Last night when I was making our supper, Glen kept saying things like, "You shouldn't have to make your own birthday dinner," and I kept reassuring him that I was enjoying myself so much. And I was! I steamed the spinach for the casserole in a skillet and then used the skillet to cook the salmon in. I already had leftover rice which I mixed up with the spinach and an egg and a little evaporated milk I had leftover from the scallop thing I had made the night before with salt and pepper and a little parmesan. I baked it in the pretty green casserole dish, perfectly sized for a two-person casserole that I recently thrifted. I baked it in the toaster oven/air-fryer so the kitchen didn't get heated up from using the big oven.
I cooked the salmon in a little olive oil with salt and pepper, lemon juice and dill like May taught me. That was it.
And the corn on the cob was simply boiled for a minute or two.
It was sort of a very perfect dinner and it was pretty and I got a great deal of pleasure from making it and eating it too. So did Mr. Moon. The eating part, I mean. I am grateful to be able to cook good things for us and I am grateful we have the means to be able to grow some of the things we eat and to afford those we don't grow. For me, cooking is for nourishment and pleasure. And some nights, it is just a joy.
Of course the man cleaned up the kitchen afterwards and I have to say my slice of Publix carrot cake was every bit as delicious as I had hoped it would be.
It was such a good birthday.
And today was special too! I picked up Hank and we went to lunch together and we sat and we talked and we talked and it was just so much fun. That darling boy of mine is a wonder. All of my children are so different and I find each and every one of them so enjoyable to be around, to talk to, to hang out with. We are at ease with each other. It is a blessing indeed and I do not take that for granted.
We stopped in to the two little thrift stores in the same plaza and although we did not buy anything, we had such a good time looking. Hank found an old copy of The Five Little Peppers and How They Grew which was a favorite of mine and a favorite of his. Oh my Lord, what a silly and dated book it is and we loved it so much. I just looked it up and it was published in 1881! There was an entire series written about the poor Peppers and their saintly mother, all written by Margaret Sidney. It was fun, admiring and criticizing and waxing nostalgic about so many of the items. And laughing so hard about others. Hank and I pretty much raised each other, along with May, and we have so many shared memories.
And that was my beautiful afternoon.
Mr. Moon is still dealing with Tom things and probably will be for quite awhile.
Sigh.
As he said yesterday, "This is not what I had bargained for." But back when Tom asked him to be the trustee of his estate, he was in fine health and relatively young and the whole idea of what that might eventually entail was just a shimmer of a possible future reality.
And yet, here we are. I admire him and Tom's friend Jim who is helping Glen with all of this so much. It's a huge task, both on the legal side and on the possessions side.
Especially that one.
But right now Glen's in the Glen Den, shelling the peas I picked today. I didn't even go out to the garden yesterday at all which I believe may have been a first for me in many, many months. We're still getting some nice things.
I started a new bottle of pepper vinegar today and discovered I was out of white vinegar. Why I did not put that on my list I do not know but I used the apple cider vinegar, along with balsamic and wine vinegars. Now that should be interesting!
I need to pickle my jalapeƱos. I doubt I have enough to fill up a quart jar but still, I use them in cooking and there's no need for them to go to waste.
Here's what the Seminole pumpkin is doing today.
And here's a new baby, growing on the vine which is covering the east side fence.
I am fascinated by this vegetable. I think I am going to start calling it The Seminole Hulk Pumpkin Vine.
While we're at it, here are two zinnia pictures I took. The ones in the garden are just about spent. Done and dusted for the most part.
Sigh.
But the garden by the kitchen still has a few beauties that look pretty healthy.
This one is a tiny bit past its expiration date but the colors are still fantastic.
And now a picture that I meant to post yesterday, but due to my narcissistic birthday ramblings, I forgot.
That was in the Tallahassee Democrat, the local newspaper and it is of our Gibson out on the field practicing with his new high school's marching band.
Do you have any idea how freaking hot it is out there?
So freaking hot.
We are very, very proud of that sweetest of the sweet boys.
