Monday, November 24, 2025

Take A Breath


I should have tried to get a more cheerful photo today of Maggie and Levon and also one that August's entire self is in. I suppose I thought I'd get more before the visit was over but forgot. Magnolia had a sleep-over with the boys last night and according to Jessie all went quite well until this morning when the kids were jumping on the trampoline and tossing about a frozen water balloon which Levon accidentally hit Maggie in the head with which made her cry. The drama of the episode was still being maintained when they got here for a little visit and a frozen pizza lunch, and she was not happy about anything, really. Jessie told the kids that no, they could not look at Maggie's phone but instead needed to play with real things and none of them were especially happy about this. I was remembering the last time the three of them were here and the very cool things they made with the Lincoln Logs and how the four of us sat on the little love seat in the library and I read them a book and then we all read another book, taking turns with each page. I was thinking this visit would be just like that but of course, no, things happen, things change, and mostly I believe they were all tired, probably from staying up too late talking. 
Ah well. Kiddos. 
The boys loved the frozen pizza but Ms. Magnolia informed us that she hated pepperoni and even when I offered to take it off of part of the pizza before I baked it, she said she didn't want it. I offered to make her some cheesy macaroni which she usually jumps on but no, that didn't sound good either. 
Eggs? Ever since she was a little one she has asked me to scramble her eggs. But again, no. 
I had a piece of leftover snapper from last night and told her I'd heat that up for her. She always asks for fish when she spends the night here but today she turned it down.
Oh well. I'm sure she ate when she got home.

Jessie brought me the boys' school pictures which I immediately stuck on the refrigerator. 



Mitchell, I swear- if you ever came to visit me, I would take each and every single thing off the refrigerator before you got here. You would go insane if you saw it the way it is now. 
And after you left, I'd probably put most of it back. 

It was great to catch up with Jessie. They're leaving on Wednesday to go to Oak Island, off the coast of North Carolina, to meet with Vergil's family. I did mention this before but I wasn't sure where they were going. I just sent Jessie a link to the Wikipedia page about the curse of Oak Island and the TV show they made out of two treasure hunters looking for legendary buried riches. 
Spoiler Alert- they didn't find them. 
Which of course means the treasure is still out there to be found! Perhaps the Weatherfords will find it. Wouldn't that be awesome? Nothing like the possibility of finding buried treasure in my book. 

When they were all leaving, I gave the kids a bye-bye treat which was five M&M's apiece. Bizarrely, not one of them complained about the paltry offering but just kissed me and said thank you. Well, I sort of had to make Levon kiss me but not in an icky way. More like in a "Give me a kiss, kid!" way whereupon we barely touched lips which was fine. Maggie even gave me an unasked for hug. Perhaps she was relieved to be going home. Adventures are great, but home is best. 

And right after they left, Mr. Moon left too. He's gone up to the cabin to do...stuff. They're going to deliver the metal for the new roof tomorrow and he needs to do something to the sheet rock before it gets painted and hell, I don't know. He tells me. I try to listen. I'm not very successful. I packed him some frozen chicken stew and a sort of Mexican pork stew along with a pork chop supper meal on a plate, leftover from Saturday night when Gibson slept over. So he won't starve. 
The man got back from Canada a week ago yesterday and is already off again. He'll be back on Wednesday though, in time for Thanksgiving. While he was home he got all the bills paid and dealt with all the things I don't deal with when it comes to finances and...whatever he does and I really should know more about that. He and I both washed a lot of his clothes, he got some good meals, he received and gave many, many hugs and kisses, he spent some time in his chair with his cat on his lap, he took two grandsons to a basketball game, he checked on Tom, he did something with his trail cameras where he hunts, he took a different grandson hunting and to breakfast, and cleaned up the kitchen after I cooked at least three times. 
Where the hell does he get his energy, his passion for life? I wish I had a little more of those things myself. 

I was going to make a plain pecan pie this afternoon and even got out the recipe and took the butter out of the refrigerator and did the math on making one pie's worth of pastry dough but I just couldn't make myself do it. I have no idea why. 

But I did some mending/patching of my old, old Levis. 


