Thursday, July 23, 2026

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I grew this glory from seeds that Ellen sent me a few years ago after I verbally swooned over the photos she posted of hers. I always forget what she called it but in looking it up, I see that it goes by a few names, one being Texas Star Hibiscus, another Scarlet Rose Mallow, and one even Florida Native Scarlet Hibiscus. Call it what you will, it's even swoonier in real life than it is in photos. 
Of course it's in the mallow family along with okra, Rose of Sharon, swamp mallow, hibiscus, and cotton. I just learned that! Cotton? Well, okay. 
I'd love the plant just because Ellen sent me the seeds but I am IN love with the plant because of its blooms.

I got a few things accomplished around here today. I picked some more peas and peppers. With what I picked yesterday, I was able to make another bottle of pepper vinegar, this one with two different types of peppers, tabasco and the cayenne ones. 


The vinegar looks cloudy because I used half white vinegar and half unfiltered apple cider vinegar, specifically the dregs of a bottle which has all that healthfully good sediment in it. 
Or something like that. 
All I can say is that I better grow some decent greens this winter to use these vinegars on. I also have jalapeño peppers but they're just a little too stout to happily accept being pushed down the neck of the bottles I have. I suppose I could and should make something else with those but I may just find another type of bottle to put them in. Who among us does not love getting a bottle of pepper vinegar for Christmas? 

I do really love the way the bottles look with all the peppers in them. So brightly colored they are a visual representation of summer's heat. 

I took the trash and I unpacked my suitcase and put everything away. I did laundry. I picked those peas and peppers and pulled a very few weeds. My Lord but it is hot out there. I'm sure I did some other things but I can't really remember except for the fact that Shelly from pottery came by to see me and my house after she and her mama, son, and the son's friend had been to the Wacissa for a swim. That was nice. I showed them around this old house and by now I feel like a tour guide. "And this is the bathroom Oprah built..."
And so forth. 
I spend a lot of time on these tours apologizing for flaking ceiling paint in the hallway and flooring that needs replacing. "Don't walk there!" 
Sigh. 
Shelly's mom was so sweet, as is Shelly. Her son asked if he could play the piano and I said that of course he could. 
The kid has a damn gift. I mean- a real gift. I couldn't believe it. My old out-of-tune piano is probably still in shock after being played so proficiently by someone who absolutely knows what they are doing. 

I had thought I'd have enough time today to get into some real pea-shelling but I only managed to spend one and a half episodes of "The Bear" at the task. It is going faster because I'm only picking the really ripe pods which are far easier to shell. I am going to cook the ones I did today for our supper tonight along with grouper that Glen caught and croquettes, also known as patties, made with squash that I didn't grow and eggplant that I did grow. So. Fish, peas, and croquettes. This should be good. 
I'd say that I'd missed cooking in my own kitchen while we were in NC and I did, a little bit, but it was also fun to have to make do and improvise when things weren't quite what we needed. There was a griddle in the kitchen that I cooked the pancakes on and it was fabulous. 
But sleeping in one's own bed and cooking in one's own kitchen really are the best. 

Glen spent the entire day and I mean the ENTIRE DAY mowing the grass. I know I always say we don't really have a lawn and we don't in the front yard but various types of grass-like plants grow in other parts of the yard and those need mowing, as do the few little sprigs of whatever greenery growing in the front yard and it looks fabulous. 


Part of the reason it took so long was not due to how tall and dense the grass had gotten but also because there were so many limbs which had fallen due to all the storms, especially the pecans and water oaks. 
He just finished about half an hour ago and has driven to the Wacissa to surrender himself to the cold, clear, healing waters of that river. I should have gone but instead, I'm doing this and am about to start that supper. 

When I watered the porch plants (oh yeah- that's another thing I did) I had to take a picture of this lovely Golden Orb Weaver. She's not fully grown but she looks healthy and her web is a work of weaving art. 


I am happy to see her and her many sisters around. Some of them already have boyfriends or husbands or whatever they call the relatively tiny spiders who talk their way into hanging out in the web, no doubt benefiting from the bounty the women bring in. I shouldn't criticize. If it weren't for them, there would be no babies to grow up and weave their own webs. I have no idea if the Golden Orb Weaver Women eat their mates. I would not be surprised. Protein is where you find it. 
I just looked it up and yes they do. Sorry guys. But the lady spiders don't live into winter so the fellows just go a bit earlier, I suppose, after literally giving their all. 

I gotta make supper. 

Love...Ms. Moon



32 comments:

  1. That flower is spectacular. I love that family, especially the okra, mainly because the flower is such a surprise on that, to me, inedible veg.

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    1. Oh, but have you ever had fried okra? Better than popcorn. No slime to it. Delicious. You're right- it is surprising to see that blossom on a vegetable plant.

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    2. Too funny -- to me anything's better than popcorn! I think it's body chemistry, because it smells repulsive. So that's a low bar for okra.

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    3. Ha! Well, I shall never ever try to convince you that okra is delicious again. I don't think I've ever met another soul who was repulsed by the smell of popcorn. You are indeed a unique woman!

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  2. Flooring that needs replacing? Why is that not priority #1? The yard photo is very beautiful.

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    1. I'd answer your question on the flooring but it would take all night.
      That is the view from where I sit on my back porch.

