Monday, August 11, 2025

Tales Of The City, Or, Village, Actually


This is what the swampy area on the west side of Highway 59 which is really the main route through Lloyd looks like right now. 59 is the road the semis take to get from Highway 27 to Interstate 10. I live a block away from 59 and this verdant, as yet untamed piece of land is probably a third of a mile from my house, if that. All the rain we've been getting has definitely encouraged all types of green growth. 

I took a walk today. I have got to start exercising. I need to walk, I need to do some weight work, and I need to do a few exercises and yoga poses to strengthen these old bones. 

I believe I may have said this before. 

Anyway, the walk I took wasn't very long. Two miles, more or less, first almost to Harvey's on the street I live on, turned around, came back, and walked through Lloyd and back home. 
Here are a few things I saw today. 


That chair sign has been in this yard since 2020, I think. It appeared after the murder of George Floyd by police in Minneapolis. Today, however, it looked like it had been set up in such a way that it is easier to see. Say what you will about Lloyd, that sign still stands.
Of course everyone who walks down the sidewalk in front of the house and yard where it lives, is Black except me. Just about. Come to think about it, I don't know that I've ever seen another white person walking for exercise in Lloyd. When I first moved here 21 years ago and began walking the streets and roads, people would literally stop their cars or trucks and ask me if I needed a ride. 
By now everyone knows me, probably as the crazy white woman who walks. I get a lot of waves but that's probably mostly because we are a waving community. 


The fally down house. It's hard to tell but it is growing ever closer to being completely on the ground. The doorways that used to be tall enough for a person to walk through are now only a few feet high. It is a slow, slow process, but the end of the story is inevitable. I am a little surprised that it hasn't been completely overtaken by jungle. There's another old house nearby, empty and deserted, and you can't even see the house now unless you're really looking and can make out a small part of the roof. 


Looks like the house that was redone and put on the market has sold. I have no idea who bought it but I hope they're good people. I hope they are kind to Abraham who lives next door. I don't think he makes friends easy, though. I know it's taken me all these years to get to the point that he'll wave and talk to me if he sees me. I cherish those conversations. He has lived in Lloyd a long, long time, and he has seen some things. I actually saw him in his yard today but he was using a weed whacker and was very concentrated on his task and was wearing ear protection. I don't think he saw me. I did not interrupt his work. 

I stopped by the post office and gathered my mail, then walked on home. This is standing at the side of Highway 59 on the same plot of land as the P.O.


It's been there for a month or two. Perhaps longer. I have no idea as to what or who it memorializes or what symbology is going on there. Another mystery of Lloyd. 

I went to town after I'd cooled down from my walk. I met Jessie at Costco and we did our shopping. She had to get home in order to pick up the boys after their first day of school, so I went on to Publix by myself. I got what I needed to get there, including some things for the cabin like a new toilet bowl brush, cling wrap, a dish scrubber, stainless steel cleaner, and cleaner for the stove top. I am realizing that I am going to need so many things like kitchen utensils. Have I already said this? But spatulas and knives and wooden spoons and a wire whisk, cheese grater, a zest and ginger root grater, a vegetable peeler, a garlic press, and definitely more pots and pans. I also need a vessel of some sort to put my cooking utensils in because of course I do. I suppose I'll need measuring cups and measuring spoons, serving spoons, and tongs. 
Oh god. It is so overwhelming. I do NOT want to just go to Target to get all of these things. Ideally, I can find a lot of them in thrift stores but of course I am picky, too, and do not want shoddy tools. I am exhausted thinking about this. 

Well. I don't have to do it right away. The house doesn't even have flooring yet. And the downstairs bathroom is waiting for a complete remodel. All that's in there now is a toilet and a sink and the sink is in a horrible cabinet which also must go. I'm pretty sure the toilet is absolutely fine though. 

Glen spent all day dealing with those damn grape vines which had fallen with the tree. This seems to be more of a job than the actual tree removal was. I told him again today that I wished he'd hired someone to do that for him. 
"Oh, I'd never hire someone to do a little job like that," he said. 
Exactly what he always says about these things. 
So of course he's very tired and worn-out and I better go make us some supper. Tonight we'll be having leftover garlicky chicken with lemons and anchovies and before you tell me how much you hate anchovies, let me just say that you've never had anchovies like this because if you had, you would not say that. 

Have you ever tried this stuff?


I never had until I cooked some Rachel had left when she and Hank were housesitting once. I love it. So I believe I'll make some of that, too. There will be vegetables. 

Oh. You know how I'm always going on about Georgia Thumpers? This one was posing on my car hood when I went outside to take my cloth bags to the car after I'd put away my groceries. 