I hadn't hit my stride there yet but the patch will hold. 

And this tiny one, which I love. 


That's a piece of the flannel I used for a blanket for Maggie, I think. Who can remember? 

I discovered today that Maggie may be taller at the age of nine than either of her brothers were. Also, that her hands are the same size as mine. I have proof that when her mother was eleven, her hands were as big as mine and we thought that was pretty remarkable. 


That's a ceramic handprint plaque that she made me when she was in whatever grade you are when you're eleven. 
My hands look sort of beat up, don't they? 
Well, that's because they are. 

I guess I'll go cook an eggplant. I do have leftovers in the refrigerator but I don't want any of them. Not sure I want eggplant either but its days as a viable food source are dwindling. 

Tomorrow I absolutely have to go to Costco and to Publix. Wish me luck. I'll check in tomorrow if I survive. 

Love...Ms. Moon



31 comments:

  1. Your hands look as if they've been active and useful. I wonder if the grandchildren are just growing away from things they used to do. When the younger ones see a peer driving and working, they're probably thinking ahead for themselves.

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    1. Honestly, I think Maggie was just tired and the boys, who didn't fuss much at all, seemed a bit restrained. I think they were tired too. They were certainly able to eat pizza though. Where those skinny kids put all the food they eat is a mystery to me.

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  2. Oh the drama and the grudge holding of girls of a certain age! Any age, I suppose. I found boys would argue/fight/get over it and move on. Girls, oh my lord - I'm sure they forget the original slight long before they let go of the angst.
    Your hands look just fine to me.

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    1. And Magnolia can definitely take a situation and give it all the drama it deserves. Not unlike the way her mama was when she was a child. Luckily, she outgrew that!
      I don't mind the way my hands look. It's funny- the signs of aging don't really bother me that much.

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  3. Maggie's starting to grow up and I predict plenty of moodiness to come. It's just part of it. :)

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    1. Oh yes. As a beloved day care owner and doctor of childhood education told me once when one of my kids was acting a bit, uh, unreasonable- "She's just premenstrual." And the child was like seven. I've always remembered that.

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  4. I think I'd be out-of-sorts if hit accidentally by a frozen water balloon. It all seems a bit rough. Boys tolerate rough housing accidents, girls, not so much. I hope the boys apologized. Maggie's reaction/responses show her feelings are hurt.

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    1. Oh, of course Levon apologized! I'm sure he felt terrible. And she did get a bump on her head but not a very big one. Jessie gave her an Ibuprofen which she said did not help. Maggie does have some very tender, easily hurt feelings.

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  5. Maggie sounds hormonal. Is that possible? She's so young. She's also the only girl cousin, isn't she?
    I think Jessie and her family may be going to a different Oak Island. The TV show is about an island off the coast of Nova Scotia.
    Glen sure is busy. He's pretty much the opposite of my husband:) I have a new vanity sitting in the garage which may or may not get installed before Christmas, and I may or may not phone a handyman:)

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    1. Oh god. You are right. Who knew there was more than one Oak Island?

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    2. I think it's entirely possible that Maggie is hormonal. This stuff starts early. Also and admittedly, she's always been like this. Her mother was too.
      Thanks for pointing out my Oak Island confusion.
      Sigh.

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  6. As a very overgrown child who *still* loves sleepovers, my vote’s on that for the grumpiness. But, like other commenters above, I suspect the stirrings of pre-teenager-dom!

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    1. Do you stay up too late at sleepovers and find yourself grumpy the next day? I remember slumber parties where there was very little slumbering.
      Maggie is definitely moving into the pre-teen age but as I have said in several comments, this sort of easily-hurt-feelings is nothing new for her.

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    2. Definitely!! Staying up far too late at sleepovers is the whole point, though, isn’t it?! The best conversations happen in the wee hours, don’t they!

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  7. Kid dramas are par for the course at that age. A phone is power in youngsters hands at that age as well . The sulky sulky and stubborn thing has been mastered by Maggie! Refusing food at GMaws must have hurt her like hell. She would have been starving by the time she got home
    Kids! Wait till the teenage years come around 😂♥️

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    1. Sulky and Stubborn are things Maggie was born being a pro at. I really can't say why she didn't want to eat. I guess to show her extreme displeasure. She gave me a sweet hug before they left though.
      Yes. I know about teenagers. I was one and I raised four.

