Thursday, October 2, 2025

Good Kids, Good Day


I invited Maggie to come over with Levon and August since I'd be picking up the boys at Lily's house where they spent the night and because I kept thinking about August telling me he wished Maggie was going to get a pedicure with him and figured that a little more Maggie time might be appreciated. 
Of course Magnolia wanted to come. She loves those boys the way they love her. All the cousins love each other and get along incredibly well. Gibson and Owen both are so good with the younger ones. It's a beautiful thing. 
I brought them back here and it's been a very nice day, temperature and humidity-wise. I'm not sure it ever even hit ninety and at one point in the late morning, I opened the doors at each end of the hallway and in the kitchen too, to let the real air in. Of course air conditioned air that comes through a vent is real but air that comes in through a screen door or window on a breeze is much realer. And it's so nice when that real air is cool and sweet. It's not supposed to get higher than 82 degrees tomorrow so I bet those doors and windows will be opened again. 

I was quite pleased when as soon as the kids tumbled out of the car they raced to the Glen Den to dump the Lincoln Logs on the floor and begin building. They didn't even ask to watch TV! They played at that for awhile and then August asked me if I'd read him a book. 
Swoon. 
All three of them came into the library and we sat on the little love sofa, as Owen used to call it, and first we read "The Jolly Postman's Christmas" which is a very good book with lots of extra things tucked in to clever envelopes and the kids took turns reading those out loud and I read the book. Next came "The Chicken of the Family" which has been read at least a hundred times here and on this book we all took turns reading, page by page. We've got some good readers here. 
I was so impressed, not only with their reading but also with the very fact that they seemed to be happy doing it. 
  
The lunch menu was the usual. Levon wanted the peanut butter, honey, and raisin sandwich (the Mer Special, he calls it) and August wanted cheese toast with sharp cheddar. Maggie asked for her regular which is macaroni and cheese but I told her I didn't really feel like cooking and besides, cheese toast is basically the same as macaroni and cheese and surprisingly, she went right along with that. There were also sweet potato tortilla chips and salsa and BOOM! There's your vegetables. Am I right? Yes I am. 

At that point they wanted to watch some TV and I said that was fine. I know they didn't get enough sleep last night. Maggie told me at least three times that the boys had woken her up at six o'clock and I'm sure they did. So they watched some TV and I made them their special treats which were root beer floats. I believe they enjoyed them. 

Before we knew it, it was time for me to take them to their parents and I did. They were all truly well behaved and easy-going and I appreciated that so much. August and I had a very interesting conversation on the way to his house while we were in the car. He is keenly interested in how finances work and curious in a way that demonstrates he actually knows quite a bit. He grilled me on Boppy's and my financial status and if we have enough money to last us and so forth. He had the idea that since we are pretty old (he didn't say that but that's what he was thinking) that we really didn't need a lot more money. I told him that sadly, this was not true. I mentioned medical bills that increase as you grow older and repairs to this house and the house that Boppy just bought and the work he's doing on it and the things we might yet want to do and of course, food, and all that stuff. He listened closely and then he said, "You get money from Dunkin' Donuts for using your building, right?"
And you know what? I had totally forgotten that source of income. We rent to other businesses too, including the resale store whose proceeds go to hospice and, well, I guess us. But August, whose brain is going fifty miles a minute, had not forgotten. He even asked if Dunkin' paid for their signs or if we did. And then asked if we owned just the buildings or the property too? 
I mean, the kid is figuring this stuff out. 

I believe one of the things I love most about being a grandmother is having the distance and perspective to see how each child's interests and gifts unfold. It's fascinating! They're all so different, not just in interests and gifts but in the way their minds work, the ways they learn, the ways they react to what life hands them. 

Jason and his girlfriend are moving back into the house that he and Lily shared for many years. It's a long story but that seems to be the wisest option. He's been living with his mother for some time now and although there is room there for the kids, it has not been an ideal situation. I've been wondering how the children feel about this move back to their old house and I asked Maggie today if it felt odd or...what? and she replied, "Technically (her current favorite word) it feels like a miracle." 
Wow.
Kids can slay you. 

Mr. Moon will be home tomorrow and I will be glad to see him. I'm making myself some eggplant parmesan-related casserole tonight. I've literally and technically been eating salads and leftover soup since he left but I had an eggplant which was one day and fifteen minutes away from being compost and part of a jar of spaghetti sauce. 
A match made in heaven. 
I've roasted the eggplant and semi-roasted some tomatoes with a little bit of panko on them. I was not in the mood to go to all the trouble to dip the slices of eggplant in egg and then panko and then air-frying them and so that's what I've done. 


I will layer those with sauce and cheese and bake it and it will be fine. Eggplant isn't Mr. Moon's favorite so he won't be too sad to miss it although I feel certain he's eaten his own share of leftover soup this week. 

On we go. 

Love...Ms. Moon



28 comments:

  1. Leftover soup 🍲 is the best soup!
    You do have some wonderful grandkids and you are so lucky to have so much time with all of them!

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    1. Soup does get better with time. Up to a point, of course!
      Yes! I do very much realize how lucky I am.

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  2. Those kids are so thoughtful. Puzzling things out. It's good that they can ask you and you'll always answer

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    1. I love hearing their questions and the things they say which show me how their brains are working, where their interests lay. I hope they always feel they can ask me things and know I will answer to the best of my ability.

