Friday, November 28, 2025

Funny How One Thing Leads To Another


It's been some time since I posted a Friday picture of sheets hanging on the line and that's because I've been lazy and have been drying them in the dryer but today I decided...why not?
I am not sure what prompted me to dry them outside today because it was chilly out there. And when I say chilly, of course I mean it was probably in the lower fifties or maybe even upper forties or something but I am not kidding when I tell you that my fingers were frozen before I'd finished pinning it all up. But I got pleasure from doing it anyway, and seeing them blowing in the breeze. 
Maurice did not follow me outside because she is intelligent. She spent a good part of the day sleeping on a heat register, draped over it like a super model posing on the beach. 

So guess what I ate last night for my late supper? 
I think this is hysterical- leftover eggplant parmesan for the fourth night in a row. 
I believe I may be over turkey. Today I cut all the meat, both cooked and un-cooked from the bones that I could and then boiled the carcass for about forty-eight hours. Haha! No, it was more like four hours. But that meat is done now! And I have enough stock for a year's worth of soup. Tonight, however, we are having turkey flautas which I never make anymore because they are fried and there is no way an air-fryer could reproduce what happens to them in hot oil in a cast iron skillet so what would be the point? 

Now there's a story here. Forty-two years ago on the Friday night after Thanksgiving, Glen Moon set his cap for me. We'd met, sort of, because we had friends in common. He was originally introduced to me by the brother of one of my best, dearest friends who was painting my house pink. The brother, not my friend. He subcontracted Glen to paint the shutters and steps gray. 
Hey! It was the eighties. Plus I was a single mother living in a stick-up-the-butt neighborhood and I felt the need to let my freak flag fly after I received an anonymous note asking me to keep my yard tidier because basically, it was a blot on the 'hood. 
Haha! I said. I shall paint my house pink. 
So I did, or rather, my friend did, and Glen helped him. There's more to THIS story than I have the time to tell but it did involve weed. As so many good things do. 
Anyway, to make a long story interminable, as another friend of mine used to say, nothing clicked at all between Glen and me on that first meeting but on the night after Thanksgiving, not too long after that, he espied me at the local dive bar where my ex-husband's band was playing and where I was wearing a sweater my beloved friend Sue-Sue had lent me which was made of the softest mohair imaginable and for some reason, just would not stay on my shoulder. 
Invitations to dancing ensued and by the end of the evening, he was dropping major hints about how much he would love a turkey sandwich but I ignored those and went on home with my mohair-wearing bad self. 
Within a very short while though, soon enough in fact for me to still have turkey leftovers, I did invite him over for supper and made him turkey flautas. 
The rest is history. 
Sure, there's more to the story but that's the true and honest explanation of how we got together. 

The recipe I use is one that a friend of mine gave me and it is probably the least authentic turkey flautas recipe in the entire American continent but it is good. I have not yet told him that we are having turkey flautas and I will have to remind him about it being a sort of anniversary for us. He will remember the turkey flautas though. I wish with all my heart I still had the sweater that he bought for me before Christmas had even come around which was exactly like Sue-Sue's although it was pink instead of blue. What happened to that sweater? When we get to heaven are they going to give us a big bag of all our favorite garments that somehow fell through a portal, never to be seen again? 
Golly, I hope so.

And that is my story tonight. I spent most of the day being domestic, doing laundry, making that stock, doing a little mending and of course, making up the bed with the clean sheets. It's now martini time and I should go get our supper started and the stock strained of bones and meat and all of it refrigerated. Some of it is going to have to go into the freezer which is going to require some Jenga or Tetris-like maneuvering. 

Tomorrow I have an appointment at the Costco hearing-aid place to get my hearing tested. There is also a story to this but I'll save it. 
Somehow, that night when Mr. Moon first asked me to dance, so charmed by that sweater and my then-lovely shoulder, neither one of us had even the vaguest thought in our minds that one day, we would both be getting our hearing tested because we would be spending half our lives walking around the house yelling, "Did you say something to me?" and also, "WHAT?"

And yet, here we are. 
Love is grand, ain't it? 

Happy Friday, y'all. 

Love...Ms. Moon

42 comments:

  1. That was a very full post! Food, laundry, history, medical needs, the lot. Hearing aids are expensive even when they're cheaper. But they change your life when they work right.

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    1. Once again, you have opened my eyes (and my ears?) to the possibilities of better hearing. Thank you!

