This is Mr. Moon's chair which lives in the room we lovingly call The Glen Den for obvious reasons. If I took pictures of the walls you would have even more of an insight on why it's called that as there are numerous examples of the taxidermy of deer, ducks, and fish. I would take photos but I'm afraid many of you just couldn't handle the reality.
There are also shelves full of his memorabilia which includes everything from beer steins he got in Europe when he was playing ball there, to antique irons, to old timey tools, to pictures, to a signed football (I have no idea the story behind that), to antique fishing lures, to a pillow that his mom needlepointed for him with the Auburn insignia on it.
The TV is in that room. And I still have baby and child toys in a corner in baskets which I truly need to get rid of and somehow, just keep forgetting...
I have appropriated one end of the couch (also leather) and an end table and a nice lamp I got at Wag the Dog where I can do needlework of various sorts when I watch TV because I simply cannot just sit and watch TV. I have also claimed a few shelves on which I keep yarn and garments to be mended and so forth and I will admit I've got a lot of that sort of stuff in baskets and bags on the floor and on the end table. I rarely sit there and watch TV but it's all there for when I do.
Anyway, back to The Chair.
When Mr. Moon is not working on something he is generally in that chair. Now he is working on something or other most of the time but he does spend time there with Maurice in his lap. They quite often have a little nap together. He does his computer research there and he sometimes does his paperwork there. As you can tell, that chair has been used. A lot. One of the sweetest things he ever did was to let me have it when I was recovering from broken ribs and could not get comfortable either lying down or sitting up. The recliner was perfect. I spent my days and my nights in it for a few weeks.
But the thing has HIS body's impression on it. It has cradled him for many years. We can't even remember how long we've had it. As he said just a few minutes ago to me, it is his nest. I believe it was even once sent in to La-Z-Boy for a repair and then returned for many more years of service.
But this morning, when he moved from our bed to the recliner to drink his coffee and peruse the news, a spring or something broke in the back of the recliner and well, folks, it is done. He can still sit in it with the back propped against the wall but that is not comfortable.
So one of our missions today was to go recliner shopping.
More on that in a minute. I know, I know. The anticipation is overwhelming but calm down and just hang on.
Before we did that, we went to the Grandparents' Day lunch with Ms. Magnolia June. I made our lunches following Maggie's instructions as closely as I possibly could and off we went. Approximately 58,000 grandparents show up for this event which is pretty cool, really. It's only a thirty minute meal because they have all the grades to go through.
Come to think of it, the brevity of the situation may be part of the attraction.
You can preorder a Chic-fil-A lunch for you and your grandchild and pick it up at the school but I refuse to give one cent of my money to that bigoted, pseudo-Christian company. Which is why I make our lunch. And Maggie never complains. I think she likes the fact that I make her whatever she wants.
So off we went and we found our girl in the massive crowd of Grade Fours and sat down and I unwrapped and presented the sandwiches, the Cheetos, the cut up cucumbers and peppers with ranch on the side
as per instructions, the juice, and the cookies.
The cookies were the only slight problem as she had thought I would make them myself which I did not do but I bought the fanciest looking ones at Publix I could find with frosting stuff in between two cookies which were heavily sprinkled with sprinkles.
She survived.
Maggie's other grandmother came too, which was sweet. She did get a Chic-fil-A lunch and I will admit it looked pretty good.
Not gonna lie.
The sweetest thing was that Maggie kept saying, "I am so happy you wanted to come," and that made it all worthwhile. Her best friend at school, a girl named Mary, kept coming over and hugging her and that was pretty sweet too.
Before we knew it, it was being announced that Maggie's class needed to clean up and prepare to go back to the classroom but we had to get a picture in front of the backdrop they'd set up for the purpose.
Shall we start taking bets on how long it will be before my granddaughter is taller than I am?
After we walked her back to her classroom, we drove over to Hank and Rachel's house where I delivered the chicken soup. I hope they like it. I think it's pretty tasty. I got a chance while there to chat with them for a few minutes and it seems to me that Rachel, while not fully recovered yet of course, seems lighter and more relaxed than I've seen her in a long time. This healing is a process and I believe she is doing well with it although of course, it's always one step forward, two steps back.
And then- off to look at recliners!
Now here's the problem.
Mr. Moon, being as tall as he is, cannot just go find the most comfortable recliner on the floor of the furniture store. He has to find one that extends far enough in the leg area to accommodate his height and the length of his legs.
This is not easy.
The one he has now has an extender at the foot of it which can be moved outward to offer support to long legs like his.
Guess what? They don't make any models with that feature anymore.
Sigh.
So he ended up sitting in many, many recliners to see if any of them would offer what he needed which was basically a foot rest in the reclining position that his feet did not extend past.
Well.
That didn't quite happen but he found one that was close and he generally puts a large pillow on the footrest to elevate his feet and that offers the length and support he needs.
So. A work-around was found.
And this recliner ROCKS. As in, it's a rocking chair too. Which is rather cool.
Of course it's going to take at least six weeks to get a new chair. If he does indeed order it. He wanted it in leather of a certain shade of brown whereas the floor model was in a fabric which he found to be too warm (he is very sensitive to heat). I think he wants to check out a few more options.
The whole process took the rest of the afternoon but I wasn't complaining. After awhile I went outside the store and sat on one of their outdoor chairs on display. That chair rocked and swiveled which I thought was quite keen. And this is what the sky was looking like from my perch.
I had had quite enough of the fluorescent lights in the store and my presence was not really required.
The sky was like that all afternoon and it would be a sin not to spend as much time contemplating and admiring it as I possibly could.
