Friday, February 13, 2026

Sweetnesses


Last night when we got home from the meeting, when we got out of the car and went to walk into the kitchen I smelled the tea olive which is the first I knew it was blooming. The flowers are so miniature that I always notice their scent which is not miniature in any way, before I notice the blooms. I love the way they smell so much. I call it angel perfume. 

As to the meeting which we left before it even really got going- the results are in and I got a text from my neighbor who said everyone there had been opposed except for one person and the commission opposed the request. Now. What this means exactly, I do not know and my neighbor said that she bets Love Truck Stop will come back with another proposal. 
Sigh. 
But for now...
We are good. 
Personally, I wish they'd put in a hotel and a Waffle House. That would be dandy. I mean, hotels can be pretty ugly and they aren't the most charming things to look at, at least not the big chain ones they put up now, but they are tolerable and a Waffle House- well. You know how I feel about Waffle House. I am pretty sure that won't happen because there already is a Waffle House just one exit to the west which is about ten minutes away. 
But as I said the other day, eventually something is going to go in there. That property is just too ripe for development, especially as Tallahassee is growing this way so quickly. Huge housing developments are going in where there were only large tracts of woods. 
It is a sorrow and it is a reality.


I took this picture this morning because of the way the sun was shining through those petals. So tender, so lovely. We have many buds, waiting their cues to come on stage. I do not know exactly what their cues are, but they do. They have the script and I trust them to have memorized it. 

I was pretty busy today and it felt good. The weather was absolutely perfect. For a time I was even barefoot and sleeveless and yet, it was not hot. The sky clear blue all day long. 


I even managed to get the sheets and a few towels and new placemats hung on the line. I got those placemats at the thrift store Hank and I visited yesterday. I call them "fancy" and I think they are a fabric fiesta for the eyes. My eyes at least. 

I finally got to what needed to be done on the front porch which was to bring in all of the sheets and blankets I had out there to wrap plants in. I should have done that a month or so ago when I brought the plants inside. I don't know why I haven't. I gave the porch a good sweeping and set the plant stands where they should go and I brought one little old wicker table that's falling apart around to the side of the house where I'll see it and remember to take it to the dump. It has lived its life, it has served its purpose, it has brought me pleasure. 
I even carried a few plants back out there, just smaller ones, to get more light. They're still okay inside but gradually, we'll get them all back out. I'm a little leery of doing that yet though. I've seen freezes in March. 

I did several more loads of wash after I did the sheets, dried them in the dryer and folded them and put them away. I brought in the things hanging on the line and made up the bed. 

I also made the ganache for the truffles I'm making for Mr. Moon's Valentine's Day. We have agreed not to do anything special but any reason to make chocolate truffles is welcome. I haven't made any in so long and they're just the easiest things to make. Also, they are divine. I mean- chocolate, cream, and vanilla. And a tiny bit of butter. The ganache is in the refrigerator and I'll make the truffles themselves tomorrow, rolling them in cocoa and perhaps some in crushed pecans and some in coconut. They are a messy thing to make, as rolling them heats the ganache in your hands so it's a thing best done quickly, keeping whatever you're not working with in the refrigerator. But so worth it. I imagine that beyond that we'll just be giving each other a few extra kisses and hugs. 
We know we love each other. We do not take that for granted. We do not need a particular day to express that. 

I'm not sure what else I did but I know I must have done other things as I kept moving from one thing to another most of the day. This is housekeeping though, isn't it? All of the little things that must be done to maintain order and at least a modicum of tidiness. 

When Hank and I went to that thrift store yesterday, I not only bought those placemats, I also bought a new purse. 
I know. Shocking, right? 
And the shocking thing is that it's not really the sort of purse I usually fall in love with but for whatever reason, I did. It cost $14.99 and it delights me. 


The leather is very soft and I love the weaving in the design. Also, these tiny buckles just made me swoon for whatever reason.


I'm not big on decorative blah blah on purses but in this case, I am charmed. 