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  2. In my former life, I had a metal cabinet outside my kitchen door. In Ohio,,,, you can use that as an extra refrigerator, in the winter anyway. Very handle for cooling off broth and not lowering the temperature of your main fridge. I was always vigilant about stripping off the fat, but I never used it for other recipes, although chicken fat is loved by many. Do you use it or discard it, Mary?

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    1. I use the drippings, which are fat, to make the gravy but I just scooped off the top of broth I made yesterday which was fat. So...both?

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    2. My mum used to put the drippings from roasted meats in a bowl in the fridge so the fat content would congeal to be scraped off or scooped out and set aside for frying, the flavoursome bits that were left is what our gravies were made with. These days I do the same with roasted drippings, though I rarely roast anything these days so my gravies are usually made from Gravox Powder.

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  3. What a lovely story.
    You have been very busy today. (yesterday? - I'm confused) Nothing better than a freezer full of home-made stock as you head into winter.

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    1. My freezer is so full! Which means I'm lucky, right?

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  4. A true conversation between my husband and myself.
    He walks in from the below freezing weather, “Brrr, windy, cold”,
    Me; “Wendy called”?
    “Brrr, windy, cold”
    “Wendy called?
    LOUDER; “BRRR, WINDY, COLD”
    I collapse into fits of giggles. I still laugh about it.
    He’s in denial about his hearing and won’t/hasn’t been tested. I have been tested and fall on the line between getting them or not getting them. But, i KNOW i’ll need them sooner rather than later. He also doesn’t use his reading glasses. Apparently, squinching up his face to read is oh so much easier on the eyes.
    I love line dried sheets! After 40*-45* i stop using the line and call it a year.

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    1. Mr. Moon and I are about to enter an exciting new phase of our older life! We'll be able to hear again! I really am looking forward to this.

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  5. A Thanksgiving tale. Fifty-four years ago I went home to Connecticut from Boston for Thanksgiving. We went to my grandmother’s, 45 miles away in New York State. It was a cold, rainy day and on the way home, in the cold, rainy dark, we passed a hitchhiker looking for a ride into the city (NYC) who reminded me of my friend John, then in grad school in Virginia. Shortly after we got home, the phone rang and it was John who was in New York on his way back to Virginia from Boston where he’d gone to see me and was quite surprised to find I was with my family. I was telling our daughter about this tonight and said that when I got back to Boston my neighbors told me John had been there and I said I knew and that I was going to marry him. John, my husband of 53 years, was quite surprised to hear this. Margaret

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    1. See? When you know, you know. What a great story!

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    2. He well may have been the hitchhiker I saw as he’d left Boston for NYC Thanksgiving day. We’ll never know. Margaret

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  6. He's painting your house/shutters then a chance meeting at the bar...and something clicked. You were meant to be!
    Enjoy those turkey flautas with a bit of romance. Just like it all began.

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    1. Well, Tallahassee's not that big, really. Or it wasn't THEN!
      The flautas last night made Mr. Moon happy all over again that he'd asked me to dance.

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  7. I loved your 1st Meeting Story and what eventually led to Matrimony. And now you've got me thinking outside of the Box about what to do with our Turkey Carcass.

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  8. Never had a flauta , turkey or otherwise! Loved your sheets in the sun and wind!

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    1. Well, if you ever come across one on a Mexican restaurant menu, you might want to try one.

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  9. Another post of delightful stories! I had to ask Google AI what turkey flautas are and what they look like. I can't help being Canadian.

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    1. Oh well. We will love you even if you are Canadian.

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  10. I love your stories - and I especially love that you painted that house pink!!!!

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    1. It was great! But after Glen moved in it somehow got painted yellow. Harumph. But at least he painted it for free.

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  11. What a lovely post, especially how you and Glen got together.
    . My husband is deaf and he has hearing aids that he wears if he is seeing friends, but rarely will wear them in the house , so I usually end up saying everything 3 times, louder and louder! I sometimes get a reply that has nothing to do with what I said. It's all very annoying, but I guess I should be kinder! ( or he could wear his aids for me too !!)
    Reminds me of a birthday card that used to be around a few years ago......a couple of old men......." Is it Wednesday?"......." No its Thursday"....."Yes so am I, let's go to the pub"

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    1. I am wondering if Glen will wear his. I'm going to try and encourage us both to. Since they're bluetooth, we can use them to listen to our eternal audio books. So maybe that will help.
      Glen and I both misunderstand each other all the times. It gets to the point where it's not that funny.

