Monday, November 9, 2026

On This Day In History


And that is the birthday letter August wrote to Levon and gave to him this morning. 
It almost broke me. What eleven-year old writes, or even thinks about characteristics like these in his younger brother? And he's not wrong. Levon is all those things but as Glen and I agreed this morning, the letter said even more about August than it did Levon. It has always seemed to me that the two boys have a remarkable relationship. They generally get along very well. If they fight, I've never seen them although I imagine they have had their disagreements. I can't even really imagine one of them saying, "But it's not FAIR!" about the other one. Again, perhaps they do, but mostly they enjoy being around each other, they talk, they discuss things, they support each other. When they're together for a picture they generally have their arms around each other. 
They are friends. Good friends. 
They do indeed love each other. 
And my Lord, they are sweet. 

As always on either my own children's birthdays or on my grandchildren's birthdays, I think of the days they were born. With each child there was a different story, a different setting, a different sort of labor. And I remember them all as the best days of my entire life. 
If you want Levon's birth story, you can go HERE. 
For those of you who are NOT huge birth story fans, here are a few pictures of that sweetest of days.


Just barely born. 





I think that last one says it all, don't you? I could look at that picture for hours.

A thing we do in this family is to wish the birthday person Happy Birthday and the mama, Happy Birth Day. I think that the person who gave birth is not as recognized as she should be and I will be honest with you- there were times when I was rushing and working so hard to get one of my children's birthday celebrations together with the food and the decorations and the presents, I would think, "Hold on. I went through labor and still have to do all this?"
As we all know by now, parties, whether I am going to them or throwing them, are not my favorite things. 
But we do what we must do and our babies have to have birthday parties. Even if they mostly consist of blankets on the ground for kids to sit on, grilled hot dogs, and the ultimate treat of JUICY JUICE! 
And of course a homemade cake with ice cream. 
My children seem to have survived the lack of bouncy houses and pony rides at their parties. Thank goodness. 

And if all of that were not enough, today is also the second anniversary of Hank and Rachel's wedding. Dang. And if you weren't around for that, please go HERE to get a little of the joy that day was. 
For the second part of that story, you can visit HERE.

Here's the first dance. 


Update: They're still so very much in love. 
Happy anniversary, Hank and Rachel! 

Lots of links here today and that's because there are lots of memories of two of the most important days in our family's history. 

And for me today- well, I took a walk which was the first walk I've taken since the last time I took a real walk. I have been debating the benefits of these walks, ranging from "they're good for me" to "I get to see things I would never see otherwise," versus what I know is going to happen which is that my joints and hips, especially, are going to be screaming at me all day every day and quite possibly the kidney stone situation will rear its demonic head as walking, without a doubt, jostles those things around. 

Well, fuck. I'm going to try. 


The Jefferson County, Leon County line is almost exactly one mile from my house.

The church next door to us. The oak tree behind it is on our property though. It's a very odd shaped lot. 




Beauty berries, of course. 

I also did some work in the garden, fertilizing, doing a small bit of weeding, and planting more greens seeds in grow bags. These were the seeds at the bottom of a plastic baggie I'd put my seed packets in and so these will be a surprise. Collards? Mustards? Turnips? Kale? I need to plant more lettuces because the mixed lettuce seeds I planted have produced exactly four plants. 
Four. 
As always, the arugula is thriving. The basils are still having at it and I noticed there was an abundance of bees around their buds today. So overall, I guess we're okay. The marigolds sure are having a fall festival. 


You can bet I'm not pulling those up until I get the message they're done. Since our temperatures are supposed to get down into the upper thirties this weekend, they may decide that the dance is over for this year. 
I'm going to die of cold. 

All right. Off to make a salad with arugula and basil in it. 
And by the way- that pumpkin bread was decadent. 
Moan-worthy. Better-than-cake. 
Let's hear it for Seminole pumpkins. 

Love...Ms. Moon





44 comments:

  1. Happy birthday and anniversary and all the things that seem to converge today.

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  2. Happy Birthday, Levon! You have a very good big brother. Happy Anniversary, Hank and Rachel! Hope it was a lovely day for you. :-) -Nicol

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    1. I also want to tell you, Ms.Moon, that your blog is a peaceful place to be. This world can hit hard, but reading your words is a soft place to land, even when you’re writing about how pissed or sad you are, or bitching lovingly(?) about Maurice biting you. Thank you for just being you. -Nicol

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    2. Nicol, thank YOU for those words. I mean that with all my heart.

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  3. Happy Celebrations to your wonderful family!! My home is also next door to a church and I am not a religious person. Why do I find it interesting that you and I have this in common?

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    1. I swear- the odds of living next to a church in Lloyd are pretty high. We have so many. And no bars! WTF?

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  4. Happy Birthday, Happy Birth Day and Happy Anniversary! So much love.

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  5. A gorgeous post, and much happiness to your family.

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    1. I think we're all pretty happy at the moment.

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  6. That is an amazingly wonderful birthday letter. Happy Birthday Levon, Happy Birth Day Jessie (and Vergil), and Happy Anniversary, Hank and Rachel! And Happy Monday to you, Ms. Moon! Chris from Boise

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  7. My heart melted a little for the first time today when I read August’s letter to Levon. And, yes, it says everything about August. He is an exceptional human being. My heart melted a bit again when I looked at today’s picture. After reading the post of the day of Levon’s birth, my heart is just one big puddle. So, happy birthday, Levon; happy birth day, Jessie (and Virgil); happy anniversary, Hank and Rachel. And happy day to you!

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    1. I do believe that you would find a special place in your heart for August. I am so very glad that he's part of our family. He's like no other. And like you, he loves his brother very much.