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  3. A very fine day! Kids who read and have inquiring minds can do anything.
    Your eggplant casserole sounds divine.

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    1. The casserole was good!
      I agree with you about kids who read.

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  4. Sounds like the best day. Curious, creative kids and willing-to-teach-grandma (mer)! And, yum, eggplant parm. :-). -Nicol

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    1. They WANTED to read out loud. They know how to make an old Mer happy.

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  5. I find kids today are very knowing.
    August proves to be very caring, perceptive and smart. It does seem he's got your Moon Plaza business ownership figured out. He's likely an entrepreneur in the making. Nothing wrong with that!
    It was very sweet of him to think of Maggie and for you to arrange for more time with Maggie.
    Also, it appears that Maggie looks forward to spending time in her old family home which is lovely. It is great when things work out for everyone.

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    1. Yes. Kids have big thoughts and these days, they have access to so much information to add to those big thoughts.
      Perhaps August can take over Moon Plaza when we're gone! He'll have to learn how to fix things though, as a landlord!
      It really charmed my heart when August said he wished Maggie were going to get a pedicure too. And it made me a little sad that she wasn't.
      I'm so glad that Maggie feels so positively about moving back into that house.

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  6. You are blessed and From what I see the kids are blessed as well. Beautiful Read.

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    1. We are a pretty damn lucky family. All of us.

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  7. Delight! Those little cousins are just EVERYTHING! Great parents, wonderful Grandparents. Grandmother's more so than grandfathers , it turns out in studies of primates and humans, add to the life span of their grandchildren, Grandmothers are the stabilizers - security aiding in their growth to be healthier grand adults. You are doing more than you know! there is an entire study devoted to grandmothers - the results are astonishing in primates and we folks.

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    1. There are studies about the importance of grandmothers in Orcas and other toothed whales. They go through menopause too! Also, elephant grandmothers are very important. I love this! It may well be that we humans, as a species, have survived because of grandmothers and I do believe that grandfathers can play a very important role too. I see that in my family.

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  8. I am glad all the kids are becoming good readers, too many people think reading isn't important when really it is one of the most important things a kid can learn. August is going to be a financial wizard with good business sense when he grows up. I don't like eggplant, but your dinner looks pretty in the before-cheese-and-sauce stage.

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    1. Reading IS important and I can't see how it won't always be.
      It does seem as if August is very interested in finances and how things work in that world and also what it takes to make money and how mortgages and taxes and all those things work too. I don't think I've personally known any other child who had these same interests at such a young age.
      I love eggplant but I realize it's one of those foods that not everyone likes.

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  9. I love hearing about your children and grandchildren and all the pieces of your life. Glorious. What a good idea, too, for the eggplant. I'm the only one who likes it in these parts, and I think I could just stand up in the kitchen and eat a whole pan of it!

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    1. Sometimes you just have to cook for yourself. And honestly, that roasted eggplant with the tomatoes was plenty delicious enough to just eat on its own.

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  10. The eggplant looks delicious! Individual works of art. What a joy to be loved by kids like those. August is fascinating. What a brain. Magnolia’s insight regarding the house is a delight. It amazes me that these wonderful kids who can all read well still enjoy having you read to them and now along with them. I don’t know how much longer that will last, but I certainly didn’t want anyone reading to me at that age. What love. Also wonderful are the strong family bonds that have been built.

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    1. I don't know how much longer their interest in being read to and reading out loud to me will last either but I'm staying on this train until the end of the track. I do think August asks me to read to him because he knows I love it so much. He is a very sweet child. And that IS love.
      We're pretty bonded, this family. I feel like that was what I have always wanted more than anything else in this world.

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  11. Your grandchildren are a blessing! You are lucky to have them. I love eggplant and you have given me an idea for dinner tonight...if I have the energy!

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    1. It didn't take THAT much energy to roast the eggplant rather than breading and frying it. And it was delicious!
      My grandchildren are a blessing.

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  12. It's great when cousins play together like that! My grandsons love Legos and can create with those for hours and hours.
    It's nice that Maggie is happy with her Dad moving into their old house. It's good that they all get along so well after the divorce.

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    1. All of my grandsons are crazy about Legos. I believe that's the way it is for so many children these days. Mainly the boys and I'm not sure why that is.
      Lily and Jason have worked hard to make sure the children know that their parents' main concern is their wellbeing. And part of that is keeping those bonds alive, even after the marriage was over.

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  13. All my grandkids are sibs so no cousins on my side. They have cousins on their dad's side but they live in Dallas. Anyway, always nice when they all get along for the day. Marc doesn't care for eggplant either so I rarely get to eat it. I'm not surprised Maggie and I assume Owen and Gibson are happy about their dad moving into the old family house. They know it, have lots of memories there, it's already comfortable. Might be a little weird with Jason's girlfriend instead of their mom though.

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    1. Well, I agree with you about the girlfriend but they have known her their entire lives. She was literally a childhood friend of Lily's. And yes...a little weird. But it'll be okay. I have faith.

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  14. It's so nice that the Cousins enjoy each other so much, get along and live close enough to spend quality time together, that's priceless.

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