Saturday, November 22, 2025

A Day Of Seeing Dear Ones

It really has been a very nice day. I got a text from Liz Sparks (how many Liz's can one lucky girl have?) this morning asking if it would be a good time to come out for a porch visit? We hadn't seen each other since last spring, I guess, when she was getting ready for a summer of journeys, first to England for a family wedding and then across the US to visit family and friends and friend-families and see some sites and take some hikes and do all the things that Liz does which is A LOT! 
Also, because she is smart, she scoots out of Tallahassee before the stupefying heat of summer falls upon us, rendering us all  sweat-soaked, miserable, and no good for anything that doesn't involve a cold river. 
It WAS a good time for a porch visit. I had absolutely nothing planned. And it was so good to see Liz at my door. It was a little after noon and I was hungry. I asked her if she wanted to go to the Hilltop for some lunch and she said she did and so off we went. It is not very far at all from my house to the Hilltop. 
We got our lunches and brought them back here because the tables out back were filled with other folks eating their lunches. We did indeed sit on the back porch and caught up with each other. She told me about her travels and how, at the end of month three she was really ready to come home but her house was rented out for that next month and it was still way too hot here and she traveled on. She told me that after driving days and days and days across states that were flat and treeless and barren of people, she yearned for green trees with Spanish moss in them and most of all- Wakulla Springs. 
She also missed her Tallahassee people. And she has a lot of them. 
I will tell you this- we are richer here when she is home than when she is not. 
I feel so comfortable with her. She's just one of those people. They are few and far between. They are rare and they are precious. And that is a good description of Liz. 

It was decided this morning that Gibson would be spending the night with us. Duck hunting season begins tomorrow and so Mr. Moon will be getting up in the very, very dark to go out to wherever it is he duck hunts and Gibson wanted to go with him. So it just made sense for him to come stay here tonight. 
And guess what? 
Owen drove him out. 
Oh my sweet Jesus. Owen's first trip to Lloyd, driving himself. 
Maggie came too but she wasn't in the mood to get out of the car. She was going to the park to play after she and Owen left here and she claimed she needed to "save her energy."
By this she meant, "play a game on her phone."
Oh sigh. 

All right. Look at this.


My tall guys! Owen isn't the only one getting taller at a ridiculous rate. Gibson is well on his way to joining the Moon Gene Club. 
And I made Glen take this.


I look like a little old hunchbacked lady but whatever. Those boys make me feel tiny. And come on- I am not THAT short. About 5'4" which is fairly average for a woman, or at least was back when I was born when the dinosaurs were busy inventing dirt. 

Before Owen left, we all went out to the car and made Maggie get out and visit with us for a little while and give us some Maggie hugs. She was pretty amenable about that and reminded her Boppy that SHE wants to go fishing with him soon and it would make sense to her to spend the night like Gibson is tonight, and then get up the next morning to go out on the water. 
I agree. It's funny that her mother and her Aunt Jessie also love to fish with Mr. Moon as does Mr. Moon's sister, Brenda. His sister Dee Ann loved it just as much before she left us way, way too early. So that will have to happen. 

Before Owen and Maggie left, Owen opened the trunk for Maggie to get her doll out to get ready to go to the park with her. 


I love so much that Maggie still plays with dolls which, to my mind, sort of offsets the games on her phone. 
"I treat her like she's a real person," said Maggie. I told her I completely understood that and that in fact, when her Boppy is out of town, I sometimes bring one of my dolls into bed with me. 
She looked at me with disbelief. "What?!"
"I do," I said. "She brings me comfort."
I am sure the child thinks I am insane but that's nothing new. One minute I'm telling her I don't believe god is real and the next I'm telling her I sleep with a doll sometimes. 
And you know what? These are the types of things I hope she remembers about me. I really do. Well, those and my ability to make the best pancakes. 

Speaking of which, poor Gibson will get no pancake breakfast from me tomorrow. He and Glen will eat some sort of sausage biscuit when they get to the duck place and afterwards, all the hunters will go out and have a real he-man breakfast after which they may sleep the rest of the day. Well, at least the older guys. 

Several of you have said that Mr. Moon is beginning to look like Santa Claus. To this I say that to me, he looks like the Greek god of the sea, Poseidon. 


Yep. There's a true resemblance there. 

And here we are together.



Amphitrite and Poseidon. 

Although I suppose that if we had to be Mr. and Mrs. Claus, it would not be so bad.


But you know, I do hate Christmas and I do love the sea so... 

Also, Mr. Moon hasn't got a tenth of those wrinkles. 
So...