And now we're home. Glen went to check on Tom, our friend who lives nearby and has many physical ailments. Glen spent months last year moving him out of a trailer that a tree had fallen on into a new tiny home on his property which took a great deal of time to get moved onto the property and set up to live in. He took him some of the vegetable beef soup I'd made which, to tell you the truth, will probably be the best thing Tom eats this spring.
I asked Glen, when he got home, how Tom looked.
"Like he's going to live another twenty years," he said.
"Good!" I said. "He can take care of us when we need help."
This is a man who's had at least one stroke and cancer and, oh, I can't even keep track of it all. He is alive simply through mulish stubbornness. He is a force of nature.
In a different sort of news, Hank has taken Gibson to a show tonight. No, not a movie show. A show with a ska band that Hank likes. Here's a picture Hank sent to all of us.
Dang but Gibson's getting handsome.
Hank is a terrific uncle and Gibson is a terrific kid.
Once again- how lucky am I?
Tomorrow we get August and Levon. I truly hope to have some good conversations with those guys.
Chicken and dumplings will be involved.
And it's Friday. Martini time has begun and clean sheets are on the bed. All is as it should be.
Or mostly.
Love...Ms. Moon




Bless you, Mrs Moon, and stay safe with Mr Moon. Prayers for a recliner that feels *just right.* My man has his dad’s La-Z-Boy and it’s decades old and shaped just right over time, almost like a nest or lair. I’m so glad you share your days here
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DeleteThat's quite an odyssey, getting the chair that actually fits. I hope he gets one he really likes. Has Maurice been consulted, as a co-chair?
ReplyDeleteSo sad about the chair spring, can it not be replaced? And why do chair making companies not consider the extra tall men when designing these things? In a land where tall is more normal than elsewhere, I would think someone would recognise that and make allowances with designs. Could he have one custom made? It would be pricey, but he would get the size and comfort.
ReplyDeleteThat sky is delightful, I love fluffy cottonwool clouds.
When did Maggie get so tall?
Thank you so much for not giving that fucking chicken shack of gay haters one damn cent.
ReplyDeleteGood luck to Mr. Moon on acquiring a new chair. I wasn't aware it's so difficult for taller folks to find chairs that fit. The right one will show up!
Good heavens! Maggie sure grew here recently?! All your grands are sprouting like crazy! Time is a flying it seems. I'm going the other direction and shrinking, wrinkling and shuffling along. It is what it is.
Those clouds are...well...heavenly.
Paranormal John
recliners do come in handy when one has had surgery or covid. They are wonderful for comfort when needed. There is one in the middle of this room where we used to have TV. Tv is gone but chair remains. Dennis has adopted it for every day sitting, scrolling and shoe change. It was a good investment for comfort. So lucky that Glenn found something that will suit him in the manly room.
ReplyDeleteAgree with Paranormal John re: chicken shack M effers.
I'm like you in that I can't sit and watch a movie (not on the TV, on my computer) for any length of time unless I'm doing something, so movies actually take me about four days to watch because I get restless. I just finished watching Scent of a Woman and it took me four days because I can only sit still for about 30 minutes!!!! On another note, how does the school handle children who don't have any grandparents to show up for them? Just curious. And good luck with the recliner hunt!
ReplyDeleteSuch a great event the luncheon was! So glad you also refused the food by gay-bashers! Why do organizations still support them, wait, there are similar views held by decision makers. You live in FL after all. And the benefit of that is to see such skies! My recliner also rocks, but I’ve had to add pillows to make it more comfortable.
ReplyDeleteHope Mr. Moon has found his chair. What a shame about the old one with the needed adjustment. Great photos. As for Maggie, a year from now, she’ll be towering over you. Thank you for refusing to go with Chic-fil-A. I love rocking-swiveling-reclining chairs.
ReplyDeleteTry the Amish companies (some are in Berne Indiana) they used to build custom chairs.
ReplyDeleteChick-fil-A has only just recently started to operate here in Alberta. I refuse to patronize it, of course.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad Glen found a new recliner that works with his long legs! After I had my colon surgery in 2010, I had to sleep for a month on our recliner love seat in the living room. What a godsend it was.
A friend got a custom recliner and said it was maybe 5% more than the similar standard model, but very very sturdy. There were also pretty extensive warranties against things breaking. So maybe something to investigate. Have a good Saturday with the grand-boys!
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So many people are bigger and taller now that I would think there is a market for furniture for them. He'll find one, I bet...
ReplyDeleteSweet that you had a nice time at Grandparents' Day! I have 2 soccer games to go to today since my grandsons' soccer season has started! :)
Buying things you sit in is a mission. When we decided we needed a new couch for the new house we looked at several places. There was one loveseat double recliner that seemed the best option but we weren't convinced and so didn't buy it. A year later back at the same place with no success elsewhere we did buy it and by then they only had the floor model.
ReplyDeleteI can imagine not just any recliner will work for Mr. Moon. Dave is quite tall too and fortunately he can make do with a standard La-Z-Boy, but he needs a larger mattress, which is why we have such a ridiculously huge bed. (Far larger than any British bed I've seen.)
ReplyDeleteGlad Granparents' Day worked out well! Such a fun tradition.
Glen's leather chair looks well-loved, and it has served you well. Finding a replacement will be important. When I looked for leather chairs, I bought Fjords recliner and ottoman in XL. Like you, my family has people of all sizes, and I decided XL will work for all. The leather is superb. Grandparents' Day with Maggie sounds perfect. Maggie's smile speaks to how happy she is.
ReplyDeleteMaggie Day at school.... Hank night w/ Gibson....and you chair shopping with mr Moon. His recliner is a well worn pleasure and one that will not easily be replaced. I hope he will continue searching..he seems to be the master of finding things.... and I trust you are as I type this making chicken and dumplings for your boys....you wonderful Mer!
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