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  8. What a beautiful baby Levon was (and still is, although not a baby of course)! And I love that revival centre but when I looked again that oak tree looks like a giant spider about to swallow the house whole!

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    1. Levon was a beautiful baby and now he's a beautiful boy. I'm going to be so sad when he loses all of his baby-ness. The youngest grandchild.
      You are right about the oak tree!

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  9. I just love August's birthday letter. Thank you for sharing it. One thing it makes me think - is that August has been brought up with such love and understanding that he feels empowered to freely make such a list. As for your big tree behind the church, let's hope it doesn't come crashing down on the church's roof during a Sunday service. Your compensation bill would be enormous but on the upside - no doubt all the crushed believers would go straight to heaven to meet their maker.

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    1. Jessie and Vergil have done an outstanding job when it comes to showing those boys that love can and should be expressed. I think August's letter is a perfect representation of him and the way he is which is both incredibly smart and logical and at the same time, he has a heart which is soft and loving. Good combination! Vergil is much the same.
      I sincerely hope that tree does not fall on the church. Ever. I have a special fondness for that church. A whole lot of singing goes on and there are drums!

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  10. Loving and sensitive boys in touch with their feelings are such a gift. Happy Birthday, Levon! And Happy Anniversary, Hank and Rachel!

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    1. I think the boys' parents are amazing examples of how one can express feelings. It's a beautiful thing.

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  11. It always amazes me and gives me so much hope that you came from such horrendous abuse and still managed to grow a family filled with love and affection. Happy Anniversary to Hank and Rachel, and Happy Birthday to Levon.
    You won't die from the cold:) All of our snow has melted and the days have been warm, hovering around 10C (50F). I even got outside for awhile yesterday and did more work in the garden.
    Have a lovely day woman. You give me hope.

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    1. I don't know that I'd label the abuse I went through as horrendous but when I say that I can't believe I have a family which is so very opposite to the one I grew up in, I mean it. It is the miracle of my life.
      I WILL die from the cold! I have no tolerance for it anymore. At the very least, I need more jackets.

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  12. Family is everything.
    Happy B-day to Levon.
    Happy anniversary to Hank and Rachel.
    It's time to celebrate and your family knows how to express love and celebrate.
    Enjoy!
    Susan

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    1. We do celebrate, don't we? And so often that includes eating delicious Mexican foods at the restaurant where dogs are welcome on the patio.

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  13. Happy Birthday to Levon! Happy Birth Day to Jessie! Happy Anniversary to Hank and Rachel! So much love! August wrote an outstanding birthday card for his brother - so sweet!

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    1. Thank you, Ellen D. I just realized that if you say "Ellen D." it sounds just like L&D, or Labor and Delivery. ❤️

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    2. Ha! I've never noticed that! :)

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  14. I agree totally about honoring mothers who gave birth to these wonderful people who have an anniversary of their births! ALL the mothers should get credit indeed! Loved your sharing of your family stories. Whenever you write your book, they will be gathered into a very lovely volume.

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    1. I did not realize Ms Moon was writing a book!

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    2. No, Bev. I am not writing a book except in the sense that, as the Elvis Costello song goes, "Every Day I Write the Book."

      Barbara- Isn't it odd how the absolute most amazing thing that can be done by a human is so common that no one gives it the credit it deserves? Or very few people do.

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  15. Upper 30s? That's frigid! We're not even that cold here, though it looks like we might get a touch of frost on Saturday. August's letter shows what a mature thinker he is, and having had a little brother myself I'm CERTAIN they must fight now and then -- but it's great that overall they have a good relationship. My brother and I did too. (And do still, thank goodness.) Happy Anniversary to Hank and Rachel!

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    1. Yes! Frigid!
      You're right- you and your brother did and still do have a good relationship. A thing to be grateful for for sure.

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  16. Beautiful birth story! And a beautiful birthday in the present. Congratulations to the boys' parents end entire family.

    And happy anniversary to Rachel and Hank - hard to believe its only been a year.

    Hope you have your cashmere collection out in preparation for the chilly weather - its happening up here in VA too - I just dug out the scarf (alpaca not cashmere) that I wear constantly when it gets cold in the house.

    Ceci

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    1. No, this is Hank and Rachel's second anniversary.
      I do indeed have my cashmere collection out! Well, it's in a bin that's in my bathroom which is where I get dressed as that's where my dresser is. My bathroom is big enough for all of that while our bedroom really isn't.
      Alpaca is a fine wool.

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  17. A lot of celebrating going on today. I love the Levon-August letter.

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  18. I've said it many times before but it bears repeating, that August is special.
    Yesterday was cold, overcast, rainy, and dreary. Today pretty much the same though not as cold. I put my kohlrabi sprouts in the ground over a week ago and they do not appear to have grown at all.

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    1. August is indeed special. As I said in a response somewhere above, he is like no other. And he is loved for that.
      We're firmly back in the needing-rain situation. I watered the garden today. I've never grown kohlrabi. I'm not sure I've even ever tasted any. Should I?

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  19. I always wish mothers a happy anniversary of being their child's Mum. When you say down to the low thirties and how cold - we might get into the 30s today and how hot!!

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    1. What? Thirty degrees F is hot? Okay, yes, you live in Australia but even there, I would imagine that temperatures around freezing are pretty cold.

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    2. 30C+ which is 86F+ we don't do F here anymore.

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  20. If you leave the marigolds they will self-seed and you won't have to buy more. The letter to Levon from August is the sweetest thing! it's great when kids get along like that.

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  21. I am a bit late but I wish Levon many happy returns of the day!

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