Love...Ms. Moon






29 comments:

  1. Wow, that tiny lady between massive young men! You could hide behind either of them easily. I dunno about going out at dark o'clock to hunt whatever they're hunting. Seems a bit early to me. But I'm not a hunter, so there's that.

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    1. I always say the only things I'd get up for that early are to attend to the birth of a grandchild or to get on a plane to Cozumel. I fear there will be no more grandchildren and we have no plans to go to Cozumel so...
      No getting up stupid early for me.

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  2. "One minute I'm telling her I don't believe god is real and the next I'm telling her I sleep with a doll sometimes..." Ho-ho! That sentence did make me chuckle. You don't believe in The Lord God Almighty but you do believe in an old doll. In future, Amphitrite, please wear a bikini top when you are out in the garden

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    1. A doll I can see and touch and feel and hold. Magical Sky God? Not so much.
      If my bosoms looked like that I'd never wear a top of any kind.

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  3. Sure Poseidon works, too! The grands they do grow up, way too fast.

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    1. I think Poseidon works very well!
      Yes, on the grands. Stop it, children! Or at least slow down a little.

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  4. Given the height, the beard and his love for the sea/water, perhaps Glen is a reincarnation of Poseidon! I could never take a doll to bed, they are too hard and unyielding, but I have on occasion slept with my favourite stuffed baby gorilla, Harvey Banana, but not for years now, I have Lola taking up bed space instead and leaving the sheets covered in cat hairs.

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    1. I have slept with my Zippy chimp before but not in a very long time and yes, usually Maurice is claiming the space next to me or on me.

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  5. Visiting with Liz and having a good catch-up with her sounds most enjoyable. Plus, you can't go wrong when grandchildren visit. Your grandsons are looking more and more like handsome young adults. Glen must be happy to have hunting and fishing buddies among the grandchildren.
    I, too, love the God and Goddess of the Sea. They actually might be my preference over Santa Clause.

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    1. It's Glen's dream come true to have grandsons and a granddaughter who want to do these things with him. And also, grands who like to go to basketball games!
      Yes, I think if my husband gets to be a mythical creature, I would like him to be Poseidon.

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  6. What a beautiful, beautiful post. Love it all! Xx

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  7. Mr. Moon IS Poseidon. Incredible likeness! It is hilarious to see how dwarfed you are by your little boys! My grandmother was 4'10". Imagine what that picture would have looked like. I also love the camera angles of the two shots. Yours looking up at the guys, Mr. Moon’s looking down.

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    1. I knew you'd see the resemblance, Mitchell. You are a man of great observational skills.
      I would have loved to see a picture of your grandmother between those two boys. I remember being at Moon functions and feeling invisible amongst all the giants.

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  8. Yes indeed, goddess of the sea, Amphitrite, a name Im unfamiliar with! Something to learn today, and wow to your handsome fellas all!

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    1. I'd never heard of Amphitrite either but just learned about her when I looked up Poseidon for this post. I wanted to find pictures.
      I do love my handsome boys.

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  9. Today's delightful phrases which made me smile -- "Moon Gene Club," "back when I was born when the dinosaurs were busy inventing dirt" and "he-man breakfast." Thank you!

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    1. Debra, it makes me so happy that you like the things I write.

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  10. Tall strong men, you are very lucky.

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    1. I'd rather have them on my side than against me!

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  11. That is a gorgeous picture in your header. My first husband was tall and kissing him gave me a crick in my neck. I swore after I divorced him no more tall men. Santa is fat. Mr Moon is not. Def Poseidon.

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    1. I've never gotten a crick in the neck from kissing Glen! I've always said that's what keeps me from shrinking away- the constant stretching up. I think it's quit working although I'm still kissing him.
      You're right about Santa. He is a bit round.

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  12. I wouldn't equate Mr. Moon to Santa. And that is a very buff Poseidon!

    Hope they have fun duck hunting, and more power to 'em. That sounds like a nightmare to me!

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    1. Yes, and Glen's body looks JUST LIKE POSEIDON'S!
      Well, when seen with the eyes of love. Now when I met him...ooh boy. Let's just say that guitar players and basketball players have very different bodies for the most part.
      Duck hunting sounds like a nightmare to me too.

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  13. You look so petite and fabulous with your handsome grandsons, Mary!
    Glad you had a great visit with your friend!

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    1. We did have such a good visit. Well, in my estimation.

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  14. That was a lovely post! I have nothing to add.

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  15. I must have been asleep or half dead- I missed this post! And it is one of the best! WOW you are very tiny. The lads look fabulous, time time time...

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