I do believe this rainbow wreath on the purple door of Lily's house sums it all up for our family. We are quirky, we are not traditional and yet we keep the traditions in our own way which is often a very gay way and we are NOT AFRAID OF COLOR in any aspect.
When I got up this morning I wasn't certain I was going to be able to make it to the gift-opening/lovely meal at Lily and Lauren's house. The strained muscle between my ribs seemed worse than it did yesterday and I didn't want to be touched or even move more than I had to. But as the morning progressed, it did loosen up and I reminded myself that the third day after an injury or a surgery or whatever can be the hardest. Even when it comes to childbirth, the midwives say- on the third day the milk comes in and so do the tears.
I managed to pull up the big girl panties and made Glen a breakfast. Not a full-on Sunday morning type of breakfast but it did involve sausage and eggs.
And then I peeled the eggs I boiled yesterday and smushed up the yolks with traditional old southern lady ingredients which (for this old southern lady) are mayonnaise, Miracle whip, sweet pickle relish, mustard, salt, and pepper. Sprinkled on top with paprika.
No candied jalapeƱos, no dang caviar, no fresh herbs, no cheese or shallots. In short, deviled eggs as the god of Sunday dinner on the grounds has ordained.
So we did make it over to Lily's and I have to say that Xena (aka, Large Marge) was the center of attention although here's a picture of me that Rachel took, trying to give a little love to Pepper, Lauren's sweet old lady dog.
And as you can see, she is getting larger by the moment.
Here she is loving on Michael whom all animals adore.
"Well, let's get a house and then we can get a dog," May said.
She is a sensible woman.
The gift openings were quite civilized this year. No frenzied screaming or frantic tearing of paper off of presents. All of the wrapping paper made its way directly into a huge garbage bag about which Hank asked Lily, "Are you getting rid of bodies this year?"
We kept the gifts down to a bare minimum and I think everyone appreciated that a lot.
Hank and Rachel gave me two very lovely, very appropriate things they knew I'd love.
And then the next thing I opened was May's gift which was a Mexican banner and this little box of matches.
We are a Little Women Family.
After the delicious meal Lauren and Lily had made, Glen and I took our gifts to the Weatherfords along with the little chicken salad I made. Also Rachel and Hank's gifts. They had to go home early. Rachel is having extremely serious back and spine issues which of course affect every damn thing in the body in the worst sort of way.
We got to see August and Levon outside and that was far better than nothing.
The recipients of the WhirleyPops and Tupperware sets were thrilled. And Maggie told me that what we got her, which was an interactive (?) Lilo and Stitch puppet, was the main thing she'd wanted.
It was this.
And of course I cried. Hank has always been the wisest one of all of us.










Another Christmas done and dusted and in the books. My day was spent with some of my family, eating and playing cards. Good times. I love Hank's saying. I'm going to write it down before I forget it.
ReplyDeleteYou survived, we survived, and Hank's comment is perfect. Hope you are feeling less broken in body tomorrow. Chris from Boise
ReplyDeleteHank's comment should be engraved on precious metal, embroidered in silk, handplaced in diamonds and shouted from the rooftops. What a wise man.
ReplyDeleteHank is a sage. How exceptional that, as a family, you are whole. Hope you’re feeling much better today.
ReplyDeleteWhat a day! So glad you had a chance to see everyone, no matter their conditions. I hope all are getting better soon.
ReplyDeleteI love Hank’s comment. What a beautiful family. -Nicol
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you survived and thrived! And I hope you feel better soon. You're looking great, though, you'd never know!
ReplyDeleteThose Rolling Stone ornaments are perfect for you! And I love the rainbow wreath!
ReplyDeleteI am reading about so many people who are really sick this Christmas, and those of us who are not sick physically are heartily sick of this shitshow that is being forced upon us. Ask Hank for some wise words on this topic because honest to God, I have none at the moment.
ReplyDeletei'm sorry to hear you are still sore but glad you all got to get together. santa's gift to me was two-fold. a fair evalaution from a better admin and someone else who got moved GOT SENT TO CENTRAL OFFICE TO PUSH PAPER vs being in a building and continuing to bully adults and children alike. collective action works.
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Sounds like a perfect day and the kind of christmas you needed and by that I mean low key.
ReplyDeleteHope you and all your family members who aren't feeling well will be feeling fine soon! Our Christmas is done and everyone was happy with their gifts. Leftovers today and tomorrow and then they will be on there way back to Texas. Have a restful day, Mary!
ReplyDeleteAll in all I would say that you had a very merry christmas.
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