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  3. You are such good travelers, I am so glad you had a holiday. Getting back to garden and bathroom that Oprah built (?) feels secure and comfortable.
    I love the photo of the yard, the top bit especially looks like a painting.
    Your bottle of pretty peppers is ART! Along with your beans in jars would make a fab subject to paint! XO

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    1. https://www.blessourhearts.net/2026/04/history-of-bathroom-also-possible.html

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    2. Vegetable preservation art! I think the peppers, especially, are so very, very pretty.

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    3. Thank you! How could I ever forget THAT post, it is of high interest and your bathroom is gorgeous. " look under your seat..."

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    4. Brings new meaning to it, doesn't it?

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  4. That flower is amazingly beautiful, stunning really.
    I'm tired of cooking and nothing strikes my fancy right now. Jack isn't eating well between the vomiting virus, the heat, and the new medication. Not sure what to do about him. He was never a big kid but he's getting thinner.
    Hope you have a good day and I'm off to pottery with friends tomorrow. I made time for myself this morning and built a mug.

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    1. It's hard to come up with good ideas for meals in the summer. Big salads are great but they lose their appeal after awhile and kids aren't really into them either. I have no idea what you could do to get Jack to eat more. Jessie's kids are skinny but they seem to eat constantly and in great quantities. I do literally wonder where they put it.
      I'd love to see a picture of your mug.

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  5. That flower is beautiful, and I am sure that in "real life" it is even better. You sure have been busy upon your return home. I have never heard of pepper vinegar before.

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    1. Pepper vinegar may be a southern thing. It's a cheap condiment that enhances and compliments the flavor of cooked greens of all sorts. Oh god. I sound like one of those online recipe writers.

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  6. Your musings on Golden Orb Weaver females and their mates entertained me greatly!

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    1. Sometimes the ladies have two or three guys in waiting. I always wonder what's up with that? Are some of the females more attractive to males than others? Is it a location thing? No idea.

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  7. My big star hibiscus did not come back one winter but a new one has shown up and I got two flowers off it. How is the turk's cap doing and the altheas (ok, rose of sharons)?

    We have so few spiders around here the last few years. I mean the ones outside that build webs, not the multitude of little jumping spiders that inhabit my house.

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    1. The turk's cap is doing well. None of the Rose of Sharons made it though. I still have both the hibiscus and turk's cap in pots and I suppose I should plant them in the ground but I'm wary, worrying about winters. The hibiscus did get nipped on that last surprise freeze we had but it didn't slow it down much.
      It seemed like we had fewer spiders last year but I'm seeing just about the normal amount of them this year.

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  8. The plant that Ellen gave to you is lovely. The red and yellow petals are a striking color combination.
    Spiders seem prolific in FL. The webs are like art forms unlike anything we see in MA.
    Your garden did not miss a beat while you were away and that's always great. I'm harvesting cucumbers, lettuce and green tomatoes. The deer took many of my green tomatoes and what remained has been harvested and put in a brown paper bag for ripening.
    Susan

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    1. I had to go back and look at the photo because it doesn't have yellow petals although I can definitely see why you'd think so. Those are actually leaves below the blossom. I guess the bright sun bleached them out in the picture.
      The spider webs here are many and varied. Mostly beautiful, especially when covered in dew or a recent rain and the drops look like crystals in the sun.
      The garden didn't need me! It rained a lot.
      It's so funny- we could never grow lettuce here at the same time as tomatoes. The lettuce wouldn't last ten minutes under that sun or in this heat. It IS time for me to plant more arugula though as it seems to do fine in it. The brown paper bag thing works great for ripening tomatoes.

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  9. It seems to so often work that way in the animal kingdom. How is it that males perceive themselves to be in charge in the human world, when in nature it's the females who run things and reduce their mates to snack food?

    I love the hibiscus from Ellen. I wonder if I could grow those here? I wonder if I could even get the seeds? I'll have to look. I remember seeing them in St. Pete on the newly landscaped pier, and yes, if I remember right, they were touted as a native species.

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    1. You're absolutely right about the female/male thing. And in a lot of female dominated species, the girls are larger than the boys. I hate to be sexist but I think that may have something to do with female dominance and in turn, in human male dominance. What do you think? I'm sure someone has answers. I know that bottom line for women is that we can never be absolutely sure that some guy who is larger than we are won't physically harm us if he takes a notion to. That has a lot to do with it all. We have to be aware of that at all times.
      I don't see why you couldn't grow that hibiscus in London. You'd have to keep it in a pot and make sure it got plenty of sun but that's true for a lot of plants. I bet you could order seeds online. Worth it to try, right?

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  10. We once spent 45 minutes one evening standing in our neighborhood in Santa Barbara watching a golden orb weaver create a web. Yeah, female golden orb weavers do eat their mates. And more power to ’em!

    That IS a lot of lawn, whatever its make-up. The vinegar is beautiful and that hibiscus is, too.

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    1. I don't think I've ever watched one actually weaving her web. I've seen them do repair work and that is pretty amazing too.
      I wonder if the females like the way the males taste or if they don't really think about taste at all, just possible nutrition. There's so much I don't know!

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  11. I've never had nor have I ever made pepper vinegar. Looks pretty in the bottle, though. Your yard looks so much bigger than I realized. You have a large piece of property there!

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    1. It's just a good thing to put on cooked greens. Brings a little heat, a little tartness. Bottles of the commercially made kind are a staple on a lot of southern restaurants along with hot sauce.
      That shot of the back yard probably doesn't show an eighth of the size of the yard. We have about two acres, I think. A little over. Which is why I'm always behind on yard work!

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  12. As always I love reading your posts !!!

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  13. that vinegar looks like it will kick some ass ultimately! YES
    Susan M

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