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  12. Your meet-up story is so romantic. I can picture beautiful you in that off-the-shoulderish number smiling UP at handsome Mr. Moon. Did he have a beard then, too? “Did you say something to me?” is my response to SG when he yells to me from the other end of the apartment and I pretend not to hear because I find room to room yelling so annoying. He, on the other hand, is having his own selective hearing problems.

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    1. Yes, Glen had his beard then too. He was an early beard adapter. I remember when there was a slow dance and I asked him, "Really? You think this will work?" It was...a little ungainly, I think. And remember- this was all right in front of my ex-husband and I will admit to getting some pleasure out of the whole situation.
      Oh gosh. Yelling from room to room is very annoying and it just doesn't work.

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    2. When I was 21, I was at the wedding of a college friend. My unofficial date was another good friend at the time. She was perhaps 4'10" and was known as Little Debbie. I am 6'2" and it was the early '70s. The only dress shoes I could find at the last minute had huge heels, so I was even taller. We were dancing when we passed close to the band. They quickly switched gears and started playing “Put Your Head on My Shoulder.” We took it in stride. I picked up Debbie so her head could rest on my shoulder.

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  13. My friend got Costco hearing aids a few months ago and is overjoyed with them. They are so tiny and you cant see them as they go right into the ear. My hearing is so good that when I drop a pill on the floor I can hear it land. Eyesight is not good as I am functionally blind in one eye. I met my husband when I was walking down a dock and he said hi there as I walked past him. Gigi

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    1. Wow! You are lucky in your hearing abilities! Hopefully, that makes up a bit for your eyesight.
      "Hi there!" Great line. Very creative. I'm sure the way he said it made you stop and smile.

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  14. I had my hearing tested a couple of weeks ago for the same reasons. It's still ok, mild loss in one ear but nothing to worry about. My husband who often can't hear me of course won't go. Fuckkkkk.
    I'm glad I don't have a ton of turkey to worry about. It's not my favorite meat and a little goes a long way for me, although flautas do sound good.
    Have a lovely weekend. We have snow and it's fucking cold. It's 0.4F.
    This afternoon I'll take Jack swimming and we'll meet up with my son who so far is doing well. I'm thankful for that.

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    1. I am so very glad to hear that your son is still doing well. That's amazing! Maybe this time will be the time that works.
      Uh, no thank you on the snow.

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  15. I've had hearing aids for 20 years as I wanted my Mom to get her hearing tested and said we would do it together and we did!
    I've had several friends get the Costco hearing aids and they are happy with them.
    I did not know what turkey flautas were but now I do. Thanks!

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    1. I think hearing aids are going to change our lives.
      I'm hoping these are going to do the job.

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  16. Fingers can get really cold hanging up wet laundry. Totally worth it, though.

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  17. What are turkey flauta and how do you make them?
    With you, it was the shoulder, with me it was the neck, my neck and a gentle hand resting on it to steady me in am overcrowded pub.

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    1. Well, these turkey flautas are made by making a white sauce with butter, flour, and chicken broth and a little cream cheese. The turkey goes in that, and then you put a few tablespoons in a tortilla, roll it up, and fry it. Very good.

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  18. Laughed out loud at you and Debbie's stories regarding hearing. Took my husband to have his hearing tested. The tech said; "Umm Sir, both ears have huge wax plugs" So yeah, dirty ears were flushed out the next day for the win. May you and Glen have waxy ears. Sheets on the line warm my heart if not your poor fingers.

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    1. Nah. Wax was not our problem! In fact, the tester guy said my ears were very clean. I was so relieved to hear that!

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  19. On a somewhat serious note, I'm glad you are getting your hearing tested. I got hearing aids (HAs) three years ago when I realized I couldn't easily follow conversations. Like you, I often spend a great deal of time alone, so didn't realize that I actually had a moderate hearing loss (both ears). And, if you have HAs, they need to be worn every day to "train the brain" as my audiologist reminds me--we hear with our brain (and I'll admit to not always following this rule...). However, the most critical thing that folks often ignore, or aren't aware of, is that hearing loss is one of the most significant risks for developing dementia. A good article to read is a Johns Hopkins study https://publichealth.jhu.edu/2021/hearing-loss-and-the-dementia-connection
    Good luck with your hearing test!

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    1. Yes. The audiologist told me about that too, about the brain needing to be retrained. He said it's a process and I believe that.
      I have heard that about hearing loss and dementia and I believe that too.

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  20. What a great story. Well, of course you have to make flautas! They're your special dish for this time of year! Do you have a picture to share of your pink house?

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