
DeleteWisteria loves to climb. My neighbor bought a trellis for her wisteria, and it exceeded the trellis and traveled to the railing enclosing her deck.
ReplyDeleteI've never seen a wisteria climb a tree like the one in your photo. It is a remarkable vine with beautiful flowers.
Nobody is feeling great these days. For me, I find solace in my garden.
Now that your neighbor's wisteria has broached the deck railing, it will probably move on to the house. It just wants to grow.
DeleteI worked in my garden today. It helped.
Hang in there!! Maybe the blahs are manifesting because you’re fighting a bug?? In any case, I hope it may help you to know how much joy and calm you bring to us, your readers…
ReplyDeleteAnd those mirror pictures are indeed fascinating!
Thank you, for everything!
And that you for those kind words.
DeleteDefinitely blame it on the pollen. You kick bamboo in flipflops? You don't think Army boots might protect your feet and allow you to kick harder so that bamboo knows it has been well and truly kicked?
ReplyDeleteYour bread looks a thousand times better than any recipe I have ever tried. All of which were failures. I simply do not have the "knack". I even tried an Irish Soda bread last week. The birds loved it.
The mirror photos are very nice.
I am going to try and post a video of what kicking bamboo actually looks like. It does not take a lot of strength or force. I could do it barefoot but I don't want to stab my foot on a bamboo shoot that I haven't seen.
DeleteAh well. It's good to keep the birds happy.
"don't want to stab my foot.."hence the army boots or something at least a bit more protective than flipflops.
DeleteRiver- in twenty-one years of kicking bamboo here, I have never once so much as bruised a toe. And the only thing I've ever been stabbed in the foot by are roof tacks. Besides! I don't have any army boots!
DeleteMany years ago British comedian Hugh Dennis was waiting in reception at the BBC's Birmingham studios and the Dalai Lama was also there that day. As he was sitting there, the receptionist with a thick Birmingham accent called out over the tannoy "taxi for Mr. Lama"! Hope that cheers you up!
ReplyDeleteHaha! "Taxi for Mr. Lama!" That did cheer me up.
DeleteWouldn’t it be nice if the wisteria took over the bamboo jungle?!? Sorry about the low, unmotivated days. You did an awful lot anyway. I didn’t even kick bamboo. Those mirror photos are wonderful. I have no clue what’s what or where.
ReplyDeleteI think it's too dark IN the bamboo jungle but it does grow on the side of it where it gets sun.
DeleteAs to the mirror photos- even though I KNOW where each of those items are, it's still somehow confusing looking at the images there.
Deleteglad to hear you are in process of getting the stone looked at/ treated. wisteria takes over HARD AS FUCK here which is why I love seeing it in other people's yards..... they graft it on some kind of tree and make it hybrid and it still needs mega maintenance. I don't need a plant I need to trim more than my husband's hairline..... we're at that point where the weather starts in the morning like winter in the 30s and can be spring/summer 70s by supper so in the same place with our winter standby meals....warm-ish but not nice enough to smoke/grill out daily. I hope everything else is going well with hubby and all your kiddos and grandkids.... xxalainaxx
ReplyDeleteWisteria does indeed take over hard as fuck. I have never heard of any kind of grafting and hybridism. We trim the arbor back once a year, usually and even then it gets to the house and attaches itself frequently.
DeleteThe weather was like that here the last few weeks- cold in the morning, seventies or higher by midday and then the temperature starts dropping when the sun goes down. I swear- I was changing clothes three times a day to stay comfortable.
Kids and husband doing well. I hope you and Tony are too. You will be grilling soon.
We are all in limbo, holding our breaths, waiting for the horror to pass. Find joy where you can.
ReplyDeleteI really hope I live long enough to see the horror pass. I have my doubts.
DeleteI think I mentioned my wisteria is all up in the tallow tree next to it. do you remember when biorhythms were a thing? We supposedly have three and they wax and wane and our emotional and physical state is supposed to be tied to them. Anyway, whenever I feel like that I just blame it on all my biorhythms being down at the same time. And then, of course, we are witnessing our country falling rapidly to fascism.
ReplyDeleteI DO remember biorhythms. That was indeed "the" thing for quite awhile. Dear god, people believe an awful lot of shit. I saw a thing today where this woman said that ants and cats are attracted to negative energy and so you need to consider where you find them when it comes time to plan your house. A sort of Feng Shui? Also big. I think a lot of people blame not feeling great on the planets.
DeleteBut yes, you're right- there is the fact of Democracy being slashed and burned before our eyes. That might have something to do with it.
Woman, you got a lot done, considering the way you were feeling. I've been doing a lot of doing nothing while feeling that way, and this also feels right considering my life lately, but there's a fine balance isn't there between let yourself BE what you are feeling, and getting a move on. I woke up in a shitty mood this morning, no obvious reason, and have just been reading blogs for the last 2 hours, and it always helps to find someone else has days like these too. And still comes up with a few stories to tell!
ReplyDeleteYes. We do all have these days and it is definitely hard to know whether to just give in and rest our souls or pull up our big girl panties and get out there and move around a little bit. Some days I just don't feel like I CAN but if I do and I get something accomplished, I know I feel better about myself, at least.
DeleteI am always so impressed by how productive you manage to be on days when you don't feel like doing anything at all. I'm sorry you have a case of the blahs, it comes on sometimes for no reason we can discern, except now we can always blame it on politics, which might be true even, for an empath like you. How lovely that Jessie's family will be sleeping over, I dream of getting to that era in my own life, but my kids seem to be in no hurry at all. I love seeing that photo of the dresser beside your bed, the two mirrors reflecting each other. Also, the girls face above your dresser reminds me of Maggie, do you see that, too? I hope by the time you read this you're feeling a lot better. Your family is so beautiful in its togetherness.
ReplyDeleteYes. We can and SHOULD blame a lot of this general malaise and depression on the current state of our world, the US specifically. I mean- how else can we feel except for constantly devastated?
DeleteI have so many pictures of little girls who look like Maggie at different stages of her life. I got the picture you're referring to when I was in high school! I loved it so much that my boyfriend bought it for me and his father made the frame for it. One of the sweetest presents I ever got in my life.
All those beautiful pictures around your mirror - I come from a very dusty place and the joy at seeing that is tinged with the cleaning fear!
ReplyDeleteOh- just do like me and don't clean them.
DeleteWell, that last picture explains the vine around the bamboo, for sure! I do like the reflective pictures -- you know I'm a sucker for reflections -- and I don't blame you a bit for skipping either the game or the fishing.
ReplyDeleteGlen said that Maggie tried to hit every ball that came her way, including ground balls AND she laid down on her side when she was in the outfield. Just...had a little rest.
DeleteThat child.