It has rained here which yes, did give me a delicious scent of petrichor but which now seems to have released the scent of something dead. It's not horrible, but here on the back porch, it's definitely smellable. It could be the corpse of the fucking giant Georgia Thumper that Mr. Moon smashed with a whelk shell because it was the only thing he could find at the moment, on the back porch steps and then tossed to the side of the steps.
I would really rather not have seen that.
But what I'm saying is, is that the grasshopper was so large that it's inevitable decay could be the cause of the death smell.
Life in Lloyd! Too much nature. Etc.
Love...Ms. Moon







That looks like a very good dinner for any occasion. If you enjoyed cooking it, why not! I love hearing about time you spend with Hank.
ReplyDelete"The 5 Little Peppers"! I can remember reading that and think maybe enjoying it, but my mother strongly disapproved (she was a great disapprover!) for reasons I no longer remember - she grew up in a 9 child family raised by her single father through some hard scrabble times so maybe it romanticized things? No idea but don't think I'll be revisiting it. Hope your favorite marching band member stays hydrated! They need to march on down to your lovely river.
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Your birthday dinner looks delicious and I have never liked salmon, but recently bought some because it was 1/3 off the usual price and salmon is good for me (and everyone else too), the first fillet I fried tasted so strong which is why I don't like it, but I have had two more since then and I'm becoming used to it.
ReplyDeleteThat seminole pumpkin is a beautiful deep green, I hope they are as tasty as they look.
What instrument is Gibson playing? Looks like a trombone?
Glen and Jim are saints alright for doing all that estate work. SAINTS!
ReplyDeleteI have no wish to offend you, but is your beloved Hank gay, trans or totally transitioned? I am always trying to work out who is who in your family.a family tree maybe? Thank you
ReplyDeleteWhat does "totally transitioned" mean? And how would that differ from trans?
DeleteHank loves to say he's been every one of the LGBTQ letters, and it’s true. He will probably comment himself later, but I think I can safely say that he and I are both queer. In every sense of the word.
-Rachel (Hank's spouse)
Thanks, Rachel! I was confused about the "totally transitioned" question too.
DeleteMags- no offense taken! And I think Rachel did a good job of explaining.
Ugh! I wrote a death-smell story but changed my mind. No one needs to read that! My heart is with Mr. Moon regarding Tom. It continues. That’s a wonderful photo of Gibson and how exciting that it was in the paper. Hank is the best son and human being anyone could wish for.
ReplyDeleteI really like that header photo with the peaches and tomatoes on the window sill. I am not sure why, but maybe it is because I love summer tomatoes and peaches are my favorite! I really enjoy reading stories about your family. I know that you know how lucky you are to have a lot of your family close by. Your post reminds me to take joy in the simple things in life such as cooking a dinner and enjoying it.
ReplyDeleteYou are so lucky to have all of your children so close.
ReplyDeleteSo fun to enjoy your birthday feast from kitchen to table. My good friend Helen, who I've shard a lot with in the last few years, just had her birthday yesterday as well. She turned 87. But 72 is a simply great year, and I have very good memories of all I did that year. So you go girl...enjoy it to the hilt.
ReplyDeleteI loved The Five Little Peppers, had my own copy. Oh Gibson! He reminds me of my grandson playing tuba in his high school marching band. It was so much fun to watch him and the others. I don't have any fondness for football but I went to the home games just to see and hear the band.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad your birthday was happy.If you enjoy preparing food, then why not? And you didn't have to clean up afterwards.Have a happy and contented year ahead .
ReplyDeleteYour birthday meal looks simple and perfect, which are often the best kind of meals. Last night I made BBQ pork chops in the oven like my mum used to make with rice and caesar salad. One of my favorite meals, simple and delicious.
ReplyDeleteI think if I was Glen I would be starting to feel some resentment towards Tom at this point. Leaving a mess like that feels disrespectful.
As for the smell of death, what can I say. Humidity makes smells linger, doesn't it? I've noticed with our humidity this summer that everything smells a little stronger, not in a good way.