Oh, those little brass clasps which connect the strap to the bag! And the strap has small gold links woven into the first few inches of both ends of the strap which I would normally disdain but in this case, I do not. The strap itself is thin-ish and delicate, but strong. Quality leather indeed. And already broken in and ready to go. 
Although it is quite small, it easily holds all I need. Three pockets inside, one of them zippered, and those two zippered pockets outside. 

This post is very lighthearted. I am not talking about what I have come to think about as the horrors. I have needed this day at home spent in doing the simplest of tasks, being outside and inside, loving where I live, loving whom I live with, taking note of the blooming things, looking up and feeling at peace. 


The Japanese magnolias are beginning to open. They are always late, perhaps due to the fact that they are of the magenta variety rather than the normal pink. Or, because they don't get all the sun they need. I look forward to them blooming every year and I am patient. 

And here's a funny little cartoon from the New Yorker that made me smile. 


Happy Valentine's Eve. I raise my martini to all of us. We are all worthy of love, we are all worthy of being cherished, we are all worthy of buying little things that bring us pleasure. We are all allowed to eat truffles and to sleep on clean sheets and smile and laugh. 
Even now. Even in these times. 
Especially in these times. 

Happy Friday, y'all. 

Love...Ms. Moon




 

40 comments:

  1. Your new purse reminded me of a comment that's been on my mind for a while. The song of the summer was The Bar Song where the singer Shabouzey laments " my lady wants a Birkin, that's why I work so hard". It's a catchy tune, but have we normalized wanting a purse that starts at $30,000? Granted, I am old and cross, but that annoys me greatly. Also, a man wearing a Rolex which is worth more than a house. I don't get it. That is a sweet purse.

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    1. I REALLY do not get the Birkin thing either. Those bags aren't anything I'd want to carry. And the straps are such that you'd have to hold them, thus taking up an entire hand, or letting it dangle from your forearm which looks so dated to me. Like the way Queen Elizabeth carried her purse. And I just don't like their shape either. Too structured. At least a Rolex, although truly nothing more than a status symbol, can tell you the time. But so can your phone. Or a Timex.

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  2. I get you on needing to focus on the simple lovely tasks to stay grounded. That includes noticing and appreciating what’s around us, like lovely smelling flowers. And walking barefooted is grounding in, and of, itself. -Nicol

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    1. I have probably been barefoot for more hours in my life than I have worn shoes. That is my natural state.

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  3. The pink blossom with morning light shining though made my day, thank you. Glad to hear that maybe things will not take off in the horrid direction proposed...maybe? Never know about "progress" . This town I live in has changed way too much - I wouldn't like to live here if I just drove into town for the first time, but am used to it now I suppose. Happy VD to you, I heart you!

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    1. I heart you too, Linda Sue.
      And we do get used to things, don't we? We just do.

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  4. I love the notion that plants and particularly flowers might have scripts to follow that they need to memorise. You do spawn some splendid writing ideas Mary - just like that one.

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  5. We used to take our kids and their team mates to a 4 day sports tournament in a town several hours away, and the kids always wanted to eat at Waffle House (don't seem to be around here) and mornings were always a great rush so it didn't happen. Finally one year the last day I told the car full I was responsible for that we would have breakfast at Waffle House if they guaranteed a quiet ride home. They were ecstatic, the other driver parents got pressured into making the same deal and the drives home were peaceful, probably due to carb overload on their part. As I recall terrible coffee, however. Once again you take me on a trip down Memory Lane!

    Ceci

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    1. Oh, the coffee is drinkable to me. It's Starbucks coffee I dislike. Too bitter. But yes, it's easy to OD on carbs at Waffle House. Also fat. Tasty carbs and fats, though.

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  6. The sunlit camellia is beautiful. I would frame that picture and have it forever. Love the colourful placemats too. I'm supposed to be getting busy with broom and duster but it can wait.

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    1. Brooms I can handle. Anything having to do with dusting, I cannot.
      That camellia is a gorgeous thing, isn't it?

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  7. Flowers! Sunshine! Sleeveless! This reads like a wonderful fantasy to this snowbound icy wind Joisey Goil.

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    1. I know! I read this with the exact same wonder!

