Sunday, January 11, 2026

A Full And Loving Day


Well, it has begun. These two beauties were growing on the very large bush beside the back porch where I have a veritable grove of camellias. They are not quite white, but a very, very pale blush pink. Or at least, that's what I see. They are always some of the best bloomers. I really should make more of an attempt this year to identify the different varieties. I am as excited to see the different ones open as I would be to see old and dear friends. 

It's been a good day. I was so very, very emotional when I got up. I know I'm an easy cryer, but this morning, there was almost nothing that didn't make me cry. Three different blog posts welled my tears to overflowing. I have no idea why but eventually, my heart returned to its natural size and function, and the tears went back to wherever they had come from. 

When Mr. Moon got home from duck hunting, instead of settling into his chair for his usual Sunday catch-up nap as he usually does, he went out to where the sink is going to go and began to dig the trenches he needs to lay the water pipe. 
Now this is not an easy job. The ground there is filled with roots, some of them as big around as my arm. Add to that, due to his neuropathy, he cannot stand in one spot to use a shovel so the man sat on his butt and shoveled from that position. And...he worked for hours. There is no holding him back. I know he's tired this evening though. 
Obviously, I could not just spend my day being lazy and useless and so I decided to bow to the inevitable and do a little housecleaning. My kitchen floor had gotten to the point where the spot cleaning I'd been doing with a rag and a spray bottle of Fabuloso, white vinegar, and water was just about useless. The other day when it was quite warm, I was barefoot and I realized I had indeed passed the point at which the state of that floor was unacceptable, as in my feet were sticking to it. 
And to add to that, I realized I had not mopped Mr. Moon's bathroom in god only knows how long and so I proceeded to clean his bathroom sink as well as my bathroom sink, including pulling up the plugs and cleaning off all the hair and gook, including dusting the wood of the vanity his sink is set in with some furniture polish and cleaning the mirror, and then I swept the floor and gave it a good mopping. I also washed the rug that goes in there. Then I proceeded to the kitchen where I removed the bar stools, the trash cans, the step ladder, the laundry hamper I keep in there, the shoes kept by the kitchen door, and all of the other stuff where I needed to mop. I gave it two sweepings and then two moppings and it would gladly have taken another but let's not lose our minds here, okay? 
That felt good. 
And now my house smells like Fabuloso and white vinegar which is therapeutic for me in and of itself. 

So this has not been a wasted day, or at least not entirely, and I feel as if yes, I have created a more peaceful environment for us to enjoy, for a few hours, at least. 

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Do any of you remember me writing about Smitty's Club? I first wrote about it on June 26, 2008 which would have made it seventeen years ago, right? Or thereabouts. 
I wrote another post about Smitty's Club and the era in which it and Smitty played a such a big part of our lives and when I say "our" I mean our tribe, I guess, the hippies and musicians and pot growers and carpenters and roofers and artists of Tallahassee and Jefferson County who were trying to figure it all out in a new way, sometimes stumbling, sometimes succeeding, but always with community and music. And Smitty's Club was very much a part of all of that. Here's a picture from that post. 


That was Smitty's Band at Smitty's Club. There were other folks in the picture, but I feel like if you are of a similar age to me, you will recognize them from the days of your tribe too because in so many ways, we were all from the same tribe. 
The tribe that was trying to change the world. 
Anyway. 
That post can be found HERE but I must tell you, I write in it about the death by suicide of one of the people in that picture so if that is more than you want to deal with, don't read it. Just don't. 
It's part of my life, my history, those times, but it may have nothing for you except a trigger and I do not want anyone to go through that. 

So. What brought all this back to me? 

I was going through the FaceBook reels which I spend WAY too much time on, and this one came up. 



Smitty's son, Mac, is selling cane syrup and I love it. I believe Mac is calling himself Smitty now and probably has been for awhile. When his daddy was alive, he would not have dared to call himself Smitty but I guess it's okay now. He, his own son and wife, are standing to the left of Smitty who is in the center of the picture. 
I do love cane syrup and always have a bottle in my refrigerator. It's the very best thing you can eat on a biscuit or cornbread. I just went to the website where you can order it and it's all sold out. It cost thirty five dollar a bottle which, I'm sorry, is insane. You can buy cane syrup around here for far less money although that too is pricier than any of the folks who began planting cane and ground it every fall to make syrup would have believed.
To them, this was just a way to make sugar, albeit in a less refined way. There are many online sources of information about this and I'll let you check them out if you want. I've already linked enough. 

Here's a lagniappe picture of something else blooming right now. 


The roses are having a winter frolic. I wish you could smell them. 

I better get in that clean-floored kitchen and make some supper. We're having what I told my husband is some "dang tacos." 

Love...Ms. Moon

P.S. I have to say that Mac could make a trillion dollars selling the land he inherited from his father and I am a bit blown away that instead, he's using it to farm. His daddy was the same. 
So good for him. 




24 comments:

  1. It is a lovely thing to know that in this world, there are people who don't see the almighty dollar as the most important thing. We need a few more people like Smitty.

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    1. The land values where Smitty had his club and farm have rocketed astronomically and way back in the seventies, he was offered a slight fortune to sell. He did not.

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  2. Nice to hear about someone working the land, hardest job, rather than cashing in.
    The camellias are getting there, lovely to see

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    1. Mac has done a lot of different things over the years. I like this cane syrup idea.

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  3. I spent 45 minutes out in a very biting cold wind this afternoon cutting back a sweet autumn clematis with aspirations and was able to identify a couple spots where a camellia would be just perfect. When the weather gets right I am going camellia shopping. That pale pink one would be a lovely sight to see. Thanks for the inspiration.