As much as I detest these things because of their proclivity to eat everything in my garden, I can't help but admit they are quite interesting to look at and definitely have their own style. 
That guy is at least three inches long. 
They really do look like something out of a nightmare or a fever dream or an unexplored jungle. But no, they're just grasshoppers, doing their hoppy thing. Do you think that one is giving me a dirty look? I believe it may be. It needn't worry. I really could not bring myself to smash something that large. I just can not do it. 

And so it goes. 

Love...Ms. Moon




35 comments:

  1. It was only in the mid 80s here today ... so I went grocery shopping and then decided to go and get into Walmart for the 1st Shingles vaccine ... got poked at 4 p.m. I'll get the 2nd shot in October! Flu shot in September! Hopefully I'll be good for the winter! I'm hoping I can get in some walking in the Fall. I turn 82 next Thursday ... so 🤷‍♀️

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    1. Happy almost birthday, Marcia! I hope you're not miserable today. And yes, hopefully you will be good for the winter.
      We have to keep moving don't we?

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  2. Jiminy cricket lives!
    That's the thing about a second house. It doubles your workload. I don't think I'd ever go there! Even with Fiesta thrown in.

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    1. I wasn't planning on it either, trust me. Well, unless it was in Roseland on the river and I would not have minded the extra work for that. Plus, there are excellent thrift stores all over that area. But what can I do? Stock another kitchen, I suppose.

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  3. we had cilantro rice with black beans and taco meat for dinner <3 I can't believe the summer is over already. one of the vines I was fighting with got completely pulled out- our neighbor went completely scorched earth on anything floral/plant related- i'm gonna see if he wants some hostas in the spring to fill in where the morning glory and ivy used to be. I feel like that about stuff for the camper- I could get it from the thrift but I don't want crap that someone else didn't want either... xxalainaxx

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    1. Sometimes when people die, their kids just give everything to thrift stores simply to get rid of it and there can be some good things to be found that way. Sorta morbid but true. However, this is not the case in most situations and you're right- crap that someone else did not want.
      Glad your vine problem got taken care of!

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  4. That's a gorgeous Grasshopper! Would be wrong to smash it, I know, I know they are voracious eaters, but just can't kill 'em.

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    1. I know. I remember the first time I ever saw one as a child. We had moved from Tennessee and I'd never seen such a thing. I believe I learned something about Florida that day.

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  6. That is one beautiful grasshopper! When I was a kid in the 1960s, one of the reasons I hated wearing a dress to school is that when I came home and walked through a field, grasshoppers would jump up under my skirt. So I started walking through the field holding my skirt down as best I could to prevent that. Sheesh, I haven't thought of that memory in a million years, lol!

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    1. Now that's a problem I've never really considered! But of course it happens. I can just see you holding down your skirt.

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  7. That thumper is a pretty critter. I wonder about all the kitchen utensils you already have, could you gather the whole lot and see if there are duplicates? If there are you could set aside one for here and one for there, that would eliminate some of the shopping. Are there a few pots or pans you rarely use? Set them aside for the lake house too? Of course that won't work if you don't use them because you don't like them for whatever reason. Happy thrift store shopping!

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    1. I have thought about the duplicate thing and the only things I can think of that I have extra are a few silicone spatulas and a garlic press. Seriously. That is it. As to pots and pans- I've been mostly paring those down as much as possible so, not really.

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  8. I couldn’t smash anything that large either. Besides it might just lift you up by the foot and throw you aside. Cilantro lime rice sounds wonderful... unless you’re one of those people that tastes soap when they eat cilantro. I’m not. I wonder how big a job it has to be before Mr. Moon no longer calls it little and hires someone.

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    1. I'm one of the soap tasters, and I hate it! People love cilantro so much and I wish I could, too, but even a sprinkle and the dish is ruined.

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    2. Mitchell- you made me laugh about the grasshopper. Who knows? It's possible that one could do some real damage if he got the chance. I can just see one doing some sort of grasshopper Tae Kwan Do and flipping over a human.
      I don't taste soap when I eat cilantro either. I love it.
      I really do not know how big that job would have to be. We're on the third day of him working on those vines right now.
      Jennifer- I wish you liked it too because if you do, it is a delicious addition to many foods.

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  9. There's an interesting poem by Mary Oliver (my favorite poet) about a grasshopper. Who knew. My youngest granddaughter is setting up her first dorm room, but isn't interested in doing anything in the kitchen. So no utensils for her, nor thrift store goodies. Oh the pottery that can hold utensils...that could certainly be thrift stuff!

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    1. I just read the poem and I did not realize those last two lines came from a poem about a grasshopper. Well, sort of. I like Mary Oliver too. Very much.
      I imagine your granddaughter has way more important things to be doing and worrying over than kitchen stuff. Good for her for knowing that!
      I'm pretty sure I'll find something cool to put utensils in.