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    2. It's been just really, really nice out. And cool at night for good sleeping. Can't beat it.

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  8. The camellia photo is beautiful. I love The First Supper! I would have bought those placemats, too.

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    1. And how do YOU know Jesus?
      I just love that. Small talk at the First Supper. My kind of humor.

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  9. Those placemats are gorgeous - and I love the purse! Its the only place I ever get handbags, to be fair. The trick is finding ones that have the right pockets in the right spot.

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    1. Pockets in the right places are definitely necessary.

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  10. glad to see the freeze didn't take away the beauty of spring. we're all breathing up here still and fighting the horrors that still persist. xxalainaxx

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    1. Keep fighting! And please, KEEP BREATHING!
      Sending my love your way.

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  11. Glad to hear the Commission turned down the proposal. I like a good Waffle House myself. And I've stolen that "First Supper" cartoon, LOL!

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    1. I will gladly share both the Waffle House and cartoons with you, Ms. Debra.

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  12. I'm so glad the truck stop plan got shot down, at least in its current form. Let's see what they come up with next! If they could find a way to keep the development up at the interstate, without disgorging a lot of trucks onto your road and into your neighborhood, that would be a good start.

    Glad you found some treasures at the thrift store! And bravo for making truffles. I'll stick with truffles in a box. :)

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    1. Truffles are so easy to make. You do get your hands pretty sticky though, when rolling them in your palms. The taste-to-effort ratio is ridiculously on the side of taste.
      You're right- those two damn access roads are the absolute worse part of the plan to me. Just insane.

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  13. I don't know that I've ever eaten a truffle, lots of ganache, but no truffles. I think I'll have to give them a try, especially a truffle covered in coconut.
    Glad the truck stop is a not go, for now.
    Have a lovely day.
    We have a long weekend this weekend. It's family day in Alberta on Monday and Jack is going to stay one night with his grandma. My husband is sick which is what often happens on weekends with him, his body is worn out and he's so damned tired all the time.

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    1. Pixie you should make some truffles. They are so good. Such naughty, decadent treats.
      I hope Loves Truck stop doesn't just keep hammering and hammering away with plans until we fold.
      Glen frequently works too hard too, and then he sleeps in his chair a good part of a day. He doesn't really get sick though. Just exhausted.

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  14. Well, those first two photos of flowers really lifted my spirits, Mary. So lovely!
    Happy Valentine's Day to you and Mr. Moon!

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  15. They'll definitely be back...again and again and again until they get what they want.

    My sheets and blankets and plastic bags are still lying in a heap on the floor of the garage. And yeh a freeze in March is a possibility which is why the plumerias and cereus are still in the garage. And while it is obviously spring nothing is blooming, new foliage not emerging but the weeds and grasses have exploded.

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    1. Another almost-sure sign of spring- the ant beds are on top of the ground again. They've come up out of their tunnels. But I never truly trust that spring is here until the pecans start to leaf out.

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  16. That is a good buckle. Enjoy your new purse--delight in it even. We gotta do what we can to keep doing what we gotta.

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    1. You are so right. Whatever gets us through the night, so to speak.

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  17. I'm always a few weeks behind with my New Yorkers, so I haven't seen that cartoon yet. It's a doozy! And all your flower pictures are so pretty. I thought the first buds were citrus, and I can almost smell them, and the pink flowers with the sun shining through are lovely; they kind of remind me of the bowl you are making.

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    1. I'm so behind on New Yorkers that I just randomly pick one up when I'm ready to start a new one. I call it The Guilt Pile.
      Sigh.
      Those tea olives buds do look like citrus blossoms, don't they? That's one thing I miss about living in Central Florida- the scent of the orange blossoms. Of course all those groves are gone now anyway.
      If my bowl is one gazillionth as pretty as that flower I'll be so happy.

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  18. Those placemats...what fun! One of our favorite restaurants uses unmatched, bright and colorful cloth napkins and as you said, it's a fabric fiesta.

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    1. I used unmatched china, unmatched place mats, unmatched napkins. My silverware is all from the same set though.

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