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  8. The hands….and the fingers! Mine are the third and fourth on the right and on the left the third.. And what about the blood bruises when you bang your arms when you are in the garden! It’s all happening here too but that’s part of activity and activity is good…..isn’t it?

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    1. The blood bruises are awful! But you're right- we can't wrap ourselves in cotton wool and sit in a big old armchair, can we?

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  9. Tired pouty kids. What fun! As for the refrigerator: Do NOT remove the magnets because I’m obsessive. I’ll simply rearrange them into something more aesthetically pleasing ... to me! Your hand doesn’t look beat up and you don’t even have “age spots”!

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    1. That's what they were exactly- tired and pouty. And probably burnt out on fun.
      Oh no. I would have to remove all the things on the refrigerator. There's no room for any sort of rearranging. Well, I guess there could be. You can satisfy your need for order by straightening all my pictures. There are many.
      If I have no age spots on my hands that's the only part of my body that's been exposed to sun that doesn't. Legs, arms, face...
      I'm a mess

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  10. A while ago you inspired me to patch up clothing and I was totally on the go and ready and then I forgot and now I have been reminded. Thank you.
    My hands are crooked and long as in long crooked claws, occasionally the family makes a joke until I point out how tiny and straight their hands are.

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    1. You are welcome for my reminder! I sort of love to mend. It just feels good and right.
      Haha! I love your response to your family about your hands. I think we need a picture of them at some point.

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  11. My grandsons are just hypnotized by electronics - the laptops, the phone, the TV - if they get near one, they just can't pay attention to anything else. I'm glad they still like Legos but really, if given the chance they would spend all day on their laptops, I think... I'm glad my son limits their computer time and they play with regular toys and read books and play sports. They are all growing up too fast!!

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    1. Yes. Hypnotized and mesmerized. Jessie and Vergil very much limit the boys' screen time. They have to earn it by doing chores. It's sort of a win-win situation.
      And also, there are times when they're allowed to watch a movie or something because Mama is just exhausted.

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  12. Yes, Maggie probably just wanted to go home after getting hit in the head with a frozen water balloon. Ice is hard and I imagine it really hurt. Your hands look fine. The index finger on my left hand is slightly twisted to the left and definitely points to the left from the last knuckle, the result of getting that finger into a bind of some sort I don't remember. It didn't break but was definitely permanently impacted.

    Jade was showing my a pair of jean she had patched with a little flower that had a hole in it one of the legs. She thought it looked weird with just one flower so she put another one on above it.

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    1. Our bodies do indeed keep the score, don't they? And not just emotionally. Every baby we ever hip-carried for years, every time we dug a garden or a hole for a fence, every time we fell...
      And so forth. Our bodies remind us of all of this.
      I like Jade's style. There are gazillions of TikToks about embroidery and mending. I am sure she knows this.

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  13. Both of my hands were torn by a little dog. The skin is like parchment paper. They were both glued by doctors at walk in clinics. Better than stitches! I hope your grands enjoy pleasing you for years to come.

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    1. Oh, Carol! That is awful! Yes, dogs are especially destructive to the tissue paper we call skin. I doubt doctors COULD do stitches in my arms. The tops of them anyway.

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  14. Oh Maggie, sweet child. May your heart be eased by the time I write this comment. It’s hard to be a growing up girl among brothers and boy cousins. I know. I was one. Our preoccupation begin to mostly differ until one or more catch up. But your MerMer will always understand.

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    1. I'm sure that a good meal and a good night's sleep powered soothed Maggie and powered her up, too, for another bout of pout. She's got an extra special talent for that. And then she can be as sweet a darling girl as anyone in this world.
      She rules ALL the boys.
      I try to understand. I think her mother wore me out when she was a child.

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  15. For what it's worth (given your subsequent post), I always thought Oak Island treasure hunting was in North Carolina, too!

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