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  10. Have you seen the videos by April and her mother Aiko on YouTube? They are simple workout videos for walking, weights, stretching, etc. Usually 15 - 20 minutes and April is always saying "good job" to her 82 year old Mom. They are simple and sweet but I always feel good about doing them. There are a lot to choose from... They have been so helpful during our hot days here...
    You should sort out the kitchen tools you don't use often in your home and set those aside for the cabin... Ask Lily and Jessie, too...You may have enough...

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    1. Those are the ones that Boud likes and uses, aren't they?
      I've just never gotten used to following videos for exercising. I should probably give it a try.
      If I don't use a kitchen tool very much it's because I don't really need it and there's no real use in taking things like that to the cabin. I'd love to keep it spare and simple.

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  11. Girl, I don't remember if I've mentioned this or not but I live right off 59 maybe just a little farther than you on the south side but my street ends on one end at business 59 that runs through town. I could just jump on the highway and never get off until I got to your house. And same kind of community in my little neighborhood in the county, people wave when I walk the dog. I had some grilled shrimp on cilantro lime rice at a sports bar when Marc was in the hospital in Victoria with pneumonia. It was so good. I have a recipe with instructions on how to make it but it didn't turn out nearly as good so maybe I'll see if I can find that brand and try it.

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    1. I think we HAVE made that connection. Funny, isn't it?
      Yes. Try the cilantro rice. I bet they sell it in Texas for sure.

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  12. The swampy area looks like a dense tropical jungle. My first thought was, what lives inside there?
    Over time, I suspect you'll find the kitchen supplies you want for the cabin. An estate sale or moving sale might be another option.
    Yesterday was 97 degrees F. and the heat is predicted to continue through Thursday or Friday. It is absolutely oppressive outside.
    The grasshopper is like a small sculpture done in a mosaic design. (Nice photo MM.) It is hard to believe the creature could devastate the garden.

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    1. I'll tell you who lives inside there- critters! I'm sure lots of reptiles and mammals too live in that swamp. And insects. Can't forget those.
      I used to be on an estate sale notifying list but am not anymore. I should figure out how to do that because that's a good idea for finding utensils.
      97 is terrible hot. We're back down on the high 80's right now but with the humidity, it's still unbearable to work outside . At least for me.
      The grasshopper definitely is a sort of work of art, isn't it?

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  13. That grashopper creature is probably older than humans, not that one in particular but you know what I mean. I imagine he/she has tons of friends and family. All equally stunning.

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    1. I do know what you mean! I wonder if there were even bigger grasshoppers long, long ago. There's a diorama at a local museum showing a giant armadillo and I swear- I want to see one in real life so bad. The odds are slim, I realize. They compare the size of them to Volkswagen Beetles.
      You are so right about the multitude of friends and family. When those things hatch out as tiny black things, there are billions of them. It's shocking.

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  14. I could never smash one either, for multiple reasons -- mostly YUCK factor.

    Good to catch up with life in Lloyd. I wonder what that little roadside memorial is all about? Might they know in the Post Office?

    I'm tempted to mail you the spatula and wooden spoon and other kitchen stuff I found in the skip on my walk last week, next to Bobo's gravestone! LOL!

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    1. You are so right about the Yuck factor. Just...NO!
      I doubt they'd know in the post office about the little memorial. Now if Miss Martha was still working there she would definitely know. That woman knew everything about everybody and she was happy to tell you about it.
      Haha! I think the postage would not compensate for the value of free items.

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  15. Glen and my husband are brothers by other mothers. My sympathies :-)

    Chris from Boise

    PS Glad you got out for a walk, and that the heat and humidity were not, at least for a bit, incompatible with human life.

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    1. And my sympathies to you!
      "Incompatible with human life" is exactly the right term for some of our summer weather.

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  16. I always like to see your pictures of The Fally Down House where The Fally Down family once lived. It's as if The Earth is reclaiming it... slowly but surely.

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  17. That first Image of the Swampy Area is Beautiful, Nature is just spectacular. I like that Home that Sold, it looks so Inviting.

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  18. I am so envious of your rain! It’s been the driest here that I can recall, ever, as well as the hottest; and our crops are not doing well (commercial or personal). Literally, I have not yet picked one tomato, or bean, my potatoes are stubbornly staring at me, and the carrots are looking peely-wally. On the positive side, the garlic is decent, and the raspberries are tasty. But golly, let me tell you, I lost the coin flip for the tractor with a/c today, and I thought I would actually, genuinely, be found as a withered hag-husk in the cab.

    I have no wisdom to offer on utensils. Literally nothing. I love my spoons, but most of them were whittled for me, and I have a favourite spankula (my spawn christened it that,so it stuck)

    That thumper…byheck woild absolutely fight back. And bring friends. Are they vegetarian, or….??

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    1. Your comment has left me curious. Where are you on the map? You run a tractor all day? I have questions.

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