    Ceci

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    1. You go, Ceci! Get another camellia in there!

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  4. I don’t know that i’ve ever had cane syrup. We live in an area where just about everyone taps their maple trees. I used to work with a man who took his own syrup into restaurants. Is it similar to maple syrup?
    Beautiful flowers. I need color. I’m a tad sick of the snow. And ice. Both kinds!

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    1. Well, if you have maple trees, no need to grow sugar cane.
      Cane syrup really isn't that much like maple syrup except that they are both very sweet syrups. Cane syrup is closer to molasses, but lighter in flavor and in color. I love it.
      We all need color, I think. I know you will be so glad to see some in the spring.

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  5. My dada was a plumber/gas fitter and we got told very young to never let anyhting the isn't liquid go down the sink drains, we were taken a few times when he was called to unblock pipes for housewives and and he made sure we saw what was causing the blockage, so we would understand that the most important rule of housekeeping is "look after your drains" I once asked my youngest "what is the most important rule..." his answer? "Have enough butlers"
    I have to say, my floors get quite dusty and covered in cat hair, but I've never had my barefeet sticking to them. Probably I don't cook enough for that to happen.
    The camellias and roses are beautiful. and I hope Mr Moon doesn't have too much trouble digging the trenches for the sink. Tree roots are a bitch to dig through and around.

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    1. "Have enough butlers." That is so great! Can one really ever have too many butlers?
      Yeah. Drains are important and they can get nasty. Roots growing into them can create another sort of havoc and as you say- can be hell to dig up. Or dig out when it comes to putting in new pipes.
      Our floors can get sticky just with small spills. And yes, when I cook, things can tend to fly. I try to deal with anything like that right away but I miss a few here and there.
      I swear- the roses look like they think it's spring. One of them is practically blocking the garden gate now.

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  6. I hope supper didn’t mar that clean kitchen floor. The camellias photo is perfect. I can see the pink tint. The Smitty’s photo is a classic. I still enjoyed reading the old blog post. 2008! I was still living and working in Las Vegas and that’s a lifetime ago, as can be seen in the photos of the always beautiful grandkids.

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    1. The dang tacos did not seem to mess up my floor. I am grateful. Generally when I mop a floor, an immediate spill of something sticky is bound to happen almost immediately after.
      Las Vegas probably does seem like a lifetime ago for you. Me too, in a way, especially seeing those pictures of the babies.

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  7. Wonderful to think of your non-sticky floors. But I'll sit here imagining the scent of your roses insteaad of the floors! mmmm.

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    1. The roses smell just like roses are supposed to. Not always a guarantee in these days of the popularity of hybrids.

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  8. I can't even fathom trying to dig while sitting although now that I say that I've watched Rocky dig while sitting.

    Well, you know how I feel about house cleaning. The living room floor has just about reached my tolerance level though. I read somewhere years ago about a housekeeping hint re sinks, especially bathroom sinks.
    they stay clean if you take less than a minute to dry it with a cloth after use. I do this in the evening after I brush my teeth (the last one to use it for the day). It take 30 seconds to wipe down the counter, the fixtures, and dry the sink. And it really makes a difference. I keep a dry washcloth handy for that purpose.

    I grew up on cane syrup. that's what we always had at my house and then when I had my own house until we got a Costco membership and now we have maple syrup.

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    1. It must be hell on the upper back and shoulders to dig from a sitting position as the lower back and hips cannot be used. Glen doesn't complain though. Well, a little. But nothing like I would. Hell, who am I kidding? I wouldn't have dug those pipe lines either standing up or sitting down.
      I know what you mean about the tolerance level. Things seem relatively okay until suddenly- OH MY GOD! And then something must be done.
      Good idea about cleaning out the sink every night. I'm going to start doing that.
      We have Costco maple syrup AND cane syrup. The maple is for pancakes, the cane is for cornbread.

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  9. Well, my Christmas stuff is still up as I have been too sick to deal with it and so no cleaning is happening either. I'll get to it when I get to it and it will get done but not too quickly and that's all right with me.

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    1. You have been way too sick to worry about packing up Christmas. You have really been through it, honey.

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  10. Even though we are a sugar growing area, the spread of choice as a result is called "Golden Syrup" (or cocky's joy in slang terms) - I wonder how far removed from cane syrup that is? Smittys sounds very much like the Boho, a cafe in Brisbane that I used to frequent and where I met my first daughter's father (I haven't ever really blogged about Cafe Bohemia - how strange!)

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    1. From what I can determine from googling, cane syrup is sort of related to golden syrup although it has a more dense color and flavor. Here's one thing I read: "...golden syrup being a lighter version of the sugar refining byproduct, while true cane syrup is boiled directly from cane juice."
      I wonder if the Boho is similarly related to a juke joint, which is what Smitty's was.

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  11. LOL -- we had "dang nachos" tonight. :)

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  12. Your camellias are growing and blooming well. Thankfully, the weather has not damaged them.
    Smitty's Club looks like a fun place. Is it still in business?
    Similar to Smitty's, we loved The Grog in Newburyport, MA. They had live entertainment, a great bar and a restaurant. It is still in business.

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    1. No. Smitty's club is not in business. Mac tried to reopen after his father died in 1980 but never made a go of it. Smitty is buried in front of the old club which is now the sight of some bougie restaurant in the middle of so much development that Smitty would not believe it. I actually think the grave sight may be paved over although perhaps Mac moved his father's body. I hope so.
      I just looked up The Grog and no, it bears no resemblance whatsoever to Smitty's which was a juke joint and not what you'd call a restaurant of any sort. Cement floors and walls, old mismatching tables and chairs, a bar where only beer and sodas were offered. Funky, basic, out in the middle of nowhere.

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